T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: T\u00e1n t\u1ec9nh b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai – Leil Lowndes<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ed1ng h\u1ec7t m\u00ecnh<\/p>\n\n\n\n
(V\u00e2ng, g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 gi\u1ed1ng h\u1ec7t) \u201cCh\u00ednh anh v\u00e0 em, ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau \u01a1i, \u0111\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed9c ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111i\u00ean r\u1ed3 n\u00e0y\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
H\u1eb3n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nghe c\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u0169 r\u00edch n\u00e0y: \u201cTr\u00e1i d\u1ea5u th\u00ec m\u1edbi h\u00fat nhau\u201d. V\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n h\u1eb3n \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng: \u201cNg\u01b0u t\u1ea7m ng\u01b0u, m\u00e3 t\u1ea7m m\u00e3\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng? Nh\u01b0ng trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111i\u00ean kh\u00f9ng k\u1ef3 di\u1ec7u nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i h\u1ee3p l\u00fd v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t khoa h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i, ch\u00fang l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. Ph\u1ea7n tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ec1u n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta r\u1eb1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb thu h\u00fat b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 chung quan \u0111i\u1ec3m, c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi h\u1ed1i h\u1ea3 v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u, \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c ta lu\u00f4n quay cu\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ea3o l\u1ed9n. Ta th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n: \u201cT\u00f4i n\u00ean c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3? T\u00f4i n\u00ean tin \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec?\u201d V\u1edbi qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ea7m m\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1 qu\u1ea9n quanh trong \u00f3c ch\u00fang ta, khi\u1ebfn ta b\u0103n kho\u0103n: \u201cC\u00e1i g\u00ec m\u1edbi c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u0111\u00e2y?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
R\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c, khi ta th\u1ea5y ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 ta v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, ta c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u01b0 th\u00e1i v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng. Ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n bi\u1ebfn \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u00e0nh: \u201cCh\u00ednh anh v\u00e0 em, ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau \u01a1i, \u0111\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed9c ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111i\u00ean r\u1ed3 n\u00e0y\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u1eafp m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i k\u00e9n nh\u1ecf bao b\u1ecdc l\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u1edf c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eefa c\u0169ng c\u00f3 chung quan \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 cho m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi h\u1ed7n \u0111\u1ed9n. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh su\u1ed1t \u0111\u00eam b\u00ean nhau trong m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i k\u00e9n \u1ea5m \u00e1p m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t l\u1ef1c l\u01b0\u1ee3ng hay gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. S\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng khi\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau tr\u1edf n\u00ean an to\u00e0n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
S\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u00fd do duy nh\u1ea5t khi\u1ebfn ta t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e2u b\u1ec1n, h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn kh\u00f4n ngoan. C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i s\u1ed1ng b\u00ean nhau h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n. Nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb gi\u1ed1ng nhau s\u1ebd gi\u00fap nh\u1eefng h\u00f2n than t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u1ea5m n\u00f3ng l\u00e2u h\u01a1n sau khi ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda \u0111am m\u00ea thu\u1edf ban \u0111\u1ea7u ngu\u1ed9i l\u1ea1nh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng\u2026 v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. M\u1ed9t ch\u00fat th\u00f4i<\/p>\n\n\n\n
S\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi an to\u00e0n. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu qu\u00e1 gi\u1ed1ng nhau th\u00ec theo th\u1eddi gian s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n. V\u00ec th\u1ebf ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u0169ng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y m\u1edbi l\u00e0 r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i: H\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang y\u00eau mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn cho quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u00fa v\u1ecb \u2013 nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho h\u1ecd nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m m\u1edbi, th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n v\u1edbi h\u1ecd nh\u1eefng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1edbi, d\u1ea1y h\u1ecd nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng<\/a> m\u1edbi, c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd\u2026 v\u00e0 b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp cho h\u1ecd nh\u1eefng thi\u1ebfu h\u1ee5t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n H\u1ecd c\u0169ng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00f3 t\u00ednh b\u1ed5 sung trong \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c. \u0110\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 b\u1ed5 sung ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m \u201ctr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n ho\u1eb7c mang \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o\u201d. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng r\u1ee5t r\u00e8 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u1ea1t ng\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp cho s\u1ef1 nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t c\u1ee7a anh ta. M\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 tinh t\u1ebf trong \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 lo\u1ea1i r\u01b0\u1ee3u anh ta u\u1ed1ng. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u qu\u00e1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u1edf \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c. Ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110\u00f4i khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi mong mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eefng t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c \u1edf \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng trong k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt h\u00e0 kh\u1eafc c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh qu\u00fd t\u1ed9c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd \u201cph\u00e1t \u0111i\u00ean\u201d v\u00ec m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00f4n ngoan, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb th\u1ea5p. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00f4n ngoan n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t th\u00e8m mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc xe Limousine, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u1ea3n gia, m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 h\u1ea7u g\u00e1i. Nh\u01b0ng ngay c\u1ea3 khi h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ki\u1ec3u n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng k\u00e9o d\u00e0i. V\u00e0 h\u1ecd hi\u1ebfm khi c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e2u d\u00e0i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o (vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang y\u00eau t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t) \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ai \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n? Th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng may l\u00e0 khi l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean g\u1eb7p \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 d\u1eef li\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9 v\u1edbi h\u1ecd, d\u00f9 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng, r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n V\u1eady n\u00ean b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. H\u00e3y quan s\u00e1t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u1eadt c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn. Sau \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00f4 s\u00e1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. (N\u1ebfu t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, sau n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t c\u00f3 b\u1ed5 sung cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng).<\/p>\n\n\n\n T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn ban \u0111\u1ea7u thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp n\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf n\u00e0y: S\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 l\u00e0 ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y. \u201cC\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y\u201d l\u00e0 t\u1eeb kh\u00f3a \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. Ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c ph\u1eabu thu\u1eadt n\u00e3o \u1edf th\u00f9y tr\u01b0\u1edbc tr\u00e1n, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9, gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac hay c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. B\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng tri\u1ebft l\u00fd t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, \u00e1m ch\u1ec9 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng x\u00e1c t\u00edn t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, b\u00f3ng gi\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng th\u1ea9m m\u1ef9 gi\u1ed1ng nhau. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trang b\u1ecb cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt tinh t\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 n\u00e9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Trong c\u00e1c trang sau, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd trang b\u1ecb cho b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u00e0 phi ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t gi\u1ed1ng nhau. Trong s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt h\u01a1i cao si\u00eau. S\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c r\u1ea5t c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. Nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng trong ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c?<\/p>\n\n\n\n L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u201cT\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i gi\u1ed1ng nhau \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1eady?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng g\u1eb7p ai \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y v\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec3m chung\u201d kh\u00f4ng? Thu h\u00fat t\u1ee9c th\u1eddi, giao c\u1ea3m t\u1ee9c th\u1eddi, th\u00e2n m\u1eadt t\u1ee9c th\u1eddi, y\u00eau th\u00edch t\u1ee9c th\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 \u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh tinh kh\u00e1c!\u201d Th\u1edd \u01a1 t\u1ee9c th\u00ec, d\u1eedng d\u01b0ng t\u1ee9c th\u00ec, l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng t\u1ee9c th\u00ec v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u01b0a t\u1ee9c th\u00ec. M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p ai \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac dao \u0111\u1ed9ng gi\u1eefa hai th\u00e1i c\u1ef1c n\u00e0y. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn t\u1eeb ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd. V\u00e0 c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn t\u1eeb ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd cho h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n. Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef ph\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, h\u1ecdc v\u1ea5n tri th\u1ee9c, nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ta n\u1eefa. Nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean v\u1ec1 t\u1eeb ng\u1eef l\u1ea1i ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9 c\u00e1ch ta c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u1ede m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 n\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2u \u00c2u, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f2n r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t h\u01a1n n\u1eefa. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 5 hay 10 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef trong ti\u1ebfng m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebb. H\u1ecd g\u1ecdi ch\u00fang l\u00e0 \u201cph\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u1eef\u201d. V\u00e0 khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u v\u1edbi nhau t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, h\u1ecd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00f4m nhau \u0111\u1ec3 ghi nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng gi\u1eefa h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef thu\u1ed9c ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t ch\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 b\u1edfi c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u201cc\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00e1c nh\u00f3m ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1ea7n nhau th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb gi\u1ed1ng nhau. C\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00f9ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef gi\u1ed1ng nhau. \u0110\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a c\u00e2u l\u1ea1c b\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ec1u n\u00f3i gi\u1ed1ng nhau. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y gi\u00fap ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tinh t\u1ebf gi\u1eefa gia \u0111\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. M\u1ecdi ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ec1u thu\u1ed9c m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn kh\u00e1c nhau gi\u1eefa v\u00f9ng n\u00e0y v\u1edbi v\u00f9ng kh\u00e1c, gi\u1eefa ng\u00e0nh n\u00e0y v\u1edbi ng\u00e0nh kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed gi\u1eefa gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u00e0y v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra n\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u2013 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u2013 \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n gi\u1ed1ng h\u1ecd \u2013 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n l\u1eafng nghe ch\u0103m ch\u00fa l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129a kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nhau. Ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n \u0111i h\u1ecdc, \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t t\u1eeb l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec3u theo ngh\u0129a \u0111en. C\u00f2n ngh\u0129a h\u00e0m s\u00fac l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed xung quanh n\u00f3 \u2013 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, h\u00e3y s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb m\u00e0 anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00f9ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00e1c qu\u00fd \u00f4ng th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn, gi\u1ea3 s\u1eed b\u1ea1n v\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t thi\u1ebfu ph\u1ee5 tr\u1ebb h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn v\u1eeba ly h\u00f4n. Trong cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u201c\u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 \u201ctr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf\u201d, \u201ctr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh\u201d, \u201ctr\u1ebb em\u201d, \u201ctr\u1ebb ch\u1eadp ch\u1eefng bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u0169ng d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb n\u00e0y. V\u00ec v\u1eady, khi tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi n\u00e0ng, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y d\u00f9ng b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 t\u1eeb n\u00e0o c\u00f4 \u1ea5y th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00f9ng khi nh\u1eafc t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a nh\u1ecf. Khi b\u1ea1n l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i l\u1eddi n\u00e0ng n\u00f3i, n\u00e0ng s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n h\u01a1n \u2013 nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u00e0ng r\u1ed3i v\u1eady.<\/p>\n\n\n\n B\u00e1c s\u1ef9 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 tr\u1ebb. Trong su\u1ed1t nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean gi\u1eefa ch\u00fang t\u00f4i, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eafc t\u1edbi \u201cem b\u00e9 m\u1edbi sinh\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a t\u1eeb \u201cem b\u00e9 m\u1edbi sinh\u201d, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1eeb t\u00f4i v\u1eabn d\u00f9ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y. Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb n\u00e0y trong khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n bao gi\u1edd ch\u01b0a. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng: \u201cAi tr\u00f4ng nom em b\u00e9 m\u1edbi sinh trong khi c\u00f4 \u0111i l\u00e0m?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u1ea5m \u00e1p v\u00e0 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft c\u00f4 \u1ea5y nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb t\u00f4i khi t\u00f4i d\u00f9ng \u0111\u00fang ch\u1eef m\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 d\u00f9ng \u201cem b\u00e9 m\u1edbi sinh\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00e1c ch\u1ecb em \u01a1i, gi\u1ea3 s\u1eed b\u1ea1n \u0111ang tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t anh ch\u00e0ng t\u1ea1i b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c. Anh \u1ea5y n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u201cc\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c\u201d, \u201cngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p\u201d, \u201cnhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5\u201d hay \u201cvai tr\u00f2\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, n\u1ebfu anh \u1ea5y l\u00e0 lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 v\u00e0 anh \u1ea5y d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb \u201cngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p\u201d. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i \u201cc\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c\u201d, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 anh \u1ea5y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i l\u1eafm. Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu anh ch\u00e0ng \u0111\u1eb9p trai m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng nh\u00e2n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng, anh \u1ea5y s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n th\u1eadt ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n khi d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb \u201cngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00e1c nhau c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c t\u1eeb kh\u00e1c nhau \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ecba \u0111i\u1ec3m h\u1ecd t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c. C\u00e1c lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 n\u00f3i h\u1ecd t\u1edbi \u201ch\u00e3ng\u201d, nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh s\u1ebd n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u201c\u0111\u00e0i\u201d; c\u00e1c ki\u1ebfn tr\u00fac s\u01b0 s\u1ebd g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u201cv\u0103n ph\u00f2ng\u201d v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n l\u1ea1i g\u1ecdi c\u00f4ng s\u1edf c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 \u201cnh\u00e0 xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n\u201d, \u201cnh\u00e0 s\u00e1ch\u201d. Vi\u1ec7c l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng khi b\u1ea1n tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c hay s\u1edf th\u00edch ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a ai \u0111\u00f3, v\u00ec vi\u1ec7c d\u00f9ng sai t\u1eeb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u00e0i cu\u1ed9c v\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng hi\u1ec3u g\u00ec v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u1ea3. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb7c nhi\u00ean g\u1ea1t nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u00e9m hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ra ngo\u00e0i. V\u00ec l\u1eddi l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n d\u00f9ng cho th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c n\u00e0o n\u00ean \u0111\u1eebng v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh d\u00f9ng sai ch\u1eef ngh\u0129a nh\u00e9. \u201cH\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng bi\u1ec3u di\u1ec5n\u201d hay \u201cbu\u1ed5i tr\u00ecnh di\u1ec5n\u201d \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f9ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 tham gia v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1c qu\u00fd \u00f4ng l\u01b0u t\u00e2m cho, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eabu th\u1eddi trang, t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb \u201ch\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng bi\u1ec3u di\u1ec5n\u201d n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb9p. C\u00f2n c\u00e1c qu\u00fd c\u00f4, n\u1ebfu \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t nh\u1ea1c s\u1ef9 c\u1ee7a d\u00f2ng nh\u1ea1c Pop tr\u1ebb trung, t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n n\u00ean d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb \u201cbu\u1ed5i tr\u00ecnh di\u1ec5n\u201d, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1c ch\u00e0ng s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 d\u00f9ng sai m\u1ed9t t\u1eeb, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed kh\u00f4ng vui r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n B\u1ea1n c\u00f2n nh\u1edb anh ch\u00e0ng Phil kh\u00f4ng? M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111i d\u1ef1 ti\u1ec7c. C\u1eadu \u1ea5y \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee9ng g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 t\u00f4i nghe l\u1ecfm th\u1ea5y c\u1eadu ta \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t n\u1eef di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean quy\u1ebfn r\u0169. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111ang ph\u1ea5n kh\u1edfi mi\u00eau t\u1ea3 vai di\u1ec5n c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3ng. T\u00f4i nghe th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u1ea5y b\u1ea3o Phil r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y r\u1ea5t th\u00edch c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i di\u1ec5n t\u1eadp. (C\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00edch th\u00fa cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi Phil). \u201c\u1ed2,\u201d Phil bu\u1ed9t mi\u1ec7ng, \u201cbao l\u00e2u em luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n?\u201d Tr\u1eddi \u1ea1! V\u00ec c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u1edf nh\u00e0 h\u00e1t n\u00ean t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd g\u00e2y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu. \u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng gi\u1eef ch\u00e2n n\u1eef di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean xinh \u0111\u1eb9p l\u1ea1i. T\u1eeb c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i l\u00e0 \u201cdi\u1ec5n t\u1eadp\u201d b\u1ea1n \u01a1i, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u201cluy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n t\u00f9y bi\u1ebfn th\u00f4i. \u0110\u00fang l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t th\u00ec h\u1ecd luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1c di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean tr\u00ean s\u00e2n kh\u1ea5u kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3. H\u1ecd n\u00f3i \u201cdi\u1ec5n t\u1eadp\u201d. N\u1eef di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean cho r\u1eb1ng Phil hi\u1ec3u qu\u00e1 \u00edt v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 khi d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb \u201cluy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp\u201d th\u00ec sao c\u1eadu \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00fa v\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kia ch\u1ee9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n V\u00e0 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea7y 10 ph\u00fat sau \u0111\u00f3, Phil l\u1ea1i m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i. L\u1ea7n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 trong cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 nh\u00f3m. M\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i tr\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 Suzie Chaffee1 \u0111ang kho\u00e1c l\u00e1c r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u1eeba mua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t \u201cc\u0103n nh\u00e0 tuy\u1ebft\u201d \u1edf v\u00f9ng n\u00fai. \u201cTuy\u1ec7t qu\u00e1\u201d, Phil n\u00f3i. \u201cC\u0103n ph\u00f2ng nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u v\u1eady?\u201d N\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y t\u1eaft l\u1ecbm c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a Phil. Ch\u1ebft l\u1eb7ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fac, sau r\u1ed3i t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi c\u1eadu b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh: \u201cPhil n\u00e0y, t\u1ea1i sao c\u1eadu l\u1ea1i x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m c\u00f4 \u1ea5y khi g\u1ecdi ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 tuy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0 c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng nh\u1ecf v\u1eady?\u201d \u201c\u00dd anh l\u00e0 g\u00ec th\u1ebf?\u201d Phil h\u1ecfi, th\u00e0nh th\u1ef1c th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn. C\u0103n ph\u00f2ng nh\u1ecf l\u00e0 t\u1eeb r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng nh\u1ecf xinh x\u1eafn \u1edf Cape Cod v\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u2018c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng nh\u1ecf\u2019 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft tinh th\u1ea7n tuy\u1ec7t v\u1edbi v\u1edbi t\u00f4i\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i Phil, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1ee3t tuy\u1ebft quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 kia h\u1eb3n nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3. (V\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch c\u1ea3 Phil n\u1eefa).<\/p>\n\n\n\n M\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 m\u1edbi l\u00e0 b\u00f4ng hoa c\u00f2n h\u00e9 n\u1ee5. Th\u1ed1t ra m\u1ed9t t\u1eeb sai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nghi\u1ec1n n\u00e1t m\u1ed9t c\u00e2y gi\u1ed1ng nh\u1ecf tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3 c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 25: C\u1ed9ng h\u01b0\u1edfng<\/p>\n\n\n\n Khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u h\u1ebft v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u01a1i g\u1ee3i nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e9 l\u1ed9 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c chung v\u1edbi h\u1ecd. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n l\u1eafng nghe th\u1eadt k\u1ef9 c\u00e1ch d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 r\u1ea5t ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. V\u00e0 r\u1ed3i nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i ch\u00fang. \u201cCh\u00fang ta th\u1eadm ch\u00ed n\u00f3i chung ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1eady l\u00e0 do c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111a d\u1ea1ng trong v\u0103n h\u00f3a. Th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi v\u00ec h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u t\u1eeb nh\u01b0 \u201ct\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp\u201d hay \u201cv\u1ecb tr\u00ed x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i\u201d. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a phong ph\u00fa v\u00e0 \u0111a d\u1ea1ng ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng c\u00f3 \u1edf b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 n\u01a1i n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 kh\u00f4ng qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o v\u1ec1 giai c\u1ea5p c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh tr\u00ean tr\u00e1n gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 trang s\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef Hindu thu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eb3ng c\u1ea5p cao. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u0103n h\u00f3a c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng ch\u1ec9 sau v\u00e0i ph\u00fat tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng h\u1ecd. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng theo nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau, h\u1eb3n nhi\u00ean, s\u1ebd n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau, m\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111i l\u1ea1i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Trong khi ph\u1ea3i \u0111i l\u1ea1i tr\u00ean kh\u1eafp c\u1ea3 n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, thi tho\u1ea3ng t\u00f4i c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh c\u1edd g\u1eb7p ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 t\u00ean Genie Polo Sayles. Genie l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef t\u00f3c n\u00e2u n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng, c\u00f4 t\u1eebng t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn g\u00e2y d\u01b0 lu\u1eadn \u1ea7m \u0129 c\u00f3 t\u00ean \u201cL\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u c\u00f3?\u201d (c\u1ea3m \u01a1n Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 ban cho ch\u00fang con quy\u1ec1n t\u1ef1 do ng\u00f4n lu\u1eadn).<\/p>\n\n\n\n Genie k\u1ec3 cho t\u00f4i nghe c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y. Khi m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m l\u00e0m truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh theo c\u00f4 t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u00f2ng b\u1ea1c t\u1ea1i Las Vegas \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00f3ng vi\u00ean h\u1ecfi v\u1eb7n c\u00f4 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft ai gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng. \u201c\u1ed2, anh s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft\u201d, c\u00f4 t\u1ef1 tin ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i. \u201c\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i\u201d, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00f3ng vi\u00ean th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c: \u201cB\u00e0 h\u00e3y ch\u1ec9 cho t\u00f4i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t s\u00f2ng b\u1ea1c n\u00e0y\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n S\u1eafc s\u1ea3o v\u00e0 nhanh nh\u1eb9n, c\u1eb7p m\u1eaft s\u1eafc l\u1ebbm c\u1ee7a Genie l\u01b0\u1edbt qua c\u00e1c b\u00e0n. \u00c1nh nh\u00ecn c\u00e0n qu\u00e9t c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 ch\u1ee3t d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf m\u1ed9t thanh ni\u00ean m\u1eb7c qu\u1ea7n b\u00f2 v\u00e0 chi\u1ebfc \u00e1o k\u1ebb s\u1ecdc c\u0169. B\u1eb1ng b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t con ch\u00f3 s\u0103n, c\u00f4 ch\u1ec9 th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u00f3ng tay d\u00e0i m\u00e0u \u0111\u1ecf v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201cAnh ta r\u1ea5t gi\u00e0u\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00f3ng vi\u00ean v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng tin, ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u1ee5c v\u1ea5n c\u00f4, \u201cL\u00e0m sao b\u00e0 bi\u1ebft?\u201d \u201cAnh ta di chuy\u1ec3n r\u1ea5t qu\u00fd t\u1ed9c\u201d, Genie n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n V\u00e2ng, c\u00e1c anh ch\u00e0ng v\u00e0 c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n \u01a1i, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi di chuy\u1ec3n nh\u01b0 qu\u00fd t\u1ed9c, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi di chuy\u1ec3n nh\u01b0 ph\u00fa h\u1ed9 v\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi di chuy\u1ec3n nh\u01b0 k\u1ebb \u0103n m\u00e0y. V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00e1i tim c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn, h\u00e3y di chuy\u1ec3n nh\u01b0 \u201cgiai c\u1ea5p\u201d c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1eady.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Khi c\u00f2n h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m c\u00e1c ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p ho\u1eb7c \u1edf c\u00e1c v\u1ecb tr\u00ed x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00e1c nhau th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ebd di chuy\u1ec3n theo nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau. B\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng ph\u00f2ng v\u1edbi t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng nghi\u1ec7n ti-vi v\u00e0 c\u00e1i thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb li\u00ean t\u1ee5c g\u00e2y ra ti\u1ebfng \u1ed3n \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i m\u1ea5t t\u1eadp trung. Qu\u00e1 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng, t\u00f4i mua cho c\u00f4 \u1ea5y chi\u1ebfc tai nghe \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc trong y\u00ean l\u1eb7ng hay \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee9c s\u1ef1 im l\u1eb7ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1i m\u00e1y nh\u1ea5p nh\u00e1y \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00f4i mi\u00ean. Hai m\u1eaft t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb h\u00fat v\u00e0o m\u00e0n h\u00ecnh nh\u1ecf im l\u1eb7ng \u0111\u00f3. V\u00ec t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e2m thanh n\u00ean t\u00f4i b\u1ed7ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c th\u1ee9c s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0 \u0111i l\u1ea1i kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed t\u00f4i c\u00f2n nh\u00ecn ra c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t trong c\u00e1ch h\u1ecd ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, m\u1ed9t n\u1eef di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean th\u1ee7 vai m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u01b0 x\u1eed tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean s\u1ebd h\u1ea1 \u0111\u1ea7u g\u1ed1i xu\u1ed1ng, duy\u00ean d\u00e1ng \u0111\u1eb7t ph\u1ea7n c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 l\u00ean m\u00e9p gh\u1ebf, sau \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi t\u1eeb t\u1eeb ng\u1ed3i l\u00f9i v\u00e0o. Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef qu\u00ea m\u00f9a \u1edf v\u00f9ng Beverly s\u1ebd th\u1ea3 ph\u1ecbch ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngay xu\u1ed1ng gi\u1eefa l\u00f2ng gh\u1ebf sofa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n V\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u201cgiai c\u1ea5p\u201d \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1eafc tr\u00ean b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00fang hay sai \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111i s\u00e2u v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, hi v\u1ecdng l\u00e0 v\u1eady. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 \u0111\u00e3 2.000 n\u0103m tr\u00f4i qua t\u1eeb khi Ch\u00faa n\u00f3i: \u201cH\u00e3y y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m c\u1ee7a con\u201d, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd v\u1eabn v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi \u2013 mi\u1ec5n l\u00e0 \u201ch\u00e0ng x\u00f3m\u201d c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ecbch thi\u1ec7p, bi\u1ebft c\u01b0 x\u1eed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ph\u00eda \u201csai\u201d c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c l\u1ed9 tr\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ph\u00eda \u0111\u00fang. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n \u201cch\u00f2i m\u00e2m son\u201d v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1eb3ng c\u1ea5p v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. (Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n ngoan. C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1eb3ng c\u1ea5p s\u1ebd k\u00e9o d\u00e0i l\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n ch\u00eanh l\u1ec7ch v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eb3ng c\u1ea5p).<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ngay sau khi t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t k\u1ef3 ngh\u1ec9 mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed v\u00e0 \u0111i th\u0103m th\u00fa th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. V\u1eady l\u00e0 t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 tr\u00ean chuy\u1ebfn bay cho m\u1ed9t h\u00e3ng bay qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf. (Th\u1eddi \u1ea5y, c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh kh\u00e1ch g\u1ecdi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u00e0 \u201cti\u1ebfp vi\u00ean\u201d. T\u1ec7 h\u01a1n, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 g\u00e3 trai tr\u1ebb g\u1ecdi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u00e0 \u201cm\u00f3n h\u1ea7m\u201d v\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3 \u0111\u0169a b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch g\u1ecdi h\u1ecd l\u00e0 \u201cnh\u1eefng m\u00f3n h\u1ea7m lang thang\u201d).<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00f4 b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1eef ti\u1ebfp vi\u00ean kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a h\u00e3ng h\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng Pan Am. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn v\u00e0 can \u0111\u1ea3m c\u00f3 t\u00ean l\u00e0 Sandra. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f9ng nhau ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u201cm\u00f3n h\u1ea7m lang thang\u201d m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng lang thang ch\u00fat n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t th\u00edch l\u00e0m \u1edf khoang h\u1ea1ng nh\u1ea5t v\u00ec tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ebfn bay qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf d\u00e0i, \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i nh\u1ea5t. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ec l\u00ean c\u00e1nh tay v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9ng trong khoang m\u00e1y bay, Sandra v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00edch n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh kh\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ebfn bay t\u1edbi Paris, c\u00f3 hai qu\u00fd \u00f4ng r\u1ea5t l\u1ecbch thi\u1ec7p ng\u1ed3i \u1edf khoang h\u1ea1ng nh\u1ea5t. H\u1ecd h\u1ecfi li\u1ec7u ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 r\u1ea3nh r\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0103n t\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng h\u1ecd t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng sang tr\u1ecdng \u1edf Paris kh\u00f4ng. \u201cCh\u00fang t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t th\u00edch!\u201d, t\u00f4i n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nh\u01b0ng Sandra l\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u1ef1. C\u00f4 ch\u1ea1y v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda nh\u00e0 v\u1ec7 sinh v\u00e0 ra hi\u1ec7u cho t\u00f4i \u0111i theo. \u201cSandra, sao th\u1ebf?\u201d T\u00f4i h\u1ecfi c\u00f4, \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1eeda ph\u00f2ng l\u1ea1i. \u201cH\u1ecd c\u00f3 v\u1ebb t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng m\u00e0\u201d. \u201c\u1edc,\u201d c\u00f4 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch: \u201cm\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf th\u00f4i\u201d. \u201cG\u00ec c\u01a1, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u00e1?\u201d, t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi. \u201cKh\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ea5y,\u201d c\u00f4 n\u00f3i: \u201cL\u00e0, \u1edd, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp cao h\u01a1n\u201d. Sandra gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd khi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f2n \u1edf tr\u00ean m\u00e1y bay v\u00ec c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u201cbi\u1ebft v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh\u201d. Nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c \u1edf c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi h\u1ecd trong m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng sang tr\u1ecdng s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn c\u00f4 b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng kinh ng\u1ea1c. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec t\u00f4i qu\u00e1 th\u00edch tr\u1ee9ng c\u00e1 mu\u1ed1i v\u00e0 r\u01b0\u1ee3u s\u00e2m banh, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ch\u00ed \u00edt l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00ean th\u1eed n\u00f3. Sai l\u1ea7m. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i trong quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf c\u00f9ng t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp v\u1edbi h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 26: B\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c \u201ct\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp\u201d \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00e1c anh ch\u00e0ng v\u00e0 c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n khi theo \u0111u\u1ed5i con m\u1ed3i \u1edf m\u1ed9t t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp cao c\u1ea5p n\u00ean di chuy\u1ec3n kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang r\u00ecnh r\u1eadp m\u1ed9t ch\u00fa m\u00e8o hoang. (V\u00e0 trang ph\u1ee5c \u0111i k\u00e8m c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi khi ch\u01a1i bowling hay t\u1ee5 t\u1eadp trong \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng bia b\u1ecdt).<\/p>\n\n\n\n H\u00e3y quan s\u00e1t c\u00e1ch anh \u1ea5y \u0111i, c\u00e1ch c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ng\u1ed3i, c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a anh anh \u1ea5y, c\u00e1ch c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u1ea7m c\u1ed1c. Sau \u0111\u00f3 h\u00e3y h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u201ct\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp\u201d c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n R\u1ea5t ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean, c\u00e1i k\u1ebft cho c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a Sandra nh\u01b0 sau: V\u00e0i th\u00e1ng sau khi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp cao h\u01a1n, Sandra \u0111\u00e3 xin ngh\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c \u1edf h\u00e3ng Pan Am \u0111\u1ec3 c\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ebfp n\u1ea5u \u0103n nhanh \u1edf Queens, New York. V\u00e0 l\u1ea7n cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng t\u00f4i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t, r\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n\n\n\n L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng trong nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ba \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu trong nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sau khi x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng trong ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, gi\u1edd l\u00e0 l\u00fac b\u1ea1n n\u00ean th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 gi\u1ed1ng nhau gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo ba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c tr\u1ecdng y\u1ebfu. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng sau \u0111\u00e2y (ho\u1eb7c thi\u1ebfu ch\u00fang) s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u00e1c giai \u0111o\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c nhau trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110i\u1ec3m t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 t\u1ea1o ra, d\u1ec5 th\u1ea5y v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng s\u1edf th\u00edch chung c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai. Nh\u1eefng m\u00f4n th\u1ec3 thao hay ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0o m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng th\u00edch? Hai b\u1ea1n th\u00edch nghe nh\u1ea1c n\u00e0o, th\u00edch xem th\u1ec3 lo\u1ea1i phim g\u00ec v\u00e0 th\u00edch \u0111\u1ecdc lo\u1ea1i s\u00e1ch n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110i\u1ec3m t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1ee9 hai d\u1ea7n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n, nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m tin, nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. \u0110i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc. Th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110i\u1ec3m t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1ee9 ba r\u1ea5t tinh t\u1ebf, kh\u00f3 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft v\u00e0 s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i m\u00e3 (th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 sau khi \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 mu\u1ed9n). \u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nguy hi\u1ec3m nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u00e2y cho nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i c\u00e1c tr\u1ee5c tr\u1eb7c l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t. \u0110i\u1ec3m t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00f4n gi\u1ea5u k\u1ef9 v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1ee5y trang c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn v\u00e0 hi\u1ebfm khi t\u1ef1 b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9. \u0110\u1ec3 \u201c\u0111\u00e0o\u201d \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i m\u00e0i s\u1eafc l\u01b0\u1ee1i cu\u1ed1c v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0o s\u00e2u xu\u1ed1ng. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh ng\u1ea7m v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00ean hay kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 t\u1eebng d\u1ea1ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng n\u00e0y. K\u1ebf \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd g\u1eedi t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e2m giao c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u1edf c\u1ea3 ba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110i\u1ec3m t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t: \u201cCh\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u00edch l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng nhau kh\u00f4ng?\u201d (C\u00e1c c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n l\u01b0u \u00fd \u2013 \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng h\u01a1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ea5y)<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m quen v\u1edbi kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00e3, r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. C\u00f2n b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 c\u0169 m\u00f2n nh\u01b0ng lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00fang: Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tr\u1edf n\u00ean s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n th\u00f4ng qua tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. C\u00f2n \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi nhau h\u01a1n qua vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng nhau l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef lu\u00f4n mong mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u h\u1ecd, c\u00f9ng h\u1ecd tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y khi m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t b\u1edd vai l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1a v\u00e0o m\u00e0 kh\u00f3c, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1nh tay v\u1eefng ch\u00e3i \u0111\u1ec3 an \u1ee7i m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 (h\u01a1n t\u1ea5t th\u1ea3y) m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i tai \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe c\u00f4 \u1ea5y. Bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng. Nh\u01b0ng trong danh s\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u1ebfp \u1edf v\u1ecb tr\u00ed cao h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u00edch m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng h\u1ecd tham gia c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng \u2013 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 anh ta th\u00edch th\u00fa. Ch\u00e0ng mu\u1ed1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng ch\u01a1i tennis, \u0111i xem h\u00f2a nh\u1ea1c, ch\u01a1i b\u00f3ng r\u1ed5, xem phim ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ng\u1ed3i \u1edf nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 xem ti vi v\u1edbi nhau. C\u00f9ng l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi nhau c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. Nh\u01b0ng trong danh s\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u1ebfp \u1edf v\u1ecb tr\u00ed cao h\u01a1n. R\u1ea5t may cho c\u00e1c c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean n\u00e0y v\u1edbi anh \u1ea5y kh\u00e1 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn anh \u1ea5y ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n th\u00edch th\u00fa tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1c \u0111am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y ngay khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 trong cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean.<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u1eadu b\u1ea1n Phil c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i k\u1ec3 cho t\u00f4i nghe v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef anh m\u1edbi g\u1eb7p \u1edf m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c. Phil th\u00edch c\u00f4 \u1ea5y. V\u00e0 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u0169ng th\u00edch Phil. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f2n g\u1ee3i \u00fd l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n \u0111i ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi anh. Trong khi h\u1ecd \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, c\u1eadu \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u00fd m\u1eddi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111i ch\u01a1i. V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u cho vi\u1ec7c m\u1eddi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ra kh\u1ecfi b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c v\u00e0 t\u1edbi c\u00e2u l\u1ea1c b\u1ed9 nh\u1ea1c jazz v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, c\u1eadu \u0111\u00e3 ng\u1ea7m \u00e1m ch\u1ec9 v\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m s\u00e2u s\u1eafc c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi nh\u1ea1c jazz. \u201c\u1ed2,\u201d c\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u00f3i: \u201cem t\u1eebng r\u1ea5t hay t\u1edbi c\u00e1c c\u00e2u l\u1ea1c b\u1ed9 nh\u1ea1c jazz. Nh\u01b0ng em ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m em c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u00ean khi em h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea5y\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00f4 \u1ea5y ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 Phil g\u1ee3i \u00fd r\u1eb1ng b\u1ed9 phim kinh \u0111i\u1ec3n Casablanca \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chi\u1ebfu t\u1ea1i r\u1ea1p chi\u1ebfu b\u00f3ng. \u201c\u1ed2,\u201d c\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u00f3i: \u201cV\u00e2ng, em c\u00f3 th\u1ea5y\u201d. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac c\u1ee7a c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 nh\u1ea1c jazz v\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ed9 phim kinh \u0111i\u1ec3n. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i hi\u1ec3u qu\u00e1 \u00edt v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng. \u0110\u1eebng l\u00e0m h\u1ecd m\u1ea5t h\u1ee9ng. Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, c\u00e1c c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n \u1ea1, khi b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u anh \u1ea5y th\u00edch, h\u00e3y \u00e1m ch\u1ec9 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng m\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111i ch\u01a1i ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u0169ng th\u00edch nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 anh \u1ea5y th\u00edch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n T\u00f4i c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n t\u00ean l\u00e0 Derek \u2013 m\u1ed9t anh ch\u00e0ng \u0111i\u1ec3n trai s\u1ed1ng \u1edf v\u00f9ng Orlando, Florida. Derek t\u1ed9i nghi\u1ec7p lu\u00f4n th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 x\u1eed v\u00ec anh \u1ea5y th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u01b0\u1edbt xu\u1ed3ng m\u00e1y v\u00e0o d\u1ecbp cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n. Nh\u01b0ng anh \u1ea5y c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t th\u00edch ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. V\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1eddi gian r\u1ea3nh r\u1ed7i kh\u00f4ng nhi\u1ec1u n\u00ean anh \u1ea5y bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Derek ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n l\u00e0 anh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i n\u00e0o ch\u1ecbu l\u01b0\u1edbt xu\u1ed3ng m\u00e1y v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh c\u00e1 r\u1eb1ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean v\u00f2ng tay \u00f4m anh \u1ea5y t\u1eeb sau l\u01b0ng v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201c\u00d4i, l\u01b0\u1edbt xu\u1ed3ng m\u00e1y \u00e0, em \u0111\u00e3 lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n th\u1eed m\u00f4n \u0111\u00f3\u201d s\u1ebd h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 v\u1edbi Derek. (V\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c n\u1eafm b\u1eaft tr\u00e1i tim anh \u1ea5y).<\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u00edch s\u01b0u t\u1ea7m tem, th\u1ea3 di\u1ec1u hay t\u1edbi c\u00e1c tr\u1eadn \u0111\u1ea5u v\u1eadt, h\u00e3y n\u00f3i v\u1edbi anh \u1ea5y v\u1ec1 th\u00fa ch\u01a1i tem, ch\u01a1i di\u1ec1u hay v\u1eadt tay c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111am m\u00ea m\u1ed9t ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111am m\u00ea c\u1ea3 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u1eefa. Nh\u01b0ng th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec r\u1ea5t \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3 hai \u0111am m\u00ea n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 27: (quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n v\u1edbi c\u00e1c c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n) C\u01b0\u1ee1i s\u00f3ng<\/p>\n\n\n\n H\u00e3y c\u01b0\u1ee1i l\u00ean nh\u1eefng con s\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Hay chi\u1ebfc m\u00f4 t\u00f4, con ng\u1ef1a ho\u1eb7c xe golf c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y. H\u00e3y n\u00f3i v\u1edbi anh \u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n th\u00edch m\u1eb7c qu\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1ee3t tuy\u1ebft, b\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed3 b\u01a1i, b\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed3 th\u1ec3 thao, v\u00f5 ph\u1ee5c karate hay qu\u1ea7n so\u00f3c leo n\u00fai. Ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 con g\u1ea5u b\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201cth\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee9c\u201d m\u1ed9t tr\u1eadn t\u00fac c\u1ea7u th\u00fa v\u1ecb tr\u00ean ti vi v\u1edbi anh \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef mu\u1ed1n sau khi quan h\u1ec7, c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00f2n \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u00ec mu\u1ed1n r\u1eb1ng, sau khi quan h\u1ec7, c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110i\u1ec3m t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1ee9 hai: \u201cCh\u00fang ta c\u00f3 chung nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m tin c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n kh\u00f4ng?\u201d (C\u00e1c anh ch\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n l\u01b0u \u00fd \u2013 \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef h\u01a1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ea5y)<\/p>\n\n\n\n Trong m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u c\u00e1c nam n\u1eef thanh ni\u00ean v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u h\u1ecd \u201cquan h\u1ec7\u201d v\u1edbi nhau. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi h\u1ecd g\u1eb7p nhau, m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00ed m\u1eadt b\u1ea3o tr\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb9n tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi h\u1ecd. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3o l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0o trong hai th\u00f4ng tin \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tuy nhi\u00ean, trong b\u00e0i l\u00e0m tr\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7m sau \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ec1 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 th\u00edch nhau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3o tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi nhau th\u00edch nhau h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u \u2013 ngay c\u1ea3 khi h\u1ecd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c nhau. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf ch\u00fang ta d\u1ec5 c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e0 ta ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 ta gi\u1ed1ng h\u1ecd h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 gieo nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng trong ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1. Sau \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c c\u01b0\u1ee1i nh\u1eefng con s\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n y\u00eau th\u00edch nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng xem x\u00e9t t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ebd t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m tin v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea5t gi\u1eef s\u00e2u k\u00edn nh\u1ea5t trong h\u1ecd. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n quan \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb, t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n, th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 b\u00e1o tr\u01b0\u1edbc cho m\u1ed9t quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1edbi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, ni\u1ec1m tin, quan \u0111i\u1ec3m, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi qua m\u1ed9t l\u0103ng k\u00ednh t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1. Trong m\u01b0u \u0111\u1ed3 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n, s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u00e0o s\u00e2u th\u00eam nh\u1eefng vi\u00ean \u0111\u00e1 qu\u00fd n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, c\u00e1c qu\u00fd \u00f4ng \u01a1i, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n chia s\u1ebb m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 cu\u1ed3ng nhi\u1ec7t, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u1edfi ph\u00e1t cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u00ean l\u00e0 Lucia, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y nh\u1edb ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc m\u00e0 c\u00f4 th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n th\u1ee9 ba c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 c\u00f4 c\u00f9ng Dave l\u00fac \u1ea5y \u0111ang l\u00e1i xe tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 sau m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i d\u00e3 ngo\u1ea1i ng\u00e0y Ch\u1ee7 nh\u1eadt. Sau khi kh\u1edfi h\u00e0nh mu\u1ed9n, h\u1ecd l\u00e1i xe r\u1ea5t nhanh v\u00ec Dave c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp l\u00e0m \u0103n v\u00e0o t\u1ed1i \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n T\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a Lucia (tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi g\u1eb7p Dave) d\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1c con th\u00fa. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t Trung t\u00e2m gi\u1eef th\u00fa v\u00f4 ch\u1ee7 v\u00e0 tham gia c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt. Lucia n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 chia tay v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n trai tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00ec m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y. Anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ea3o: \u201c\u1ed2, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng th\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt \u2013 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 th\u1ecbt l\u1ee3n v\u00e0 s\u01b0\u1eddn l\u1ee3n\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Khi Dave l\u00e1i xe tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng quanh co, Lucia tr\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ch\u00fa ch\u00f3 con \u0111ang n\u1eb1m b\u00ean l\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. Con ch\u00f3 nh\u1ecf t\u1ed9i nghi\u1ec7p ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 m\u1edbi b\u1ecb \u00f4 t\u00f4 c\u00e1n ph\u1ea3i, \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3 \u0111ang ch\u1ea3y m\u00e1u. Nh\u01b0ng Lucia bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd \u0111ang mu\u1ed9n r\u1ed3i v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi Dave, c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e0nh nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i g\u00ec. R\u1ed3i c\u00f4 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u00f4 t\u00f4 \u0111i ch\u1eadm r\u1ed3i d\u1eebng h\u1eb3n. Khi m\u1edf m\u1eaft ra, c\u00f4 th\u1ea5y Dave \u0111ang nh\u00ecn ch\u1eb1m ch\u1eb1m v\u00e0o con ch\u00f3 nh\u1ecf v\u1edbi v\u1ebb \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn tr\u00ean g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eb7t. Lucia n\u00f3i, v\u00e0o kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u1ea5y, c\u00f4 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u y\u00eau anh. Khi anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb h\u1ecd d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ch\u00fa ch\u00f3 t\u1edbi ch\u1ed7 b\u00e1c s\u1ef9 th\u00fa y, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00e1c quan \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o n\u00ean c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c g\u1ea7n g\u0169i s\u00e2u s\u1eafc m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t hay hai \u0111i\u1ec3m. Lucia kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c Dave c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c. Nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt l\u1ea1i ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u00e1i tim c\u00f4.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, c\u00e1c qu\u00fd \u00f4ng th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn, \u0111\u1eebng b\u1ecf qua b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh n\u00e0o. H\u00e3y t\u00ecm ra ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. H\u00e3y kh\u01a1i g\u1ee3i. L\u1eafng nghe quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y, sau \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ebft l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi n\u00e0ng. V\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00f4ng minh v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c hai v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 r\u1ea5t tr\u1ecdng y\u1ebfu v\u1edbi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn gi\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi h\u1ecd. C\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ee9 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef tinh t\u1ebf ri\u00eang \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m tin, ngay c\u1ea3 trong nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh khi\u1ebfn c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng theo nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. Bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn ta ng\u1ed3i s\u1ee5p xu\u1ed1ng. Ph\u1ea5n kh\u1edfi khi\u1ebfn hai b\u00e0n tay c\u1ee7a ta c\u1ecd x\u00e1t v\u00e0o nhau. S\u1ef1 tr\u1ea7m ng\u00e2m, suy t\u01b0 khi\u1ebfn ta ch\u1ed1ng c\u1eb1m ho\u1eb7c m\u00e2n m\u00ea ng\u00f3n tay quanh mi\u1ec7ng c\u1ed1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Timothy Perper \u2013 ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n \u2013 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1eb1ng, b\u01b0\u1edbc cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i trong bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng b\u1ed9 h\u00f3a nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn \u1edf ph\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00edch x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111ang ngh\u0129 g\u00ec, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ed3ng b\u1ed9 h\u00f3a h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh khi c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u1ec3 \u00e1m ch\u1ec9 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00edch m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb c\u00f9ng h\u1ecd nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 g\u1eb7p nhau, anh ta th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 h\u01a1i ng\u1eafn. (\u201cCh\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n th\u1eadt vui v\u1edbi nhau ch\u1ee9 nh\u1ec9?\u201d, \u201cC\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd ng\u1ee7 v\u1edbi t\u00f4i ch\u1ee9?\u201d). Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t m\u1ebb l\u01b0\u1edbi d\u00e0i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea5t gi\u1ea5u trong b\u1ed9 gen c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt c\u00f9ng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c anh ch\u00e0ng v\u00e0 c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1c anh ch\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u01b0u t\u00e2m. D\u00f9 tr\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 m\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n hay s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng b\u00ean nhau c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi c\u00e1c t\u00e1c nh\u00e2n k\u00edch th\u00edch b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i gi\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang theo \u0111u\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 28: (quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n v\u1edbi c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n) C\u00f9ng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110\u1ec3 n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00e1i tim \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, h\u00e3y chia s\u1ebb ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u00e0 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang. H\u00e3y quan s\u00e1t nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1edbi c\u00e1c t\u00e1c nh\u00e2n k\u00edch th\u00edch b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. Sau \u0111\u00f3 h\u00e3y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 \u2013 s\u1ed1c, gh\u00ea t\u1edfm, h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Gi\u1ea3 s\u1eed b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u1edf m\u1ed9t h\u1ed9p \u0111\u00eam v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t g\u00e3 say x\u1ec9n t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c ngu ng\u1ed1c ng\u00e3 kh\u1ecfi gh\u1ebf ng\u1ed3i \u1edf qu\u00e1n. H\u00e3y quan s\u00e1t ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Anh \u1ea5y c\u00f3 c\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 s\u1ed1c kh\u00f4ng? Anh \u1ea5y ph\u1edbt l\u1edd chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3? C\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 v\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n\n\n V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y l\u00e0m \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 c\u00f4\/anh \u1ea5y l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110i\u1ec3m t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1ee9 ba: \u201cT\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 g\u00ec?\u201d (\u201c\u0110\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 y\u00eau em. H\u00e3y y\u00eau em theo c\u00e1ch em mu\u1ed1n\u201d)<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i hi\u1ebfm khi n\u00f3i v\u1edbi nhau v\u1ec1 ki\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1ee9 ba n\u00e0y cho t\u1edbi l\u00fac qu\u00e1 mu\u1ed9n. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng qu\u1ef7 quy\u1ec7t nh\u1ea5t v\u00ec n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 th\u00f2 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u x\u1ea5u x\u00ed c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 ra khi r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i n\u1ea3y sinh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Con qu\u00e1i v\u1eadt n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u00e1i gi\u1ed1ng g\u00ec m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i h\u1ee7y ho\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh ng\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00ean nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. G\u1ea7n g\u0169i \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o? Xa c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u? L\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c bao nhi\u00eau? \u0110\u1ed9c l\u1eadp th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? D\u00e2ng hi\u1ebfn bao nhi\u00eau? Hy sinh ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n\n\n\n M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00e0 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i. S\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c l\u1ea1i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u00f9ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang y\u00eau l\u1ea1i t\u00e1n \u0111\u1ed3ng quan ni\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 v\u0103n<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ph\u00e1p Jean Anouilh khi \u00f4ng cho r\u1eb1ng \u201ct\u00ecnh y\u00eau, tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ea5t, l\u00e0 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh\u201d. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi quan ni\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u00e1p kh\u00e1c (t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n Ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed b\u00e9), nh\u00e0 v\u0103n Antoine de Saint-Exupery, \u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u201ckhi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau nhau, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn nhau m\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t h\u01b0\u1edbng\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m tin \u0111a d\u1ea1ng v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u1ebd nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau nhau n\u00ean c\u01b0 x\u1eed nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u? B\u1ea1n ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i g\u00ec \u1edf m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. C\u00e1ch b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau hay kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau. C\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y y\u00eau b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u00edch, ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 th\u00edch, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Khoa h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e1n cho nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00e1i t\u00ean \u201cC.L\u201d1, vi\u1ebft t\u1eaft c\u1ee7a ch\u1eef M\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 so s\u00e1nh. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac hay kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1edfi vi\u1ec7c m\u1ee9c C.L c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n cao h\u01a1n bao nhi\u00eau, ho\u1eb7c th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n bao nhi\u00eau th\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tan v\u1ee1. N\u1ebfu v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 cam k\u1ebft tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n say \u0111\u1eafm, vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau \u1edf xa s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u00ean, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng k\u00e9o h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n ph\u00eda b\u1ea1n th\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00e0ng r\u1eddi xa b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 hai b\u00ean c\u00f9ng ph\u1ea3i y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c qu\u00e1 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n ng\u1ea1t th\u1edf. B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea9y anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ra xa th\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng suy y\u1ebfu. 1 Nguy\u00ean v\u0103n: Comparison Level.<\/p>\n\n\n\n H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng tinh t\u1ebf gi\u1eefa s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp. N\u1ebfu m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng n\u00e0y (\u1edf c\u1ea3 hai ph\u00eda), t\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 nguy hi\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m ch\u00eanh l\u1ec7ch n\u00e0y. Nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 gi\u00e1c quan th\u1ee9 s\u00e1u gi\u00fap h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u1ea5u th\u00e0nh n\u00ean t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n B\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp theo \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y h\u00ecnh dung v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y y\u00eau anh \u1ea5y theo c\u00e1ch anh \u1ea5y mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n y\u00eau m\u00ecnh \u2013 y\u00eau c\u00f4 \u1ea5y theo c\u00e1ch c\u00f4 \u1ea5y mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n y\u00eau m\u00ecnh. Ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n D\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n trong t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00e1c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n ra sao. – Robert J. Sternberg<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tam gi\u00e1c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ngay khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, h\u00e3y khai th\u00e1c xem \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. V\u1edbi c\u00e1c anh ch\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat v\u00ec ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u01b0\u1eddng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i trong vi\u1ec7c trao \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. N\u1ebfu hai b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee7 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft r\u1ed3i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi th\u1eb3ng: \u201cM\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1edbi em l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? Em mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng s\u1ebd y\u00eau em theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o?\u201d (v\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c).<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 mong mu\u1ed1n g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00e0o nhau kh\u00f4ng? Hay c\u00f4 \u1ea5y th\u00edch y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch h\u01a1n? C\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi han v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng? Hay c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u1ea7n th\u00eam kh\u00f4ng gian ri\u00eang? Trong t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1eb1m \u1edf kho\u1ea3ng l\u01b0ng ch\u1eebng gi\u1eefa hai ph\u00eda n\u00e0y. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u201c\u0111\u1ecdc\u201d ra n\u00f3 th\u1eadt ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh kh\u00e1c n\u1eb1m trong quan ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu hai b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p \u2013 ho\u1eb7c n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ng\u1edd r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i l\u1eafm v\u1edbi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y \u2013 h\u00e3y nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc. H\u00e3y h\u1ecfi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y: \u201cEm \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?\u201d ho\u1eb7c: \u201cEm ngh\u0129 g\u00ec v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 29: (ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p h\u01a1n v\u1edbi c\u00e1c anh ch\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n) T\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00e1c anh ch\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n \u01a1i, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ho\u1eb7c tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp, ho\u1eb7c nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1eb7t ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a ra sao v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n V\u00e0 r\u1ed3i h\u00e3y y\u00eau n\u00e0ng, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i theo c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh n\u00ean l\u00e0m, m\u00e0 theo c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng s\u1ebd y\u00eau c\u00f4 \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00e1c qu\u00fd \u00f4ng, n\u1ebfu c\u00f4 \u1ea5y t\u1ecf ra kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i c\u1ea3 v\u1edbi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u201ctri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc\u201d, h\u00e3y n\u00e1n l\u00f9i l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n ho\u1eb7c th\u00eam n\u1eefa. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp \u2013 v\u00e0 s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111ang ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t t\u0103ng l\u00ean \u2013 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u201ct\u01b0 duy nh\u01b0 nam gi\u1edbi\u201d. (Ho\u1eb7c \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 theo c\u00e1ch ngh\u0129 truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng). Sau \u0111\u00f3 h\u00e3y v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt sau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u00e9 \u2013 Kh\u00f4ng!<\/p>\n\n\n\n M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n<\/a> t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i n\u00ean trao \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. H\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t n\u00ean kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1c b\u00e0i tr\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7m, c\u00e1c b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u00e0 x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u00edch. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i c\u00f9ng th\u00edch th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 \u201cnh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. V\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i c\u00f3 chung gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00ean nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. C\u00f2n n\u1ebfu hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n kh\u00e1c nhau, b\u00e0i t\u1eadp n\u00e0y s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3n t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n T\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u00ean l\u00e0 Linda, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y lu\u00f4n th\u1ea5y t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft thi\u00eang li\u00eang v\u00e0 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc gi\u1eefa hai con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f4 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, h\u1ecd ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c l\u1eabn nhau. H\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec nhau v\u00e0 v\u00ec con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd. N\u1ebfu cha Linda r\u1eddi nh\u00e0 t\u1edbi c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng t\u1ea1p h\u00f3a, \u00f4ng s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft ch\u1eafc c\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft \u00f4ng \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u v\u00e0 khi n\u00e0o \u00f4ng s\u1ebd tr\u1edf v\u1ec1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc, Linda g\u1eb7p George \u2013 h\u00f4n phu c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u2013 t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t khu tr\u01b0\u1ee3t tuy\u1ebft. George r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u00f4 t\u1eebng g\u1eb7p. Anh t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp. Anh th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 nu\u00f4i m\u00ecnh trong th\u1eddi gian h\u1ecdc \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng lu\u1eadt v\u00e0 gi\u1edd \u0111ang l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u1ea5p cao c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t h\u00e3ng lu\u1eadt uy t\u00edn. George ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u00ec anh \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Anh ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd y\u00eau c\u1ea7u b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Linda nhanh ch\u00f3ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng George. H\u1ecd d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 sinh ra \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh cho nhau. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 chung nhi\u1ec1u s\u1edf th\u00edch. C\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1ee3t tuy\u1ebft r\u1ea5t gi\u1ecfi. H\u1ecd c\u00f9ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn gi\u1ed1ng nhau v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. C\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 con. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 chung ni\u1ec1m tin v\u1ec1 Ch\u00faa. H\u1ecd \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn trong vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd chi ti\u00eau ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd \u0111i ngh\u1ec9 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u v\u00e0 c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4n ngoan trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1edbi nhau v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m kh\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh k\u1ebft h\u00f4n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tuy nhi\u00ean, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u2013 \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd tan v\u1ee1. George v\u1ed1n xu\u1ea5t th\u00e2n t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1, anh \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi Linda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hai th\u00e1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cu\u1ed9c \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eabm n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a Linda. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 chia tay. T\u00f4i b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i. \u201cC\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec v\u1eady Linda?\u201d t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi. \u201cChuy\u1ec7n l\u00e0,\u201d c\u00f4 n\u1ee9c n\u1edf: \u201cGeorge l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c qu\u00e1 say s\u01b0a v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n \u1edf v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n th\u00f4i\u201d. Linda \u0111\u00e3 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c George r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd n\u00ean g\u1eb7p nhau th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean h\u01a1n v\u00e0 anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd. Tuy nhi\u00ean, v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n gi\u1eefa tu\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, anh th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1eb3ng n\u00f3i g\u00ec. \u201cV\u00e0 c\u00f2n chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y n\u1eefa,\u201d c\u00f4 r\u00ean r\u1ec9: \u201cGeorge ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n cho t\u1edb khi anh \u1ea5y \u0111ang \u0111i tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3\u201d. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c anh g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n cho c\u00f4 trong nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean, nh\u01b0ng George ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 cho c\u00f3 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Linda lo s\u1ee3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i, c\u00f4 li\u1ec1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi George nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f4 suy ngh\u0129. Nh\u01b0ng anh ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i: \u201cKh\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u \u1ed5n m\u00e0\u201d. Anh y\u00eau c\u00f4 v\u00e0 v\u1eabn \u0111ang mong ch\u1edd \u0111\u00e1m c\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tuy nhi\u00ean, Linda v\u1eabn s\u1ee3 George s\u1ebd r\u1eddi xa m\u00ecnh, c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb h\u1ecd n\u00ean t\u1edbi g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n<\/a> h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. \u201cG\u00ec c\u01a1?\u201d, George h\u00e9t l\u1edbn: \u201cKh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0o!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Linda c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t s\u1ed1c. Anh \u1ea5y ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd to ti\u1ebfng v\u1edbi c\u00f4 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n\n\n\n V\u1eady l\u00e0 Linda quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 gi\u00fap m\u00ecnh. C\u00f4 mua m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u0103ng c\u00e1t-s\u00e9t v\u1edbi ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 gi\u00fap quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. C\u00f4 nghe c\u00e1c b\u0103ng h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n s\u1ebd gi\u00fap c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap h\u1ecd li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u00ean trong m\u00ecnh. C\u00f4 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi George nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i b\u0103ng \u0111\u00f3 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o anh n\u00ean nghe c\u00f9ng m\u00ecnh. \u201cG\u00ec c\u01a1\u201d anh g\u1ea7m g\u1eeb: \u201cT\u00f4i s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 m\u1ea5t th\u1eddi gian cho c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00f4i. C\u00f4 h\u00e3y v\u1ec1 ch\u1ed7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00e2m n\u1ebfn l\u00ean v\u00e0 ng\u1ed3i x\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng tr\u00f2n tr\u00ean s\u00e0n. V\u00e0 nghe xem c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u00ean trong b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 sai trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 \u2013 kh\u00f4ng, l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u0129 \u2013 r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t. Kh\u00f4ng, c\u1ea3m \u01a1n. Linda, c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111i qu\u00e1 r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ea5y\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tu\u1ea7n sau \u0111\u00f3, George \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb h\u1ecd \u201ch\u1ee7y b\u1ecf\u201d \u0111\u00e1m c\u01b0\u1edbi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng bu\u1ed3n v\u00ec Linda v\u00e0 George c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec3m chung kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u00e1ng l\u1ebd h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u1edbi nhau \u2013 gi\u00e1 nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn gi\u1ed1ng nhau v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00ean nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. N\u1ebfu George c\u0169ng c\u00f3 chung nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n v\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 Linda, gi\u00e1 nh\u01b0 anh l\u1eafng nghe c\u00e1c b\u0103ng c\u00e1t-s\u00e9t \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng t\u1eadp nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i t\u1eadp t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1edbi Linda th\u00ec ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0a h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n nhau h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu Linda c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u01b0 George, \u0111\u00e1ng l\u1ebd c\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u00ean tr\u00e1nh xa h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat v\u00e0 d\u00e0nh th\u00eam kh\u00f4ng gian ri\u00eang cho George.<\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00f3i chung, so v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng k\u00e9m tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n khi ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, c\u00e1c c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n \u01a1i, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n nh\u00e9. \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd e d\u00e8 trong vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i trao \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang y\u00eau m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 George, h\u00e3y h\u1ecfi th\u1eb3ng anh \u1ea5y xem anh \u1ea5y c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng trong anh \u1ea5y t\u1eaft l\u1ecbm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt an to\u00e0n h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 r\u00fat ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f4ng tin b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n. H\u00e3y khi\u1ebfn \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 b\u1edbt nguy hi\u1ec3m h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 anh \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1edfi m\u1edf chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch khi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n thu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea1m tr\u00f9 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 30: (ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p h\u01a1n v\u1edbi c\u00e1c c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n) T\u00f4i n\u00ean n\u00f3i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00e1c c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh ng\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0 g\u00ec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1edbt \u201cnguy hi\u1ec3m\u201d, h\u00e3y n\u00f3i v\u1edbi anh \u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n hay h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng (c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00e1u g\u00e1i hay ch\u00e1u trai g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3) \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. V\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u00ean b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n xin anh \u1ea5y l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean: \u201cAnh ngh\u0129 em n\u00ean n\u00f3i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 g\u00ec nh\u1ec9?\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n R\u1ed3i l\u1eafng nghe. Nghe th\u1eadt k\u1ef9 v\u00e0o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, c\u00e1c c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n \u01a1i, h\u00e3y c\u1ea3m \u01a1n anh \u1ea5y v\u00ec s\u1ef1 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n<\/a> \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 t\u1ecf ra tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ed3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec anh \u1ea5y v\u1eeba r\u00f3t v\u00e0o tai b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi t\u00ednh th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a hai th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt n\u00e0y: B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ch\u00fang qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. H\u00e3y ch\u1edd cho t\u1edbi khi c\u1ea3 hai b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nghi ng\u1edd t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i h\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Sau khi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac y\u00eau m\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n h\u01a1n, anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 d\u1ea1ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng n\u00e0y. S\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n gi\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1i \u0103ng-ten c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00ean v\u00e0 \u201cb\u1eaft s\u00f3ng\u201d t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng. H\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe th\u1eadt tinh t\u1ebf b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh c\u0169, v\u1ec1 cha m\u1eb9, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 hay b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ebfn. Khi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n t\u1ed1t, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n y\u00eau h\u1ecd \u2013 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i theo c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n y\u00eau \u2013 m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c l\u00e0 theo c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y th\u00eam nh\u1eefng h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn cho v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 quan tr\u1ecdng n\u00e0y \u2013 k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 t\u1eeb ng\u1eef ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u2013 trong hai ph\u1ea7n cu\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch T\u00e1n t\u1ec9nh b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ea7n b\u1ed5 sung? \u201cT\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i em c\u1ea7n, em y\u00eau \u1ea1!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n T\u00f4i nh\u1edb c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n, khi t\u00f4i c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi m\u1eb9 t\u00f4i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ed1 v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n l\u1ea5y nhau. B\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00edch d\u1eabn l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t \u0111o\u1ea1n th\u01a1 nh\u01b0 sau:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Jack Spra\u0134 kh\u00f4ng \u0103n th\u1ecbt m\u1ee1<\/p>\n\n\n\n V\u1ee3 \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng \u0103n th\u1ecbt n\u1ea1c<\/p>\n\n\n\n V\u00e0 gi\u1eefa h\u1ecd con th\u1ea5y<\/p>\n\n\n\n Chi\u1ebfc \u0111\u0129a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e9t s\u1ea1ch<\/p>\n\n\n\n V\u1eady l\u00e0 trong su\u1ed1t nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh lu\u00f4n th\u00edch ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c h\u1ecd. V\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i th\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng sai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y, v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ec1u t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 ki\u1ec3m ch\u1ee9ng, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau nhau t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c c\u00f3 chung s\u1edf th\u00edch, chung c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 chung c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi\u2026 v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 r\u1ea5t s\u00e2u s\u1eafc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ed3ng l\u00ean s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1edbp kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u1edf b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang y\u00eau c\u0169ng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ed5 sung \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a h\u1ecd \u2013 khi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i \u2013 t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n. M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp cho c\u00e1c thi\u1ebfu h\u1ee5t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng lu\u1ed9c n\u1ed5i qu\u1ea3 tr\u1ee9ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ebfp gi\u1ecfi. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0 c\u00e1i gio\u0103ng qu\u1ea1t \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 c\u00e1i b\u01a1m nhi\u00ean li\u1ec7u s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111ang di\u1ec5n ra ph\u00eda d\u01b0\u1edbi mui xe. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed1i c\u00e1ch ghi s\u1ed5 chi phi\u1ebfu s\u1ebd c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c m\u00e3 s\u1ed1 c\u1ed5 phi\u1ebfu tr\u00ean th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ee9ng kho\u00e1n. \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t b\u1ed5 sung c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00f3 l\u1ebd v\u1eady.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fac b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00e1m t\u1eed v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t b\u1ed5 sung n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n mong mu\u1ed1n. V\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 khi\u1ebfn anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y th\u1edd \u01a1. (Ho\u1eb7c t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n, nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd ghen t\u1ef5 hay th\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecbch).<\/p>\n\n\n\n B\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. \u201cEm th\u00edch Jim \u1edf \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o?\u201d \u201c\u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn anh v\u00e0 Sue g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi nhau?\u201d \u201cT\u00ednh c\u00e1ch hay nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a Dan l\u00e0 g\u00ec?\u201d \u201c\u0110i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a Be\u0134y l\u00e0 g\u00ec?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111a d\u1ea1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tin n\u1ed5i. \u201cJim r\u1ea5t kh\u00e9o tay. Anh \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9\u201d. \u201cSue lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ecdc b\u00e1o v\u00e0 cho anh bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111ang di\u1ec5n ra tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi\u201d. \u201cDan th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00edch giao du. B\u1ecdn em \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n khi c\u00f2n \u1edf v\u1edbi nhau\u201d. \u201cBe\u0134y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chuy\u00ean gia<\/a> s\u0103n h\u00e0ng gi\u1ea3m gi\u00e1. B\u1ecdn anh lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n h\u1eddi khi mua b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n