Em l\u00e0 con trai nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o u\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bia r\u01b0\u1ee3u (1 lon bia l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecf m\u1eb7t t\u00eda tai, 3-4 lon th\u00ec n\u1ed5i m\u1ea9n ng\u1ee9a kh\u1eafp ng\u01b0\u1eddi, k\u00e9o d\u00e0i kho\u1ea3ng 5-7 ng\u00e0y). Nh\u01b0ng em l\u1ea1i mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft u\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i trong giao ti\u1ebfp, hay ngay trong \u0111\u00e1m c\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh khi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00f4 “zd\u00f4, zd\u00f4” b\u1eaft ch\u00fa r\u1ec3 u\u1ed1ng. Xin cho bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch g\u00ec l\u00e0m cho h\u1ebft d\u1ecb \u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi bia r\u01b0\u1ee3u kh\u00f4ng? 1. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed5 x\u01b0a r\u1ea5t kho\u00e1i ch\u1ea5t “t\u1eedu”, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00e1c q\u00fay \u00f4ng (nam v\u00f4 t\u1eedu nh\u01b0 k\u1ef3 v\u00f4 phong = trai kh\u00f4ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u nh\u01b0 c\u1edd kh\u00f4ng gi\u00f3), nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng gi\u1eadt m\u00ecnh v\u00ec n\u00f3 h\u1ee7y ho\u1ea1i d\u1ea7n c\u00e1c t\u1ebf b\u00e0o gan, ch\u01b0a n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n con c\u00e1i sinh ra th\u01b0\u1eddng k\u00e9m ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed hay m\u1eafc b\u1ec7nh t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n\u2026 Khi c\u00e1c danh y l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o v\u1ec1 h\u1eadu ho\u1ea1 th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 mu\u1ed9n: th\u00f3i quen u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u \u0111\u00e3 lan tr\u00e0n, \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n ch\u00ednh quy\u1ec1n Hoa K\u1ef3 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u1ec7nh c\u1ea5m r\u01b0\u1ee3u, t\u1ed1n bao c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1eb9p b\u1ecf th\u00f3i u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u, m\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng \u0111\u00e0nh th\u00fac th\u1ee7.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0110i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0: M\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi u\u1ed1ng nhi\u1ec1u bia r\u01b0\u1ee3u \u0111\u1ecf gay ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd g\u00ec, mi\u1ec7ng h\u1ecd s\u1eb7c m\u00f9i c\u1ed3n kh\u00f4ng th\u01a1m tho ch\u00fat n\u00e0o, gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta tuy th\u1ea5y ch\u01b0\u1edbng m\u00e0 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng s\u1edbm n\u00f3i cho h\u1ecd hay? Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng trong m\u1ed9t b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed nh\u1eadu nh\u1eb9t tr\u00e0n lan, \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t sinh vi\u00ean y d\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eefng ch\u1ea1c nh\u01b0 em c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n “c\u00f3 t\u00e0i nh\u1eadu nh\u1eb9t”, d\u00f9 tr\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea5m? 2. Em s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c th\u1ea7y gi\u1ea3ng v\u1ec1 d\u1ecb \u1ee9ng (= ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng d\u1ecb th\u01b0\u1eddng) c\u00f9ng c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa m\u1eabn c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1eefa c\u00e1c b\u1ec7nh ho d\u1ecb \u1ee9ng. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n d\u00f9ng ph\u1ea5n hoa cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghi b\u1ecb d\u1ecb \u1ee9ng do ph\u1ea5n hoa, d\u00f9ng c\u00e1c h\u1ea1t b\u1ee5i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghi d\u1ecb \u1ee9ng do b\u1ee5i, v.v. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi li\u1ec1u ban \u0111\u1ea7u r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf, t\u0103ng d\u1ea7n v\u00e0 theo d\u00f5i s\u00e1t sao. C\u00e1c ph\u1ea5n hoa, ch\u1ea5t b\u1ee5i n\u00e0y (g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 d\u1ecb \u1ee9ng nguy\u00ean) s\u1ebd t\u1eadp d\u1ea7n cho c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 quen v\u1edbi ch\u00fang, \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n d\u1ecb \u1ee9ng, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u1ebft m\u1eabn c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi d\u1ecb \u1ee9ng nguy\u00ean v\u00e0 kh\u1ecfi b\u1ec7nh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u1ebfu v\u00f4 \u00fd \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t l\u00fac m\u1ed9t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u1edbn d\u1ecb \u1ee9ng nguy\u00ean, th\u00ec t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng s\u1ebd ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i: kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa m\u1eabn c\u1ea3m, m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i g\u00e2y ra ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng q\u00faa m\u1eabn c\u1ea3m nguy hi\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ednh m\u1ea1ng (s\u1ed1c ph\u1ea3n v\u1ec7).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 em ngh\u0129 s\u1ebd d\u00f9ng bia r\u01b0\u1ee3u \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1eefa c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh? Ch\u1edb, b\u1edfi v\u00ec gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n gi\u1eefa “li\u1ec1u l\u01b0\u1ee3ng gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfan m\u1eabn c\u1ea3m” v\u00e0 “li\u1ec1u l\u01b0\u1ee3ng g\u00e2y ch\u00f3ang ph\u1ea3n v\u1ec7” kh\u00e1 mong manh, n\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 sai m\u1ed9t ly \u0111i m\u1ed9t d\u1eb7m. “Li\u1ec1u m\u1ea1ng” nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eb1m tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh “si\u00eau nh\u1eadu” l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean. \u0110\u1eddi c\u00e1c em c\u00f2n bao nhi\u00eau vi\u1ec7c hay, vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t, vi\u1ec7c tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1ng l\u00e0m v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m. 3. Khi ai \u0111\u00f3 m\u1eddi u\u1ed1ng bia r\u01b0\u1ee3u, em c\u1ee9 h\u1ed3 h\u1edfi c\u1ee5ng ly n\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u1ecdt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi h\u1ecd v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: “Xin l\u1ed7i, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft u\u1ed1ng”. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, n\u1ebfu b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh c\u00f3 “n\u00e0ng”, em s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y n\u00e0ng sung s\u01b0\u1edbng bi\u1ebft bao, b\u1edfi n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, n\u1ee5 h\u00f4n c\u1ee7a em s\u1ebd s\u1eb7c m\u00f9i c\u1ed3n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi em ng\u1ee7 li b\u00ec r\u1ed3i c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf g\u00e3i s\u1ed3n s\u1ed9t kh\u1eafp ng\u01b0\u1eddi su\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 tu\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 th\u01b0 em n\u00f3i. V\u1ea3 ch\u0103ng, c\u00e2u xin l\u1ed7i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eddi nh\u1eadp ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o. 4. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 d\u1ecbp ra n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i, th\u00ec m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n b\u1ed3i b\u00e0n \u0111\u01b0a th\u1ee9c u\u1ed1ng, em ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i r\u00f5 l\u00e0 em b\u1ecb d\u1ecb \u1ee9ng bia r\u01b0\u1ee3u, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ph\u1ea3i vi\u1ebft ra gi\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y b\u1ecb d\u1ecb \u1ee9ng \u0111\u1eadu ph\u1ed9ng (l\u1ea1c) \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m khi sang th\u0103m n\u01b0\u1edbc ta.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Em l\u00e0 con trai nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o u\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bia r\u01b0\u1ee3u (1 lon bia l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecf m\u1eb7t t\u00eda tai, 3-4 lon th\u00ec n\u1ed5i m\u1ea9n ng\u1ee9a kh\u1eafp ng\u01b0\u1eddi, k\u00e9o d\u00e0i kho\u1ea3ng 5-7 ng\u00e0y). Nh\u01b0ng em l\u1ea1i mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft u\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i trong giao ti\u1ebfp, hay ngay trong \u0111\u00e1m c\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh khi m\u1ecdi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12709","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-y-hoc"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12709","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12709"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12709\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12709"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12709"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12709"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}