T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: B\u00e1c s\u0129 gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n \u1ea5y – Ferederic Rossiter<\/p>\n\n\n\n
B\u00e1c s\u0129: C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi “x\u1ec9 d\u00e2m” l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi cu\u1ed3ng d\u00e2m. T\u1eeb n\u00e0y xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n t\u1eeb h\u1ecd c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 v\u0103n Leopon Dakher Madokha, ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 mi\u00eau t\u1ea3 kho\u00e1i c\u1ea3m t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n do s\u1ef1 h\u00e0nh h\u1ea1 c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. N\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, x\u1ec9 d\u00e2m l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5c t\u00f9ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c; nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5c t\u00f9ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c m\u00e0 v\u1edbi m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch h\u00e0nh h\u1ea1 v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd ho\u1eb7c th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c. \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u0103ng m\u1ea1, \u0111\u00e1nh t\u00e1t v\u00e0o m\u1eb7t, \u0111\u00e1 v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u00e1i v\u00e0o mi\u1ec7ng n\u1eefa. Trong nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb x\u1ec9 d\u00e2m l\u00e0m ra nh\u1eefng b\u1ec7nh n\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00ean b\u00e0n m\u1ed5, s\u1ef1 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kho\u00e1i c\u1ea3m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi cu\u1ed3ng d\u00e2m th\u1ed1ng, x\u1ec9 d\u00e2m \u00edt c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p t\u1ef1 s\u00e1t \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t kho\u00e1i c\u1ea3m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, cu\u1ed3ng d\u00e2m l\u00e0 kho\u00e1i c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a \u0111ao ph\u1ee7, c\u00f2n th\u1ed1ng x\u1ec9 d\u00e2m l\u00e0 kho\u00e1i c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n. C\u1ea3 hai d\u1ea1ng \u0111\u1ed3i b\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xen k\u1ebd t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u1edf m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed3ng d\u00e2m v\u00e0 th\u1ed1ng x\u1ec9 d\u00e2m kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i cho vi\u1ec7c chung s\u1ed1ng gi\u1eefa \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3. C\u00f2n n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i, kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch ho\u1eb7c g\u00e2y n\u00ean s\u1ef1 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng chung kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ch\u00fang ta xem x\u00e9t m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a th\u1ed1ng x\u1ec9 d\u00e2m. Anh k\u1ef9 s\u01b0 K., t\u1ef1 k\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh: “T\u00f4i theo \u0111u\u1ed5i ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i y\u00eau trong su\u1ed1t h\u01a1n 3 n\u0103m. Sinh ho\u1ea1t t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u sau khi c\u01b0\u1edbi. T\u00f4i y\u00eau v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u00ean, nh\u01b0 b\u1ecb qu\u1ef7 \u00e1m, t\u00f4i \u0111au kh\u1ed5 n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 v\u1ee3 t\u00f4i \u0111i l\u00e0m v\u1ec1 mu\u1ed9n. L\u00fac n\u00e0o t\u00f4i c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m cho v\u1ee3 t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y th\u00edch th\u00fa m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 r\u1eeda ch\u00e2n, c\u1eaft m\u00f3ng tay, c\u1ea1o l\u00f4ng b\u1eafp ch\u00e2n, ch\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea7u\u2026 Nh\u1eefng l\u00fac nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, t\u00f4i xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd”. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 v\u1ee3 ra l\u1ec7nh cho ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, \u1edf d\u1ea1ng th\u00f4 b\u1ea1o, th\u00ec c\u0169ng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n v\u00ec qu\u00e1 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, v\u1ee3 anh K. t\u00e1t v\u00e0o m\u00e1 anh ta l\u00e0m cho K b\u1ecb h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh, xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 c\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee9ng b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd v\u00e0 anh K. ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh giao h\u1ee3p ngay, v\u1ee3 anh ta hai l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea1t c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i. C\u00e1c l\u1ea7n ti\u1ebfp sau, v\u1ee3 anh K. \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n giao h\u1ee3p, c\u00f4 ta t\u00e1t nh\u1eb9 v\u00e0o m\u00e1 ho\u1eb7c t\u1ecf ra gi\u1eadn d\u1eef. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1edf k\u1ecbch, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u1ea3 hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec1u t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Trong s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed3i b\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u00f4. \u1ede kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u00f4 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng vi ph\u1ea1m ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt, khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u00f4 (sai l\u1ec7ch so v\u1edbi chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c) \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0103n c\u1eafp nh\u1eefng v\u1eadt c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e2y h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c – kh\u0103n m\u00f9i xoa, l\u01b0\u1ee3c, b\u00fai t\u00f3c r\u1ee5ng\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3i b\u1ea1i khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ph\u01a1i b\u00e0y c\u00e1c c\u01a1 quan sinh d\u1ee5c tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng quen bi\u1ebft nh\u1eb1m m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch d\u1ecda d\u1eabm h\u1ecd. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u1edd \u01a1 v\u1edbi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec k\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u00f4 n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi h\u1ecd n\u1eefa. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3i b\u1ea1i n\u00e0y sau khi ph\u00f3ng tinh s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 b\u1ecf ch\u1ea1y, v\u00ec h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ecb c\u01a1 quan ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt b\u1eaft gi\u1eef, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd b\u1ecb x\u1eed nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb l\u01b0u manh c\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed3. C\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u1ed3i b\u1ea1i ki\u1ec3u n\u00e0y \u00edt g\u1eb7p \u1edf ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed3i b\u1ea1i n\u1eefa l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc b\u1ec7nh mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eb7c qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi, khi \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf h\u1ecd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c; \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 d\u1ea1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00e0 v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng chung n\u00e0o c\u1ea3. Th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i c\u0169ng hay m\u1eb7c qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o c\u1ee7a nhau. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng thay qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o th\u00ec th\u1edd \u01a1 v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh giao h\u1ee3p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c n\u1eef gi\u1edbi c\u00f3 \u01b0u th\u1ebf h\u01a1n v\u00ec vi\u1ec7c m\u1eb7c qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o, \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00f3c “gi\u1ea3 l\u00e0m con trai” l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn. C\u00f2n \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng m\u1eb7c \u00e1o n\u1eef th\u1eadt l\u00e0 qu\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Li\u1ec7t k\u00ea to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed3i b\u1ea1i th\u1eadt kh\u00f3, t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 n\u00eau l\u00ean m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt nh\u1ea5t: giao h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con v\u1eadt, th\u00edch s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong l\u00fac giao h\u1ee3p, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 gi\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ch\u00e0ng trai tr\u1ebb, ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c giao h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em, ham m\u00ea t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0110\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 say m\u00ea t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng gi\u1edbi. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00e1 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i c\u0169ng hay g\u1eb7p c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed3i b\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u00f4, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m l\u00fd t\u1ef1 cho m\u00ecnh thu\u1ed9c gi\u1edbi kh\u00e1c. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y b\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: B\u00e1c s\u0129 gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n \u1ea5y – Ferederic Rossiter B\u00e1c s\u0129: C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi “x\u1ec9 d\u00e2m” l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi cu\u1ed3ng d\u00e2m. T\u1eeb n\u00e0y xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n t\u1eeb h\u1ecd c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 v\u0103n Leopon Dakher Madokha, ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 mi\u00eau t\u1ea3 kho\u00e1i c\u1ea3m t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13121","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-y-hoc"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13121","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13121"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13121\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13121"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13121"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13121"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}