“Ch\u00e1u r\u1ea5t x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 v\u00e0 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, n\u00ean ch\u1ec9 d\u00e1m h\u1ecfi b\u00e1c s\u0129 qua th\u01b0. Ch\u00e1u 20 tu\u1ed5i, khi quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111au nh\u00f3i. Ch\u00e1u s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i ng\u1eebng quan h\u1ec7 th\u00ec m\u00e1u ra r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, \u01b0\u1edbt \u0111\u1eabm c\u1ea3 qu\u1ea7n ngo\u00e0i. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00f3 sao kh\u00f4ng, th\u01b0a b\u00e1c s\u0129?”.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn khi th\u01b0 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn n\u01a1i th\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n c\u00e1c ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00e3 su\u00f4n s\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 g\u00ec. Nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u cho th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7 h\u1ed5ng \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc \u1edf l\u1edbp tr\u1ebb v\u1ec1 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c gi\u1ea3i ph\u1eabu, sinh l\u00fd v\u00e0 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh, n\u00ean t\u00f4i c\u0169ng xin n\u00f3i d\u00e0i d\u00f2ng \u0111\u00f4i ch\u00fat: 1. T\u1eeb khi l\u1ecdt l\u00f2ng, b\u00e9 g\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u00e0ng che b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o, g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 m\u00e0ng trinh. M\u00e0ng trinh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00e0y hay m\u1ecfng kh\u00e1c nhau \u1edf t ng\u01b0\u1eddi, h\u00ecnh th\u00f9 v\u00e0 k\u00edch th\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a l\u1ed7 m\u00e0ng trinh c\u0169ng v\u1eady. Do \u0111\u00f3, khi quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ed9t trong c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng sau: – R\u1ea5t \u0111au v\u00e0 ch\u1ea3y nhi\u1ec1u m\u00e1u (n\u1ebfu b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f4ng m\u00e1u, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n b\u0103ng \u00e9p b\u1eb1ng g\u1ea1c v\u00f4 khu\u1ea9n l\u00e0 h\u1ebft; \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4m \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111au c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c quan h\u1ec7). – \u0110au \u00edt v\u00e0 ch\u1ea3y m\u00e1u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3, kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i g\u00ec cho vi\u1ec7c quan h\u1ec7 l\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 hai. – C\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c r\u00e1t v\u00e0 khi d\u00f9ng kh\u0103n th\u1ea5m ch\u1ec9 th\u1ea5y r\u1edbm m\u00e1u. – Ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng \u0111au v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea3y m\u00e1u (do “l\u1ed7” m\u00e0ng trinh r\u1ea5t r\u1ed9ng, m\u00e0ng trinh chun gi\u00e3n \u0111\u1ec3 d\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1eadt \u0111i qua m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 h\u1ea5n g\u00ec; trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p hi\u1ebfm hoi n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb nghi oan l\u00e0 m\u1ea5t trinh t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc). 2. Do \u0111\u00f3, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng m\u1edbi c\u01b0\u1edbi n\u00ean nh\u1edb m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i \u0111i\u1ec1u: – Trong \u0111\u00eam t\u00e2n h\u00f4n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam kh\u00f4ng v\u1ed9i v\u00e3, tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb th\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 cho n\u1eef (b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c mu\u00f4n h\u00ecnh mu\u00f4n v\u1ebb v\u00e0 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i th\u00edch h\u1ee3p c\u0169ng \u0111a d\u1ea1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf), \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef tr\u1edf n\u00ean ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng. C\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh, t\u00f4n th\u00eam gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd y ph\u1ee5c, h\u01b0\u01a1ng li\u1ec7u\u2026 \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec ngo\u00e0i s\u1ef1 h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n v\u1ec1 tinh th\u1ea7n, \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00f4i tr\u01a1n \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 gi\u00fap gi\u1ea3m “n\u1ed7i \u0111au” v\u00e0 b\u1edbt “\u0111\u1ed5 m\u00e1u”. – Trong ph\u00f2ng t\u00e2n h\u00f4n ch\u00ed \u00edt c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 b\u0103ng g\u1ea1c v\u00f4 khu\u1ea9n ph\u00f2ng khi c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn (c\u00f3 g\u1eb7p kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft xoay x\u1edf \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a nhau \u0111i c\u1ea5p c\u1ee9u \u1edf b\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n). – V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p ch\u01b0a mu\u1ed1n mang b\u1ea7u ngay: Tr\u00e1nh quan h\u1ec7 trong kho\u1ea3ng t\u1eeb ng\u00e0y th\u1ee9 10 \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y th\u1ee9 16 c\u1ee7a v\u00f2ng kinh (ng\u00e0y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1ea5y kinh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 ng\u00e0y th\u1ee9 1). N\u1ebfu ng\u00e0y c\u01b0\u1edbi qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 “ng\u00e0y l\u00e0nh th\u00e1ng t\u1ed1t” nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 v\u00ec s\u1ee3 mang b\u1ea7u m\u00e0 lui l\u1ea1i th\u00ec sau l\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi, c\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3i ki\u00ean tr\u00ec ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i cho qua tu\u1ea7n l\u1ec5 o\u00e1i o\u0103m n\u00f3i tr\u00ean, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean d\u00f9ng bao cao su trong nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
“Ch\u00e1u r\u1ea5t x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 v\u00e0 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, n\u00ean ch\u1ec9 d\u00e1m h\u1ecfi b\u00e1c s\u0129 qua th\u01b0. Ch\u00e1u 20 tu\u1ed5i, khi quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111au nh\u00f3i. Ch\u00e1u s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i ng\u1eebng quan h\u1ec7 th\u00ec m\u00e1u ra r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, \u01b0\u1edbt \u0111\u1eabm c\u1ea3 qu\u1ea7n ngo\u00e0i. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00f3 sao kh\u00f4ng, th\u01b0a b\u00e1c s\u0129?”. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12186","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-y-hoc"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12186","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12186"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12186\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12186"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12186"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12186"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}