T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: H\u00e3y Tr\u1ea3 L\u1eddi Em T\u1ea1i Sao? \u2013 T\u1eadp 2 – Arkady Leokum<\/p>\n\n\n\n
H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, d\u01b0\u1edbi kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh t\u1eadp t\u1ee5c th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 t\u1eeb th\u1eddi r\u1ea5t xa x\u01b0a trong l\u1ecbch s\u1eed. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n qua ba giai \u0111o\u1ea1n, hay ba ki\u1ec3u c\u00e1ch. Ki\u1ec3u c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ki\u1ec3u h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u201c\u0103n c\u01b0\u1edbp\u201d. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng x\u01b0a \u201c\u01b0ng\u201d ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 n\u00e0o l\u00e0 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c \u201c\u0103n c\u01b0\u1edbp\u201d ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u1ea5y. N\u1ebfu th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u201cb\u1ecb\u201d hay l\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\u201d \u0103n c\u01b0\u1edbp \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Ki\u1ec3u h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 ki\u1ec3u h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u201ckh\u1ebf \u01b0\u1edbc\u201d n\u00f3i n\u00f4m na l\u00e0 ki\u1ec3u h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u201cm\u1eb7c c\u1ea3\u201d. Ch\u00fa r\u1ec3 \u201cmua\u201d c\u00f4 d\u00e2u. Ki\u1ec3u h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n th\u1ee9 ba l\u00e0 \u201ch\u00f4n nh\u00e2n t\u1ef1 hi\u1ebfn\u201d, n\u00f3i b\u00f3ng b\u1ea9y l\u00e0 \u201ch\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00ec t\u00ecnh\u201d. Ch\u00e0ng, n\u00e0ng y\u00eau nhau. Tuy nhi\u00ean, trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n ng\u00e0y nay – h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00ec t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu – kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ea1ch v\u1ebft t\u00edch c\u1ee7a hai ki\u1ec3u h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kia. Ki\u1ec3u n\u00f3i \u201cg\u1ea3 ch\u1ed3ng, c\u01b0\u1edbi v\u1ee3\u201d (giving the bride away) l\u00e0 \u201cdi ch\u1ee9ng\u201d c\u1ee7a ki\u1ec3u h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n mua (c\u01b0\u1edbi), b\u00e1n (g\u1ea3). C\u00e1c ch\u00e0ng \u201cph\u00f9 r\u1ec3\u201d ng\u00e0y nay l\u00e0 \u201cdi ch\u1ee9ng\u201d c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ch\u00e0ng trai m\u1ea1nh kh\u1ecfe x\u01b0a kia \u0111\u00e3 tham gia gi\u00fap ch\u00fa r\u1ec3 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c \u201c\u0103n c\u01b0\u1edbp\u201d c\u00f4 d\u00e2u. V\u00e0 tu\u1ea7n tr\u0103ng m\u1eadt ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 bi\u1ebfn d\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c c\u01b0\u1edbp c\u00f4 d\u00e2u r\u1ed3i \u0111em gi\u1ea5u \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00ean \u0111\u00e0n g\u00e1i ngu\u00f4i ngoai \u0111i khi m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00ec t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm, \u0111\u00f2i l\u1ea1i! Truy nguy\u00ean t\u1eeb ng\u1eef \u201cwedding\u201d (c\u01b0\u1edbi) ta c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y d\u1ea5u t\u00edch c\u1ee7a \u201ch\u00f4n nh\u00e2n mua b\u00e1n r\u1ed3i\u201d. Trong ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef Anglo – Saxon c\u1ed5 th\u00ec \u201cWed\u201d c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, gia s\u00fac m\u00e0 ch\u00fa r\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 cho nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i trong cu\u1ed9c th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3, c\u00f2 k\u00e8 th\u00eam b\u1edbt c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Trong t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c h\u00f4n l\u1ec5 c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u t\u1eadp t\u1ee5c m\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c, \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u1eeb th\u1eddi r\u1ea5t xa x\u01b0a m\u00e0 ng\u00e0y nay ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 gi\u1ea3i b\u0103ng m\u00e0u thi\u00ean thanh m\u00e0 c\u00f4 d\u00e2u ph\u1ea3i mang l\u00e0 t\u1eadp t\u1ee5c c\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a d\u00e2n Do Th\u00e1i. Th\u1eddi c\u1ed5, c\u00f4 d\u00e2u Do Th\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i vi\u1ec1n c\u00e1i \u00e1o c\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng v\u1ea3i m\u00e0u thi\u00ean thanh v\u00ec m\u00e0u n\u00e0y t\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u01b0ng cho s\u01b0 trinh tr\u1eafng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng chung th\u1ee7y. Nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u n\u00f3i: \u201cAi \u0111\u1ee9ng ra g\u1ea3 c\u00f4 X cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y v\u1eady?\u201d ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 \u201cC\u00f4 X \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng\u201d ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n th\u00ec mang \u0111\u1ea7y d\u1ea5u t\u00edch c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3. V\u00e0 t\u1eadp t\u1ee5c ph\u00f9 d\u00e2u l\u00e0 do ng\u01b0\u1eddi La M\u00e3 c\u1ed5: trong \u0111\u00e1m c\u01b0\u1edbi long tr\u1ecdng, ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m ch\u1ee9ng. T\u1ea1i sao ph\u00eda sau xe c\u00f4 d\u00e2u ch\u00fa r\u1ec3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ed9t nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f4i gi\u00e0y? \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 t\u1eadp t\u1ee5c trao \u0111\u1ed5i gi\u00e0y ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 trao \u0111\u1ed5i uy quy\u1ec1n c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u1eeb nay, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00f4 d\u00e2u, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u1edbn h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha \u0111\u1ebb m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: H\u00e3y Tr\u1ea3 L\u1eddi Em T\u1ea1i Sao? \u2013 T\u1eadp 2 – Arkady Leokum H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, d\u01b0\u1edbi kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh t\u1eadp t\u1ee5c th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 t\u1eeb th\u1eddi r\u1ea5t xa x\u01b0a trong l\u1ecbch s\u1eed. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n qua ba giai \u0111o\u1ea1n, hay ba ki\u1ec3u c\u00e1ch. Ki\u1ec3u c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ki\u1ec3u h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u201c\u0103n […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[15],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13919","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-hoi-dap-khoa-hoc"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13919","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13919"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13919\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13919"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13919"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13919"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}