{"id":16497,"date":"2021-12-04T14:26:09","date_gmt":"2021-12-04T07:26:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/post\/?p=16497"},"modified":"2021-12-04T14:26:09","modified_gmt":"2021-12-04T07:26:09","slug":"thay-doi-ve-the-chat-khi-ta-yeu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/thay-doi-ve-the-chat-khi-ta-yeu\/","title":{"rendered":"Thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t khi ta y\u00eau"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: T\u00e1n t\u1ec9nh b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai &#8211; Leil Lowndes<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u201cT\u1ea1i sao m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 trong t\u00f4i tr\u1edf n\u00ean bu\u1ed3n c\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ebf n\u00e0y?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Y\u00eau ai \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh bao h\u00e0m c\u1ea3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n. M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn ra nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n n\u1eafm b\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1eb7t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1i m\u00e1y qu\u00e9t c\u1ee7a b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o v\u00e0 d\u01b0\u1edbi m\u00e1y ch\u1ee5p tia X quang. Ta h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng ki\u1ec3m tra xem nh\u1eefng bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t s\u1ebd di\u1ec5n ra th\u1ebf n\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng khi anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng x\u00fac c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u00f3 t\u00ean g\u1ecdi \u201ct\u00ecnh y\u00eau\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cAi \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5t PEA trong n\u00e3o m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau t\u00f4i \u01b0?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>V\u00e2ng, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf. C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta, ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong n\u00e3o c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5t PEA m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft y\u00eau. Khi y\u00eau n\u00e3o ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd ti\u1ebft ra m\u1ed9t ch\u1ea5t h\u00f3a h\u1ecdc c\u00f3 t\u00ean l\u00e0 phenylethylamine hay g\u1ecdi t\u1eaft l\u00e0 PEA. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ea5t h\u00f3a h\u1ecdc \u201canh em\u201d c\u1ee7a ch\u1ea5t amphetamines, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u0169ng t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 k\u00edch ho\u1ea1t t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>PEA l\u00e0 ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebft ra qua h\u1ec7 th\u1ea7n kinh v\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1ea1ch m\u00e1u t\u1ea1o n\u00ean ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1edbi m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 \u201ccao\u201d nh\u01b0 thu\u1ed1c phi\u1ec7n. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 h\u00f3a ch\u1ea5t l\u00e0m tim b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eadp&nbsp;nhanh h\u01a1n, b\u00e0n tay to\u00e1t m\u1ed3 h\u00f4i v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 b\u00ean trong \u201ctr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n\u201d. (Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u1ed3n r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ea5t PEA c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n c\u1edfi b\u1ecf qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ngay trong c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc cho r\u1eb1ng, ch\u1ea5t phenylethylamine c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi ch\u1ea5t dopamine v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5t norepinephrine \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ea3n sinh trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 khi l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean ta c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ai \u0111\u00f3. N\u00f3 c\u0169ng g\u1ea7n v\u1edbi m\u1ee9c cao t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean khi c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tin bu\u1ed3n l\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i k\u00edch th\u00edch \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng k\u00e9o d\u00e0i m\u00e3i m\u00e3i. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y b\u1ed5 sung th\u00eam v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee9ng c\u1ee9 khoa h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 d\u1ec5 ch\u1ebft y\u1ec3u. (\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do v\u00ec sao nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ed9i th\u1ef1c v\u00ec y\u00eau).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng tin vui l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i \u0111\u1ee7 l\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u01a1i ngu\u1ed3n cho nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi. Kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian trung b\u00ecnh t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t n\u0103m r\u01b0\u1ee1i t\u1edbi 3 n\u0103m l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ec3 anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u201cT\u00f4i y\u00eau\u201d v\u00e0\/ho\u1eb7c duy tr\u00ec n\u00f2i gi\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>V\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea1y quanh v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u1ed1ng ti\u00eam ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ea7y ch\u1ea5t phenylethylamine, g\u1eb7p \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 ti\u00eam c\u00e1i \u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea7y ch\u1ea5t PEA \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0o m\u1ea1ch m\u00e1u c\u1ee7a anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t ti\u1ebfp theo. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 k\u00edch ho\u1ea1t nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a ch\u1ea5t PEA trong n\u00e3o ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o cho h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111ang y\u00eau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cT\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n s\u1ebd th\u1ee9c d\u1eady \u0111\u1ea7y b\u00ed \u1ea9n trong bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng qu\u00e1 t\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5t PEA trong n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 r\u1ed3i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u say m\u00ea ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y khi \u0111\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng, ch\u1ea5t PEA v\u00e0 c\u00e1c h\u00f3a ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ecb em v\u1edbi n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng x\u00fac c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ph\u1ea7n n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 b\u00ean trong tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t k\u00edch th\u00edch c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u01b0? \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u00f9i n\u01b0\u1edbc hoa tho\u1ea3ng qua c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y, l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch anh \u1ea5y n\u00f3i \u201cxin ch\u00e0o\u201d, c\u00e1ch c\u00f4 \u1ea5y nh\u0103n m\u0169i khi c\u01b0\u1eddi. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ngay m\u1ed9t m\u1ea3nh qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o b\u1ea1n m\u1eb7c th\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee7 khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n n\u1ed5i h\u1ee9ng r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, n\u0103m 1924, Conrad Hilton, nh\u00e0 s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp ra chu\u1ed7i kh\u00e1ch s\u1ea1n mang th\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec7u Hilton \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb h\u1edbp h\u1ed3n b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc m\u0169 \u0111\u1ecf n\u1eb1m c\u00e1ch \u00f4ng kho\u1ea3ng 5 b\u01b0\u1edbc trong nh\u00e0 th\u1edd. Sau bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5, \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i theo chi\u1ebfc m\u0169 \u0111\u1ecf t\u1edbi cu\u1ed1i \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng th\u00ec c\u01b0\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ed9i chi\u1ebfc m\u0169 \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cT\u1ea1i sao nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m n\u1ea3y sinh t\u00ecnh y\u00eau?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u1ea1i sao nh\u1eefng k\u00edch th\u00edch d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m kh\u1edfi ph\u00e1t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau? Ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u? Li\u1ec7u ch\u00fang c\u00f3 n\u1eb1m trong gen c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kh\u00f4ng, gen ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan g\u00ec t\u1edbi chuy\u1ec7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng nhau c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. B\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u1eb1m s\u00e2u trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd ch\u00fang ta. \u0110\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t h\u1ecfa khi ch\u00fang ta nh\u00ecn (nghe, ng\u1ee7, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y) c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ta th\u00edch n\u1eb1m ng\u1ee7 y\u00ean trong ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c ch\u00fang ta. N\u00f3 ch\u1ea3y ra t\u1eeb l\u00f2ng chi\u1ebfc gi\u1ebfng g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng&nbsp;\u0111\u00e1y m\u00e0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u1edfi ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3&nbsp;\u2013 nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u. Quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t, nh\u1eefng g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta trong kho\u1ea3ng t\u1eeb 5 \u0111\u1ebfn 8 tu\u1ed5i. Khi ta c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf, m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c \u201ch\u1eb1n s\u00e2u\u201d di\u1ec5n ra. N\u00f3 c\u0169ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra \u1edf m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 lo\u00e0i nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Trong su\u1ed1t nh\u1eefng n\u0103m 1930, nh\u00e0 l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00dac l\u1eebng danh, ti\u1ebfn s\u1ef9 Konrad Lorenz \u0111\u00e3 bu\u1ed9c m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e0n v\u1ecbt con ph\u1ea3i g\u1eafn b\u00f3 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eafc d\u0129 v\u1edbi \u00f4ng. Quan s\u00e1t c\u00e1ch l\u0169 v\u1ecbt con nh\u00e1o nh\u00e1c ngay sau khi n\u1edf, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ebdo \u0111\u1ebdo theo m\u1eb9 \u2013 v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf cho t\u1edbi l\u00fac tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u2013 ti\u1ebfn s\u1ef9 Lorenz quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u201ckh\u1eafc s\u00e2u\u201d v\u1edbi l\u0169 v\u1ecbt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00d4ng cho \u1ea5p m\u1ed9t l\u00f4 tr\u1ee9ng v\u1ecbt trong l\u00f2. Ngay c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean khi l\u0169 v\u1ecbt nh\u1ecf tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi v\u1ecf tr\u1ee9ng, \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00fai xu\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt th\u1ea5p nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 \u00f4ng l\u00e0 v\u1ecbt m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm c\u00e1c qu\u1ea3 tr\u1ee9ng. V\u1ecf tr\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eadp t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 l\u0169 v\u1ecbt c\u1ee9 l\u1ebdo \u0111\u1ebdo \u0111i theo v\u1ecb ti\u1ebfn s\u1ef9 quanh ph\u00f2ng th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>V\u00ec th\u1ebf, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng con v\u1ecbt m\u1eb9 th\u1ef1c th\u1ee5, nh\u1eefng ch\u00fa v\u1ecbt nh\u1ecf v\u1edbi k\u00fd \u1ee9c h\u1eb1n s\u00e2u n\u00e0y v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u1ebdo \u0111\u1ebdo theo ti\u1ebfn s\u1ef9 Lorenz trong m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng, hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n trong c\u00e1c lo\u00e0i chim. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 quan s\u00e1t th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u d\u1ea1ng th\u1ee9c k\u00fd \u1ee9c h\u1eb1n s\u00e2u trong c\u00e1c lo\u00e0i c\u00e1, chu\u1ed9t lang, c\u1eebu, nai, b\u00f2 v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u lo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt c\u00f3 v\u00fa kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>V\u1eady lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 mi\u1ec5n d\u1ecbch v\u1edbi k\u00fd \u1ee9c h\u1eb1n s\u00e2u kh\u00f4ng? V\u00e2ng, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ch\u00fa v\u1ecbt con b\u1ecb l\u1eeba ph\u1ec9nh c\u1ee9 x\u1ebfp h\u00e0ng theo sau ti\u1ebfn s\u1ef9 Lorenz, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c b\u00f2 theo v\u1ecb b\u00e1c s\u1ef9 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ebb ta khi ta \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. Nh\u01b0ng<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee9ng c\u1ee9 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n d\u1ec5 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a lo\u1ea1i k\u00fd \u1ee9c h\u1eb1n s\u00e2u \u2013 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng th\u1ee9c h\u1eb1n s\u00e2u ban \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 tr\u00ean to\u00e0n c\u1ea7u, ti\u1ebfn s\u1ef9 John Money \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp t\u1edbi thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef \u201cb\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau\u201d cho tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y. C\u00e1c b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft kh\u1eafc ch\u1ea1m c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u0111au, ni\u1ec1m vui s\u01b0\u1edbng trong n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 ch\u00fang ta \u1edf nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean v\u1edbi c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1. V\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft c\u1eaft s\u00e2u s\u1eafc t\u1edbi n\u1ed7i ch\u00fang c\u1ee9 h\u1eb1n s\u00e2u m\u00e3i m\u00e3i \u1edf m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u1ec9 ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ed7i d\u1eady khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u00edch th\u00edch ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ti\u1ebfn s\u1ef9 Money n\u00f3i: \u201cB\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Ch\u00fang ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eb7t, c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 n\u00e3o b\u1ed9. M\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u00f3, s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng, kh\u00f4ng h\u00f2 h\u1eb9n, kh\u00f4ng sinh s\u00f4i n\u00f2i gi\u1ed1ng\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea1m kh\u1eafc m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f3 tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 ch\u00fang ta, v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng xung \u0111\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng, v\u00e0o t\u00e2m l\u00fd, v\u00e0o ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n d\u00f9ng lo\u1ea1i n\u01b0\u1edbc hoa n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3; ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha th\u00e2n y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng, hay th\u1ea7y\/c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o y\u00eau th\u00edch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u0103n m\u0169i khi c\u01b0\u1eddi. (C\u00f3 l\u1ebd, m\u1ed9t qu\u00fd b\u00e0 xinh \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ed9i chi\u1ebfc m\u0169 \u0111\u1ecf l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi v\u1edbi Connie Hilton khi \u00f4ng sinh tr\u01b0\u1edfng \u1edf v\u00f9ng San Antonio, New Mexico).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. V\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng b\u1ecb x\u00e2m h\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, th\u00ec gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y b\u1ea1n&nbsp;ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2m \u0111\u00e3ng. C\u00f2n v\u1edbi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, n\u1ebfu b\u00e0 d\u00ec cay nghi\u1ec7t t\u00e0n b\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u1eebng d\u00f9ng lo\u1ea1i n\u01b0\u1edbc hoa \u201cJoy\u201d th\u00ec h\u1eb3n gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00e0o c\u00f3 m\u00f9i h\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a lo\u1ea1i n\u01b0\u1edbc hoa \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ea1y tr\u1ed1n th\u1eadt mau h\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 con b\u1ecd tr\u1ed1n bi\u1ebfn \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc lo\u00e0i c\u00f4n tr\u00f9ng thi\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbch v\u1eady.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>B\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u1ee9a nh\u1eefng con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p. Nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c ban \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ch\u00fang t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t l\u1ed1i r\u1ebd l\u1ea1 l\u00f9ng. Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u01a1i, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cha b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ch\u1ea1y theo m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 kh\u00e1c, b\u1ecf m\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n. Th\u00ec gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y, n\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u1ee9 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1eaft v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng qu\u00fd b\u00e0 \u0111i ngang, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u1eeb b\u1ecf anh \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb l\u00e3ng qu\u00ean \u2013 c\u1ea3 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u2013 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ghi nh\u1edb. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu g\u1eb7p \u0111\u00fang th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m, c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 k\u00edch ho\u1ea1t m\u1ed9t trong s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang, th\u00ec tr\u1eddi \u1ea1, m\u1ed9t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng PEA s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c truy\u1ec1n qua m\u1ea1ch m\u00e1u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 l\u00e0m h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n tr\u00ed n\u00e3o, che m\u1edd l\u00fd do v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u y\u00eau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 cho nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i c\u1ea7n g\u1ea1t kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ed9ng cho chi\u1ebfc \u00f4 t\u00f4 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, gi\u1edd t\u1edbi l\u01b0\u1ee3t ph\u1ea7n pin \u0111\u1ea3m nhi\u1ec7m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, sau khi b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t ra ch\u1ea5t PEA \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do nho nh\u1ecf (hi v\u1ecdng th\u1ebf) b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 th\u00f4ng qua ch\u1ea5t x\u00e1m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Khi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u nhau h\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y (ph\u1ea7n 2), v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi: \u201cT\u00f4i s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec t\u1eeb m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y?\u201d (ph\u1ea7n 3). Ch\u00fang ta l\u1eafng nghe b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 xem x\u00e9t m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o (ph\u1ea7n 4).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u00ecnh y\u00eau ban \u0111\u1ea7u r\u1ea5t ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o, v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta hay ch\u1ee3t qu\u00ean l\u00e3ng \u0111i \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong v\u00e0i cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean (ph\u1ea7n 5). V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u2013 ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfp di\u1ec5n \u2013 gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng t\u1edd gi\u1ea5y lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn. Xuy\u00ean su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch T\u00e1n t\u1ec9nh b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 n\u00e0y t\u1eeb g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 khoa h\u1ecdc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec3m xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t. B\u1ea1n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u? V\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5t PEA \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb m\u1ea1ch m\u00e1u c\u1ee7a anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y sang b\u1ea1n?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: T\u00e1n t\u1ec9nh b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai &#8211; Leil Lowndes \u201cT\u1ea1i sao m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 trong t\u00f4i tr\u1edf n\u00ean bu\u1ed3n c\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ebf n\u00e0y?\u201d Y\u00eau ai \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh bao h\u00e0m c\u1ea3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n. M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn ra nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16497","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tam-ly"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16497","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16497"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16497\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16498,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16497\/revisions\/16498"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16497"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16497"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16497"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}