{"id":12154,"date":"2021-11-24T20:05:40","date_gmt":"2021-11-24T13:05:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/post\/?p=12154"},"modified":"2021-11-24T20:05:41","modified_gmt":"2021-11-24T13:05:41","slug":"lam-sao-de-chung-minh-minh-con-trong-trang","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/lam-sao-de-chung-minh-minh-con-trong-trang\/","title":{"rendered":"L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng minh m\u00ecnh c\u00f2n trong tr\u1eafng?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

“Ch\u00e1u l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean<\/a> m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o, ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi. Anh \u1ea5y l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u. Khi ch\u00fang ch\u00e1u “\u0111i l\u1ea1i” v\u1edbi nhau l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u00edt m\u00e1u ch\u1ea3y ra \u1edf c\u1eeda m\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n sau, anh \u1ea5y b\u1ea3o ch\u00e1u “b\u1ea7u v\u00fa b\u1ecb n\u0169ng, khi giao h\u1ee3p l\u1ed7 \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o m\u1edf to” l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t trinh! L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho anh \u1ea5y hi\u1ec3u?”.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u v\u1eeba \u0111\u00e1ng m\u1eebng, v\u1eeba \u0111\u00e1ng lo v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng tr\u00e1ch. 1. \u0110\u00e1ng m\u1eebng v\u00ec: – Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn tr\u0103m ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u00e1u “trao x\u01b0\u01a1ng g\u1eedi th\u1ecbt” cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau, ch\u00e1u v\u1eabn c\u00f2n trinh tr\u1eafng, bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n \u1edf hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ch\u1ea3y m\u00e1u ra \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fac giao h\u1ee3p (nh\u1eefng anh ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ed5 h\u1ee7 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00f3t v\u1ea3i tr\u1eafng d\u01b0\u1edbi m\u00f4ng v\u1ee3 trong \u0111\u00eam t\u00e2n h\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m tra xem m\u00e0ng trinh c\u00f2n hay kh\u00f4ng; n\u1ebfu th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 m\u00e1u l\u00e0 anh ta y\u00ean tr\u00ed!). – Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00edch th\u00edch \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, ch\u1eb3ng nh\u1eefng l\u00f2ng \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u1ed9ng h\u01a1n m\u00e0 chi\u1ec1u d\u00e0i c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u0103ng th\u00eam t\u1edbi 2 cm (t\u1ea1o h\u00f3a th\u1eadt th\u00f4ng minh, b\u1edfi v\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ed1n cao th\u1ea5p, g\u1ea7y b\u00e9o kh\u00e1c nhau, n\u1ebfu tr\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u00fa cho m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 v\u1ee3 b\u00e9 nh\u1ecf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9c \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng cao l\u1edbn!). 2. \u0110\u00e1ng lo v\u00ec: – Ch\u00e1u c\u00f3 th\u1eadt ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 “ch\u00e0ng” kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb HIV d\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00ednh? (th\u1eddi bu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, n\u1ebfu s\u1ed1ng bu\u00f4ng th\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c th\u00ec c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y “l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ee7” v\u1edbi b\u1ec7nh AIDS; \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u01b0a n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ec7nh l\u1eadu kh\u00e1ng thu\u1ed1c, b\u1ec7nh giang mai\u2026). – Ch\u00e1u kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00e1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang b\u1ea7u ngo\u00e0i \u00fd mu\u1ed1n? C\u1ea7n nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ee9ng r\u1ee5ng \u0111\u00e3 6 ng\u00e0y – t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ng\u00e0y th\u1ee9 20 c\u1ee7a v\u00f2ng kinh – v\u1eabn c\u00f2n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u1ee5 thai trong 10% tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p. 3. \u0110\u00e1ng tr\u00e1ch v\u00ec: – Vi\u1ec7c ch\u00e1u bu\u00f4ng th\u1ea3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta coi khinh ch\u00e1u. Gi\u00e1 nh\u01b0 ch\u00e1u gi\u1eef g\u00ecn, ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u xem c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u1ea5y nhau hay kh\u00f4ng, n\u1ebfu th\u1ea5y h\u1ee3p th\u00ec b\u00e0n chuy\u1ec7n c\u01b0\u1edbi xin \u0111\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng (“chuy\u1ec7n \u1ea5y” l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, g\u00ec m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i v\u1ed9i), th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ch\u00e1u. B\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i. – Ch\u00e1u c\u00f3 ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u0169ng trong s\u1ea1ch nh\u01b0 ch\u00e1u, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 y\u00eau nhau \u0111\u1ec3 c\u01b0\u1edbi nhau, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng, \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed \u0111\u1ee1 bu\u1ed3n? V\u1edbi c\u00e1ch \u0103n n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u1ee7a \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ef1, e r\u1eb1ng ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn nh\u1ea7m ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00e0 ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb kia l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 che \u0111\u1eady d\u00e3 t\u00e2m ch\u0103ng?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

“Ch\u00e1u l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o, ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi. Anh \u1ea5y l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u. Khi ch\u00fang ch\u00e1u “\u0111i l\u1ea1i” v\u1edbi nhau l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u00edt m\u00e1u ch\u1ea3y ra \u1edf c\u1eeda m\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n sau, anh \u1ea5y b\u1ea3o ch\u00e1u “b\u1ea7u v\u00fa b\u1ecb n\u0169ng, khi giao h\u1ee3p […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12154","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-y-hoc"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12154","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12154"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12154\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12154"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12154"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12154"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}