Ghi ch\u00fa: T\u00e0i li\u1ec7u tr\u00edch d\u1eabn<\/p>\n\n\n\n
R\u00e8n k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt cho tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh tr\u0103n tr\u1edf. Bu\u00f4ng l\u1ecfng k\u1ef3 lu\u1eadt v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t. Nh\u01b0ng khi r\u00e8n k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt cho tr\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 huynh lo ng\u1ea1i m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i b\u1ecb xa c\u00e1ch. V\u1eady l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 r\u00e8n k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt cho tr\u1ebb t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t? Hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed7i lo c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9, chuy\u00ean gia<\/a> Vietlearn b\u1eadt m\u00ed ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p r\u00e8n k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt cho tr\u1ebb. T\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u ngay trong b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft sau:<\/p>\n\n\n\n T\u1ea1i sao ph\u1ea3i r\u00e8n k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt cho con?<\/p>\n\n\n\n T\u1ea1i sao ph\u1ea3i r\u00e8n k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt cho con?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, \u1edf t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc v\u00e0 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt m\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i tu\u00e2n theo. Th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00fang nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc, k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt l\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ri\u00eang g\u00ec ai. \u0110\u1ec3 con tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u0103n minh th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c r\u00e8n k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt cho tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n R\u00e8n k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. N\u1ebfu con s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb sa ng\u00e3, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 huynh v\u00ec th\u01b0\u01a1ng con m\u00e0 nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u con qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c, qu\u00ean vi\u1ec7c r\u00e8n k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt. H\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 con tr\u1edf n\u00ean ngang b\u01b0\u1edbng, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft nghe l\u1eddi. V\u1ec1 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i s\u1ebd h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, th\u00f3i quen, c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t \u1edf con. R\u00e8n k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 v\u00ec t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. T\u00f9y t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i, t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e9p r\u00e8n k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p Steiner \u2013 K\u00edch th\u00edch tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p r\u00e8n k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt theo \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb 1 \u0111\u1ebfn 5 tu\u1ed5i<\/p>\n\n\n\n R\u00e8n k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt cho tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb 1 \u0111\u1ebfn 5 tu\u1ed5i<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb trong \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, con c\u00f2n kh\u00e1 nh\u1ecf. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean qu\u00e1 kh\u1eaft khe v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb. Tuy nhi\u00ean, gi\u1eefa con c\u00e1i v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1eb7t ra nh\u1eefng k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt ri\u00eang:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Khi con l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o cho con. Th\u00f4ng qua l\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, con s\u1ebd \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi c\u1ea3nh b\u1ea3o b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00eau h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3: \u201cN\u1ebfu\u2026th\u00ec\u2026\u201d V\u00ed d\u1ee5: N\u1ebfu con \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb \u0111au. \u0110\u00e1nh l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t. N\u1ebfu con ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c th\u00ec con s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ph\u1ea1t.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n H\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t \u201cchi\u1ebfc gh\u1ebf suy ng\u1eabm\u201d: khi con l\u00e0m sai b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1eebng v\u1ed9i tr\u00e1ch m\u1eafng b\u00e9. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y cho ng\u1ed3i gh\u1ebf \u1edf m\u1ed9t g\u00f3c b\u1ea3o con suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c con \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e9 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 xem x\u00e9t l\u1ea1i h\u00e0nh vi. Th\u1eddi gian c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 5 \u2013 10 ph\u00fat. Sau \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho con hi\u1ec3u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110\u1ec3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ai c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00edch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, gh\u00e9t b\u1ecb ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. Tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf c\u0169ng v\u1eady, ch\u00fang c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ee9ng m\u00ecnh c\u00e1i t\u00f4i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn. Khi con kh\u00f4ng v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn cho con. V\u00ed d\u1ee5: Khi tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu m\u1eb7c \u00e1o kho\u00e1c, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi: \u201cCon c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn gi\u1eefa m\u1eb7c \u00e1o kho\u00e1c xanh ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ecf?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb 6 \u0111\u1ebfn 15 tu\u1ed5i<\/p>\n\n\n\n R\u00e8n k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt cho tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb 6 \u0111\u1ebfn 15 tu\u1ed5i<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u1ede \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 suy ngh\u0129, b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, ngang b\u01b0\u1edbng h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi l\u00fac t\u1eeb 1 \u0111\u1ebfn 5 tu\u1ed5i. \u0110\u1ec3 r\u00e8n k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt cho con \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o h\u01a1n v\u00e0 t\u0103ng m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Quy \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1c th\u01b0\u1edfng\/ ph\u1ea1t: B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng con l\u1eadp 1 b\u1ea3ng quy \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t, ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng khi con m\u1eafc l\u1ed7 hay l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap con s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt h\u01a1n. Hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt l\u00e0 g\u00ec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi con nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. Th\u00f4ng qua n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a con. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch h\u00e0nh vi, ch\u1ec9 ra \u0111\u00fang, sai, n\u00ean v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i s\u1ebd th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft h\u01a1n. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u1eeba c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00e8n k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt cho tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec3 con l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn v\u1eabn s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t huy hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 trong \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tr\u1ebb \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean<\/p>\n\n\n\n Khi con b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o giai \u0111o\u1ea1n thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean s\u1ebd c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd. \u0110\u1ec3 r\u00e8n k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt cho tr\u1ebb trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n tinh t\u1ebf, kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 m\u1eafng m\u1ecf, tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c, hay t\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1eb7c quy\u1ec1n, quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i,\u2026 s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u1ede \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a con. H\u00e3y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n cho tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a con. Khi c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 x\u1ea3y ra, vi\u1ec7c tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ea5t h\u00e3y nghe con gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch, n\u00f3i l\u00ean suy ngh\u0129 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea1i sao con l\u1ea1i suy ngh\u0129, c\u01b0 x\u1eed nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. \u0110\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean. \u201cL\u1ea1t m\u1ec1m bu\u1ed9c ch\u1eb7t\u201d l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con \u0111\u00fang h\u01b0\u1edbng m\u00e0 v\u1eabn gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n L\u01b0u \u00fd<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c, m\u1eafng m\u1ecf, to ti\u1ebfng, s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng v\u0169 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c. Bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 mang l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng h\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh x\u1ea5u \u0111i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m con m\u1ea5t th\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng m\u1eafng con tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 lu\u00f4n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t huy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tr\u00ean l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p r\u00e8n k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt cho tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 chuy\u00ean gia<\/a> Vietlearn mu\u1ed1n g\u1eedi g\u1eafm \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh. Hu v\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng chia s\u1ebb n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u00edch cho c\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 huynh trong nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con<\/a> c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Ghi ch\u00fa: T\u00e0i li\u1ec7u tr\u00edch d\u1eabn R\u00e8n k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt cho tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh tr\u0103n tr\u1edf. Bu\u00f4ng l\u1ecfng k\u1ef3 lu\u1eadt v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t. Nh\u01b0ng khi r\u00e8n k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt cho tr\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 huynh lo ng\u1ea1i m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u1edbi con […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1372","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tieu-hoc"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1372","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1372"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1372\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1372"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1372"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1372"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}