{"id":16467,"date":"2021-12-04T13:10:05","date_gmt":"2021-12-04T06:10:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/post\/?p=16467"},"modified":"2021-12-04T13:12:42","modified_gmt":"2021-12-04T06:12:42","slug":"chuong-i-chao-mung-quy-vi-den-voi-nuoc-my","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/chuong-i-chao-mung-quy-vi-den-voi-nuoc-my\/","title":{"rendered":"CH\u01af\u01a0NG I: Ch\u00e0o m\u1eebng qu\u00fd v\u1ecb \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: Gi\u1ea3i m\u00e3 d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng – Pamela Druckerman<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Xin th\u01b0a c\u00f9ng qu\u00fd v\u1ecb chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a April. Th\u1eadt ra chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac t\u1eeb hai n\u0103m v\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m duy nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng chung th\u1ee7y trong su\u1ed1t hai m\u01b0\u01a1i n\u0103m s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh. Sau bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u0169ng chuy\u1ec3n c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0m c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn \u0111\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u1ee9c email mang t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t d\u00e2m d\u1ee5c (\u0111\u1ea1i lo\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 \u201cAnh n\u00f3ng l\u00f2ng mu\u1ed1n xem c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111ang n\u1eb1m d\u01b0\u1edbi v\u00e1y em\u201d) g\u1eedi qua l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 v\u00e0i cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 b\u00ed m\u1eadt trong b\u00e3i \u0111\u1eadu xe hay kh\u00e1ch s\u1ea1n su\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t n\u0103m r\u01b0\u1ee1i \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. X\u00e9t cho c\u00f9ng, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra trong th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, khi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 tr\u1eafng tay v\u00e0o c\u1ed5 phi\u1ebfu v\u00e0 t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng v\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 sai l\u1ea7m. Khi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t th\u00ec \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng Kevin c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 ta m\u1edbi ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng hai n\u0103m sau \u0111\u00f3, h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng chung th\u1ee7y v\u1eabn \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a April. Kevin \u0111\u00e3 62 tu\u1ed5i n\u00ean ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 ngu\u00f4i ngoai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed7i \u0111au n\u00e0y. \u00d4ng c\u1ee9 \u0111inh ninh r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 April nay tuy \u0111\u00e3 48 tu\u1ed5i nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eabn \u0111ang ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Song khi x\u00e9t l\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u00ec kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m. C\u00f4 b\u1ecb Kevin tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 nghi\u00eam c\u1ea5m ng\u1eb7t ngh\u00e8o. C\u00f4 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i l\u00e0m ho\u1eb7c \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. C\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 r\u1ee7 r\u00ea m\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ee9a ch\u00e1u ng\u1ee7 l\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 n\u1eefa. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f4 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 mu\u1ed9n v\u00e0i ph\u00fat th\u00ec Kevin li\u1ec1n nh\u1eafn t\u1edbi t\u1ea5p nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea7y h\u1eadn th\u00f9 v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i. Ngay c\u1ea3 khi v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd th\u00ec c\u00f4 c\u0169ng b\u1ecb Kevin bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i k\u00ea khai t\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eadn t\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eebng tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng m\u00ecnh trong ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m \u1ea5y. \u00d4ng c\u00f2n l\u1ee5c l\u1ea1o t\u00fai x\u00e1ch, ki\u1ec3m tra h\u00f3a \u0111\u01a1n \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i v\u00e0 th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng b\u1ea5m n\u00fat g\u1ecdi l\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 nh\u1eb1m xem c\u00f4 v\u1eeba d\u00f9ng n\u00f3 g\u1ecdi cho ai. T\u1ec7 h\u01a1n n\u1eefa, nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n c\u00f4 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra \u00f4ng g\u1eafn m\u00e1y nghe tr\u1ed9m trong xe h\u01a1i \u0111\u1ec3 xem c\u00f4 c\u00f3 l\u00e9n g\u1ecdi cho ai tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cT\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n d\u00e1m n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ai n\u1eefa v\u00ec n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng Kevin s\u1ebd cho r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i \u0103n ng\u1ee7 lung tung v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta,\u201d April t\u00e2m s\u1ef1. C\u00f4 t\u0103ng g\u1ea7n 30kg v\u00e0 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ee1 trong m\u00e1u l\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn 277 t\u1eeb khi b\u1ecb Kevin ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n m\u00ecnh v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m, c\u1ee9 theo \u0111\u00e0 n\u00e0y kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng b\u1ecb b\u1ec7nh tim s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t cao. \u0110\u00f4i l\u00fac c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng chi\u1ebfc m\u00e1y t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c trong nh\u00e0 kho th\u00ec Kevin li\u1ec1n l\u00e0u b\u00e0u, \u201cB\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1edb l\u1ea7n cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng b\u00e0 gi\u1ea3m c\u00e2n th\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra kh\u00f4ng\u2026\u201d, c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf April ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n bi\u1ebft n\u1eb1m \u01b0\u1eddn ra tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf sofa m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft th\u1eddi gian h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u \u1edf b\u00ean nhau, v\u00e0 l\u00fac g\u1ea7n nhau Kevin v\u00e0 April lu\u00f4n \u201cnh\u1eb7ng x\u1ecb\u201d v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m. M\u1ed7i l\u00fac nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, Kevin \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i t\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eadn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec nh\u1eefng g\u00ec April \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh lang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u00d4ng t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u th\u00eam v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh qua nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 tham gia l\u1edbp ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i tinh th\u1ea7n h\u1eb1ng tu\u1ea7n. \u00d4ng lu\u00f4n b\u1ea3o, \u201ctrong t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n trung th\u1ef1c v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng che gi\u1ea5u m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u1ea3.\u201d G\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn Nashville \u0111\u1ec3 tham gia m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i h\u1ed9i ngh\u1ecb v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ebfn khi v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, \u00f4ng kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng l\u0103ng nh\u0103ng xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb trong m\u00e1u, v\u00e0 m\u1eb7c cho April ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i ra sao th\u00ec \u00f4ng v\u1eabn nh\u1ea5t m\u1ef1c kh\u0103ng kh\u0103ng r\u1eb1ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a April c\u0169ng t\u1eebng v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i th\u00eam r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh lang c\u1ee7a April l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t g\u00e3 da \u0111en (trong khi Kevin v\u00e0 April l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi da tr\u1eafng) n\u00ean m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n trong l\u00f2ng Kevin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i h\u1eb9n \u0103n tr\u01b0a v\u1edbi hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng trong m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ed3 n\u01b0\u1edbng g\u1ea7n khu nh\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u1edf ngay c\u1ea1nh Memphis, v\u00f9ng n\u00e0y d\u00e2n c\u01b0 \u0111a ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i l\u00e1i xe \u0111i n\u01a1i kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c. M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u1ea1 c\u1ee7a khu n\u00e0y l\u00e0 tuy h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 da \u0111en nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea3 th\u1ecb tr\u1ea5n l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4 ph\u1ebft b\u1eb1ng s\u1eafc tr\u1eafng. Xe h\u01a1i l\u0103n b\u00e1nh tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng hai b\u00ean c\u00e2y xanh th\u1eb3ng t\u1eafp, tr\u00ean c\u1ea3n xe d\u00e1n nh\u1eefng mi\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ec1 can \u0111\u1ea1i lo\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 \u1ea2NH C\u1eaeT D\u00c1N v\u00e0 \u0110I\u1ec0U K\u00cc DI\u1ec6U TH\u00c0NH HI\u1ec6N TH\u1ef0C. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 m\u1ee9c thu nh\u1eadp b\u00ecnh qu\u00e2n g\u1ea5p \u0111\u00f4i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf Tennessee. Nh\u00ecn qua April, c\u00f4 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng n\u1ed1t t\u00e0n nhang ph\u01a1n ph\u1edbt tr\u00ean m\u1eb7t v\u00e0 m\u00e1i t\u00f3c d\u00e0i s\u1eafc v\u00e0ng \u1eedng \u0111\u1ecf. C\u00f2n Kevin s\u1edf h\u1eefu khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t tr\u00f2n b\u1ea7u b\u0129nh v\u00e0 gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i sang s\u1ea3ng nh\u01b0 ph\u00e1t thanh vi\u00ean ra-\u0111i-\u00f4. V\u00e0i ph\u00fat sau khi t\u00f4i ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng b\u00e0n, April nh\u00ecn ch\u0103m ch\u0103m v\u00e0o \u0111\u0129a th\u1ecbt heo x\u00e9 s\u1ee3i v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u s\u1ee5t s\u00f9i trong khi Kevin thao thao b\u1ea5t tuy\u1ec7t nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i g\u1eb7p h\u1ecd v\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i. \u201cC\u1ea3 hai ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n kh\u00f3c nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u1eefa, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd nh\u1edd d\u00f9ng thu\u1ed1c ch\u1ed1ng suy nh\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea7n kinh.,\u201d Kevin b\u1ea3o. H\u1ecd v\u1eabn n\u00f3i b\u00f3ng gi\u00f3 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c ly d\u1ecb, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 v\u1ebb s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i t\u1ed1t cho h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Khi h\u1ecd n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra, l\u1ea1i nghe nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang h\u1ed3i t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cC\u00f3 nh\u1edb ng\u00e0y t\u00f4i x\u00e9 h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 ra t\u1eebng m\u1ea3nh v\u1ee5n kh\u00f4ng?\u201d Kevin h\u1ecfi April. \u201cT\u00f4i l\u00ean l\u1ea7u, ng\u1ed3i ph\u1ec7ch xu\u1ed1ng gi\u1eefa nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eadp ph\u00e1 li\u00ean h\u1ed3i.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

April t\u1ecf v\u1ebb b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i, c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i Kevin \u0111ang nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c \u00f4ng x\u00e9 n\u00e1t t\u1ea5m \u1ea3nh c\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ec9? T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh \u0111\u00e3 ti\u00eau t\u00e1n h\u1ebft r\u1ed3i, duy ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m c\u00f2n s\u00f3t l\u1ea1i \u1edf nh\u00e0 b\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a Kevin m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c0, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i, Kevin \u0111ang h\u1ed3i t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00fac \u00f4ng v\u1edbi l\u1ea5y t\u1ea5m \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 ch\u1ee5p c\u00f9ng m\u00e1y thu \u00e2m (d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee5 thanh nh\u1ea1c) trong t\u1ea7m tay r\u1ed3i x\u00e9 n\u00f3. \u201cT\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 ng\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3 g\u00e0o th\u00e9t. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi nh\u01b0 \u2018tao h\u1eadn m\u00e0y, \u0111\u1ed3 con \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 kh\u1ed1n n\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u1ebft b\u1ea7m,\u2019 r\u1ed3i c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf m\u00e0 g\u00e0o th\u00e9t v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eadp ph\u00e1 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c.\u201d C\u0169ng \u0111\u00fang v\u1ecb tr\u00ed \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng tr\u00ean l\u1ea7u hai, n\u01a1i Kevin tr\u01b0ng b\u00e0y nh\u1eefng m\u00e1y bay m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh, April t\u1eebng ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ed3i van xin \u00f4ng bu\u00f4ng c\u00e2y s\u00fang l\u1ee5c xu\u1ed1ng kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u00ecn c\u00f3 v\u1ebb April v\u00e0 Kevin h\u00e0nh x\u1eed h\u01a1i b\u1ecb th\u00e1i qu\u00e1, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 \u00e2u c\u0169ng l\u00e0 phong c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9. Sau bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u00ec s\u1ef1 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng tinh th\u1ea7n k\u00e9o d\u00e0i su\u1ed1t hai n\u0103m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00f4i. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00fang ch\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 c\u1ee7a April l\u00e0 c\u00f4 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tin r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u00f4ng d\u00e2m.\u201d C\u00f4 l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong nh\u00e0 th\u1edd v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u201cm\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 x\u1ea5u\u201d m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. C\u00f4 ph\u00e2n tr\u1ea7n, \u201ct\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u00e0m ra h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u00f4i. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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T\u1eea NH\u1eeeNG N\u0102M 1970 , ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ecf ra khoan dung v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i d\u1ec5 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh, v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n s\u1ed1ng th\u1eed, v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n ly d\u1ecb, v\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c l\u1eabn c\u00f3 con ngo\u00e0i gi\u00e1 th\u00fa. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 ng\u00e0y nay quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c t\u1eeb l\u00fac 17 tu\u1ed5i nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn 26 tu\u1ed5i m\u1edbi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 9 n\u0103m tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec3 quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c trong l\u00fac c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00ec v\u1eady, th\u1eadt t\u00f2 m\u00f2 v\u00e0 ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean khi nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u1eaft khe h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. N\u0103m 1973, 70 ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 cho r\u1eb1ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u201c\u0111i\u1ec1u ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n sai tr\u00e1i\u201d. \u0110\u1ebfn n\u0103m 2004 th\u00ec kho\u1ea3ng 82 ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, s\u1ed1 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i th\u00ec ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u201cvi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y h\u01a1i sai tr\u00e1i.\u201d Trong cu\u1ed9c th\u0103m d\u00f2 d\u01b0 lu\u1eadn qu\u1ea7n ch\u00fang c\u1ee7a Vi\u1ec7n Gallup (H\u00f2a K\u1ef3) v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2006, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 t\u1ed9i th\u00f4ng d\u00e2m c\u00f2n t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111a th\u00ea v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1eadt k\u1ef3 l\u1ea1 v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u00fd ki\u1ebfn tr\u00e1i chi\u1ec1u trong nh\u1eefng v\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng khi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u00ec suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t. Kevin v\u00e0 April \u0111\u1ec1u thu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ea3ng C\u1ed9ng H\u00f2a v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng t\u1ea1i mi\u1ec1n Nam Hoa K\u1ef3, n\u01a1i \u0111\u1ea1o Tin l\u00e0nh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ea1nh. Nh\u01b0ng khi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u00ec gi\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i s\u1ed1ng \u1edf New York, th\u1ec7m ch\u00ed c\u00f2n gay g\u1eaft h\u01a1n. Ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ea1o gi\u00e1o n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129 r\u1ea5t b\u1ea3o th\u1ee7 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng chung th\u1ee7y trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cT\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i. V\u00ec l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh c\u1ea3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa. Khi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt th\u00e0. M\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt th\u00e0 th\u00ec s\u1ebd quen th\u00f3i v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i. Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u00f4ng minh \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u th\u00ec m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh con dao hai l\u01b0\u1ee1i gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft b\u1ea1n,\u201d m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a t\u1ef1 do ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u; c\u00f4 32 tu\u1ed5i, s\u1ed1ng trong m\u1ed9t c\u0103n g\u00e1c x\u00e9p d\u01b0\u1edbi ph\u1ed1 th\u1ecb, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c cho m\u1ed9t h\u00e3ng th\u1eddi trang \u1edf New York v\u00e0 giao l\u01b0u v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 April, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng M\u1ef9 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ea3o t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i. Th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00ea tr\u00e1ch h\u1ecd v\u00ec m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n sa ng\u00e3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Theo c\u00e1i c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1ea1i vi\u1ec7c ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u1eefa m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed3 b\u1ecb m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ru\u1ed3ng b\u1ecf. Ngay c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u0169ng g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 b\u1ecb li\u1ec7t v\u00e0o lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 t\u00edn ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng trong nh\u1eefng trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9i th\u1ec3 thao nghi\u1ec7p d\u01b0 hay h\u00e3ng lu\u1eadt s\u01b0, th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng chung th\u1ee7y l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khoan dung hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a t\u1ef1 do hay n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f9a v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi li\u1ec7u r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 m\u1ed9t v\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 thi hay kh\u00f4ng. Nh\u01b0ng v\u1ebft nh\u01a1 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t s\u00e2u \u0111\u1eadm v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 phai nh\u1ea1t m\u1ed9t mai, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi k\u1ebb v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan tr\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t doanh nh\u00e2n t\u1ea1i qu\u00e1n r\u01b0\u1ee3u nh\u1ecf g\u1ea7n nh\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1edf Upper West Side c\u1ee7a Manhattan, \u00f4ng th\u1ed5 l\u1ed9 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 chung th\u1ee7y v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01a1n hai m\u01b0\u01a1i n\u0103m sau khi c\u01b0\u1edbi. Vi\u1ec7c quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c qu\u1ea3 r\u1ea5t h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng t\u1ecf ra r\u1ea5t b\u0103n kho\u0103n. Xung quanh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng, r\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfm ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh v\u00e0 h\u1ecd cho r\u1eb1ng \u201cngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ngo\u1ea1i l\u1ec7, m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t hi\u1ec3m h\u1ecda.\u201d C\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u1edbi thu nh\u1eadp g\u1ea5p \u0111\u00f4i c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n n\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0 \u201cCon c\u00e1i s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u00ec l\u1ea1i ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. H\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng khoe khoang v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ham mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 theo \u00f4ng \u0111\u00f3 h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch. \u201cB\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9 \u1ea5y. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e2u, ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 v\u00ec t\u00ednh l\u1eadp d\u1ecb ho\u1eb7c tr\u00f2 vui \u0111\u1ea5y,\u201d \u00f4ng ta b\u1ea3o. Ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c li\u00ean t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp th\u1ea5p h\u00e8n c\u1ee7a M\u1ef9, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thi\u1ebfu ngu\u1ed3n vui v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1eafn. Tham gia v\u00e0o lo\u1ea1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m m\u1ee5c n\u00e1t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. \u00d4ng k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn, \u201cT\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb xem l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, n\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p g\u00ec cho uy t\u00edn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 n\u00e2ng cao uy t\u00edn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng xu h\u01b0\u1edbng thi\u00ean v\u1ec1 ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 m\u1ed9t v\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed3ng. T\u00edn hi\u1ec7u n\u00e0y cho th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd l\u00e0 b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 t\u1ed1t, l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean trung th\u1ef1c, l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u01b0\u01a1ng gia \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady v\u00e0 h\u1ecd chia s\u1ebb gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb n\u00e0y v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1eafn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t b\u00e1c s\u0129 \u1edf Miami th\u1ed5 l\u1ed9 r\u1eb1ng, n\u1ebfu n\u00f3i th\u1eadt l\u00f2ng th\u00ec c\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ea1i ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 v\u1eabn vui v\u1ebb n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng h\u00e0ng tu\u1ea7n. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu n\u1ed5i mi\u1ec7ng l\u01b0\u1ee1i c\u1ee7a thi\u00ean h\u1ea1 ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. C\u00f4 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 xung quanh \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u1edbi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n m\u1ed9t v\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed3ng. N\u1ebfu \u00f4ng ta v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c n\u00e0o b\u1ea5y l\u00e2u nay \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng m\u00e0 h\u1ecd quen bi\u1ebft n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 lu\u00f4n ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, ch\u00fang th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng chi ti\u1ebft l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n r\u1ed3i r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c c\u0169ng tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn an to\u00e0n c\u1ee7a ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 m\u1ed9t v\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed3ng. Ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n Betsy, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 b\u00e1o l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c cho t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed More , t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed n\u00e0y hi\u1ec7n \u0111ang l\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i tr\u00ean 40, c\u00f4 cho bi\u1ebft t\u1eebng c\u1ea3m n\u1eafng b\u00e1c s\u0129 n\u1eafn x\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ngay sau \u0111\u00f3 li\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i khi t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ra c\u1ea3nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00e1c ngo\u00e0i ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng l\u00f5a th\u1ec3. Sau \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f4 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac xao l\u00f2ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, trong s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed9t n\u1eef nhi\u1ebfp \u1ea3nh gia b\u1ea1n c\u00f4 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n n\u00f4 \u0111\u00f9a v\u1edbi anh ch\u00e0ng ch\u00f9i r\u1eeda h\u1ed3 b\u01a1i nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa c\u01a1. Nh\u01b0ng sau \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y th\u1ed5 l\u1ed9 r\u1eb1ng, \u201cM\u00ecnh h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn l\u1eafm. L\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 mang m\u00e1ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng hoang t\u01b0\u1edfng tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi th\u00f4i nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i \u0111i xa ra kh\u1ecfi t\u1ea7m ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t l\u00fac n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft. Th\u1eadt ra c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ai ph\u00e1t gi\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng m\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ed1c v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi Betsy, ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh qu\u00e1 tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c n\u00ean c\u00f4 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ch\u1eb3ng d\u00e1m m\u01a1 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi n\u1eefa kia. C\u00f4 k\u1ec3 m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n ch\u1ee3t ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec5n c\u1ea3nh ch\u1ea1y tr\u1ed1n c\u00f9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh trong m\u1ed9ng, \u201c\u0110\u00f4i l\u00fac t\u00f4i c\u00f2n \u0111\u1eb7t con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 t\u00f4i v\u00e0 anh \u1ea5y v\u00e0o xe \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an to\u00e0n.\u201d L\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p sau sau \u0111\u00f3, c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00fa nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 m\u1ebfn nh\u01b0ng ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t c\u00f9ng nhau: \u201cB\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111i n\u1eefa th\u00ec ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec hay ho c\u1ea3\u201d. C\u00f4 b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa r\u1eb1ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch cho nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 ra qua l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u00e2u c\u0169ng l\u00e0m cho t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00e1 h\u01a1n v\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap c\u00f4 tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi \u00e1p l\u1ef1c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. Sau c\u00f9ng c\u00f4 k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn, \u201cR\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch an to\u00e0n, kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fat t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i, \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ch\u00fat c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0103n n\u0103n \u0111\u1ea5y nh\u01b0ng d\u00f9 sao m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c b\u00e1o chuy\u00ean \u0111\u0103ng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng di\u1ec5n \u0111\u00e0n tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng n\u01a1i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecm c\u00e2u gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3nh ng\u1ed9 v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. Trong m\u1ee5c b\u00e1o n\u1ecd, m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u00e3 ly d\u1ecb ch\u1ed3ng t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 \u0111ang qua l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00eam n\u1ecd khi \u0111ang \u0111i ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, m\u1ed9t anh ch\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e3 m\u1eddi c\u00f4 m\u1ed9t ly r\u01b0\u1ee3u, \u201cCu\u1ed1i \u0111\u00eam \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t say v\u00e0 ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e3 h\u00f4n anh ta. D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc h\u00f4n v\u1ed9i m\u00e0 th\u00f4i, m\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc c\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng n\u1eefa. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gh\u00ea t\u1edfm v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ph\u1ea1m ph\u1ea3i sai l\u1ea7m \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa! T\u00f4i c\u00f3 n\u00ean th\u00fa nh\u1eadn v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n trai m\u00ecnh hay kh\u00f4ng? L\u00e0m sao t\u00f4i v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e2y? B\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi anh \u1ea5y n\u1eefa. C\u00e1m \u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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C\u00d3 L\u1ebc \u0110\u1ed0I V\u1edaI T\u00d4I \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt ra t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trung l\u01b0u, c\u00f3 \u0103n h\u1ecdc \u1edf nh\u1eefng qu\u1ed1c gia kh\u00e1c, l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch suy ngh\u0129 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n cho r\u1eb1ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u00e0 k\u1ef3 d\u1ecb n\u1eefa c\u01a1. H\u1ecd d\u1ecb \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 run s\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i khi \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c, s\u1ef1 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i khi \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c ly h\u00f4n, v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1eb7t ni\u1ec1m tin l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i h\u01a1i th\u1edf c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n<\/a>, v\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang t\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 trung th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng n\u1eefa. H\u1ecd \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t th\u00edch th\u00fa v\u1edbi v\u1edf di\u1ec5n Jekyll & Hyde m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng h\u00f3a b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch cho nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1i sinh th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t chuy\u00ean gia t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n<\/a> v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00f2n vi\u1ebft h\u1ed3i k\u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c v\u1ef1c d\u1eady sau bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 \u1ea5y n\u1eefa. Ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 kh\u00e1c nhau. Ngo\u00e0i n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f2n c\u00f3 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n ch\u1ecdn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh ri\u00eang, tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean, v\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c th\u00f4ng d\u00e2m ph\u1ea3i k\u1ebft th\u00fac ra sao.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng nh\u01b0 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00ed m\u1eadt, m\u1ed9t l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ecba h\u1ed7n mang, n\u01a1i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt ra, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 h\u1eb3n hoi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft th\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eefng ngu\u1ed3n tin, c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u1ea9u chuy\u1ec7n. Nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1eddng thu\u1eadt n\u00e0y gi\u00fap ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1edf m\u1ed7i n\u01a1i kh\u00e1c nhau, c\u00e1i n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho l\u00e0 \u201cb\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d v\u00e0 k\u1ebft l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra cho v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh d\u00e0i \u0111\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1eb5ng c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ai tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c theo lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 n\u00e0y c\u1ea3. C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n c\u1ed1 \u00fd l\u00e0m sai lu\u1eadt n\u1eefa. Ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 m\u1ecdi lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh x\u1eed c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111ang tu\u00e2n theo \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao nhi\u00eau ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00d4ng Peggy Vaughan, ch\u1ee7 m\u1ed9t d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n<\/a> qua \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ea3o, \u201cKhi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta k\u1ec3 cho t\u00f4i nghe m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n nh\u1ecf c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, t\u00f4i ch\u1eb3ng c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea7n ti\u1ebfp theo l\u00e0 g\u00ec c\u1ea3. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bu\u1ed3n nghe cho k\u0129 c\u00e0ng v\u00ec d\u00f9 chi ti\u1ebft c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n ra sao th\u00ec c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u0169ng tr\u00e0o ra nh\u01b0 nhau c\u1ea3 th\u00f4i. Ch\u1eb3ng c\u1ea7n nghe c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft sau \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd s\u1ebd n\u00f3i g\u00ec.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u1ede M\u1ef9, m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a k\u1ecbch b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng khi ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh s\u1ebd n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng anh ta \u0111ang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u1edbi v\u1ee3. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap cho anh ta tr\u00e1nh b\u1ecb mang ti\u1ebfng b\u1eaft c\u00e1 hai tay v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i \u0111ang \u0111i t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. C\u00f2n \u1edf Trung Qu\u1ed1c, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng ca t\u1ee5ng v\u1ee3 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u1eb1m v\u1eeba ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef v\u1eeba v\u1ea1ch ra ranh gi\u1edbi trong quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u1eafp n\u01a1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 chung nh\u1eefng cung b\u1eadc c\u1ea3m x\u00fac nh\u01b0ng v\u0103n h\u00f3a s\u1ebd d\u1ea1y cho ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft n\u00ean b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p kh\u00e1c nhau nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o cho th\u1ecfa \u0111\u00e1ng. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef Nh\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i khi t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi r\u1eb1ng b\u00e0 ta c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i khi c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh hay kh\u00f4ng. T\u00f4i th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ph\u1ea3i l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi. R\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u201cc\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 t\u1ed9i\u201d kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 trong t\u1eeb \u0111i\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a b\u00e0, v\u00ec b\u00e0 cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng m\u1ecdi tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00f2n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng Ph\u00e1p l\u1ea1i s\u1eedng s\u1ed1t khi t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1eebng ph\u1ea3i \u0111i tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hai m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng v\u00ec \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 ng\u01b0ng ngay vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u khi g\u1eb7p ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn nay \u00f4ng \u0111ang r\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u n\u01a1i kh\u00e1c nhau tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y. Nh\u01b0ng cho d\u00f9 \u1edf nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn khoan dung cho vi\u1ec7c ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u00ec h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ai ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn c\u1ea3. V\u00e0 m\u1ed7i n\u01a1i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u kh\u00e1c nhau. T\u00f4i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u00e0i n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9 h\u00e0o h\u1ee9ng h\u1eb3n l\u00ean khi k\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 \u201ctuy\u00ean ng\u00f4n\u201d h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh th\u1ecb M\u1ef9, r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 x\u1ea3y ra gi\u1eefa ri\u00eang h\u1ecd cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi c\u1ea3 hai c\u00f9ng th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i lu\u00f4n ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean khi bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 khi \u0111ang y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1eabn \u0111\u0103ng th\u00f4ng tin c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00ean nh\u1eefng trang h\u00f2 h\u1eb9n tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean c\u00f9ng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t v\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed3ng. M\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 b\u00e1o tr\u00ean trang h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 match.com khuy\u00ean r\u1eb1ng, \u201c\u0111\u1eebng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 duy nh\u1ea5t n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.\u201d Khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y, \u201ch\u00e3y b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 kh\u00e1t khao c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 n\u00f3.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u0129 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0i n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng c\u00f3 phong c\u00e1ch \u201ch\u1eb9n h\u00f2 theo ki\u1ec3u M\u1ef9\u201d, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 trong th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fac. Nh\u01b0ng x\u00e9t cho c\u00f9ng, M\u1ef9 v\u1eabn l\u00e0 n\u01a1i c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng b\u1eaft c\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u tay k\u00e9o d\u00e0i nh\u1ea5t. C\u00f2n \u1edf nh\u1eefng n\u01b0\u1edbc kh\u00e1c, m\u1eb7c c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f4ng khai ch\u00fang ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng c\u1ea3. Bernard-Henri L\u00e9vy, m\u1ed9t tri\u1ebft gia Ph\u00e1p, t\u01b0\u1eddng thu\u1eadt l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u00f4ng nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi \u0111ang x\u1ebfp h\u00e0ng \u1edf s\u00e2n bay Washington D.C. gi\u1eefa m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i t\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n tr\u1ebb \u0111ang tranh lu\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecd v\u1eabn ch\u1ec9 \u0111ang h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 v\u1edb v\u1ea9n hay gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a \u201cquan h\u1ec7\u201d c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd b\u00e2y gi\u1edd l\u00e0 g\u00ec. Theo \u00f4ng th\u00ec \u201cc\u00e1ch h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 kh\u00f4ng theo ki\u1ec3u Ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho bu\u1ed5i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 \u1ea5y v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u1ec1 sau s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a hai con ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau nhau.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau \u201ctuy\u00ean ng\u00f4n\u201d \u1ea5y, chuy\u1ec7n d\u1ed1i l\u1eeba v\u1eabn x\u1ea3y ra kh\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i y\u00eau nhau (t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 n\u00e0y cao h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi khi \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n). M\u1ed7i b\u00ean t\u1ef1 \u1ea5n \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 trong m\u1ed9t hay hai th\u1eadp k\u1ec9. \u0110\u1ebfn khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecbu d\u1eebng ch\u00e2n l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xem l\u00e0 l\u00fac h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 c\u00e1n m\u1ee9c cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111ua t\u00ecnh \u00e1i. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 chung th\u1ee7y th\u00ec l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 kh\u00e1c. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u00fang ta c\u1eafn r\u0103ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 d\u1ed1i l\u1eeba trongsu\u1ed1t th\u1eddi gian y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng, nh\u01b0ng ai c\u0169ng tr\u00f4ng ch\u1edd s\u1ef1 chung th\u1ee7y c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng khi \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u01b0\u1eddng cho r\u1eb1ng, \u201c\u2019N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 anh \u1ea5y th\u1eadt t\u00ecnh y\u00eau t\u00f4i th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng m\u00e0ng h\u01b0\u1edbng \u00e1nh m\u1eaft th\u00e8m thu\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 hay m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 ng\u1ef1c n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c c\u1ea3. M\u1ed7i khi c\u00f3 \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng n\u00e0o d\u00e1m \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eaft \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00e1c trong nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng, v\u1ee3 anh ta s\u1ebd l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c nh\u1eb7ng x\u1ecb l\u00ean ngay.\u201d Diane Sollee, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c h\u00f4n l\u1ec5 chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p \u1edf Washington D.C. t\u00e2m s\u1ef1, \u201c\u1ede M\u1ef9, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng qu\u00e1 l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n, v\u00ec v\u1eady m\u1ecdi t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i x\u00e2m ph\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 l\u00fd do ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u1ea5t d\u1eabn t\u1edbi ly h\u00f4n.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ecb l\u00ean \u00e1n l\u00e0 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u00f2ng c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1eabn ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa. Nh\u00f3m nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc ch\u00ednh th\u1ed1ng lu\u00f4n kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n sai tr\u00e1i. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u c\u1eeda mi\u1ec7ng khi ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u0103m d\u00f2 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. \u0110\u1ebfn khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u00ec h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i \u0111i theo m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc kh\u00e1c: nh\u00f3m nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc kh\u00f4ng ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c. Th\u1ef1c ra m\u00e0 n\u00f3i, nh\u01b0 nh\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc James Farrer t\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng chung th\u1ee7y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u1ede M\u1ef9, m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n ho\u00e0n ch\u1ec9nh kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 h\u1eefu danh v\u00f4 th\u1ef1c m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. M\u1ed9t gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 \u1edf New Jersey, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh ly d\u1ecb c\u00f4 v\u1ee3 th\u1ee9 hai ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o nh\u01b0ng nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea1y theo ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh m\u1edbi, nh\u00ecn t\u00f4i b\u1eb1ng \u00e1nh m\u1eaft ng\u00e2y th\u01a1 v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 t\u1ed9i v\u00e0 v\u00f4 t\u01b0 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch, \u201ct\u00f4i c\u1ea7n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u1eadt s\u1ef1.\u201d M\u01b0u c\u1ea7u h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac hay m\u01b0u c\u1ea7u t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n hay \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ec7n minh cho vi\u1ec7c ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua s\u1ef1 c\u1eafn r\u1ee9t l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng chung th\u1ee7y, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft d\u1ef1ng chuy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n nh\u1eadp vai l\u00e0m cho c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ec3 th\u1eadt s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng. C\u00f3 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian ri\u00eang t\u01b0 cho m\u00ecnh hay kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u1edf b\u00ean nhau trong m\u1ecdi l\u00fac r\u1ea3nh r\u1ed7i? C\u00f3 d\u1ec5 t\u00ecm c\u00f4 tr\u00f4ng tr\u1ebb hay kh\u00f4ng? Nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda ph\u1ea3i r\u1ed9ng bao nhi\u00eau th\u00ec \u0111\u1ee7? Khi t\u00f4i \u1edf Moscow, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc gia<\/a> \u0111\u00ecnh cho t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi Nga s\u1ed1ng trong m\u1ed9t c\u0103n h\u1ed9 c\u00f3 hai ph\u00f2ng, m\u1ed9t ph\u00f2ng d\u00e0nh cho cha m\u1eb9, ph\u00f2ng c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i th\u00ec cho v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng l\u0169 tr\u1ebb. \u201cV\u1eady b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh ra sao r\u1ed3i… Trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y th\u00ec th\u00e0 ra ngo\u00e0i v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m c\u00f2n h\u01a1n l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00e3i c\u1ecd v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9,\u201d \u00f4ng b\u1ea3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u M\u1ef9 l\u1ea1i mi\u00eau t\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c – m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 khi vi\u1ec7c v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m b\u1ecb phanh phui c\u0169ng l\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ed3i k\u1ebft. H\u1ec7 l\u1ee5y th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 s\u1ef1 v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m g\u00e2y ra l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 gi\u00e0y v\u00f2 l\u00e0m lu m\u1edd m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o r\u00fat ch\u00e2n ra kh\u1ecfi t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y. Hai m\u01b0\u01a1i l\u0103m n\u0103m v\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc, Neil nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i b\u00e1o r\u1eb1ng v\u1ee3 \u00f4ng \u0111ang n\u1eb1m vi\u1ec7n. C\u00f4 b\u1ecb \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp, v\u00e0 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c c\u00e3i v\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra gi\u1eefa \u0111\u00f4i t\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n. L\u00fac \u1ea5y Neil \u0111ang ng\u1ea5p ngh\u00e9 b\u1ed1n m\u01b0\u01a1i v\u00e0 l\u00e0 ph\u00f3 gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c phi l\u1ee3i nhu\u1eadn \u1edf Baltimore, s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea5y l\u00ean trong l\u00f2ng \u00f4ng ta \u0111\u1ea7y ho\u00e0i nghi v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa h\u1ecd. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ngh\u1ec9 h\u00f2ng t\u00ecm ra s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt cu\u1ed1n \u00f4ng ta v\u00e0o \u201cc\u01a1n m\u00ea kinh ho\u00e0ng\u201d \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eadn ng\u00e0y nay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi t\u00f4i g\u1eb7p Neil t\u1ea1i ti\u1ec1n s\u1ea3nh m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 th\u1edd ngo\u1ea1i \u00f4 \u1edf Memphis, l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 \u00f4ng s\u00e1u m\u01b0\u01a1i b\u1ed1n tu\u1ed5i. \u00d4ng c\u00f3 d\u00e1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao r\u00e1o, l\u1ecbch thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t h\u00ecnh ch\u1eef \u0111i\u1ec1n. \u00d4ng th\u00edch b\u00f3ng r\u1ed5 v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi l\u0169 ch\u00e1u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng khi k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i chi ti\u1ebft c\u1ee7a chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh n\u00e0y, c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng t\u00e0n l\u1ee5i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u00e9t thanh l\u1ecbch qu\u00fd ph\u00e1i kia c\u0169ng v\u1ee5n v\u1ee1 \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u m\u1ea5t. Nh\u00ecn \u00f4ng ta l\u00fac n\u00e0y ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c khi Ward Cleaver[2]<\/sup><\/a> bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i cho s\u1ed1 m\u1ec7nh l\u00e0 m\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cKh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o – nghe t\u00f4i k\u1ec3 n\u00e0y – kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o tr\u00f4i qua m\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 ng\u1ee3i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y c\u1ea3. \u0110i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 vu v\u01a1 r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i ch\u0103m ch\u00fa l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e2u nh\u00e9. Kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1. N\u00f3 c\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0nh l\u00e0m l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh nh\u1ee9c nh\u1ed1i m\u00e3i v\u1eady \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o qu\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Neil l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh, \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf qua nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ed7i \u0111au kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n nh\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. \u00d4ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd r\u1eb1ng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00f2ng g\u00e2y ra b\u1edfi vi\u1ec7c v\u1ee3 \u00f4ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i l\u00e2u \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1eady. Ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y l\u1ea1. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m th\u00ec ai m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb s\u1ec9 nh\u1ee5c v\u00e0 c\u00f2n s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i n\u1eefa ch\u1ee9. Khi t\u00f4i t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean kh\u1eafp n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9 th\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ed1 truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec Neil, r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 \u0111au bu\u1ed3n v\u00e0 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. H\u1ecd ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng xung quanh. M\u1ed9t \u201cn\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n b\u1ecb l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i\u201d gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch \u201cN\u00f3 c\u01b0\u1edbp \u0111i qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i n\u1eefa. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i n\u00e0o l\u00e0 th\u1eadt, c\u00e1i n\u00e0o l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 n\u1eefa.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hi\u1ec7p h\u1ed9i Tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u T\u00e2m l\u00fd cho H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 Gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a M\u1ef9 c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o r\u1eb1ng \u201cPh\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng\/v\u1ee3 b\u1ecb l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i s\u1ebd gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng ti\u1ec1n c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, tr\u1ea7m u\u1ea5t m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n v\u1eeba tr\u1ea3i qua t\u1ea1i n\u1ea1n th\u1ea3m kh\u1ed1c g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i.\u201d M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng mi\u00eau t\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng nh\u01b0 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o v\u1ef1c th\u1eb3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ph\u00e9p \u1ea9n d\u1ee5 n\u00e0o m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ra. M\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ngo\u00e0i b\u1ed1n m\u01b0\u01a1i tu\u1ed5i s\u1ed1ng \u1edf Seattle b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng \u201cc\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c n\u00e0o th\u1ea3m h\u1ecda 11\/9, t\u1eebng t\u1ea7ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f2a nh\u00e0 l\u1ea7n l\u01b0\u1ee3t s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5.\u201d M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c vi\u1ebft tr\u00ean trang web t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f4 ta ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c n\u00e0o c\u01a1n \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ed3ng th\u1ee7y cu\u1ed1n tr\u00f4i m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n t\u01b0 tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2004 \u1edf ch\u00e2u \u00c1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jo Ann Lederman, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u t\u00e2m l\u00fd t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u1edf Miami vi\u1ebft trong chuy\u00ean m\u1ee5c tr\u00ean b\u00e1o m\u00e0 c\u00f4 ph\u1ee5 tr\u00e1ch: \u201cR\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef t\u1ecf ra m\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 v\u00ec h\u1ecd tin r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 h\u00f3a \u0111i\u00ean. Trong th\u1eddi k\u00ec n\u00e0y, s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh trong h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng th\u1ea7n kinh v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c.\u201d Lederman c\u00f2n k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n r\u1eb1ng \u201cC\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c n\u00e0y c\u00f2n \u0111au h\u01a1n khi m\u1ea5t con n\u1eefa. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u00e1c s\u0129 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o ngh\u0129 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n g\u00e2y ra n\u1ed7i \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn v\u00e0 gi\u00e0y v\u00f2 n\u00e0y c\u1ea3.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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H\u00d4N NH\u00c2N M\u1ed8T V\u1ee2 M\u1ed8T CH\u1ed2NG \u0111\u00e3 n\u1eb1m trong m\u00e1u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c Thanh Gi\u00e1o, t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u1edf thu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ecba c\u1ee7a M\u1ef9 v\u00e0o th\u1ebf k\u1ec9 17, n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng v\u1ec1 h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp gi\u1eefa c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang hay \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u00e0 x\u1eed t\u1ed9i ch\u1ebft d\u00e0nh cho nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed h\u1ecd c\u00f2n b\u1ecb b\u1eaft th\u00eau l\u00ean nh\u1eefng b\u1ed9 qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ch\u1eef hoa A (ho\u1eb7c AD)[3]<\/sup><\/a> \u0111\u1ec3 lu\u00f4n b\u1ecb nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft; nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t m\u00e0u c\u1ee7a ch\u1eef c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u h\u00e0 kh\u1eafc c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c quan t\u00f2a \u1edf Hester Prynne trong cu\u1ed1n ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft The Scarlet Letter (t\u1ef1a ti\u1ebfng Vi\u1ec7t: Ch\u1eef A m\u00e0u \u0111\u1ecf – ND) c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 v\u0103n Nathaniel Hawthorne. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c Thanh Gi\u00e1o l\u1ea1i theo \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a trong Kinh Th\u00e1nh, v\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea5u th\u00e0nh gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00ednh \u01b0\u1edbc ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. C\u00f2n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng l\u1ea7m l\u1ee1 th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 mang t\u1ed9i nh\u1eb9 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u201cth\u00f4ng d\u00e2m\u201d (ch\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c v\u1edbi nhau).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0o th\u1ebf k\u1ec9 18, khi t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh gi\u1eefa n\u01b0\u1edbc Anh v\u00e0 thu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ecba M\u1ef9 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, n\u01b0\u1edbc Anh b\u00e8n bi\u1ec7n h\u1ed9 cho s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f4 h\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa hai d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c nh\u01b0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. Nh\u01b0ng l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea5y l\u00ean m\u1ed9t l\u00e0n s\u00f3ng ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c d\u00e2n, h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng v\u1edbi Anh nh\u01b0 gi\u1eefa v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ebfn khi M\u1ef9 gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 c\u1ea7m quy\u1ec1n l\u1ea1i m\u01b0\u1ee3n m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u1ea9n d\u1ee5 l\u00ean h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c t\u1ef1 cai tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a n\u1ec1n c\u1ed9ng h\u00f2a m\u1edbi. Nh\u00e0 s\u1eed h\u1ecdc Nancy Cott c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Harvard \u0111\u00e3 mi\u00eau t\u1ea3 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 n\u00e9t trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi tuy\u00ean th\u1ec7 c\u00f4ng khai: L\u1ecbch s\u1eed c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u00e0 vi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng: \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 khai qu\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a M\u1ef9, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng cho t\u1ef1 do ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb. Trong c\u1ea3 hai l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c, m\u1ed7i b\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi b\u00ean kia v\u00e0 hai b\u00ean c\u00f9ng h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ee3i t\u1eeb m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f3. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, trong suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 khai qu\u1ed1c \u1ea5y, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ki\u1ec3u h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Duy ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1o C\u01a1 \u0110\u1ed1c: m\u1ed9t v\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed3ng, s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau \u0111\u1ebfn r\u0103ng long t\u00f3c b\u1ea1c m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u00e9p \u1ea9n d\u1ee5. Nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 khai qu\u1ed1c c\u00f2n tin r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng d\u00e2n t\u1ed1t. C\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng mang t\u1ea7m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng quan tr\u1ecdng trong su\u1ed1t th\u1eddi k\u00ec c\u00f2n l\u00e0 thu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ecba v\u00ec vua ch\u00faa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c to\u00e0n quy\u1ec1n h\u00e0nh x\u1eed. Nh\u01b0ng d\u01b0\u1edbi ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 d\u00e2n ch\u1ee7 th\u00ec d\u00f9 sao \u0111i n\u1eefa, l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n d\u00e2n n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9 v\u1eabn l\u00e0 c\u01a1 s\u1edf \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n vong c\u1ee7a qu\u1ed1c gia s\u1ebd t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n. Theo l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 d\u00e2n ch\u00fang l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb th\u1ed1i n\u00e1t v\u00e0 suy \u0111\u1ed3i v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c th\u00ec h\u1ecd ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd b\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 khai qu\u1ed1c c\u1ed5 v\u0169 cho h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u1edbi mong mu\u1ed1n thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9 th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh x\u1eed \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn. H\u1ecd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c b\u00e0 v\u1ee3 s\u1ebd ki\u1ec1m h\u00e3m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch b\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed3ng \u01b0\u01a1ng b\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ee9c \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng s\u1ebd d\u00f9ng quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef cho v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00fang theo l\u1ec1 l\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c. Nh\u1eefng tri\u1ebft gia ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb ti\u1ebfng t\u0103m ng\u00e0y \u1ea5y cho r\u1eb1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n s\u1ebd kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n s\u1ed1ng h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh v\u00ec l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng. \u00dd ki\u1ebfn n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u0103ng t\u1ea3i v\u1edbi v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft ca ng\u1ee3i v\u1ec1 l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau chung th\u1ee7y l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i. C\u00f2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea5y ra l\u00e0m nguy\u00ean m\u1eabu cho nh\u00e2n d\u00e2n n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9 noi theo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 l\u00e0m lu\u1eadt t\u1eeb thu\u1edf ban s\u01a1 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 cho m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n k\u1ebft h\u00f4n th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c. Ch\u00ednh ph\u1ee7 ban h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1o lu\u1eadt h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 nghi\u00eam c\u1ea5m m\u1ecdi h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c ngo\u00e0i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 th\u00f4ng d\u00e2m, quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi s\u00fac v\u1eadt\/quan h\u1ec7 qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1eadu m\u00f4n v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng t\u1ed9i tr\u1ea1ng nh\u01b0 \u201ct\u1ed9i th\u00f4ng d\u00e2m\u201d (quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c), \u201ct\u1ed9i d\u1ee5 d\u1ed7\u201d (l\u00f4i k\u00e9o v\u1ee3 b\u1ecf ch\u1ed3ng), v\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u00e1nh c\u1eafp t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d (c\u01b0\u1edbp m\u1ea5t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c) \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecb tr\u1eebng tr\u1ecb. Nh\u1eefng t\u1ed9i tr\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u g\u00e2y b\u1ea5t l\u1ee3i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng, v\u00ec theo lu\u1eadt th\u00ec c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh. Khi t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng quan h\u1ec7 ngo\u00e0i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u1eabn x\u1ea3y ra, v\u00e0o th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 19, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c bang \u0111\u1ec1u nghi\u00eam c\u1ea5m c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng ph\u00e1 thai v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh quy\u1ec1n li\u00ean bang c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p g\u1eedi c\u00e1c t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u \u201cv\u00f4 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c\u201d hay n\u00f3i r\u00f5 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 bao g\u1ed3m th\u00f4ng tin nh\u1eb1m kh\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebf vi\u1ec7c sinh n\u1edf, Cott \u0111\u00e3 ghi ch\u00e9p l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 20, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u00e1n ng\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec7u b\u1ed9 gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd \u0111oan trang ki\u1ec3u c\u00e1ch t\u1eeb th\u1eddi ho\u00e0ng h\u1eadu Victoria. Vi\u1ec7c kh\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebf sinh n\u1edf b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c thi \u1edf nhi\u1ec1u n\u01a1i, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ch\u00e2u \u00c2u \u0111a s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ec1u \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 c\u00f4ng khai, v\u00e0 tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc Freud gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra do nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y. B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea5y, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n r\u1ee5t r\u00e8 l\u00e3nh c\u1ea3m n\u1eefa, h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u cho r\u1eb1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i \u0111i k\u00e8m v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f2a \u00e1n, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi l\u00e0 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 l\u1ee3i \u00edch qu\u1ed1c gia, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u lo ng\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m bu\u00f4ng th\u1ea3 n\u00e0y. V\u00e0i ti\u1ec3u bang n\u00e2ng t\u1ea7m nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh t\u1ed9i tr\u1ea1ng v\u1edbi h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t t\u1ed1i \u0111a l\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn 5 n\u0103m t\u00f9 giam, v\u00e0 h\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa t\u1ed9i n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o kh\u1edfi t\u1ed1 theo b\u1ed9 lu\u1eadt D\u00e2n s\u1ef1. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 v\u1eady h\u1ecd c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i xu h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ec1n b\u1ea7u c\u1eed v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1920 v\u00e0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ea1o lu\u1eadt li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 l\u00e0 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecb b\u00e3i b\u1ecf.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Theo th\u1eddi gian, ch\u00ednh quy\u1ec1n M\u1ef9 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng n\u1edbi l\u1ecfng s\u1ef1 can thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng ri\u00eang t\u01b0. C\u01a1 quan qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea9m v\u00e0 d\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea9m Hoa K\u1ef3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p l\u01b0u h\u00e0nh thu\u1ed1c ng\u1eeba thai v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1960. T\u00f2a \u00e1n t\u1ed1i cao b\u00e3i b\u1ecf \u0111i\u1ec1u lu\u1eadt c\u1ea5m ph\u00e1 thai \u1edf c\u00e1c ti\u1ec3u bang v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1973. V\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u01b0\u1edbc quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t x\u1ea3y ra trong th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1eeb n\u0103m 1969 \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng n\u0103m 80 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c c\u00e1c ti\u1ec3u bang b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c thu\u1eadn t\u00ecnh ly h\u00f4n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n h\u1ee7y b\u1ecf h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u1ebfu c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. C\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ec1n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ed1ng kh\u1ee9 nh\u1eefng \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng th\u00edch m\u00e8o m\u1ee1 ra kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i c\u1eafn r\u0103ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 ly d\u1ecb tr\u00ean to\u00e0n n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9 t\u0103ng m\u1ea1nh t\u1eeb 2,6\/1000 ng\u01b0\u1eddi (n\u0103m 1967) l\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn 5,3\/1000 ng\u01b0\u1eddi (n\u0103m 1979), nh\u01b0ng sau \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u thuy\u00ean gi\u1ea3m. Quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f3 con hay kh\u00f4ng v\u00e0 v\u00e0o l\u00fac n\u00e0o; c\u1ea3 chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f3 ly d\u1ecb hay kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec1u t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, c\u00f2n ch\u00ednh quy\u1ec1n g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng can d\u1ef1 v\u00e0o n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ec1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c sinh n\u1edf v\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n th\u00ec ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb m\u1edbi. Quan h\u1ec7 ngo\u00e0i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a qu\u1ed1c gia nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u1eefa m\u00e0 tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec v\u1eady m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn n\u00f3 – ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, h\u1ecd c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u1eaft khe h\u01a1n. C\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y h\u1ecd c\u00e0ng cho r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda t\u1ed9i \u00e1c, m\u1edf ra cho bao nhi\u00eau hi\u1ec3m h\u1ecda kh\u00e1c. Nh\u01b0ng trong c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn m\u1edbi, nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3m h\u1ecda n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ec1n ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb m\u00e0 s\u1ebd \u1eadp l\u00ean gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a k\u1ebb ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh d\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng l\u00ean t\u1ed9i ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u1edf c\u00e1c ti\u1ec3u bang \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecb b\u00e3i b\u1ecf, nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9 mang t\u00ednh di t\u00edch v\u0103n h\u00f3a m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00dd ki\u1ebfn cho r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ed1 s\u00e2u bi k\u1ecbch cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u00f4-tu\u00fdp quen thu\u1ed9c trong c\u00e1c t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m \u0111i\u1ec7n \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a Hollywood. C\u00f2n trong nh\u1eefng v\u1edf k\u1ecbch, khi nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt ch\u00ednh ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, th\u00ec theo lu\u1eadt b\u1ea5t th\u00e0nh v\u0103n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ebft (kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 k\u1ebb ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh) \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 s\u00e1m h\u1ed1i t\u1ed9t c\u00f9ng cho k\u1ebb g\u00e2y ra h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i \u1ea5y v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ea1i di\u1ec7n cho \u00e1c qu\u1ef7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m ti\u00eau bi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 \u201cKh\u00f4ng chung th\u1ee7y\u201d (2002) \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb phim truy\u1ec7n Ph\u00e1p v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u1edf ngo\u1ea1i \u00f4 ch\u00ecm v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c t\u00ecnh say \u0111\u1eafm v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u00f4 t\u00ecnh c\u1edd g\u1eb7p tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng (s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt th\u00ec c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt ch\u00ednh n\u00ean th\u1eadt ra c\u00f4 ta kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh ch\u00fat n\u00e0o). Trong m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3nh phim, c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00eam v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat kh\u00e1n gi\u1ea3 M\u1ef9, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 b\u00e0n t\u00e1n v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i \u1edf qu\u1ea7y bar b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 hay bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta \u0111\u00e3 ng\u1ee7 v\u1edbi c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng n\u00e0y r\u1ed3i. M\u1ed9t trong s\u1ed1 h\u1ecd b\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f9a r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 s\u1ebd \u201cg\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u ngay t\u1eafp l\u1ef1\u201d n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 \u00f4ng ta th\u00edch m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ng\u1ee7 ngh\u00ea s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ti\u00eau khi\u1ec3n, ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c chuy\u1ec7n tham gia l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc l\u00e0m g\u1ed1m l\u00e0 m\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o r\u1eb1ng chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. \u201cKh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2u, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 ban \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u1ea3. Nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra th\u00f4i, m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t trong hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd n\u1ea3y sinh t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1eadt s\u1ef1, v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd k\u1ebft th\u00fac t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 cho m\u00e0 xem.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngay sau \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a vai n\u1eef ch\u00ednh, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha – m\u1ed9t doanh nh\u00e2n m\u1eabu m\u1ef1c, ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m v\u00e0 ra tay s\u00e1t h\u1ea1i t\u00ean t\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u00e1p \u1ea5y. Sau s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng h\u1ecd gi\u1ea3ng h\u00f2a v\u1edbi nhau nh\u01b0ng lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng trong s\u1ef1 lo \u00e2u th\u1ea5p th\u1ecfm b\u1ecb k\u1ebft t\u1ed9i s\u00e1t nh\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecb n\u1ed7i \u00e1m \u1ea3nh gi\u00e0y v\u00f2 th\u00f4i th\u00fac h\u1ecd \u0111i t\u1ef1 th\u00fa. D\u00f9 trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0o th\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh n\u00e0y c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 m\u00e3i m\u00e3i ph\u00e1 n\u00e1t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1ed1n d\u0129 y\u00ean b\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng ph\u00f2ng chat (chat room) tr\u00ean Internet, t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd c\u0169ng hay \u0111\u01b0a l\u00ean nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u1ecd \u0111\u0103ng l\u00ean r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 ta c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd ng\u1ee7 v\u1edbi anh \u1ea5y; ngay sau \u0111\u00f3 t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 n\u00e0y b\u1ecb d\u1ed9i h\u00e0ng lo\u1ea1t ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i – c\u00f3 v\u1ebb t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh – h\u1ecd c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c vui ch\u00f3ng v\u00e1nh n\u00e0y s\u1ebd ph\u00e1 n\u00e1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f4 ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cB\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng song t\u00ecnh n\u00e0y ch\u01b0a? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc k\u0129 ch\u01b0a? H\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ra sao trong 1, 2, 5, hay 10 n\u0103m n\u1eefa. Cu\u1ed9c phi\u00eau l\u01b0u t\u00ecnh \u00e1i n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn SU\u1ed0T \u0110\u1edcI b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea5y. Ch\u01b0a k\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n bi\u1ec7n minh, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh… Ngay c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi k\u1ebb th\u00f9 \u0111\u00e1ng gh\u00e9t nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7u mong h\u1eafn l\u00e2m v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e2u.\u201d M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c vi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u201cT\u00f4i th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 mong b\u1ea1n c\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9t m\u1ecdi li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi anh ch\u00e0ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m sau trong \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u0103m 1998, d\u00e2n M\u1ef9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t k\u1ecbch b\u1ea3n v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh tr\u00ean di\u1ec5n \u0111\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng khai nh\u1ea5t t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ebfn nay: nghi \u00e1n v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m c\u1ee7a t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng Bill Clinton. Phe \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp \u0110\u1ea3ng C\u1ed9ng H\u00f2a c\u1ee7a Clinton c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ecbnh quy \u00f4ng v\u00e0o t\u1ed9i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 ngo\u00e0i h\u00f4n th\u00fa v\u1edbi c\u00f4 th\u01b0 k\u00fd th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp 22 tu\u1ed5i Monica Lewinsky t\u1ea1i Nh\u00e0 Tr\u1eafng. T\u1ed9i tr\u1ea1ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n quy k\u1ebft v\u00e0o \u00f4ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 suy \u0111\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c \u201cn\u00f3i d\u1ed1i\u201d v\u00e0 t\u1ed9i n\u00e0y c\u0169ng li\u00ean h\u1ec7 m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi t\u1ed9i quan h\u1ec7 ngo\u00e0i gi\u00e1 th\u00fa \u1edf M\u1ef9. \u0110\u1ec3 k\u1ebft t\u1ed9i, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec1u tra \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eadp n\u00ean \u201cB\u00e1o c\u00e1o Starr\u201d d\u00e0y 445 trang, trong \u0111\u00f3 mi\u00eau t\u1ea3 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng m\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea7n v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m t\u00ecnh \u00e1i c\u1ee7a Clinton v\u00e0 Lewinsky, t\u1eeb l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f4ng ta tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y sau gi\u1edd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh ph\u1ee7 v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1995 \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd t\u1ea1i \u201cti\u1ec1n s\u1ea3nh kh\u00f4ng c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 ngo\u00e0i ph\u00f2ng s\u00e1ch\u201d c\u1ee7a Ph\u00f2ng B\u1ea7u d\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt v\u00e0 di\u1ec5n ti\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a \u201cB\u00e1o c\u00e1o Starr\u201d ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n d\u1ef1a theo k\u1ecbch b\u1ea3n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y \u1edf M\u1ef9. Lewinsky l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 mang tham v\u1ecdng thay th\u1ebf v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c, c\u00f2n Clinton l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng lu\u00f4n vun v\u00e9n th\u00eam cho kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng \u1ea5y h\u00f2ng d\u1ee5 d\u1ed7 c\u00f4 ta l\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. Trong b\u00e1o c\u00e1o c\u00f3 mi\u00eau t\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i r\u1eb1ng \u201cC\u00f3 l\u1ea7n t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng Clinton r\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3n sau v\u1edbi c\u00f4 Lewinsky r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 ly d\u1ecb sau khi r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi Nh\u00e0 Tr\u1eafng hay kh\u00f4ng n\u1eefa. \u00d4ng \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i l\u1ea5p l\u1eedng th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, \u201c[Ai] m\u00e0 bi\u1ebft chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra b\u1ed1n n\u0103m sau n\u1eefa khi t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u1edf v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng n\u00e0y c\u01a1 ch\u1ee9?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00e1o c\u00e1o Starr mi\u00eau t\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng quen thu\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt n\u1eef. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a Lewinsky thu\u1eadt l\u1ea1i r\u1eb1ng, \u201cN\u1ebfu [Lewinsky] mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i t\u00f4i th\u00ec h\u1eb3n c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng, \u2018\u1ed2, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i v\u00e0 d\u00e0nh cho t\u1edb bao \u0111i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t di\u1ec7u. L\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n g\u1eb7p t\u1edb c\u1ea3\u2019… L\u1ebd ra c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i th\u00eam m\u1eafm th\u00eam mu\u1ed1i v\u00e0o c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i than th\u1edf r\u1eb1ng, \u2018\u00d4ng \u1ea5y b\u1ea3o s\u1ebd g\u1ecdi t\u1edb nh\u01b0ng t\u1edb \u1edf nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee3i h\u1ebft cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ea5y t\u0103m h\u01a1i \u1ed5ng \u0111\u00e2u, m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 hai tu\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng g\u1ecdi r\u1ed3i.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vernon Jordan, m\u1ed9t lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 \u1edf Washington v\u00e0 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a Clinton, x\u00e1c th\u1ef1c r\u1eb1ng khi Lewinsky than phi\u1ec1n Clinton kh\u00f4ng g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i hay d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho c\u00f4 ta qu\u00e1 \u00edt th\u00ec, \u201c\u00f4ng \u1ea5y c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf Lewinsky nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng T\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 \u201cl\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi t\u1ef1 do\u2019 v\u00e0 c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m.\u201d Khi Clinton b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ebft h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1edbi Lewinsky th\u00ec c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng li\u1ec1n quay ngo\u1eaft th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t vai di\u1ec5n quen thu\u1ed9c kh\u00e1c: tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t m\u1ee5 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2i quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ec3 r\u00fat kh\u1ecfi quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u00e9 l\u1ed9 ra b\u00ed m\u1eadt nguy hi\u1ec3m n\u00e0o. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1i New York.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 thu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ea3ng D\u00e2n Ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a Clinton c\u0169ng c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn khi \u0111\u01b0a ra s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh t\u00edn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh sao cho h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nh\u00e2n t\u00ecnh th\u1ebf th\u00e1i. Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng ngh\u1ecb s\u0129 Robert Byrd, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao tu\u1ed5i nh\u1ea5t trong b\u1ed9 m\u00e1y ch\u00ednh quy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a mi\u1ec1n T\u00e2y Virginia, g\u1ecdi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a Clinton l\u00e0 \u201cm\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh \u0111\u00e1ng bu\u1ed3n\u201d. M\u1ed9t lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a Clinton bi\u1ec7n minh v\u1edbi \u1ee6y ban Ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt r\u1eb1ng chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m c\u1ee7a T\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 Lewinsky ch\u1ec9 \u1edf m\u1ee9c \u201ckhi\u1ec3n tr\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c\u201d. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi k\u1ecbch b\u1ea3n th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 Hillary, v\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a Clinton, v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng r\u1eddi b\u1ecf \u00f4ng ta, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0m d\u01b0 lu\u1eadn M\u1ef9 r\u1ea5t b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n. C\u00f2n Diane Sollee, m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n gia v\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u1edf Washington, k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i r\u1eb1ng trong su\u1ed1t phi\u00ean x\u1eed b\u00e0 b\u1ecb ph\u00f3ng vi\u00ean g\u1ecdi li\u00ean t\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t v\u1ea5t l\u00fd do l\u00e0m sao cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a Clinton v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ea3ng C\u1ed9ng H\u00f2a ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i Clinton qu\u00ean r\u1eb1ng chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh vi\u1ec7c c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. H\u1ecd mong m\u1ecfi qu\u1ed1c gia nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y theo c\u00e1ch c\u0169, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 t\u1eebng l\u00e0 hi\u1ec3m h\u1ecda cho s\u1ef1 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ea1 ngh\u1ecb s\u0129 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u1ed1ng k\u00ednh \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi nh\u1eefng b\u1ee9c th\u01b0 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb em c\u00f2n \u0111i h\u1ecdc c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb \u201ctan n\u00e1t c\u00f5i l\u00f2ng\u201d khi t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng l\u1eeba g\u1ea1t ch\u00fang. \u201cN\u1ebfu t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 hi\u1ec7p \u01b0\u1edbc th\u00e0nh t\u00edn v\u1edbi nh\u00e2n d\u00e2n M\u1ef9 th\u00ec \u00f4ng ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady n\u1eefa. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, ng\u00e0nh h\u00e0nh ph\u00e1p c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh ph\u1ee7 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng b\u1ed9 m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a qu\u1ed1c gia, m\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh t\u00edn th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ai tin v\u00e0o n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9 n\u1eefa,\u201d Henry Hyde, h\u1ea1 ngh\u1ecb s\u0129 thu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ea3ng C\u1ed9ng H\u00f2a \u1edf Illinois v\u00e0 t\u1eebng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u trong t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c x\u00e9t x\u1eed v\u1ee5 b\u00ea b\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn khi v\u1ee5 b\u00ea b\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n Hyde b\u1ecb v\u1ee1 l\u1edf th\u00ec \u00f4ng l\u1ea1i cho r\u1eb1ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. N\u0103m 1998, sau khi b\u1ecb trang web Salon.com l\u1eadt t\u1ea9y vi\u1ec7c Hyde \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng v\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh su\u1ed1t 5 n\u0103m v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 tr\u1ebb t\u00ean Cherie Snodgrass cu\u1ed1i nh\u1eefng n\u0103m 1960, l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 Hyde c\u0169ng \u0111ang c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f9ng 4 con nh\u1ecf. \u00d4ng ta bi\u1ec7n b\u1ea1ch r\u1eb1ng \u201cNh\u1eefng l\u1ea7m l\u1ea1c tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 qua l\u00e2u r\u1ed3i. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i v\u00e0 Cherie Snodgrass t\u1eebng l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y.\u201d Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt r\u1ea5t n\u1ef1c c\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 l\u00fac Hyde ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u00ec \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 41 tu\u1ed5i r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110a s\u1ed1 d\u00e2n M\u1ef9 l\u00fac \u1ea5y v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi quan ni\u1ec7m cho r\u1eb1ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. Ngay sau khi H\u1ea1 Ngh\u1ecb Vi\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t k\u1ebft t\u1ed9i Clinton th\u00ec t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a qu\u1ed1c gia v\u1edbi \u00f4ng ta t\u0103ng th\u00eam 10 \u0111i\u1ec3m, thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o m\u1ee9c cao nh\u1ea5t t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ebfn nay, l\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn 73% d\u1ef1a theo cu\u1ed9c th\u0103m d\u00f2 d\u01b0 lu\u1eadn qu\u1ea7n ch\u00fang c\u1ee7a Vi\u1ec7n Gallup tr\u00ean CNN. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea3ng C\u1ed9ng H\u00f2a l\u1ea1i lao d\u1ed1c m\u1ea5t 12 \u0111i\u1ec3m, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n 31%.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Clinton \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng k\u1ecbch b\u1ea3n t\u00e2n th\u1eddi h\u01a1n n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ed9c l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m l\u0103ng nh\u0103ng sau l\u01b0ng v\u1ee3. C\u00f3 v\u1ebb l\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i theo b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 Hi\u1ec7p h\u1ed9i T\u01b0 v\u1ea5n<\/a> H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 Gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a M\u1ef9 v\u1ea1ch ra. V\u00ec tr\u00ean website c\u1ee7a Hi\u1ec7p h\u1ed9i c\u00f3 vi\u1ebft, \u201c\u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i l\u00f2ng tin, t\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed3 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 khai b\u00e1o r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 t\u00ean c\u1ee7a k\u1ebb th\u1ee9 ba, c\u1ea3 chi ti\u1ebft nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 b\u00ed m\u1eadt v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.\u201d Sau \u0111\u00f3 k\u1ebb ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh n\u00ean \u201cnh\u1eadn h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m l\u0103ng nh\u0103ng v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho k\u1ebb th\u1ee9 ba, nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac hay c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, ho\u1eb7c \u00e1p l\u1ef1c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Clinton \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c theo t\u1eebng l\u1eddi t\u1eebng ch\u1eef m\u1ed9t. \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh n\u1eefa m\u00e0 th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m n\u00e0y. Sau \u0111\u00f3, tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m B\u00e1o c\u00e1o Starr ph\u00e1t h\u00e0nh, \u00f4ng t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i xin l\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 m\u00ecnh. \u201cT\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1ch ai ngo\u00e0i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh v\u00ec nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh g\u00e2y ra c\u1ea3.\u201d, \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u1edf<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Orlando, Floria. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ea3ng vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ea3ng D\u00e2n Ch\u1ee7 trong qu\u1ed1c h\u1ed9i tri\u1ec7u t\u1eadp m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp v\u1edbi Clinton ngay sau l\u1eddi th\u00fa t\u1ed9i n\u00e0y v\u00e0 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m. \u201c\u1ede \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang \u0111au kh\u1ed5 c\u00f9ng c\u1ef1c, c\u0103m h\u1eadn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng n\u00e0y cho ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y \u00f4ng \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng trong s\u1ef1 h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn, x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 v\u00e0 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng,\u201d m\u1ed9t h\u1ea1 ngh\u1ecb s\u0129 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ph\u00f3ng vi\u00ean nh\u01b0 v\u1eady sau cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp. \u201cT\u00f4i c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ta v\u00ec nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y ra cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh.\u201d Tr\u1edb tr\u00eau thay, nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh ti\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9 trong B\u00e1o c\u00e1o Starr n\u00e0y d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u1ea1i gi\u00fap cho d\u00e2n M\u1ef9 gi\u1ea3ng h\u00f2a v\u1edbi v\u1ecb t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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KH\u00d4NG C\u00d3 m\u1ed9t minh ch\u1ee9ng n\u00e0o cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi chung th\u1ee7y s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u00e1c s\u0129, ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n c\u1ea3. T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng n\u00e0o cho th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh s\u1ebd th\u1ee5t k\u00e9t nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi, hay n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, ho\u1eb7c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed3i tr\u1ee5y h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi chung th\u1ee7y c\u1ea3. Theo nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft th\u00ec gi\u00e1 c\u1ed5 phi\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh ng\u1ee7 v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn nhau. C\u00f3 v\u1ebb chuy\u1ec7n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c ch\u00f2m sao n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ednh l\u0103ng nh\u0103ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i h\u01b0 t\u1eadt x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 minh ch\u1ee9ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o. V\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n c\u00e1c t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng gi\u1ecfi hay d\u1edf th\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u0103ng nh\u0103ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh qu\u00e1 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c cho n\u00ean n\u00f3 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh l\u00e0m cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t khi chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra. V\u00e0i th\u00e1ng sau khi g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t Kevin v\u00e0 April t\u00f4i c\u00f3 g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i h\u1ecfi th\u0103m h\u1ecd. L\u00fac \u1ea5y April \u0111ang \u1edf nh\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. C\u00f4 b\u1ea3o m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n kh\u00e1 t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u0111ang ch\u00ecm ng\u1eadp gi\u1eefa \u0111\u00e1m l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp trong phim \u1ea3nh. Trong m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n l\u1ee5c l\u1ecdi v\u00ed c\u1ee7a April nh\u01b0 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ec7, Kevin ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra b\u1ee9c email c\u1ee7a John, nh\u00e2n t\u00ecnh c\u0169 c\u1ee7a April. Trong th\u01b0, John b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng anh ta \u0111ang g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1eb7p April tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. April th\u00ec b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 gi\u1eef b\u1ee9c email trong v\u00ed v\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i che gi\u1ea5u c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft April bu\u1ed9t mi\u1ec7ng n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady hay c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh khi\u00eau kh\u00edch ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa. Nh\u01b0ng cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0o \u0111i n\u1eefa th\u00ec theo April k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i, l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 Kevin li\u1ec1n l\u00f4i s\u00fang ra \u0111\u1ecbnh lao \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 John. Khi gi\u1eb1ng co \u0111\u1ec3 ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0, Kevin n\u1eafm ch\u1eb7t tay April \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i l\u00e0m c\u00f4 \u1ea5y b\u1ecb th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Nh\u01b0ng Kevin ra \u0111\u1ebfn ga-ra th\u00ec April \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ecbp g\u1ecdi c\u1ea3nh s\u00e1t. Sau \u0111\u00f3 \u00f4ng ta b\u1ecb b\u1eaft giam v\u00e0 b\u1ecb ng\u1ed3i t\u00f9 trong nhi\u1ec1u gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

April v\u00e0 Kevin \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t 15.000 USD ph\u00ed t\u1ea1i ngo\u1ea1i, c\u00f2n lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 c\u1ee7a Kevin th\u00ec y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u00f4ng cung c\u1ea5p nh\u1eefng b\u1ee9c email hay b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 gi\u1ea5y t\u1edd g\u00ec v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m c\u1ee7a April nh\u1eb1m l\u00e0m b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng ra t\u00f2a. \u0110\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh th\u1ee7 t\u1ee5c ch\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t v\u00e0i th\u00e1ng, trong khi \u0111\u00f3 Kevin ng\u1ed3i l\u1ef3 \u1edf nh\u00e0, t\u1ef1 gi\u00e0y v\u00f2 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn khi n\u00e0o m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui. \u201c2 tu\u1ea7n r\u1ed3i, t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n l\u00e0 l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh,\u201d April b\u1ea3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

April r\u1ea5t h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u00ec nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra v\u00e0 trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m v\u1eabn ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00eam \u00e1m \u1ea3nh \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0m c\u00f4 qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t r\u1eb1ng: t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 v\u00e0 Kevin c\u0169ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. Kevin t\u1eebng k\u1ec3 v\u1edbi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng v\u00e0 April b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 sau khi \u00f4ng ly h\u00f4n ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 th\u1ee9 hai, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb l\u00e0 Kevin c\u0169ng l\u00e0 k\u1ebb d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1 trong t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

April b\u1ea3o: \u201c\u00d4ng \u1ea5y c\u1ee9 lu\u00f4n mi\u1ec7ng h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n r\u1eb1ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0m th\u1ee7 t\u1ee5c ly d\u1ecb v\u1edbi v\u1ee3, nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u1ee9 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i trong m\u1eadp m\u1edd su\u1ed1t 3 n\u0103m li\u1ec1n. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1eadp c\u1eeda nh\u00e0 t\u00f4i v\u00e0 m\u1eafng th\u1eb3ng r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i l\u00e0 con h\u1ed3 ly tinh kh\u1ed1n ki\u1ebfp m\u00e0.\u201d Theo April cho bi\u1ebft th\u00ec Kevin c\u0169ng t\u1eebng l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng v\u1ea1ch ra nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng x\u1ea5u xa t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 gi\u1eefa h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m cho Kevin c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ngu\u00f4i ngoai ch\u00fat n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f4 g\u00e2y ra cho \u00f4ng. \u201c\u00d4ng \u1ea5y b\u1ea3o v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m v\u1edbi t\u00f4i v\u00ec \u00f4ng \u1ea5y y\u00eau t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i b\u1ea3o \u2018Nh\u01b0ng t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau nhau \u0111\u00e2u.\u2019\u201d April n\u00f3i. \u201c\u00d4ng \u1ea5y b\u1ea3o gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y khi n\u1ebfm tr\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u0111au m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111em \u0111\u1ebfn cho m\u00ecnh th\u00ec m\u1edbi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u00ec nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ee9t b\u1ecf.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: Gi\u1ea3i m\u00e3 d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng – Pamela Druckerman Xin th\u01b0a c\u00f9ng qu\u00fd v\u1ecb chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a April. Th\u1eadt ra chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac t\u1eeb hai n\u0103m v\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m duy nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng chung th\u1ee7y trong su\u1ed1t hai m\u01b0\u01a1i n\u0103m s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16467","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tam-ly"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16467","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16467"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16467\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16468,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16467\/revisions\/16468"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16467"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16467"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16467"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}