“Xu\u1ea5t tinh s\u1edbm c\u00f3 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng? Em r\u1ea5t \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00ec m\u1edbi \u00e2u y\u1ebfm s\u01a1 b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t tinh lu\u00f4n, ch\u1ec9 nh\u00e1y m\u1eaft l\u00e0 xong. Do \u0111\u00f3, em e ng\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m l\u1ea5y v\u1ee3. C\u00e1ch ch\u1eefa ra sao?”.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a em. Em h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n theo c\u00e1ch sau xem:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ng\u1ed3i tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh (\u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb qu\u1ea5y r\u1ea7y) tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u1edbn. Nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong g\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u00e0 h\u00ecnh dung anh ta trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 l\u00fac “gay c\u1ea5n nh\u1ea5t” c\u1ee7a em tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y. Lu\u00f4n gi\u1eef m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong g\u01b0\u01a1ng, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u1eef m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00e1ch quan, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n em b\u1ecb x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 anh ta. L\u00e2u d\u1ea7n, em s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7 “chuy\u1ec7n \u1ea5y c\u0169ng b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00f4i, c\u00f3 g\u00ec m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i h\u1ea5p t\u1ea5p, v\u00e0 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f3i quen gi\u1eef b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u em c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0 y\u00ean t\u00e2m l\u00e0: Nh\u1eefng l\u00fac nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y d\u1ecbch nh\u1ea7y ti\u1ebft ra \u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u d\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1eadt – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng -, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ph\u00f3ng tinh l\u00fac c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y, em h\u00e3y r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n cho m\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1u gi\u1eadn, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed3ng, d\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian th\u00edch \u0111\u00e1ng cho vi\u1ec7c suy t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p, v\u1ec1 l\u00f2ng khoan dung, nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c\u2026, t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi em ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng tr\u1ea7m t\u0129nh h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ngo\u00e0i ra, em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng th\u1eed b\u00e0i thu\u1ed1c sau \u0111\u00e2y (m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng c\u1ea3nh ng\u1ed9 nh\u01b0 em u\u1ed1ng b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3) Tr\u00e1i \u0111u \u0111\u1ee7 c\u00f2n non (b\u1eb1ng qu\u1ea3 h\u1ed3ng xi\u00eam hay nh\u1ecf h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ee5ng r\u1ed1n), r\u1eeda nh\u1eb9 tay cho s\u1ea1ch, c\u1eaft ngang \u1edf ph\u00eda tr\u00ean (l\u00e0m th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i n\u1eafp \u0111\u1eady), \u0111\u1ed5 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng k\u00ednh v\u00e0o cho \u0111\u1ea7y, r\u1ed3i l\u1ea5y s\u1ee3i ch\u1ec9 c\u1ed9t n\u1eafp l\u1ea1i y nguy\u00ean nh\u01b0 c\u0169. \u0110\u1eb7t v\u00e0o b\u00e1t, \u0111\u1eady k\u00edn v\u00e0 \u0111un c\u00e1ch th\u1ee7y cho ch\u00edn. M\u1ed7i b\u1eadn l\u00e0m 2-3 qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, \u0103n h\u1ebft trong ng\u00e0y (l\u00fac no). M\u1ed7i tu\u1ea7n \u0103n 1-2 l\u1ea7n, t\u1edbi khi \u0111\u1ea1t hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. M\u00f3n n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eafng, ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu kh\u00f3 v\u00e0 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
“Xu\u1ea5t tinh s\u1edbm c\u00f3 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng? Em r\u1ea5t \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00ec m\u1edbi \u00e2u y\u1ebfm s\u01a1 b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t tinh lu\u00f4n, ch\u1ec9 nh\u00e1y m\u1eaft l\u00e0 xong. Do \u0111\u00f3, em e ng\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m l\u1ea5y v\u1ee3. C\u00e1ch ch\u1eefa ra sao?”. Y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12130","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-y-hoc"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12130","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12130"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12130\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12130"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12130"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12130"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}