{"id":1319,"date":"2021-10-09T01:06:17","date_gmt":"2021-10-09T01:06:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/post\/?p=1319"},"modified":"2021-10-09T01:06:19","modified_gmt":"2021-10-09T01:06:19","slug":"bi-quyet-lam-ban-voi-con-o-tuoi-day-thi-cung-con-truong-thanh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/bi-quyet-lam-ban-voi-con-o-tuoi-day-thi-cung-con-truong-thanh\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u00ed quy\u1ebft l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi con \u1edf tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec \u2013 C\u00f9ng con tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ghi ch\u00fa: T\u00e0i li\u1ec7u tr\u00edch d\u1eabn<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n quan tr\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi khi con c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi con \u1edf tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec. Tuy nhi\u00ean, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft. C\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 huynh tr\u0103n tr\u1edf kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi con \u1edf tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec? Trong b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y, Vietlearn s\u1ebd b\u1eadt m\u00ed b\u00ed quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi con tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec. T\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u ngay:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 huynh tr\u0103n tr\u1edf kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi con \u1edf tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec con c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd. S\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u00e0m n\u1ea3y sinh th\u00eam nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. S\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh, th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, chia s\u1ebb c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u1edbi con trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 nh\u01b0: cao l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n ng\u1ef1c,\u2026 C\u00e1c thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00e0y l\u00e0m con t\u00f2 m\u00f2 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh cho con \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y. Vi\u1ec7c cung c\u1ea5p cho con c\u00e1c ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. Con s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft t\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh. Con c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 ri\u00eang t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 k\u00e9o theo s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. Nh\u01b0ng c\u01b0 x\u1eed c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u1edbi con trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00ed quy\u1ebft l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi con tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m, \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a con<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi con tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec, tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ea5t b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng con. S\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf h\u1ec7, m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn cho b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u quan \u0111i\u1ec3m tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c nhau. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u1edbi c\u00e1c quan \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng. Vi\u1ec7c g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf hay kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a con sai l\u1ec7ch l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1edf n\u00ean gay g\u1eaft h\u01a1n. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhau, kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i chung. V\u1ec1 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gia \u0111\u00ecnh xa c\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kh\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o \u0111i\u1ec1u<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00e0m b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi con tu\u1ed5i d\u1ea1y th\u00ec: b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean gi\u00e1o \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u1edbi con.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gi\u00e1o \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi con th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00e0ng c\u1ea5m k\u1ef5. Kh\u00f4ng ai th\u00edch nghe gi\u00e1o \u0111i\u1ec1u. Kh\u00f4ng ai mu\u1ed1n nghe. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1edfng s\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfp thu nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Hay c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1o \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? V\u00ec v\u1eady \u0111\u1eebng gi\u00e1o \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i nh\u1ea5t trong \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec. Con s\u1ebd nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. Gi\u00e1o \u0111i\u1ec1u s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tr\u1edf n\u00ean x\u1ea5u \u0111i. C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con m\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u1eafng nghe<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u1eafng nghe l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi con tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec. L\u1eafng nghe t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0ng li\u1ec7u ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch? C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129, quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a con. Nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh l\u1ea1i. H\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe con ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh. T\u1ea1i sao con l\u1ea1i suy ngh\u0129, c\u00f3 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? \u0110\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a con. \u1ede th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m b\u1eb1ng tu\u1ed5i con b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng t\u1eebng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng? B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh l\u1eafng nghe t\u00e2m t\u01b0 con tr\u1ebb. H\u00e3y bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi con v\u00e0 t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc d\u1eabn d\u1eaft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a con. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y s\u1ebd hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng hay h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t, n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng con sai, con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian cho con<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec l\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i m\u00e0 con \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec l\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i m\u00e0 con \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n, \u00e1p l\u1ef1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp, d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian cho con. C\u00f9ng con n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, c\u00f9ng con l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0, c\u00f9ng con h\u1ecdc b\u00e0i,\u2026 Th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean g\u1ea7n g\u0169i, hi\u1ec3u nhau h\u01a1n. \u0110\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi con tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c. L\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho nhau?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 con y\u00eau th\u00edch<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 con y\u00eau th\u00edch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t trong c\u00e1c c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi con tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec d\u00f3 l\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng g\u00ec con th\u00edch ho\u1eb7c chung s\u1edf th\u00edch v\u1edbi con. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 d\u00f9 b\u1eadn b\u1ecbu nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng n\u00ean d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a con. H\u00e3y xem con quan t\u00e2m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec, con \u0111ang th\u00edch g\u00ec. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 con m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng trend c\u1ee7a gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb \u0111ang quan t\u00e2m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u00ean l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng chia s\u1ebb c\u1ee7a Vietlearn v\u1ec1 b\u00ed quy\u1ebft l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi con tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec. \u0110\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi con tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh. V\u00ec v\u1eady, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ki\u00ean tr\u00ec, ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i. H\u00e3y chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i v\u1edbi Vietlearn. Vietlearn s\u1ebd c\u00f9ng qu\u00fd ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t. Vietlearn \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con tr\u00ean h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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5 Ti\u00eau ch\u00ed ch\u1ecdn tr\u01b0\u1eddng cho con b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft \u2013 Vietlearn<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng l\u01b0u \u00fd v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con<\/a> tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft \u2013 T<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ghi ch\u00fa: T\u00e0i li\u1ec7u tr\u00edch d\u1eabn Tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n quan tr\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi khi con c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi con \u1edf tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec. Tuy nhi\u00ean, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1319","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1319","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1319"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1319\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1319"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1319"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1319"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}