{"id":13157,"date":"2021-11-26T19:49:26","date_gmt":"2021-11-26T12:49:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/post\/?p=13157"},"modified":"2021-11-26T19:49:27","modified_gmt":"2021-11-26T12:49:27","slug":"vo-thua-bac-si-thuong-thi-de-dat-duoc-cuc-khoai-phu-nu-can-mot-thoi-gian-dai-con-o-nam-gioi-hien-tuong-nay-lai-dien-ra-qua-ngan-lam-the-nao-de-khac-phuc-duoc-dieu-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/vo-thua-bac-si-thuong-thi-de-dat-duoc-cuc-khoai-phu-nu-can-mot-thoi-gian-dai-con-o-nam-gioi-hien-tuong-nay-lai-dien-ra-qua-ngan-lam-the-nao-de-khac-phuc-duoc-dieu-do\/","title":{"rendered":"V\u1ee3: Th\u01b0a b\u00e1c s\u0129, th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i; c\u00f2n \u1edf nam gi\u1edbi, hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i di\u1ec5n ra qu\u00e1 ng\u1eafn. L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: B\u00e1c s\u0129 gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n \u1ea5y &#8211; Ferederic Rossiter<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>B\u00e1c s\u0129: N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9 c\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee9ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ho\u1eb7c v\u1eeba ph\u1ea3i, cho ph\u00e9p ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh giao h\u1ee3p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c xu\u1ea5t tinh di\u1ec5n ra tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi mong mu\u1ed1n, th\u00ec c\u00f3 m\u1ea5y ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec3 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i th\u1eddi gian giao h\u1ee3p tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ph\u00f3ng tinh. Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec 2-3 ph\u00fat sau khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u d\u1eadp, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n nhanh hay ch\u1eadm ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 th\u1ec3. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu l\u00e0m ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i ho\u1eb7c d\u1eebng h\u1eb3n chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i th\u1eddi gian xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng hai \u0111i\u1ec1u nguy hi\u1ec3m: Th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m \u0111i kho\u00e1i c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a anh ta, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 trong ph\u1ea1m vi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp b\u1eb1ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u1eb1ng anh ta l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 anh ta y\u00eau, l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 kho\u00e1i c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 ta. Th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3m t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng ho\u1eb7c d\u1eebng h\u1eb3n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m y\u1ebfu ham mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1ed1i tho\u00e1t: gi\u1ea3m t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0ng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1edbi c\u00e1c v\u00f9ng k\u00edch th\u00edch t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c (\u00e2m v\u1eadt) m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n, v\u00e0 khi g\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i c\u1ee7a n\u1eef th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i t\u0103ng t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a x\u00fac gi\u00e1c c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 quan tr\u1ecdng t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c. Vi\u1ec7c s\u1edd m\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i \u1edf c\u1ea3 nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef. C\u00e1c c\u01a1 quan x\u00fac gi\u00e1c c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi c\u00e1c t\u1ebf b\u00e0o th\u1ea7n kinh c\u1ee7a v\u1ecf n\u00e3o. V\u00ec v\u1eady, c\u00f3 3 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 ch\u00ednh t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c ph\u00f3ng tinh nhanh: ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd, th\u1ecb gi\u00e1c v\u00e0 x\u00fac gi\u00e1c. Vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n vi\u1ec7c xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, nam gi\u1edbi ph\u1ea3i b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh quan s\u00e1t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a n\u1eef gi\u1edbi. S\u1ef1 h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a anh ta s\u1ebd ch\u1eadm h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ebfu bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe c\u00e1c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng; nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n v\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng nhanh ch\u00f3ng l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh. C\u00f2n n\u1ebfu c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 xu\u1ed1ng tinh, g\u00e2y c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i (khi ph\u00f3ng tinh xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa), c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eebng vi\u1ec7c s\u1edd m\u00f3, \u0111\u1ea9y nh\u1eb9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ra, v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 n\u00ean ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c h\u00f4n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0110i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh th\u1ecb gi\u00e1c c\u0169ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng &#8211; ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef v\u00e0 l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt \u0111i. C\u00f2n v\u1ec1 x\u00fac gi\u00e1c, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1edd m\u00f3 m\u1ea1nh, g\u00e2y t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1edbi c\u00e1c v\u00f9ng k\u00edch d\u1ee5c. S\u1ef1 s\u1edd m\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i t\u0103ng d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n l\u00fac m\u1edbi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Khi x\u1ea3y ra ph\u00f3ng tinh s\u1edbm \u1edf ch\u1ed3ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p sau: d\u00f9ng tay k\u00edch th\u00edch d\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng, khi chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n ph\u00f3ng tinh th\u00ec d\u00f9ng ng\u00f3n tay \u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0o ph\u00eda d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1ee7a c\u1ea7n d\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1eadt, khu d\u00e2y h\u00e3m, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi ng\u1eebng k\u00edch th\u00edch; vi\u1ec7c xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111au s\u1ebd l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m ham mu\u1ed1n s\u1ef1 c\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a d\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1eadt. C\u00e1ch n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng trong 10-12 ng\u00e0y. V\u1edbi c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, nhi\u1ec1u c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i th\u1eddi gian giao h\u1ee3p. Bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng khi hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 thi\u1ec7n \u00fd v\u1edbi nhau, khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 ta. R\u1ea5t ti\u1ebfc l\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u00e1c b\u00e0 v\u1ee3 c\u1eb1n nh\u1eb1n, qu\u1edf tr\u00e1ch ch\u1ed3ng trong khi \u0111\u00e1ng ra ph\u1ea3i gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Trong m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, vi\u1ec7c bu\u1ed9c t\u1ed9i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng r\u1eb1ng anh ta b\u1ecb r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 bu\u1ed9c t\u1ed9i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef b\u1ecb l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1m v\u1eady. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 g\u00e1n gh\u00e9p cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ed1m b\u1ec7nh c\u00fam hay vi\u00eam h\u1ecdng. C\u1ea7n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng v\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u00e2n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t. N\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00ec s\u1ebd n\u1ea3y sinh k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn l\u00e0 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ec9 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c nhau b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c ng\u1ee7 chung ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau hay s\u1ef1 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n. Giao h\u1ee3p l\u00e0 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng sinh l\u00fd duy nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 tham gia c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 gi\u1eefa hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft l\u1eabn nhau th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: B\u00e1c s\u0129 gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n \u1ea5y &#8211; Ferederic Rossiter B\u00e1c s\u0129: N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9 c\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee9ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ho\u1eb7c v\u1eeba ph\u1ea3i, cho ph\u00e9p ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh giao h\u1ee3p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c xu\u1ea5t tinh di\u1ec5n ra tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi mong mu\u1ed1n, th\u00ec c\u00f3 m\u1ea5y ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec3 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i th\u1eddi [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13157","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-y-hoc"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13157","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13157"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13157\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13157"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13157"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13157"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}