T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: B\u00e1c s\u0129 gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n \u1ea5y – Ferederic Rossiter<\/p>\n\n\n\n
B\u00e1c s\u0129: Vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng quy lu\u1eadt g\u1ea7n g\u0169i nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c trong s\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u01b0\u1eddng hay g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh kh\u00ed “l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng” h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi \u1edf \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, c\u00f3 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 do s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean trong su\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i. S\u1ef1 c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng g\u1eafn v\u1edbi ph\u00f3ng tinh, c\u00f2n \u1edf ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, tr\u1ee9ng th\u1ee5 tinh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 con gi\u1ed1ng mang nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a nam gi\u1edbi c\u00f3 say m\u00ea t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ph\u00f3ng tinh, \u1edf n\u1eef gi\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 n\u00f3i c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i th\u1eadt v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee9ng h\u1eb3n v\u00ec c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i gi\u1ea3 thuy\u1ebft \u0111\u00f3, khi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u00e0y c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00e1c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t s\u1ef1 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1m b\u1eadc 1 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1m b\u1eadc 2. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ea7u, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea7n n\u00e0o trong \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i; tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p th\u1ee9 hai: tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i nh\u01b0ng sau v\u00ec m\u1ed9t nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n n\u1eefa v\u00e0 c\u00f4 ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 mong mu\u1ed1n giao h\u1ee3p n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u00f3 vai tr\u00f2 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh trong vi\u1ec7c ph\u00f2ng ch\u1ed1ng s\u1ef1 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1m, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi sinh ra kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n ham mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n sinh h\u1ecdc, tr\u00ean c\u01a1 s\u1edf \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n th\u00e0nh c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 sinh d\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
S\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m t\u1eeb ch\u1ed7 k\u00edch th\u00edch c\u00e1c b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn sinh d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 th\u1ee7 d\u00e2m, khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u sinh ho\u1ea1t t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn c\u00e1c kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u1ea5y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n h\u01a1n. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u sinh ho\u1ea1t t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c (tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 trinh), ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea1t c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i trong nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1m, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n trong sinh ho\u1ea1t t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c th\u01b0\u1eddng hay b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u1eafm c\u00e1c ch\u1ee9c v\u1ee5 quan tr\u1ecdng trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u00ecnh \u1edf c\u00e1c ch\u1ee9c v\u1ee5 h\u00e0nh ch\u00ednh, trong khoa h\u1ecdc, trong ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y th\u00edch quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c, th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c do kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n trong t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c m\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00e1u g\u1eaft, b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh n\u1eefa. B\u1edfi v\u1eady, vi\u1ec7c ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb b\u1ec7nh l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1m kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n mang t\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n n\u1eefa m\u00e0 c\u00f2n mang t\u00ednh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta cho s\u1ef1 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1m l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng c\u1ee7a ham m\u00ea t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean, b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m t\u0103ng say m\u00ea t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi nhau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
S\u1ef1 l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 s\u1ebd t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng x\u1ea5u t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng sau \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ef1 l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng gi\u1eefa hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m s\u1ef1 l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, s\u1ef1 say m\u00ea t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1eef nguy\u00ean v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 v\u1eabn mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c giao h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i; \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ec7nh thi\u1ebfu c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i. Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00e0 qu\u00ean \u0111i t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng v\u00e0 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef s\u1ef1 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu th\u00ec nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 c\u00e1c th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00e2m l\u00fd k\u00ecm h\u00e3m s\u1ef1 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n c\u1ef1c kho\u00e1i, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n s\u1ef1 quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, ho\u1eb7c s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i h\u00f2a v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1, ho\u1eb7c v\u1ee3 nghi ng\u1edd ch\u1ed3ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e0m v\u1ee3 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, ho\u1eb7c h\u00e0nh vi giao h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00f4 thi\u1ec3n, c\u1ee5c c\u1eb1n. Nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u00f3 di\u1ec5n ra \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng sau v\u00e0i n\u0103m chung s\u1ed1ng, khi giao h\u1ee3p \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, n\u1ebfu v\u1eabn gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m g\u1eafn b\u00f3 l\u1eabn nhau. Khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u v\u00e3n n\u1ed5i v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea1t gi\u1eefa hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi. Trong m\u1ed9t ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y \u0111\u00fang: “Trong t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 l\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea1t, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o m\u00e0 th\u00f4i”.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: B\u00e1c s\u0129 gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n \u1ea5y – Ferederic Rossiter B\u00e1c s\u0129: Vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng quy lu\u1eadt g\u1ea7n g\u0169i nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c trong s\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u01b0\u1eddng hay g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13163","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-y-hoc"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13163","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13163"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13163\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13163"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13163"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13163"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}