T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: Gi\u1ea3i m\u00e3 d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng – Pamela Druckerman<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu\u1ed5i ra m\u1eaft H\u1ed9i ngh\u1ecb H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n S\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t \u1edf Dallas \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t v\u0169 h\u1ed9i. Trong kh\u00e1n ph\u00f2ng r\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 s\u00e2n b\u00f3ng, ban ch\u1ee7 qu\u1ea3n h\u00f2 h\u00e9t v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch c\u1ee9u v\u00e3n h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n trong b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed r\u1ed9n vang ti\u1ebfng nh\u1ea1c M\u00ea-hi-c\u00f4. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i l\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p \u00e1nh m\u1eaft v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean b\u00e1n h\u00e0ng n\u00e0o, h\u1ecd li\u1ec1n v\u1ed3 v\u1eadp t\u1edbi d\u00fai t\u1edd qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o v\u00e0 \u0111\u0129a CD v\u00e0o tay t\u00f4i r\u1ed3i v\u1ed9i v\u00e3 tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 v\u1ecb tr\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cCh\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 quy tr\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng, trong \u0111\u00f3 bao g\u1ed3m ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c t\u1ef1 suy x\u00e9t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, ngo\u00e0i ra c\u00f2n c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u c\u1ea3m, v\u00ec v\u1eady b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1eafn k\u1ebft h\u01a1n v\u1edbi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb,\u201d ti\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a Trung t\u00e2m Quan h\u1ec7 Qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf Imago oang oang qua loa ph\u00f3ng thanh. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00ec mu\u1ed1n d\u1ea1y t\u00f4i \u201cL\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea5y nh\u1ea7m m\u1ed9t t\u00ean kh\u1ed1n\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cL\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 vui v\u1ebb b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n m\u1edbi t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n.\u201d V\u00e0i nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean b\u00e1n h\u00e0ng l\u00e0 chuy\u00ean gia<\/a> t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1eb3n hoi, s\u1ed1 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 c\u00e1c ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129 h\u00e0i \u0111\u1ed9c tho\u1ea1i hay c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n<\/a> qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd \u0111ang d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n v\u00e0o l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ecba c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110\u1ebfn khi t\u1eadn m\u1eaft ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u n\u00e0y t\u00f4i m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n n\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 m\u1edbi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t n\u0103m, nh\u01b0ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i m\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u1ef1u nh\u00e0 v\u0103n chuy\u00ean vi\u1ebft h\u00e0i k\u1ecbch t\u00ecnh th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 \u201ckh\u01a1i d\u1eady\u201d l\u1ea1i \u201cph\u1ea7n tri th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh hay t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u 2 ng\u00e0y tr\u1eddi v\u1ec1 \u201cl\u1edbp h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n m\u1ed9t v\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ea5p t\u1ed1c\u201d th\u00ec th\u1eadt l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 ng\u00e1n ng\u1ea9m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n H\u00e0ng t\u00e1 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u trong l\u1ec5 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n trong kh\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ee3p k\u1ef9 ngh\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a M\u1ef9, ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00fac k\u1ebft l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh, nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 gi\u00fap b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, v\u00e0 t\u1eeb h\u01a1n ch\u1ee5c ng\u00e0n c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n<\/a> h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Ngo\u00e0i ra c\u00f2n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng nh\u00f3m h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb c\u1eafm s\u1eebng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u201ccon nghi\u1ec7n sex\u201d; c\u00e1c website cho nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd; nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i tinh th\u1ea7n cho n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00ec h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh; v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh gi\u00fap t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i m\u1edbi nh\u01b0 c\u1ee7a Trung t\u00e2m Ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i sau chuy\u1ec7n y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1edf Austin, Texas. Nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 qu\u1ea3n n\u00e0y truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t l\u1ea1i k\u1ecbch b\u1ea3n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9 b\u1eb1ng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng: C\u1ea9n th\u1eadn. \u0110\u1eebng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Trong bu\u1ed5i t\u1ecda \u0111\u00e0m v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t, c\u00e1c qu\u1ea7y th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u1edf d\u00e3y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean tr\u00ean l\u1ed1i v\u00e0o s\u1ea3nh t\u1ea5p n\u1eadp to\u00e0n d\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecba \u1ed1c c\u00f3 m\u00e1u m\u1eb7t. Anne v\u00e0 Brian Bercht, c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o kinh t\u1ebf v\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ea7u x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng, c\u0169ng \u0111ang qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o cho cu\u1ed1n t\u1ef1 truy\u1ec7n m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh mang t\u1ef1a \u0111\u1ec1 Chuy\u1ec7n l\u0103ng nh\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng l\u1ea1i h\u00f3a th\u00e0nh \u0110i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn cho t\u00f4i. Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap cho Brian \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m kh\u00e1ch m\u1eddi trong Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a Oprah Winfrey v\u00e0 \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho h\u1ecd c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00e1t ng\u00f4n kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 tinh th\u1ea7n trong c\u00e1c ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, quan h\u1ec7 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y, th\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ea1o. Michele Weiner-Davis hi\u1ec7n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i nh\u01b0ng \u1edf qu\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a c\u00f4, nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ee3 l\u00fd \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c xu\u00f4i v\u1edbi bi\u1ebft bao c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. C\u00f4 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nh\u1edb nh\u01b0 in c\u00e1i kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc khi c\u00f4 ngh\u0129 ra t\u00ean g\u1ecdi cho ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u quan h\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u201cL\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i \u0111ang l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng, \u0111\u1ed9 nhi\u00ean \u00fd ngh\u0129 \u1ea5y ch\u1ee3t l\u00f3e l\u00ean, \u2018\u0110\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ea3o li d\u1ecb, \u00e0, ph\u1ea3i r\u1ed3i, \u0110\u1ea3 ph\u00e1 li d\u1ecb!\u2019\u201d c\u00f4 m\u01b0\u1eddng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u1ea1i. \u201cGi\u00e2y ph\u00fat \u1ea5y t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1eadn m\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.\u201d Kh\u00f4ng l\u00e2u sau \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0i ph\u00f3ng vi\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn tham d\u1ef1 bu\u1ed5i t\u1ecda \u0111\u00e0m v\u1edbi ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 \u201c\u0110\u1ea3 ph\u00e1 li d\u1ecb\u201d c\u1ee7a c\u00f4. Ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n s\u00e1ch v\u00e0 tham d\u1ef1 c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh tr\u00ean truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh. Gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i 52, Weiner-Davis d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t v\u01b0\u01a1ng qu\u1ed1c nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u t\u1ef1a s\u00e1ch, c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n<\/a> v\u00e0 l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00e1t ng\u00f4n trong c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n tr\u00ean to\u00e0n qu\u1ed1c. H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ea7y c\u01b0\u01a1ng quy\u1ebft v\u00e0 l\u1ea1c quan c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean website ri\u00eang. C\u00e2u ch\u00e2m ng\u00f4n c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u v\u00e3n, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 tr\u1ea3i qua s\u00f3ng gi\u00f3 c\u1ee7a ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh hay m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t trong hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n vun v\u00e9n l\u1ea1i n\u00f3. Theo c\u00f4, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi l\u1ea1c l\u1ed1i th\u00ec b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i h\u00e0nh x\u1eed th\u1eadt t\u1ef1 tin thay v\u00ec gi\u00e0y v\u00f2 \u0111au kh\u1ed5. Tr\u00ean b\u00eca cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0110\u1ea3 ph\u00e1 li d\u1ecb c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 c\u00f2n in c\u1ea3 d\u00f2ng ch\u1eef \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y s\u1ebd c\u00f3 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 trong v\u00f2ng 1 th\u00e1ng. C\u00f4 cho bi\u1ebft, \u201cTh\u1ef1c t\u1ebf h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111ang c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 l\u0103ng nh\u0103ng c\u1ea3.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 kinh doanh tr\u00ean quan h\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a M\u1ef9 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 lu\u00f4n t\u1ecf ra quan t\u00e2m gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt ra h\u1ecd \u0111ang ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n c\u1ea3 th\u00f4i. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 li\u00ean h\u1ee3p qu\u00e2n s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 chi\u1ebfn tranh \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, li\u00ean h\u1ee3p k\u1ef9 ngh\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng chuy\u00ean gia<\/a> v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t n\u00e0y. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf M\u1ef9 suy ngh\u0129 gi\u1ed1ng th\u1eddi c\u0169 hay h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft d\u00e2n ch\u00fang \u1edf c\u00e1c n\u01b0\u1edbc kh\u00e1c cho r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y th\u00ec m\u1ea5y tay kinh doanh \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ea3 r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Li\u00ean h\u1ee3p k\u1ef9 ngh\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng r\u1ef1c r\u1ee1 m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 d\u00e2n M\u1ef9 v\u1eabn nh\u1ea1o b\u00e1ng nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd thu\u00ea m\u1ed9t \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n<\/a> t\u1eeb xa\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1ed3i nh\u00e9t v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea7u m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi v\u00e0ng ng\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a li\u00ean h\u1ee3p k\u1ef9 ngh\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ch\u1eb3ng c\u1ea7n quan t\u00e2m xu\u1ea5t x\u1ee9 ng\u1ecdn ng\u00e0nh t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u. D\u00f9 v\u1eady t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2y d\u00e2n M\u1ef9 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, ch\u1ecbu nghe t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n<\/a>, ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ho\u1eb7c tham gia nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i t\u1ecda \u0111\u00e0m v\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u d\u00e0i h\u1ea1n (c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi). Ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0y qua c\u00e1c b\u00e0i b\u00e1o, ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u1eebng ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u1ec1 quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n tin r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea7n chia s\u1ebb sau khi b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec li\u00ean h\u1ee3p k\u1ef9 ngh\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5m nhu\u1ea7n v\u00e0o trong \u00fd ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n ANGELA \u0111ang quan s\u00e1t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n gi\u1eefa t\u00f4i v\u00e0 Hank – ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f4. Hay n\u00f3i ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c h\u01a1n l\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u0111ang ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m canh ch\u1eebng. Angela ch\u1ec9 cho ph\u00e9p t\u00f4i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f4 khi c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t c\u00f4. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u c\u00f4 s\u1ee3 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f4 hay th\u1eadt ra ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n n\u1eafm b\u1eaft m\u1ecdi chi ti\u1ebft c\u1ee7a c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, c\u00f4 \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i chen gi\u1eefa t\u00f4i v\u00e0 Hank tr\u00ean sofa v\u00e0 th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng cho\u00e0ng tay \u00f4m l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hank n\u0103m nay 52 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 quy\u1ebfn r\u0169. Anh c\u00f3 d\u00e1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t h\u1eadu v\u1ec7 b\u00f3ng b\u1ea7u d\u1ee5c nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i c\u01b0 x\u1eed r\u1ea5t nh\u00e3 nh\u1eb7n v\u00e0 l\u00e0 tu\u00fdp ng\u01b0\u1eddi vui v\u1ebb tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eddi \u0111i l\u00e0m v\u00e0i c\u1ed1c bia. Nh\u01b0ng r\u1ea5t ti\u1ebfc vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra n\u1eefa v\u00ec Hank \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf h\u1eb3n bia r\u01b0\u1ee3u, ng\u1eb7t n\u1ed7i, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec anh cai m\u00e0 v\u00ec anh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed3 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u0111ang s\u00e1m h\u1ed1i. Anh th\u1ed5 l\u1ed9, \u201cT\u00f4i s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i mang c\u00e1i t\u1ed9i danh l\u0103ng nh\u0103ng n\u00e0y c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi m\u1ea5t th\u00f4i.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hank c\u00f2n nh\u1edb r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 ch\u1ed7 m\u00ecnh t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ee9ng \u1edf s\u00e2n bay Pittsburgh \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 l\u01b0u l\u1ea1i tin nh\u1eafn v\u00e0o h\u1ed9p th\u01b0 tho\u1ea1i, nh\u01b0ng thay v\u00ec g\u1ecdi t\u00ean v\u1ee3, anh l\u1ea1i nh\u1ea7m sang t\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi anh \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eadt sang trang m\u1edbi, anh \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t ch\u1ee9c Gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c kinh doanh v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c t\u00e1i sinh c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Angela tr\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eaby \u0111\u00e0 nh\u01b0ng xinh x\u1eafn v\u1edbi m\u00e1i t\u00f3c n\u00e2u l\u01b0\u1ee3n s\u00f3ng, c\u00f4 n\u0103m nay 46 tu\u1ed5i. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u1ed5n m\u00e0 theo l\u1eddi c\u00f4 k\u1ec3 th\u00ec d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ea5ng T\u1ed1i Cao \u201cth\u00fac gi\u1ee5c\u201dm\u00ecnh. \u201cT\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n Ch\u00faa h\u00e3y cho t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t h\u00e3y b\u00e1o cho t\u00f4i qua m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qua \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng sau c\u00fa \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i oan nghi\u1ec7t \u1ea5y, Hank tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 c\u0103n nh\u00e0 \u1edf v\u00f9ng ven Atlanta v\u00e0 th\u00fa nh\u1eadn m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi Angela trong ph\u00f2ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Chuy\u1ec7n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o ngo\u00e0i th\u1ecb tr\u1ea5n, Hank n\u1ed1i l\u1ea1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi c\u00f4 b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i c\u0169 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c cho c\u00f4ng ty c\u1ee7a anh. \u201cChuy\u1ec7n l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e2u sau khi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u01b0\u1edbi nhau. Trong cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ham mu\u1ed1n t\u1ed9t c\u00f9ng v\u00e0\u2026 \u0111\u00eam \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i Angela.\u201d D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 chuy\u1ec7n ch\u1ec9 x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n trong \u0111\u00eam \u1ea5y, nh\u01b0ng t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng kh\u1eafng kh\u00edt h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n M\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng sau \u0111\u00f3, trong khi Angela c\u00f9ng nghe \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i, Hank g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ec3 chia tay v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kia. Angela c\u00f2n nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, \u201cC\u00f4 ta th\u00ec b\u1ea3o, \u2018T\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.\u2019 C\u00f2n anh \u1ea5y th\u00ec c\u1ee9 nh\u1eafc \u0111i nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i r\u1eb1ng anh r\u1ea5t y\u00eau t\u00f4i v\u00e0 s\u1ebd \u1edf l\u1ea1i b\u00ean t\u00f4i.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hank kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf vi\u1ec7c th\u00fa nh\u1eadn v\u1edbi Angela m\u00e0 c\u00f2n k\u1ec3 cho \u201ch\u1ed9i anh em b\u1ea1n b\u00e8\u201d v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ecb \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u trong nh\u00e0 th\u1edd c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y. H\u1ecd s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp cho anh g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebb chia\u201d – m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u1ea3n gi\u00e1o nh\u1eefng t\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed3 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh – \u00f4ng n\u00e0y gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u cho Hank \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea1i lo\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 T\u00ednh b\u1ea3n thi\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi kh\u1eafc c\u1ee7a c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 .<\/p>\n\n\n\n Trong khi Hank nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 th\u00ec Angela l\u1ea1i r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i r\u1ed1i b\u1eddi. Th\u1eadt ra ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169 c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 c\u0169ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a Hank \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u1eb7t l\u1edbn trong \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f4. Tr\u00ean h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u0111i t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd, c\u00f4 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ecdc ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea r\u1eb1ng 92 ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m d\u00e2n M\u1ef9 n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i. Th\u00eam v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, m\u1eb9 c\u00f4 c\u0169ng t\u1eebng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 c\u0169ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5 trong c\u00f4. C\u00f4 ngao ng\u00e1n, \u201cTr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y trong m\u1eaft t\u00f4i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u m\u00e0u h\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 kh\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n L\u00fac \u1ea5y nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap \u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec. Nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m sau l\u1ea7m l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a Hank, Angela v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u1ed7i \u0111au v\u00e0 mong r\u1eb1ng \u201cCh\u00faa h\u00e3y ban cho m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f2ng t\u00f4i\u201d. Sau \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f4 l\u00ean m\u1ea1ng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm v\u1ec1 \u201cv\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh\u201d th\u00ec b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p trang web c\u1ee7a Peggy Vaughan, c\u00f4 cho bi\u1ebft, \u201cT\u00f4i nh\u01b0 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ed1i tho\u00e1t t\u1eeb l\u00fac t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y trang web c\u1ee7a Peggy\u201d. C\u00f4 l\u1eafng nghe 90 ph\u00fat t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n qua \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i t\u1eeb Vaughan v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t mua t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u00e0. T\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a Angela b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed3i ph\u1ee5c t\u1eeb ng\u00e0y \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Peggy Vaughan l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef 69 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00ean ch\u1ee9c b\u00e0, hi\u1ec7n s\u1ed1ng \u1edf San Diego. B\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh cho s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i t\u00e2m l\u00fd nh\u1eefng n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. Th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ra r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t tu\u00fdp ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng ng\u01a1i ngh\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u1edf n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng, c\u1ee9 \u0111\u00fang 6 gi\u1edd l\u00e0 b\u00e0 th\u1ee9c d\u1eady tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi email t\u1eeb c\u00e1c bang thu\u1ed9c mi\u1ec1n \u0110\u00f4ng duy\u00ean h\u1ea3i n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9 (East Coast), th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi t\u00e2m th\u01b0 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang \u1edf trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ed3i ph\u1ee5c sau bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Th\u1eadt ra Vaughan ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 qua tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1edbp tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u g\u00ec c\u1ea3, nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u00e0 n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec1u r\u00fat ra t\u1eeb kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. V\u00e0o n\u0103m 1974, James – ch\u1ed3ng b\u00e0 th\u00fa nh\u1eadn t\u1eebng qua l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00e1c su\u1ed1t b\u1ea3y n\u0103m tr\u1eddi. B\u00e0 k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i l\u00e8 nh\u00e8 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi mi\u1ec1n Nam n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y: \u201cL\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tin chuy\u1ec7n \u1ea5y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, v\u00ec n\u1ebfu v\u1eady, h\u1eb3n t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i ly d\u1ecb \u00f4ng ta v\u00e0 tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 \u1edf Mississippi r\u1ed3i.\u201d Nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng nh\u00e0 Vaughan \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng cho nh\u1eefng n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. H\u1ecd c\u00f9ng nhau ph\u00e1t h\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1980, trong \u0111\u00f3 qu\u1ea3 quy\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n \u00e1n t\u1eed h\u00ecnh cho h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Sau h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m l\u1ea7n xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh, Vaughan ph\u00e1t h\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng b\u1ea3n tin \u0111\u1ecbnh k\u00ec v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e3 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh M\u1ea1ng l\u01b0\u1edbi V\u01b0\u1ee3t qua Nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh (Beyond Affairs Network), hay ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c h\u01a1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb c\u1eafm s\u1eebng v\u00e0 ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh c\u00f3 chi nh\u00e1nh \u1edf kh\u1eafp 28 ti\u1ec3u bang. Vaughan cho r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i d\u00e0nh \u201ch\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra. B\u00e0 gi\u00fap Angela hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f4 b\u1ecb m\u1eafc ch\u1ee9ng b\u1ec7nh kh\u00e1t khao c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. \u201cN\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ef1 y\u00eau b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e1ng. M\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1eb1m t\u1ef1 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n. \u0110\u1ea1i lo\u1ea1i gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i thu\u1ed1c phi\u1ec7n v\u1eady,\u201d Angela n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Vaughan tin r\u1eb1ng t\u1ec7 n\u1ea1n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 lan tr\u00e0n kh\u1eafp n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9. B\u00e0 d\u1eabn ch\u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i c\u00e1c th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea v\u1ec1 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a Kinsey v\u00e0 cho r\u1eb1ng 80% con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, con s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y cao g\u1ea5p \u0111\u00f4i so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng con s\u1ed1 th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea khoa h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady kh\u00e1c. M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, b\u00e0 cho r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed v\u00e0 phim \u1ea3nh \u0111\u00e3 t\u00e1n d\u01b0\u01a1ng chuy\u1ec7n l\u0103ng nh\u0103ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n l\u00e0m ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh chuy\u1ec7n nh\u1ecf. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t khi chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t h\u1ed5 th\u1eb9n khi th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb c\u1eafm s\u1eebng, tr\u1edf n\u00ean phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 c\u00f4 l\u1eadp m\u00ecnh h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Peggy l\u00fac n\u00e0y tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh tia s\u00e1ng d\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng cho nh\u1eefng linh h\u1ed3n l\u1ea1c l\u1ed1i. Trong m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i thuy\u1ebft gi\u1ea3ng t\u1ea1i Dallas, b\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t d\u00f2ng nh\u1ecf trong nh\u1eefng t\u1ea5m thi\u1ec7p ch\u00fac m\u1eebng nh\u1eb1m ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m l\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u1ed3 b\u1ea9n th\u1ec9u\u201d v\u00e0 v\u00ec v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng ai n\u00ean \u0111\u00f9a gi\u1ee1n v\u1edbi quan h\u1ec7 b\u1eaft c\u00e1 hai tay n\u00e0y. C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng t\u1ea5m thi\u1ec7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u0103ng t\u1ea3i tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t t\u1edd b\u00e1o \u1edf Bethesda v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c truy\u1ec1n b\u00e1 r\u1ed9ng r\u00e3i qua Internet gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa g\u00e2y s\u1ed1c cho h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. C\u00f2n t\u1edd b\u00e1o th\u00ec ph\u00e1t h\u00e0nh ngay m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00edch d\u1eabn l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt ra nh\u1eefng t\u1ea5m thi\u1ec7p n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u00e1n t\u1ee5ng cho vi\u1ec7c ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m d\u00e0nh g\u1eedi v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng d\u1ecbp ngh\u1ec9 l\u1ec5 c\u00f3 d\u00f2ng \u201cKhi \u0111ang qu\u00e2y qu\u1ea7n c\u00f9ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, anh s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 em.\u201d M\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m kh\u00e1c d\u00e0nh g\u1eedi cho b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p vi\u1ebft \u201cEm t\u1eebng lu\u00f4n tr\u00f4ng ng\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y ngh\u1ec9 cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n, nh\u01b0ng t\u1eeb khi g\u1eb7p anh, nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n l\u1ea1i c\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 d\u00e0i \u0111\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1eb5ng.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n V\u00c0O N\u0102M 1970 \u1edf M\u1ef9 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng 3.000 nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec1u cho r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111i s\u00e2u v\u00e0o th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi t\u00e2m linh r\u1ea5t nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng tr\u00ean c\u1ea3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fac. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a li\u00ean h\u1ee3p k\u1ef9 ngh\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec1 xoay quanh \u00fd ki\u1ebfn cho r\u1eb1ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 hai c\u00e1 th\u1ec3 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u201ch\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng chung nh\u1ea5t\u201d v\u1edbi l\u1ecbch s\u1eed v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t. \u201cM\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7\u201d nhanh ch\u00f3ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp m\u00e0 c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u. L\u00fd thuy\u1ebft v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng trong khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia c\u0169ng \u0111\u00f3ng m\u1ed9t vai tr\u00f2 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng. Nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u xem x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd nh\u1eb1m ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra nh\u1eefng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn t\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch vi\u1ec7c l\u0103ng nh\u0103ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Trong l\u00fac \u1ea5y, t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 li d\u1ecb t\u0103ng l\u00ean r\u1ed3i nh\u1ea3y v\u1ecdt v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1979 v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0a nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 trong quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng th\u00e0nh m\u1ed1i lo c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 n\u01b0\u1edbc. Con s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u0103ng l\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn kho\u1ea3ng 20.000 v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1987, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1eadp k\u1ec9 sau th\u00ec t\u0103ng l\u00ean g\u1ea5p \u0111\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m xem \u201cchuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng\u201d b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u x\u00e2m nh\u1eadp v\u00e0o h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft tr\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9. V\u00e0o n\u0103m 1989, trong phim Khi Harry g\u1eb7p Sally , Harry t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n nh\u1ea5t t\u00ean Jess c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng v\u1ee3 anh v\u1eeba cu\u1ed1n g\u00f3i theo m\u1ed9t g\u00e3 nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean thu\u1ebf:<\/p>\n\n\n\n JESS: H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng tan v\u1ee1 ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e2u. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng cho \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u1ed5n \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n HARRY: Th\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea5y \u00e0? \u201cTri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng\u201d \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 h\u1eafn ng\u1ee7 v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng n\u0103m 90, c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n g\u00e2y n\u00ean s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 trong quan h\u1ec7. Deborah Tannen, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch b\u00e1n ch\u1ea1y t\u1ef1a \u0111\u1ec1 Ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u , tranh lu\u1eadn v\u1edbi John Gray, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 quy\u1ec3n \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng sao H\u1ecfa – \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 sao Kim, r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u1ea1c l\u1ed1i v\u00ec s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c nhau trong c\u00e1ch giao ti\u1ebfp ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng tinh th\u1ea7n. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ed5 m\u1ecdi tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m l\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea1m v\u00e0o chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh cho d\u00f9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 quay l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sau \u0111\u00f3, v\u1ee5 b\u00ea b\u1ed1i gi\u1eefa Clinton v\u00e0 Lewinsky n\u0103m 1998 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea9y c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh – k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n non kinh nghi\u1ec7m – v\u00e0o th\u1eddi gian ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng cao \u0111i\u1ec3m. \u0110\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc Don-David Lusterman, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n B\u00ed k\u00edp v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua s\u1ef1 \u0111au kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh , ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u tr\u00ean t\u1edd New York Times r\u1eb1ng: \u201cKhi t\u00f4i v\u00e0o ngh\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y 20 n\u0103m, c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 ai nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh trong nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ea3.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n R\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i c\u00e1m \u01a1n nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c \u0111i\u1ec1u tra to\u00e0n qu\u1ed1c m\u1edbi v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 cho ra nh\u1eefng s\u1ed1 li\u1ec7u x\u00e1c th\u1ef1c. C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc l\u1eadp ra c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh nh\u1eb1m d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n \u201cnh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 l\u00fd tr\u00ed\u201d s\u1ebd c\u00f3 n\u1ea3h h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi \u201ct\u1ed5ng l\u1ee3i \u00edch\u201d c\u1ee7a chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh ra sao v\u00e0 \u0111o l\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y l\u00e0m h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c n\u00e0o. Theo th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea th\u00ec 98% nam gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 78% n\u1eef gi\u1edbi th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u01a1 t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi ngo\u00e0i v\u1ee3 hay ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh, c\u00f2n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c s\u1ebd c\u00f3 t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m cao h\u01a1n 22% so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n trong tu\u1ea7n. H\u1ecd c\u00f2n \u0111i\u1ec1u tra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd c\u00f3 t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n 24% so v\u1edbi s\u1ed1 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn qua c\u00e1c giai tho\u1ea1i r\u1eb1ng v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng n\u0103m 90, t\u1eeb \u201cnh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n\u201d \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi t\u1eeb \u201cl\u00e3nh c\u1ea3m\u201d d\u00f9ng trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m 50. V\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1c \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1eb1ng t\u1ecbu v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00f4 th\u01b0 k\u00fd tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u0103ng nh\u0103ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u00e0 gi\u00e0 x\u1ea5u x\u00ed nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i th\u00fa v\u1ecb h\u01a1n v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh. V\u00ec v\u1eady t\u1eddLadies\u2019 Home Journal khuy\u00ean \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 r\u1eb1ng mu\u1ed1n gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3m c\u00e2n hay mua qu\u1ea7n l\u00f3t m\u1edbi m\u00e0 n\u00ean \u201c\u0111\u1ecdc, \u0111\u1ecdc v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa! V\u00e0 h\u00e3y th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 s\u00e1ch, b\u00e1o, phim \u1ea3nh v\u00e0 tin t\u1ee9c c\u00f9ng nhau… N\u00ean nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u1ec1 sinh l\u00fd. N\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 ch\u0103m ch\u0103m v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tan v\u1ee1.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p c\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tuy\u00ean truy\u1ec1n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n t\u1eeb c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng. V\u00e0o n\u0103m 2004, l\u01b0\u1ee3ng chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u1edf M\u1ef9 \u0111\u00e3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua con s\u1ed1 50.000. M\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m k\u1ef9 ngh\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u01b0\u1edbc l\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ed7i n\u0103m c\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng 2,6% c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n, con s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y kh\u00e1 tr\u00f9ng h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh trong n\u0103m v\u1eeba r\u1ed3i. C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc, nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u0169ng tham gia v\u00e0o c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n n\u00e0y. Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u m\u1edbi v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u0169ng truy\u1ec1n th\u00eam ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh cho l\u1ef1c l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111ang ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea3o h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng \u201cchuy\u00ean gia t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n\u201d trong H\u1ed9i ngh\u1ecb H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n S\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t. H\u1ecd tranh lu\u1eadn v\u1edbi nhau r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u k\u00e9o d\u00e0i t\u1eeb n\u0103m n\u00e0y sang n\u0103m kh\u00e1c, m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng k\u0129 n\u0103ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng trong nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n. C\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia n\u00e0y hi\u1ebfm khi c\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng khoa h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 minh ch\u1ee9ng cho \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng b\u1ee9c th\u01b0 ch\u1ee9ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ea7y t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecd t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch KH\u00d4NG ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2003, nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc Shirley Glass \u1edf Maryland, \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a th\u00eam m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt ra \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u0169ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. C\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c th\u00eam gi\u1edd chung v\u00e0 \u0111i c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c xa c\u00f9ng nhau, khi \u0111\u00f3 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00fac n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c vi\u00ean m\u00e3n \u1edf nh\u00e0. Glass v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u mi\u00eau t\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u201ccu\u1ed9c ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng\u201d c\u00f2n dang d\u1edf m\u00e0 kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd t\u1ea1o ra \u1edf c\u01a1 quan hay tr\u00ean Internet v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n gi\u1eef b\u00ed m\u1eadt v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i d\u1ea5y l\u00ean nh\u1eefng lo ng\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu v\u1ec1 nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c m\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u00f2n t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n l\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f9ng nhau. \u0110\u1ebfn l\u00fac n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eb7t ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u c\u1eeda mi\u1ec7ng m\u1edbi m\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng hay nghe kh\u1eafp \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc: V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng n\u1eb1m \u1edf ch\u1ed7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n KHI S\u1ef0 D\u1ed0I TR\u00c1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u00ec n\u00f3i ra s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c c\u1ee9u ch\u1eefa cho chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a M\u1ef9. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ec1u tin r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh chi ti\u1ebft c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c tin nh\u1eafn v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 chuy\u1ec7n quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c b\u1eb1ng mi\u1ec7ng v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ta. Nguy\u00ean c\u0103n c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y l\u00e0 do m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e0nh m\u1ea1ch s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean nh\u1eefng lo\u1ea1t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 che \u0111\u1eady cho chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, d\u00f9 n\u00f3 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i trong nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m. Chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 ng\u1eebng l\u1ea1i khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn n\u1ed5i ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd tin v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa. N\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh sau n\u00e0y t\u1eeb t\u1eeb b\u1ecb l\u1eadt t\u1ea9y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng khi h\u1ed3i t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ea1i ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n\n\n\n D\u00e2n ch\u00fang \u1edf c\u00e1c n\u01b0\u1edbc kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng tin khi t\u00f4i k\u1ec3 cho h\u1ecd nghe v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c khai nh\u1eadn to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9. H\u1ecd cho r\u1eb1ng bi\u1ebft chi ti\u1ebft v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m c\u00e1c n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n \u0111au kh\u1ed5 h\u01a1n th\u00f4i. Nh\u01b0ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p khai th\u1eadt n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u1ea5t ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn \u1edf M\u1ef9 v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n b\u00e0n c\u00e3i tr\u00ean c\u00e1c trang web d\u00e0nh cho nh\u1eefng n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. Tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t trang m\u1ea1ng c\u00f3 s\u1ed1 th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 SurvivingInfedility.com, \u201cErica\u201d b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t 20 th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 tra h\u1ecfi ch\u1ed3ng v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a anh ta, v\u00e0 \u201cv\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap c\u1ee7a l\u1ecbch k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, h\u01a1n 1.000 b\u1ee9c email, kho \u1ea3nh, h\u00f3a \u0111\u01a1n th\u1ebb t\u00edn d\u1ee5ng, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u1ea3n b\u00e1o c\u00e1o t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh c\u0169 c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng, t\u00f4i v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i\u1ec3m l\u1ea1i to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u00e1c th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m trong cu\u1ed9c v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m k\u00e9o d\u00e0i hai n\u0103m r\u01b0\u1ee1i c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng trang m\u1ea1ng v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00e0n nh\u1eabn. Nh\u1eb1m nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n, h\u1ecd d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng t\u00ean t\u00e0i kho\u1ea3n nh\u01b0 \u201choang mang\u201d \u201cn\u1ee9c n\u1edf\u201d v\u00e0 \u201c15 n\u0103m v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a\u201d. Nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p h\u1ecd g\u1eedi cho nhau c\u0169ng s\u1eb7c m\u00f9i m\u1eadt m\u00e3 chi\u1ebfn s\u1ef1: \u201c\u0110\u00e3 hai th\u00e1ng t\u1eeb NPH, v\u00ec v\u1eady t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n PH ch\u01b0a, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 OCTL\u0110D c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00e0n g\u1eafn.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n NPH l\u00e0 \u201cng\u00e0y ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n\u201d ra chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m. Th\u1eddi gian m\u1eabn c\u1ea3m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ednh b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb NPH. PH l\u00e0 \u201cph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i\u201d v\u00e0 OCCTL\u0110D l\u00e0 \u201c\u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169 thay l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ed5i d\u1ea1\u201d. C\u00f2n m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 t\u1eeb vi\u1ebft t\u1eaft kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 KTB (\u201ck\u1ebb th\u1ee9 ba\u201d), \u0110GD (\u201c\u0111\u1ed3 gian d\u1ed1i\u201d), CLN\u0110\u00d4K (\u201cc\u00f3 l\u1ebd ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00e1c\u201d), NTX (\u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh x\u01b0a\u201d), TM\u0110 (\u201ct\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00eam\u201d), KLH (\u201ckh\u00f4ng li\u00ean h\u1ec7\u201d), CTBT (\u201cch\u00ecm trong b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i\u201d), v\u00e0 TYBTTQ (\u201ct\u1ef1 y\u00eau b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n th\u00e1i qu\u00e1\u201d). \u201cK\u1ebb b\u1eaft c\u00e1 hai tay\u201d kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i b\u1eaft c\u00e1 m\u00e0 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng mu\u1ed1n gi\u1eef c\u1ea3 v\u1ee3 l\u1eabn chuy\u1ec7n t\u1eb1ng t\u1ecbu v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p nh\u01b0ng quy t\u1eafc tr\u00ean trang m\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y th\u00ec l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. M\u1ed9t \u201c\u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng hay thay \u0111\u1ed5i\u201d ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 bu\u1ed9c m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea7y s\u1ef1 \u0103n n\u0103n v\u00e0 h\u1ed1i l\u1ed7i. C\u00f2n khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh s\u1eafp \u0111i d\u1ef1 h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o n\u01a1i s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n c\u0169 th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd trang m\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y s\u1ebd khuy\u00ean b\u00e0 ta n\u00f3i th\u1ebf n\u00e0y v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh x\u01b0a r\u1eb1ng, \u201cNTX \u01a1i, em \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u00e0n g\u1eafn l\u1ea1i m\u1ed1i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, xin anh \u0111\u1eebng li\u00ean l\u1ea1c hay tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n qu\u00e1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u1edbi em n\u1eefa. Ch\u00fac anh m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Trong \u0111\u1eddi th\u1ef1c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 hay d\u00f9ng c\u00e1c c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ec7n minh cho vi\u1ec7c v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m hay \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng trang m\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa cho chuy\u1ec7n l\u0103ng nh\u0103ng c\u1ea3. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o b\u1ea3o h\u1ecd \u0111ang y\u00eau b\u1ea1n t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111ang trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng b\u00e1n th\u00f4i mi\u00ean hay c\u00f2n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cb\u1ee9c m\u00e2y m\u00f9 c\u1ee7a v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m\u201d. Khi m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef s\u1ed1ng t\u1ea1i Texas vi\u1ebft c\u00f4 \u0111ang y\u00eau v\u1ecb h\u00f4n phu c\u0169 th\u00ec m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i r\u1eb1ng, \u201cNh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u1ecb \u0111ang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 (ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng) h\u00f3a h\u1ecdc… Ch\u1ecb \u0111ang tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 c\u01a1n nghi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea5y.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n t\u1ecf ra m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c cao. Nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t trang m\u1ea1ng kh\u00e1c t\u00ean KTB (\u201cK\u1ebb th\u1ee9 ba\u201d) mi\u00eau t\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 m\u1edb h\u1ed7n \u0111\u1ed9n gi\u1eefa s\u1ef1 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng, s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 nghi ng\u1edd b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n theo m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang. M\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef t\u00e2m s\u1ef1, \u201cT\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n c\u00f4ng khai m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch gi\u00e1n ti\u1ebfp… T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp n\u00f3i th\u1eb3ng v\u1edbi V (\u201cv\u1ee3\u201d) c\u1ee7a anh ta, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i mu\u1ed1n b\u00e0 ta kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng?\u201d Ch\u1ec9 trong v\u00f2ng 3 ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn 79 l\u1eddi ph\u00fac \u0111\u00e1p, t\u1eeb chuy\u1ec7n \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f4 ta d\u00f9ng b\u00fat d\u1ea1 quang k\u00fd t\u00ean l\u00ean d\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o r\u1eb1ng \u201cNPH\u201d s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 \u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi \u201ck\u1ebb th\u1ee9 ba\u201d nh\u01b0 c\u00f4.<\/p>\n\n\n\n T\u1eea \u201cPH\u1ee4C CH\u1ebe\u201d t\u1eebng l\u00e0m t\u00f4i li\u00ean t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng b\u00e1n d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee5 hay nh\u1eefng ti\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ed3 g\u1ed7 c\u1ed5. Nh\u01b0ng sau khi d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea1o theo C\u01a1 \u0110\u1ed1c gi\u00e1o \u1edf M\u1ef9, k\u00ec l\u1ea1 thay, t\u1eeb n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i c\u1ee9 g\u1ee3i cho t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n quan h\u1ec7 ngo\u00e0i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Tr\u00ean kh\u1eafp n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo \u0111\u1ea1o C\u01a1 \u0110\u1ed1c t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t chi nh\u00e1nh th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a li\u00ean h\u1ee3p k\u1ef9 ngh\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean c\u01a1 s\u1edf h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cph\u1ee5c ch\u1ebf\u201d ngay c\u1ea3 sau khi tr\u1ea3i qua s\u00f3ng gi\u00f3 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. Daryl McCray, m\u1ed9t linh m\u1ee5c \u1edf Kendall Lake, Florida \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCh\u00faa lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t trong ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng ph\u1ee5c ch\u1ebf h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u Ng\u00e0i th\u00edch l\u00e0m nh\u1ea5t.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 trong Kinh T\u00e2n \u01af\u1edbc quy \u0111\u1ecbnh ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh s\u1ebd b\u1ecb tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t b\u1eb1ng ly h\u00f4n, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo \u0111\u1ea1o C\u01a1 \u0110\u1ed1c \u1edf M\u1ef9 \u0111\u00e3 suy \u0111i t\u00ednh l\u1ea1i k\u0129 c\u00e0ng r\u1eb1ng, tr\u1eeb khi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u v\u00e3n h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n sau ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u00ec m\u1edbi ly d\u1ecb, v\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf nh\u1eefng r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i ph\u00e1t sinh b\u1edfi ly d\u1ecb c\u00f2n ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p h\u01a1n. Nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y th\u00e1ng m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m b\u1ecb \u0111u\u1ed5i ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0 th\u1edd hay c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u00ean l\u1edbp s\u00e1o r\u1ed7ng l\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00f4i v\u00e0o d\u0129 v\u00e3ng. C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 th\u1edd ng\u00e0y nay \u0111\u00e3 chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y gi\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1o v\u00e0o Ch\u1ee7 nh\u1eadt th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ec3 trao \u0111\u1ed5i tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng. Nh\u1eb1m h\u00e0n g\u1eafn nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng chung th\u1ee7y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1o C\u01a1 \u0110\u1ed1c c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e1c l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean gi\u00fap cho vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u th\u00f4ng qua ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef Kinh Th\u00e1nh. M\u1ed9t trong s\u1ed1 h\u1ecd t\u1eebng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, \u201cCh\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 nh\u00e2n danh Ch\u00faa \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ed3i th\u00f4i \u0111\u00e2u. N\u00f3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng mang t\u00ednh nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng si\u00eau h\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc \u1ea9n ch\u1ee9a trong \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Trong cu\u1ed1n Tr\u00e1nh m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng th\u00edch m\u1edbi n\u1edbi c\u0169 c\u1ee7a Nancy Anderson, ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eebng c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1i di\u1ec7n kinh doanh v\u00e0 r\u1eddi b\u1ecf ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u00e3 khuy\u00ean \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng \u201c T\u00f4i c\u00f3 d\u00e1m l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng? V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn th\u00ec h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 d\u00e1m l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t Ch\u00faa hay kh\u00f4ng? \u201d Anderson c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn gi\u00fap m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00e1nh xa \u201cv\u00f9ng nguy hi\u1ec3m\u201d c\u1ee7a ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u1edf n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c. C\u00f4 \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u1edf ri\u00eang tr\u00ean xe h\u01a1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi, n\u00ean lu\u00f4n n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh \u201cli\u1ebfc m\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0a t\u00ecnh\u201d. Khi \u0111i c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c xa, c\u00f4 khuy\u00ean n\u00ean y\u00eau c\u1ea7u kh\u00e1ch s\u1ea1n kh\u00f3a t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh TV c\u00f3 n\u1ed9i dung ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch ph\u00f2ng th\u1ee7 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p v\u1eabn c\u00f2n xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n th\u00ec \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 n\u00ean \u201cngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n chuy\u1ec3n qua ph\u00f2ng ban kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb tr\u00ed kh\u00e1c ho\u1eb7c c\u00f9ng l\u1eafm l\u00e0 th\u00f4i vi\u1ec7c. V\u00ec x\u00e9t cho c\u00f9ng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb h\u01a1n h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3a h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1o C\u01a1 \u0110\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3ng gi\u1ea3i b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng nh\u01b0 Ben v\u00e0 Ann Wilson ng\u1ee5 t\u1ea1i Littleton, Colorado, hay n\u00f3i r\u00f5 h\u01a1n, h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u0169 b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng ti\u1ebfng g\u1ecdi c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa. Ben v\u1eeba b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tham gia khoa Th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc \u1edf Kansas City t\u1eeb n\u0103m 1994, c\u00f2n Ann \u0111\u00e3 42 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh t\u1eebng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c t\u00ecnh v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m trong v\u00f2ng 3 n\u0103m. C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecd v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c v\u00e0 h\u00e0n g\u1eafn l\u1ea1i m\u1ed1i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n b\u00e2y gi\u1edd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a \u201cPh\u1ee5c ch\u1ebf h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n\u201d, trong \u0111\u00f3 bao g\u1ed3m trang blog, m\u1ed9t kh\u00f3a h\u1ecdc trong 10 tu\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 th\u1edd thu\u1ed9c ph\u00e1i Ph\u00fac \u00c2m, v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh trong 3 ng\u00e0y. Trong m\u1ed9t t\u1edd b\u01b0\u1edbm qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 th\u1edd m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 kh\u00f3a h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 d\u00e0nh cho \u201cnh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111ang g\u1eb7p t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng x\u00e1o tr\u1ed9n trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n,\u201d nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ai \u0111\u1ebfn tham gia \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 g\u00ec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Trong khi t\u00e2m t\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd cho c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00e1c, Ben v\u00e0 Ann th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng tr\u00e1nh n\u00e9 nh\u1eefng chi ti\u1ebft d\u00e2m d\u1ee5c, thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh v\u1ec1 \u201cC\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 sai l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5c thi\u1ec7n.\u201d Ben, n\u0103m nay 44 tu\u1ed5i, b\u1ea3o: \u201cTh\u1eadt ra b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thuy\u1ebft tr\u00ecnh theo d\u1ea1ng k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n khi\u00eau d\u00e2m c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\u201d, nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng r\u1eb1ng: \u201cC\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t khi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u00f4i ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i c\u1ee9 g\u1eb7m nh\u1ea5m n\u1ed7i \u0111au m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u0169ng t\u1eeb t\u1eeb ngu\u00f4i ngoai.\u201d Ben v\u00e0 Ann th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n c\u00e1ch cho h\u1ecd b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i, c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 h\u1ecd t\u1eebng l\u00e0m l\u00e0 n\u00f3i th\u1eb3ng v\u1edbi con m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng, \u201cm\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a con \u0103n n\u1eb1m v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 b\u1ed1 \u0111ang r\u1ea5t gi\u1eadn m\u1eb9, v\u00ec v\u1eady ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m l\u00e0nh l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nhau.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u0169ng l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n cho c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00ednh thu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ea1o C\u01a1 \u0110\u1ed1c v\u1ed1n d\u0129 r\u1ea5t ngoan c\u01b0\u1eddng. L\u1edbp h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 Wilsons kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fac v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng tinh th\u1ea7n v\u1eabn hi\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 khi h\u1ecd thu\u1eadt l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ben th\u00fa th\u1ef1c, \u201cN\u1ebfu trong 10 n\u0103m n\u1eefa, Ch\u00faa g\u1ecdi t\u00f4i v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng, \u2018Ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u1ea7n con t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh n\u1eefa\u2019 th\u00ec t\u00f4i m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u1eb9 nh\u00f5m ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n T\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i vi\u1ec7c ly d\u1ecb m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1o C\u01a1 \u0110\u1ed1c m\u00e0 t\u00f4i t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 t\u00ean g\u1ecdi T\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi B\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 Hi\u1ec7p \u01b0\u1edbc, tr\u1ee5 s\u1edf \u1edf Tulsa, Oklahoma. Ti\u00eau ch\u00ed c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft th\u00fac h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n d\u01b0\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c n\u00e0o. Nh\u1eefng h\u1ed9i vi\u00ean ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ed9t quy tr\u00ecnh \u201cch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i\u201d h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef b\u1ecb ch\u1ed3ng ru\u1ed3ng b\u1ecf ho\u1eb7c \u0111i t\u00e1i h\u00f4n, c\u00f4 ta s\u1ebd t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 nh\u1ecbn \u0103n v\u00e0 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n Ch\u00faa d\u1eabn l\u1ed1i cho \u00f4ng \u1ea5y quay v\u1ec1. C\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng 36 h\u1ed9i r\u1ea3i kh\u1eafp \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n cho quy tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y v\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eadp k\u1ec9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kinh Th\u00e1nh b\u1ea3o ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i, c\u00f2n T\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi B\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 Hi\u1ec7p \u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201ctha th\u1ee9\u201d \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u00ec ly h\u00f4n c\u00f2n t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n. Naomi, hi\u1ec7n \u1edf North Carolina v\u00e0 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u1ee7a khu v\u1ef1c \u0110\u00f4ng Nam c\u1ee7a T\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi B\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 Hi\u1ec7p \u01b0\u1edbc, gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCh\u00fang t\u00f4i tin nh\u01b0 v\u1eady v\u00ec h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t hi\u1ec7p \u01b0\u1edbc, Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 th\u1ec3 b\u1eb1ng x\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1eb1ng th\u1ecbt. Khi b\u1ea1n ly h\u00f4n, ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c n\u00e0o ch\u1eb7t m\u1ea5t c\u00e1nh tay ra kh\u1ecfi th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady chuy\u1ec7n ly h\u00f4n m\u1edbi g\u00e2y \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c \u1ea5y.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Naomi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 16 n\u0103m th\u00ec Alfred, ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4, b\u1ecf r\u01a1i v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea1y theo c\u00f4 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p l\u00e0m chung c\u00f4ng ty c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 vi\u1ec5n th\u00f4ng. Sau \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f4 ch\u1eb3ng h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 c\u00f9ng ai v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 cho m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u201d m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 ly h\u00f4n. C\u00f4 b\u1ea3o, \u201cT\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u0111\u1ec1u khuy\u00ean t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng \u2018Anh ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i r\u1ed3i v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c r\u1ed3i m\u00e0.\u2019 Nh\u01b0ng Ch\u00faa l\u1ea1i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng \u2018H\u00e3y gi\u1eef l\u1eddi th\u1ec1 \u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh con \u1ea1.\u2019 V\u00e0 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 Ch\u00faa mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang ta th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady hay kh\u00f4ng.\u201d C\u00f2n khi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 v\u1ee3 m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a Alfred theo c\u00e1ch ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn ki\u1ec3u t\u00e2m linh, \u201cT\u00f4i th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eafp \u0111\u1eb7t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch s\u1ed1ng cho c\u00f4 \u1ea5y nh\u01b0ng trong \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e2u.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sau 11 n\u0103m, Alfred th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i. H\u1ecd t\u00e1i h\u00f4n v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng sau \u0111\u00f3 h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 th\u1eadp k\u1ef7. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 thay l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ed5i d\u1ea1 s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i l\u1eddi nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ea7u \u1ea5y. Gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c n\u00e0y cho t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp ra T\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi B\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 Hi\u1ec7p \u01b0\u1edbc phi l\u1ee3i nhu\u1eadn t\u1eeb n\u0103m 1987 sau khi b\u1ecb ch\u1ed3ng ru\u1ed3ng b\u1ecf v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn nay v\u1eabn \u201cch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i\u201d. Naomi l\u1ea1i b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 th\u00ec d\u00f9 sao \u0111i n\u1eefa h\u1ecd v\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1n d\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00ec v\u1eabn gi\u1eef l\u1eddi th\u1ec1 \u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n TH\u1eacT KH\u00d3 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ea1i m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u1ee7 s\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a li\u00ean h\u1ee3p k\u1ef9 ngh\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi coi th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3 c\u0169ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh \u0111i theo k\u1ecbch b\u1ea3n m\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb7t ra. Julia, n\u0103m nay 34 tu\u1ed5i, v\u00e0 \u0111ang \u1edf c\u00e1ch xa T\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi B\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 Hi\u1ec7p \u01b0\u1edbc hay b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c. C\u00f4 l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 s\u1ea3n xu\u1ea5t cho ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 do l\u00e2u n\u0103m v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb \u1edf Manhattan v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng \u1edf ngo\u1ea1i \u00f4 New Jersey. C\u00f4 ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 v\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00f4 l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5m nhu\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a li\u00ean h\u1ee3p k\u1ef9 ngh\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n T\u00f4i g\u1eb7p Julia t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng sushi \u1edf New Jersey. C\u00f4 hi\u1ec7n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a con v\u1eeba ch\u1eadp ch\u1eefng bi\u1ebft \u0111i v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a c\u00f2n \u1eb5m ng\u1eeda. Tr\u00f4ng c\u00f4 m\u1ea3nh kh\u1ea3nh nh\u01b0ng tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 \u0103n n\u00f3i r\u1ea5t l\u01b0u lo\u00e1t. Sau v\u00e0i ph\u00fat tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra c\u00f4 \u0111ang trong th\u1eddi k\u00ec \u0103n ki\u00eang sau bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. Ngay sau NPH (ng\u00e0y ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n), ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng bi\u1ebfng \u0103n. (L\u00fac ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i v\u1eeba nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y anh li\u1ec1n ph\u00e1n r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i m\u00e0 b\u00e9o l\u00ean th\u00ec anh s\u1ebd ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh ngay.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n Julia b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nghi ng\u1edd ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh khi ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t b\u00ec th\u01b0 m\u00e0u h\u1ed3ng trong h\u1ed9p th\u01b0 g\u1edfi trong v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0, tr\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ecba ch\u1ec9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1edfi l\u00e0 c\u00f4 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p. Anh gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m thi\u1ec7p tr\u00ean danh ngh\u0129a b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u0111\u1ec3 an \u1ee7i c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u1eeba ly h\u00f4n v\u00ec ch\u1ed3ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sau \u0111\u00f3 Julia k\u1ec3 vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i cho c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p. \u201cNh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p nam th\u00ec b\u1ea3o, \u2018\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng ch\u1eb3ng g\u1eedi thi\u1ec7p bao gi\u1edd, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd d\u00f9ng b\u00ec th\u01b0 m\u00e0u h\u1ed3ng cho b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ea3. Anh ta ng\u1ee7 v\u1edbi \u1ea3 \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ed3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i ch\u1eafc.\u2019\u201d Nghe v\u1eady c\u00f4 li\u1ec1n ngh\u0129 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i l\u1ed1 b\u1ecbch. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn khi c\u00f4 v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y tr\u00ean m\u00e0n h\u00ecnh vi t\u00ednh hi\u1ec7n l\u00ean b\u1ee9c email trong \u0111\u00f3 vi\u1ebft \u201cH\u00d4N EM \u0110I\u201d to t\u01b0\u1edbng, anh ta l\u1ea1i b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u00e1n t\u1ec9nh b\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f9a th\u00f4i. \u201cT\u00f4i b\u1ea3o, \u2018Em c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft t\u00e1n t\u1ec9nh b\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f9a gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 anh v\u1eady nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eb3ng ai l\u1ea1i vi\u1ebft \u201ch\u00f4n em \u0111i\u201d cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 h\u00f4n bao gi\u1edd c\u1ea3.\u2019\u201d Kh\u00f4ng l\u00e2u sau \u0111\u00f3, Julia li\u1ebfc l\u00ean m\u00e0n h\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5y email g\u1eedi t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi n\u1ed9i dung c\u00e1m \u01a1n ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn c\u00f4 ta \u0111i xem bu\u1ed5i bi\u1ec3u di\u1ec5n \u1edf s\u00e2n kh\u1ea5u Broadway New York.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cL\u00fac n\u00e0y th\u00ec t\u00f4i m\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7, d\u0129 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 v\u1eady r\u1ed3i. T\u00f4i ra kh\u1ecfi ph\u00f2ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 \u0111i ra ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p anh \u1ea5y v\u00e0 n\u1ed5i c\u01a1n tam b\u00e0nh \u2018Chuy\u1ec7n qu\u00e1i qu\u1ef7 g\u00ec \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra th\u1ebf n\u00e0y?\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f4 l\u1ea1i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch r\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 nh\u01b0ng Julia \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1eadn s\u00f4i gan r\u1ed3i. \u0110\u00eam \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f4 ta l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ai trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00fac \u1ea5y c\u0169ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0m: \u201cL\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o anh ta, \u2018Anh bi\u1ebfn \u0111i.\u2019\u201d V\u1eady v\u00ec sao c\u00f4 l\u1ea1i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf? \u201cV\u00ec sao \u00e0, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u1eefa, l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 ai c\u0169ng l\u00e0m v\u1eady th\u00f4i, ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng? B\u1ecb m\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i th\u00ec anh ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n g\u00f3i \u0111i ch\u1ee9. Ch\u1ee9 ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i sao n\u1eefa, ch\u1eb3ng l\u1ebd l\u1ea1i b\u1ea3o, \u2018Th\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i, anh v\u00e0o gi\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u1ee7 ngon \u0111i nh\u00e9?\u201d\u2019 M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u1ed1ng c\u1ed5 ch\u1ed3ng ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0 v\u00e0o l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u duy nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, n\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u1eb1m trong k\u1ecbch b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a v\u0103n h\u00f3a M\u1ef9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n R\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c sau \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a Julia c\u0169ng tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn kh\u0103ng kh\u0103ng b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng anh ta v\u00e0 c\u00f4 kia ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft. L\u00fac n\u00e0y t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng Julia b\u00e1n t\u00edn b\u00e1n nghi. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u1ed9 r\u00f5 l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng x\u00e1c th\u1ef1c. C\u00f4 c\u1ee9 ph\u1eadp ph\u1ed3ng lo \u00e2u, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm ra ng\u1ecdn ng\u00e0nh th\u00ec s\u1ebd m\u00e3i b\u1ecb ch\u1ed3ng \u201cqua m\u1eb7t\u201d. \u201cSau \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfn d\u1ecbch \u0111i\u1ec1u tra \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra m\u1ecdi th\u00f4ng tin c\u00f3 th\u1ec3.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Julia ra c\u1eeda hi\u1ec7u mua nh\u1eefng d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee5 theo d\u00f5i l\u1eafp \u0111\u1eb7t trong ph\u00f2ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng. C\u1ee9 2 gi\u1edd s\u00e1ng m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y khi l\u0169 tr\u1ebb \u0111ang ng\u1ee7 tr\u00ean l\u1ea7u c\u00f2n ch\u1ed3ng \u0111ang ngon gi\u1ea5c tr\u00ean chi\u1ebfc gi\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ee5 \u1edf t\u1ea7ng h\u1ea7m th\u00ec c\u00f4 l\u1ebbn v\u00e0o v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m tra email v\u00e0 tin nh\u1eafn. Sau \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f4 d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ec3 nghe l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i trong ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh. \u201cK\u1ec3 ra th\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ee7 trong nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e1ng. T\u00f4i b\u1ecb \u00e1m \u1ea3nh v\u00e0 b\u1ecb s\u1ee5t m\u1ea5t 15 pound, m\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1eadp m\u1ea1p g\u00ec cho cam. R\u1ed3i t\u00f4i \u1ed1m v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec ra h\u1ed3n c\u1ea3. Su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y t\u00f4i c\u1ee9 run r\u1ea9y, c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1edb h\u1ed7n \u0111\u1ed9n. T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i t\u00f4i b\u1ecb v\u1ee5 theo d\u00f5i \u1ea5y \u00e1m \u1ea3nh.\u201d V\u00e0 x\u00e9t l\u1ea1i th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c truy l\u00f9ng v\u1ebft t\u00edch c\u1ee7a ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh n\u00e0y c\u0169ng l\u1ea5y ra t\u1eeb trong s\u00e1ch ti\u00eau khi\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a li\u00ean h\u1ee3p k\u1ef9 ngh\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Julia c\u00f3 linh c\u1ea3m r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u01b0u tr\u1eef l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng b\u1ee9c email c\u0169 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 kia nh\u01b0ng trong m\u00e1y t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a anh ta c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u t\u1eadp tin t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00ean vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. M\u1ed9t h\u00f4m, khi anh ta \u0111i d\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1m tang \u1edf t\u1ec9nh kh\u00e1c, c\u00f4 li\u1ec1n quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m r\u00e0 so\u00e1t m\u1ecdi t\u1eadp tin trong m\u00e1y vi t\u00ednh. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u00f4 c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e0o tr\u00fang m\u1ea1ch n\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u1ea7m. T\u1eadp tin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u01b0u d\u01b0\u1edbi t\u00ean th\u1eddi con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kia. C\u00f4 ta kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb g\u00ec v\u1ec1 l\u1ea7n quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 say m\u00e8m n\u00ean trong nh\u1eefng tin nh\u1eafn, ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a Julia thu\u1eadt l\u1ea1i t\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eadn m\u1ecdi chi ti\u1ebft. Julia c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ecdc th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 chi ti\u1ebft c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u1edf c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c nhau, m\u00e0 l\u1ebd ra l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f4 \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i \u0111i c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c \u1edf nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i kh\u00e1c. C\u00f4 c\u00f2n t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ghi ch\u00e9p v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh c\u00e1c chuy\u1ebfn bay. Julia b\u1ea3o, \u201cT\u00f4i r\u00e1p n\u1ed1i l\u1ea1i to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra trong h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t n\u0103m r\u01b0\u1ee1i ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m. M\u1ed9t m\u1eb7t c\u00f3 l\u1ebd t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t ph\u1ea5n kh\u00edch v\u00ec t\u00ecm ra s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t m\u1eb7t, t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ebft qu\u00e1ch cho xong.\u201d Sau \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f4 in m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 ra gi\u1ea5y v\u00e0 ng\u1ed3i ch\u1edd ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf v\u1ec1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Khi c\u00f4 k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i cho \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p, h\u1ecd li\u1ec1n nhao nhao l\u00ean r\u1eb1ng: \u201cTh\u1ea5y ch\u01b0a, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ea3o l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng mua thi\u1ec7p m\u00e0u h\u1ed3ng m\u00e0.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a li\u00ean h\u1ee3p k\u1ef9 ngh\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u1edf kh\u1eafp n\u01a1i, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u00edt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ki\u1ec3m nghi\u1ec7m. Ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng r\u00fat ra qua kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0o b\u1ea3o b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng k\u1ec3 ra cho b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng chi ti\u1ebft kinh t\u1edfm c\u1ee7a chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m th\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f4i qua d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n, hay n\u00f3i r\u00f5 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n khi h\u1ecd n\u00f3i th\u1eadt m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 th\u1eadt ra n\u00ean l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n th\u1eadt th\u00e0 qu\u00e1 s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n th\u00ec sao? V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng xem chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 b\u1ecdn gi\u1eb7c ngo\u00e0i h\u00e0nh tinh c\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111u\u1ed5i m\u00e0 n\u00ean ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec sao? Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00f3 gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt \u0111i s\u1ef1 \u0111au kh\u1ed5 hay kh\u00f4ng? Sau \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra r\u1eb1ng d\u00e2n Ph\u00e1p bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh nh\u1ea5t. V\u00ec v\u1eady t\u00f4i li\u1ec1n l\u01b0\u1ee3n l\u1edd quanh Paris, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 n\u01a1i t\u00f4i \u0111ang sinh s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: Gi\u1ea3i m\u00e3 d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng – Pamela Druckerman Bu\u1ed5i ra m\u1eaft H\u1ed9i ngh\u1ecb H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n S\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t \u1edf Dallas \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t v\u0169 h\u1ed9i. Trong kh\u00e1n ph\u00f2ng r\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 s\u00e2n b\u00f3ng, ban ch\u1ee7 qu\u1ea3n h\u00f2 h\u00e9t v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch c\u1ee9u v\u00e3n h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n trong b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed r\u1ed9n vang […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16476","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tam-ly"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16476","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16476"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16476\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16477,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16476\/revisions\/16477"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16476"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16476"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16476"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}***<\/strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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