T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: Gi\u1ea3i m\u00e3 d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng – Pamela Druckerman<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sau khi lang thang v\u00f2ng quanh th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c t\u00f4i c\u0169ng tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 b\u00e0n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u1edf Paris. Bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ed3 x\u1ebfp h\u1ea1ng t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ghim tr\u00ean b\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea1nh t\u00f4i nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m b\u00f9a h\u1ed9 m\u1ec7nh. Gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f4i c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c m\u00ecnh v\u1eeba t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ef1c k\u00ec r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn, kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi chung th\u1ee7y \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c n\u00e0o t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o n\u01a1i sinh s\u1ed1ng. Nh\u1eefng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00e1c nhau s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t cho ph\u00e9p ai v\u00e0 v\u00ec l\u00fd do g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m. Ngo\u00e0i ra c\u00f2n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u1ecbch b\u1ea3n cho nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ef1c k\u00ec ri\u00eang t\u01b0 nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9. C\u00f3 v\u1ebb ai c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 n\u00e0y m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng m\u00e0ng tu\u00e2n theo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c nhau gi\u1eefa \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u1edf c\u00e1c n\u01a1i kh\u00e1c nhau c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m chung nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00e0o cho bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do thi\u00ean v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m nh\u01b0: h\u1ecd qu\u00e1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, hay h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n ai \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, hay c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 cho h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n xinh \u0111\u1eb9p. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u0169ng hay \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ec7n minh cho th\u00f3i l\u0103ng nh\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c t\u1eeb chuy\u1ec7n ng\u1ee7 lang v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00e1c thay v\u00ec v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ngo\u00e0i ra, t\u00f4i c\u00f2n th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 v\u1ec1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf n\u01b0\u1edbc kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 l\u1ed7i th\u1eddi. T\u00f4i lu\u00f4n nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f3i \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u00dd l\u0103ng nh\u0103ng thu\u1ed9c h\u00e0ng \u201c\u0111\u1eb3ng c\u1ea5p\u201d nh\u1ea5t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. Nh\u01b0ng trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u00edt h\u01a1n \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng M\u1ef9. \u0110\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn c\u0169 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng trong kho\u1ea3ng t\u1eeb n\u0103m 1880 \u0111\u1ebfn 1920 khi h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00dd nh\u1eadp c\u01b0 v\u00e0o M\u1ef9 v\u00e0 tuy\u00ean truy\u1ec1n nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi d\u00e2n \u00dd hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn ki\u1ec3u n\u00e0y t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc. T\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1edbn t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f3i s\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00f9 d\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb7c \u1edf London nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt ra \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f3i, n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m s\u1ea1ch g\u1ea7n h\u1ebft b\u1edfi Ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng L\u00e0m s\u1ea1ch Kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed Anh qu\u1ed1c v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1956. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00ednh M\u1ef9 tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 t\u1eeb Chi\u1ebfn tranh Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi th\u1ee9 2 hay k\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef Ph\u00e1p kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea1o l\u00f4ng n\u00e1ch v\u00e0 che \u0111\u1eady m\u00f9i c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 b\u1eb1ng h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ed1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc hoa. Chuy\u1ec7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u00e1p hay lang ch\u1ea1 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u01b0u truy\u1ec1n nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf k\u1ef7. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt th\u00ec Paris gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 th\u1ee7 ph\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng qu\u00fd b\u00e0 s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd t\u01b0\u01a1m t\u1ea5t nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. C\u00f2n \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng Ph\u00e1p \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1eddi c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m ngang ng\u1eeda v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n b\u00e1m v\u00edu v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng \u00fd ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 kh\u0103ng kh\u0103ng tin v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea m\u01a1 h\u1ed3 r\u1eb1ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng n\u0103m 40 v\u00e0 50. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 c\u00f2n kho\u00e1i ch\u00ed khi ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ng\u00e0y nay c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp chuy\u1ec7n h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng ngay gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i thuy\u1ebft tr\u00ecnh b\u00e1n h\u00e0ng hay gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i h\u1ecdp ph\u1ee5 huynh. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng cho chuy\u1ec7n b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng nam n\u1eef ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng t\u0103ng cao trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Theo nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111i\u1ec1u tra t\u1eeb th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 kh\u00f4ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u l\u1eafm. V\u00e0o n\u0103m 2004, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 16% ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi, v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 3,5% cho bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh trong n\u0103m ngo\u00e1i. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ng\u00e0y nay ra ngo\u00e0i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng x\u00e1c th\u1ef1c n\u00e0o cho th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd c\u00f3 c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y. Nh\u1eefng s\u1ed1 li\u1ec7u th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea1i di\u1ec7n cho c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n, nh\u01b0ng d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o 11 cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n trong v\u00f2ng 16 n\u0103m qua th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u1edf M\u1ef9 kh\u00e1 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 tin r\u1eb1ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u0111\u1eb7t l\u00f2ng tin v\u00e0o h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n cho n\u00ean n\u1ed7i lo s\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng chung th\u1ee7y l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn. M\u1ed9t khi ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u1ea7m \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ea1c b\u01b0\u1edbc, c\u1ea3 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi trong ta nh\u01b0 s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5 v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m. Nh\u01b0ng chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t t\u1ed1t v\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u00f3 l\u00fac ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u00edch th\u00fa v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng bi k\u1ecbch m\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh t\u1ea1o n\u00ean. V\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c \u201cb\u1ecb c\u1eafm s\u1eebng\u201d \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn thi\u00ean h\u01b0\u1edbng s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u1ed1 t\u1ecf ra ng\u00e2y th\u01a1 v\u1edbi chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u1eddi \u00f4ng b\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ecf ra kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m l\u1eafm \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 m\u1ef9 m\u00e3n hay kh\u00f4ng. Nh\u01b0ng t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng n\u0103m 60 khi chuy\u1ec7n ly h\u00f4n tr\u1edf n\u00ean d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ef1c k\u00ec cao cho h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang ta l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng kh\u00e1t khao h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00e1ng kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 mong \u01b0\u1edbc r\u1eb1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac m\u1ecdi b\u1ec1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean lu\u00f4n chung th\u1ee7y v\u1edbi nhau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u1ede M\u1ef9, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f2n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i hay kh\u00f4ng. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n lo s\u1ee3 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb l\u1ebb loi v\u00e0 v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y v\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ch\u1ed3ng b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh. \u00cdt nh\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea5u gi\u1ebfm, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef b\u00ed m\u1eadt g\u00ec. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 theo \u0111\u1ea1o c\u00f2n suy ngh\u0129 theo l\u1ed1i th\u1ea7n th\u00e1nh h\u00f3a r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 \u201cm\u1ed9t c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t\u201d. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 nh\u1eefng th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea5u tranh \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef v\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t v\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed3ng, c\u00f2n ng\u00e0y nay b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n ly h\u00f4n – \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 tr\u00ean l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft. Ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u01b0\u1edbp m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft c\u1ee5c c\u00f3 h\u1eadu m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng – m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng minh ch\u1ee9ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nh\u01b0ng cho d\u00f9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 c\u00f3 lo l\u1eafng th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u00ec c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh, v\u00ec theo th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m \u1edf M\u1ef9 c\u0169ng ngang b\u1eb1ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u01a1i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh h\u01a1n khi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi v\u1ea5n n\u1ea1n n\u00e0y. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, ch\u00ednh vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1t khao m\u01b0u c\u1ea7u h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ea9y ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0o con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y h\u01a1n. R\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3ng tr\u1ed1ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ec1n l\u00e0m hay kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u1ed9t khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 \u0111\u00e3 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u00ec m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u1ef1c k\u00ec ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p. Ngo\u00e0i s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a li\u00ean h\u1ee3p c\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed3 s\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng g\u00e2y ra t\u1eeb chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh k\u00e9o d\u00e0i l\u00e2u h\u01a1n, g\u00e2y t\u1ed1n k\u00e9m h\u01a1n v\u00e0 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn tinh th\u1ea7n h\u01a1n b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0o t\u00f4i t\u1eebng \u0111i qua. Chuy\u1ec7n ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m mang t\u1ea7m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c tr\u00ean c\u00e1c website v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta d\u00f9ng m\u1eadt m\u00e3 chi\u1ebfn tranh: D-day (ng\u00e0y ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n) \u0111\u1ec3 mi\u00eau t\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. C\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t cho th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh M\u1ef9 \u00edt khi t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh \u201cr\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac\u201d h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i (m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a r\u00f5 chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n hay g\u00e2y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c n\u00e0y hay kh\u00f4ng).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00ec h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111au kh\u1ed5 ngay trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh quan h\u1ec7 ngo\u00e0i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. T\u00f4i ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u00e3 kh\u1ecfa th\u00e2n tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t nh\u00e2n t\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 tr\u1ea5n an b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng l\u1ea7m l\u1ed7i. V\u00e0 c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m \u1edf n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c c\u1ee9 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed9c lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u0103ng nh\u0103ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9. L\u00e9n l\u00fat \u0111i ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u1ee9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i th\u00ec ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u00e0m g\u00ec cho \u0111au kh\u1ed5 nh\u1ec9? H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, m\u1ed9t khi b\u1ecb ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 v\u1eabn c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c chung s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi th\u00ec s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u0111ay nghi\u1ebfn v\u00e0 kh\u01a1i g\u1ee3i l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi kh\u1eafc \u00e2u y\u1ebfm v\u1edbi nh\u00e2n t\u00ecnh c\u0169 su\u1ed1t nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m sau \u0111\u00f3. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y, ly h\u00f4n l\u00e0 l\u1ed1i tho\u00e1t t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u1ede M\u1ef9, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m s\u1ebd v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh th\u1eafm thi\u1ebft h\u01a1n cho d\u00f9 c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n. Quan h\u1ec7 ngo\u00e0i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t g\u1eafn b\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p t\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n th\u01b0\u1eddng xem n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn: m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. N\u1ebfu \u201ck\u1ebb th\u1ee9 ba\u201d l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n th\u00ec s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u201cm\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1\u201d. T\u00f4i t\u1eebng bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ly h\u00f4n v\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1edbi nh\u00e2n t\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi \u00e1p l\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u1ed9t \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i 40 ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u r\u1ea5t v\u00f4 t\u01b0 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecnh c\u1edd r\u01a1i v\u00e0o chuy\u1ec7n y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m v\u1edbi c\u00f4 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p. \u201cTh\u1eadt s\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t vui r\u1ed3i; v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111i xa h\u01a1n th\u1ebf \u0111\u00e2u.\u201d \u00d4ng ta b\u1ea3o t\u00f4i b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t gi\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec7u ch\u1eb3ng l\u1ea5y g\u00ec l\u00e0m th\u00edch th\u00fa r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng b\u1eefa \u0103n h\u1eb1ng tu\u1ea7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u00f3 gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u201cchuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c\u201d. M\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee9 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng ti\u1ebfn xa h\u01a1n th\u00f4i. Ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd \u00f4ng d\u00e1m n\u00f3i v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 khi n\u00e0o \u00f4ng c\u00f9ng nh\u00e2n t\u00ecnh \u0111i xem thi \u0111\u1ea5u b\u00f3ng r\u1ed5 hay \u0111i d\u1ea1o v\u00f2ng quanh th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00d4ng r\u00e1p n\u1ed1i l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra ti\u1ebfp theo m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch m\u01a1 h\u1ed3. \u201cC\u00f4 \u1ea5y b\u1ea3o, \u2018Anh \u00e0, ch\u00fang ta \u0111i t\u00ecm kh\u00f4ng gian ri\u00eang t\u01b0 \u0111i,\u2019 v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ch\u1ee3t ngh\u0129, \u2018Oa, chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y nguy hi\u1ec3m \u0111\u00e2y,\u2019 r\u1ed3i \u0111\u00e1p, \u2018th\u00f4i \u0111i em\u2019 v\u00e0 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00e0ng l\u00e0m t\u00f4i xi\u00eau l\u00f2ng. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ea5y… c\u00f3 tr\u1eddi m\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.\u201d \u0110\u1ebfn khi \u00f4ng ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed9c d\u1ea1ng l\u0103ng nh\u0103ng th\u00ec t\u00f4i th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n b\u00f3c m\u1ebd \u00f4ng ta l\u1eafm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn. Th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 khuy\u00ean r\u1eb1ng, \u201cN\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u00ec c\u1ee9 ly h\u00f4n cho xong.\u201d \u0110i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh v\u1ed1n d\u0129 ch\u1ec9 th\u00fa v\u1ecb khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n. \u0110\u00f4i l\u00fac con ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do trong s\u1ef1 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c. Ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ee7 nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c t\u00ecnh say \u0111\u1eafm t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea5t t\u1eadn. Trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft th\u00fac \u0111\u00e3 b\u00e0y ra tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft khi cu\u1ed9c v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i cho \u0111\u00f4i t\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n m\u00e0 d\u00e0nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi t\u1ed9i nghi\u1ec7p b\u1ecb ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng m\u00e0u h\u1ed3ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc. Trong cu\u1ed1n ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft K\u1ebb th\u00f9, m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Isaac Bashevis Singer, nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi Do Th\u00e1i Ph\u1ea7n Lan nh\u1eadp c\u01b0 v\u00e0o M\u1ef9 v\u00e0 anh ta dan d\u00edu v\u1edbi ba ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fac. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean anh ta kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng n\u00e0o t\u1eeb b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai \u1edf \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9a ch\u1ea5p m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3. \u201cNh\u1eefng lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 M\u1ef9 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0a ra gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n: \u2018Anh y\u00eau ai? B\u1ecf nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i, ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t chuy\u1ec7n l\u0103ng nh\u0103ng, t\u00ecm c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 \u0111i g\u1eb7p c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc \u0111i.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 chuy\u1ec7n ph\u00e2n chia th\u1eddi gian v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 3 b\u00e0 l\u00e0m anh ta s\u1ed1ng d\u1edf ch\u1ebft d\u1edf nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c anh ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ai. \u201c\u2018Th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 khi m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi,\u2019anh t\u1ef1 th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn. \u2018Tamara ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng xinh \u0111\u1eb9p, nhu m\u00ec v\u00e0 \u00fd nh\u1ecb. V\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi Masha. Ly d\u1ecb ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea9y c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u00e0o v\u00f2ng tay \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00e1c c\u1ea3. V\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, nh\u1eefng tay chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p n\u00e0y lu\u00f4n th\u1ed1t ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u00e1nh nh\u1eb1m l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb1ng sau.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ng\u00e0y nay \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1 cao ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 m\u1ed9t v\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u. Nh\u01b0ng b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta v\u1eabn ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn cho nh\u1eefng ai \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ec1n th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng say n\u1eafng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qu\u00e1 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n v\u00ec c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng cho d\u00f9 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady h\u1ecd c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n b\u1ecb ph\u00e1n t\u1ed9i t\u1eed h\u00ecnh hay theo l\u1ed1i n\u00f3i M\u1ef9 l\u00e0 \u201cl\u1eeba d\u1ed1i su\u1ed1t bao nhi\u00eau n\u0103m th\u00e1ng.\u201d \u1ede b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e2u ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u0169ng l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn nh\u01b0ng \u0111au t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c n\u00e0o th\u00ec c\u00f2n t\u00f9y v\u00e0o ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh v\u00e0 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00f3 l\u1ebd ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean noi theo g\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u00e1p. N\u00f3i chung, khi h\u1ecd ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u00ec h\u1ecd t\u1ef1 cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng. H\u1ecd l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch cho nh\u1eefng b\u1eefa \u0103n ngon, khung c\u1ea3nh l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd t\u1ef1 gi\u00e0y v\u00f2 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khi h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y \u0111i qu\u00e1 xa th\u00ec h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u00e1p t\u1eebng k\u1ec3 r\u1eb1ng anh ta b\u1ecb nh\u00e2n t\u00ecnh tr\u00e1ch m\u1eafng v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng tu\u00e2n theo nh\u1eefng quy \u0111\u1ecbnh d\u00e0nh cho nh\u00e2n t\u00ecnh: Anh ta ph\u1ea3i mua qu\u00e0 v\u00e0 \u00edt nh\u1ea5t ph\u1ea3i ch\u1edf c\u00f4 \u0111i ch\u01a1i v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu anh ta l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f4ng khai v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 nh\u01b0ng \u00edt nh\u1ea5t anh ta c\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ai qu\u00e1 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u00f4i c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean khi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u00e1p hay m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi Nh\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ea5t v\u1ea5n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. L\u1ea5y v\u00ed d\u1ee5 m\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u00e1p n\u1ecd, khi chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi \u00f4ng ta v\u00e0 h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n chung s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean d\u01b0 \u00e2m c\u1ee7a chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f4i khi v\u1eabn l\u00e0m h\u1ecd l\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ee5c, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec to t\u00e1t x\u1ea3y ra c\u1ea3. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec t\u00f4i s\u1ebd ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 cho xong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ngo\u00e0i ra c\u00f2n m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c n\u01b0\u1edbc kh\u00e1c ngo\u00e0i M\u1ef9 l\u00e0: v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i r\u00f5 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 trong l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. V\u00ec khi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n ch\u00fat b\u00ed m\u1eadt n\u00e0o v\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n g\u00ec th\u00fa v\u1ecb trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n n\u1eefa c\u1ea3. Ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean gi\u1eef l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat b\u00ed m\u1eadt cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh hay \u00edt nh\u1ea5t h\u00e3y v\u1edd nh\u01b0 ta \u0111ang che gi\u1ea5u m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf h\u01a1n khi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng h\u01a1i s\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia<\/a> l\u00e0 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng n\u00ean th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1edbi nhau v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 n\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t trong hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 th\u00ec sao. H\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i c\u00f9ng nhau v\u1ea1ch ra m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t khi n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng may x\u1ea3y ra. C\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia<\/a> l\u00fd lu\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng, chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n khi m\u1ed9t trong hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111i l\u00e0m v\u1ec1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eddi \u0111i \u0103n tr\u01b0a v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh xao xuy\u1ebfn. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa b\u00ed m\u1eadt n\u00e0y s\u1ebd ng\u0103n ng\u1eeba c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i cho c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 \u00e2m th\u1ea7m ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho \u00fd ngh\u0129 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh b\u1edbt l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p l\u1eadt t\u1ea9y chuy\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh sinh ra t\u1eeb lli\u00ean h\u1ee3p k\u1ef9 ngh\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m \u1edf M\u1ef9. Trong gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec ch\u1eafc kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0o ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u00edt h\u01a1n M\u1ef9 v\u00ec M\u1ef9 \u0111\u00e3 thu\u1ed9c h\u00e0ng th\u1ea5p nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 v\u1ee5ng tr\u1ed9m tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi r\u1ed3i. C\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 trong kinh t\u1ebf s\u1ebd c\u00f3 t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 th\u1ea5t nghi\u1ec7p nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u00ec gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c n\u01b0\u1edbc c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u1ea5p nh\u1ea5t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh (kho\u1ea3ng 3% \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng l\u0103ng nh\u0103ng trong th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u). Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f3 t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n nh\u01b0 Bangladesh hay Kazakhstan th\u00ec l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n n\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 \u0111\u1eb7t ra nh\u1eefng ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n qu\u00e1 kh\u1eaft khe cho h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 chung th\u1ee7y m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi. Trong ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft Le Divorce (Chuy\u1ec7n Ly H\u00f4n) c\u1ee7a Diane Johnson, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng Ph\u00e1p c\u00f3 v\u1ee3 b\u1ea3o v\u1edbi c\u00f4 nh\u00e2n t\u00ecnh tr\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng, \u2018Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a em lu\u00f4n hi v\u1ecdng v\u00e0o t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m nh\u1eb1m t\u1ea1o nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t. \u0110\u00f4i khi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, hi v\u1ecdng s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh ni\u1ec1m tin. Anh ngh\u0129 h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 S\u1ee9c M\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 L\u1ea1c Quan. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u00e1p ch\u1eb3ng m\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng h\u00e3o huy\u1ec1n r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n di\u1ec5n ra theo chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u1ea3.\u201d C\u00f2n h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 th\u00ec v\u1eabn s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n tin r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: Gi\u1ea3i m\u00e3 d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng – Pamela Druckerman Sau khi lang thang v\u00f2ng quanh th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c t\u00f4i c\u0169ng tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 b\u00e0n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u1edf Paris. Bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ed3 x\u1ebfp h\u1ea1ng t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ghim tr\u00ean b\u1ee9c […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16490","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tam-ly"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16490","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16490"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16490\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16492,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16490\/revisions\/16492"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16490"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16490"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16490"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}