{"id":13098,"date":"2021-11-26T19:44:52","date_gmt":"2021-11-26T12:44:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/post\/?p=13098"},"modified":"2021-11-26T19:44:53","modified_gmt":"2021-11-26T12:44:53","slug":"chong-nguoi-dan-ong-phai-lam-gi-voi-phu-nu-co-tinh-khi-yeu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/chong-nguoi-dan-ong-phai-lam-gi-voi-phu-nu-co-tinh-khi-yeu\/","title":{"rendered":"Ch\u1ed3ng: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 t\u00ednh kh\u00ed y\u1ebfu?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: B\u00e1c s\u0129 gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n \u1ea5y &#8211; Ferederic Rossiter<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>B\u00e1c s\u0129: Nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i \u1edf tr\u00ean, \u0111\u1ec3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 t\u00ednh kh\u00ed y\u1ebfu h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng ph\u1ee5 t\u1edbi c\u00e1c v\u00f9ng k\u00edch d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3. Th\u01b0\u1eddng trong khi giao h\u1ee3p, nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00e0y l\u00fac s\u1eafp \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i hay c\u0103ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ra, c\u1ecd x\u00e1t \u00e2m v\u1eadt m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01b0a d\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1eadt v\u00e0o \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o s\u00e2u h\u01a1n. T\u00ednh trung b\u00ecnh, c\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng n\u1eeda s\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 k\u00edch th\u00edch \u00e2m v\u1eadt. Nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 t\u00ednh kh\u00ed y\u1ebfu khi \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u0103ng c\u00e1c chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 c\u00e1c n\u1ee5 h\u00f4n k\u00e9o d\u00e0i, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng r\u00ean ho\u1eb7c h\u00edt h\u01a1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 t\u00ednh kh\u00ed y\u1ebfu \u1edbt \u0111\u1ea1t s\u1ef1 c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i c\u0169ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, anh ta s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb tr\u00ed quan tr\u1ecdng trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n c\u00f4 \u1ea5y. Th\u1eadt ra, s\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i trong m\u1ecdi l\u1ea7n giao h\u1ee3p, ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng t\u1edbi \u00e2m v\u1eadt, c\u1eeda \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c v\u00f9ng k\u00edch d\u1ee5c kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 giao ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u1edbi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng; h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean im l\u1eb7ng, nghi ng\u1edd ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1ee3ng ng\u00f9ng g\u00ec c\u1ea3. \u0110\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u1ef1 tin, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u1ec1 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng. C\u00f4 ta ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 k\u00edch th\u00edch \u00e2m v\u1eadt ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i tin r\u1eb1ng, b\u1ea1n t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n y\u00eau m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vi\u1ec7c k\u00edch th\u00edch \u00e2m v\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch y\u1ebfu \u1edbt l\u00e0 h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi nh\u1eb9 c\u00e1c v\u00f9ng k\u00edch d\u1ee5c kh\u00e1c v\u00ec ch\u00fang c\u0169ng t\u1ea1o n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng \u00edt h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef r\u1ea5t nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u00e2u y\u1ebfm, \u00f4m \u1ea5p, vu\u1ed1t ve. C\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 t\u00ednh kh\u00ed y\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00ecnh dung theo s\u01a1 \u0111\u1ed3 nh\u01b0 sau: trong kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh (30 ph\u00fat ho\u1eb7c l\u00e2u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa), ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1edbi c\u00e1c v\u00f9ng k\u00edch d\u1ee5c, d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u00e2u y\u1ebfm l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n t\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu. Khi s\u1ef1 h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0a d\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1eadt v\u00e0o \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o. Khi \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i k\u00edch th\u00edch \u00e2m v\u1eadt, khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 co c\u01a1 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i, c\u1ea7n ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t vi\u1ec7c k\u00edch th\u00edch c\u00e1c v\u00f9ng k\u00edch d\u1ee5c (m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c cho t\u1edbi l\u00fac ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng). N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc, anh ta ph\u1ea3i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c k\u00edch th\u00edch c\u00e1c v\u00f9ng k\u00edch d\u1ee5c cho t\u1edbi khi c\u00f4 ta \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 anh ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c d\u1eadp n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n t\u00ecnh s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ee9c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c; h\u1ecd c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m c\u00e1c b\u00e0 nghi ng\u1edd l\u00f2ng chung th\u1ee7y c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c \u00f4ng. \u0110\u1ea1i \u0111a s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p lo l\u1eafng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u0103n c\u1ee9. H\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 c\u00e1c n\u1ec1n n\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c. Ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh kh\u00ed m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd m\u1edbi thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u1edbi l\u1ea1. Vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh kh\u00ed m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i trong m\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n giao h\u1ee3p s\u1ebd l\u00e0m t\u0103ng l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0o s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u00f4i xin nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng, c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u00f3 vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef; ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 l\u1ef1c c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf trong su\u1ed1t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh giao h\u1ee3p. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu vui v\u1ebb trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c \u1edf n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, s\u1ef1 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi qu\u00e1 s\u1ee9c, con \u1ed1m, n\u1ed7i nghi ng\u1edd l\u00f2ng chung th\u1ee7y c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng\u2026 T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 \u1edf c\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 t\u00ednh kh\u00ed m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. Khi \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea9n th\u1ec9u, th\u00f4 b\u1ea1o, say r\u01b0\u1ee3u khi\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c giao h\u1ee3p di\u1ec5n ra nhanh ch\u00f3ng, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i: \u1ede ch\u1ed7 l\u1ea1, s\u1ef1 v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng, s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t ti\u1ec7n, \u1edf trong xe \u00f4t\u00f4, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 r\u1eeda r\u00e1y\u2026 Trong c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p tr\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u1eabn \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c ph\u00f3ng tinh v\u00ec t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c di\u1ec5n ra m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 li\u00ean quan tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft t\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt khi con \u0111\u1ef1c r\u1ea5t t\u00edch c\u1ef1c mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c giao h\u1ee3p, th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00e1nh nhau v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e0nh con c\u00e1i. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn ra v\u00ed d\u1ee5 sau: m\u00e8o c\u00e1i khi giao h\u1ee3p n\u1ebfu nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y con chu\u1ed9t th\u00ec v\u1eabn theo, c\u00f2n con \u0111\u1ef1c th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: B\u00e1c s\u0129 gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n \u1ea5y &#8211; Ferederic Rossiter B\u00e1c s\u0129: Nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i \u1edf tr\u00ean, \u0111\u1ec3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 t\u00ednh kh\u00ed y\u1ebfu h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng ph\u1ee5 t\u1edbi c\u00e1c v\u00f9ng k\u00edch d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3. Th\u01b0\u1eddng trong khi giao h\u1ee3p, nh\u1eefng [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13098","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-y-hoc"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13098","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13098"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13098\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13098"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13098"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13098"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}