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T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: T\u00e1n t\u1ec9nh b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai – Leil Lowndes<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i y\u00eau em\/anh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u1ea3 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec1u xoay quanh em\/anh – con m\u1ed3i m\u00e0 t\u00f4i theo \u0111u\u1ed5i<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 quy k\u1ebft chung cho m\u1ecdi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00edch x\u00e1c l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf: \u201cT\u00f4i kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. T\u00f4i duy nh\u1ea5t. T\u00f4i \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. B\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 t\u00f4i xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i th\u1ebf n\u00e0o th\u00ec b\u00ean trong t\u00f4i v\u1eabn c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb may m\u1eafn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n. Nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee9a \u00edt may m\u1eafn h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. V\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f4ng \u2013 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u1edbi suy ngh\u0129 h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u2013 th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 g\u1eafn v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 h\u1ecd v\u1eabn ngh\u0129. X\u00e9t cho c\u00f9ng, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 d\u00e0nh cho con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u201cv\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm trong v\u00f4 v\u1ecdng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap h\u1ecd l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u. H\u1ecd t\u1ef1 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c m\u00ecnh: \u201cM\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, \u1edf n\u01a1i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n. V\u00e0 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n n\u00e0y s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i gi\u1eefa v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00e1c. R\u1ed3i h\u1ecd s\u1ebd y\u00eau t\u00f4i v\u00ec b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i xinh \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec ti\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. M\u00e0 l\u00e0 v\u00ec T\u00d4I, v\u00ec b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm. V\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 sao cho tinh t\u1ebf. Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y m\u1ea5t h\u1ee9ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ve vu\u1ed1t b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 l\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ve vu\u1ed1t b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen. N\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00edch l\u0169y th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u th\u1eadt k\u1ef9 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng\u2026 r\u1ed3i nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng n\u00f3. H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0 d\u1eef li\u1ec7u quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch \u201cth\u1ef1c \u0111\u01a1n\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 \u201cnu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng\u201d c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, v\u00e0 nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u201cr\u1ef1c r\u1ee1\u201d hay \u201cxinh \u0111\u1eb9p\u201d. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen l\u00e0 \u201cng\u00e0i s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd\u201d, \u201ctay ch\u01a1i\u201d, \u201cLolita1\u201d, \u201cn\u00e0ng c\u00f4ng ch\u00faa nh\u1ecf ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o\u201d, \u201cthi\u00ean t\u00e0i vi\u1ec3n v\u00f4ng \u0111i\u00ean r\u1ed3 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi\u201d. S\u1ef1 \u0111a d\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 l\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ebft. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u00ed m\u1eadt l\u00e0, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1eebng khen ng\u1ee3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u1ed7 s\u00e0ng m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. 1 Lolita l\u00e0 ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a Vladimir Vladimirovich Nabokov. Ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y ra nhi\u1ec1u tranh c\u00e3i do nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft t\u00ean Humbert Humbert, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u tu\u1ed5i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u00e1m \u1ea3nh v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i m\u01b0\u1eddi hai tu\u1ed5i t\u00ean Dolores Haze, m\u00e0 Humbert g\u1ecdi th\u00e2n m\u1eadt l\u00e0 Lolita.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1i t\u00ean \u201cLolita\u201d \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00e0o v\u0103n ho\u00e1 ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ec3 mi\u00eau t\u1ea3 c\u00f4 g\u00e1i tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1edbm v\u1ec1 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1eeb cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u1eafng nghe th\u1eadt tinh t\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 xem \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. N\u01a1i \u1ea9n ch\u1ee9a nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ea3nh l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd n\u1eb1m \u1edf ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng\/ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111em l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vi\u1ec7c dung d\u01b0\u1ee1ng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c tr\u1ecdng y\u1ebfu trong vi\u1ec7c duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 c\u0169ng nguy hi\u1ec3m nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c cho m\u1ed9t con s\u01b0 t\u1eed \u0111\u1ef1c hay m\u1ed9t con s\u01b0 t\u1eed c\u00e1i \u0103n mi\u1ebfng th\u1ecbt s\u1ed1ng v\u1eady. H\u00e3y th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i hay t\u00e1n d\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt v\u00ec ch\u00fang s\u1ebd l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t \u0111i\u1ec3m. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00e1i t\u1ed3i v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u1ebd s\u1edbm ch\u1ebft y\u1ec3u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u1ef1 ve vu\u1ed1t b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea7y tinh t\u1ebf v\u00e0 kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3i qua b\u1ed1n b\u01b0\u1edbc: B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c khi\u1ebfn cho \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00ec s\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c chi\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. R\u1ed3i khi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. B\u01b0\u1edbc ba m\u1edbi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e0i v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u00e1n \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, khi h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ea7y ng\u1ee5 \u00fd. K\u00e8m theo \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0a th\u00eam nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ri\u00eang t\u01b0 c\u00f9ng c\u00e1c th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 t\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, khi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn ra h\u1ecd \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, anh \u1ea5y\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2n m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n, khi \u0111\u00f3 h\u00e3y tung ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen c\u00f3 c\u00e1nh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ecfi nam ch\u00e2m c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c h\u00fat m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 khen ng\u1ee3i, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecd v\u1eeba m\u1edbi g\u1eb7p. Nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 t\u1eeb c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 chia tay ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u, l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 m\u1edbi quen c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi l\u1eddi khen c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec7n \u0111ang c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, cu\u1ed9c c\u1ea1nh tranh kh\u00e1 kh\u1ed1c li\u1ec7t. \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean mi\u1ec5n d\u1ecbch v\u1edbi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u0169ng ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n th\u00edch h\u1ee3p. Vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi khen m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, \u0111\u00fang m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau, \u0111\u00fang s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 lu\u1ed3ng gi\u00f3 m\u1edbi v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 ra, nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m hay \u0111\u00e0o b\u1edbi c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau hi\u1ec7n th\u1eddi, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3\/ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, v\u00ec nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed5n hay x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m l\u1edbn h\u01a1n n\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p nguy c\u01a1 k\u00e9p trong tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 tin t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 k\u1ebb m\u1edbi gia nh\u1eadp ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y. H\u00e3y t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng l\u1ee3i th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u1ec7n b\u00faa ngay khi s\u1eaft c\u00f2n n\u00f3ng. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec7n \u0111ang trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m b\u1ecb tr\u1ee5c tr\u1eb7c, nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 c\u1ee9u tinh gi\u00fap xoa d\u1ecbu tinh th\u1ea7n c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd xoay sang b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1edbi m\u1ebb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd \u0111i t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc trong k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch khi\u1ebfn cho \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng s\u1ebd y\u00eau m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u01b0\u1edbc 1: Khen ng\u1ee3i th\u1ea7m l\u1eb7ng<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n khen ng\u1ee3i<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 hi\u1ec1n tri\u1ebft kh\u00f4n ngoan t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: \u201cT\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 n\u1ed7i khao kh\u00e1t kh\u00f4ng c\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed7i khao kh\u00e1t t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1\u201d. Khi l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean g\u1eb7p \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd g\u00e0o th\u00e9t: \u201cT\u00f4i khao kh\u00e1t anh\/em kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu n\u1ed5i. T\u00e2m tr\u00ed t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn xem c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 t\u00f4i \u0111ang ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc anh\/em nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i ra. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 im l\u1eb7ng khen ng\u1ee3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch cho h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 th\u1ec3. Khi l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u00ecn anh \u1ea5y\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eaft m\u00ecnh nh\u00ecn t\u1edbi hai l\u1ea7n th\u1eadt tinh t\u1ebf. (Nh\u00ecn h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n. Quay \u0111i. R\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang c\u0169ng c\u00f3 t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng ri\u00eang v\u1eady).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y duy tr\u00ec vi\u1ec7c giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng \u00e1nh m\u1eaft nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u th\u0103m th\u1eb3m trong khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi h\u1ecd (th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt 3: nh\u00ecn ch\u0103m ch\u00fa). H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u1eed trong m\u1eaft b\u1ea1n m\u1edf to v\u1edbi v\u1ebb ch\u0103m ch\u00fa (th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt 4: \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft quy\u1ebfn r\u0169). Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn h\u1ecd ngay c\u1ea3 trong l\u00fac im l\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 r\u1eddi m\u1eaft kh\u1ecfi h\u1ecd (th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt 5: nh\u00ecn kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u1ecfi).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o h\u1ecd, r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u01b0\u1eddi, h\u01a1i nghi\u00eang v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 g\u1eadt g\u00f9 khi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00f3i ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn, h\u00e3y s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 b\u00e0n \u1edf tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1eb9n h\u00f2. Trong su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a ti\u00ean quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, h\u00e3y ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n duy tr\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y bu\u1ed9c nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ki\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 \u201cT\u00f4i \u0111ang l\u00e0m g\u00ec th\u1ebf n\u00e0y?\u201d ra kh\u1ecfi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u1eadp trung tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra anh \u1ea5y\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n n\u00ean bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng: \u201cT\u00f4i \u1ed5n \u2013 c\u00f2n anh\/em th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 32: Ng\u1ee3i khen \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1eb1ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 th\u1ec3<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, h\u00e3y t\u1ea1o ra c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb h\u1ecd h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f4ng qua ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea7y v\u1ebb ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y ch\u1ecdn ra nh\u1eefng th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft v\u00e0 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 h\u00fat h\u1ed3n b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u01b0\u1edbc 2: \u0110\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAnh\/em c\u0169ng ngh\u0129 th\u1ebf!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u0111ang n\u00f3i, b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp theo b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m l\u00e0 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ef1 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft h\u00e0m \u1ea9n. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd n\u00f3i. B\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch thi tho\u1ea3ng trong cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng \u00e2m thanh ho\u1eb7c l\u1eddi l\u1ebd th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m, hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft, th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi g\u1ecdi t\u00ean c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfng nh\u01b0 \u201c\u00c0, \u1eeb\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201c\u1eebm\u201d. Ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb c\u00f3 \u00fd \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 nh\u01b0\u2026 \u201cAnh\/em hi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a em\/anh\u201d. \u201cAnh\/em c\u0169ng ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady\u2026\u201d \u201cAnh\/em \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi em\/anh\u2026\u201d \u201cAnh\/em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0\u2026\u201d \u201cAnh\/em c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u1edf ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 em\/anh\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, h\u00e3y nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ean \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u1edf nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap l\u00e0m ng\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f4i ch\u00fat cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem nh\u01b0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m r\u1ea5t m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, c\u00f3 h\u01a1i ph\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, c\u00f3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 d\u00f9ng t\u00ean g\u1ecdi c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m h\u1ee3p l\u00fd. H\u00e3y gi\u1ea3 s\u1eed b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 tennis v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u \u1edf m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng: \u201cKh\u00f4ng. Nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m r\u1ed3i anh kh\u00f4ng ch\u01a1i tennis n\u1eefa. Anh th\u00edch tennis nh\u01b0ng anh b\u1ecb g\u1eaby m\u1ea5y ng\u00f3n ch\u00e2n trong m\u1ed9t v\u1ee5 tai n\u1ea1n xe h\u01a1i.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n: \u201c\u00d4i tr\u1eddi, th\u1eadt kinh kh\u1ee7ng\u201d (\u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m). \u201cH\u1eb3n l\u00e0 anh r\u1ea5t nh\u1edb tennis r\u1ed3i\u201d (m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m kh\u00e1c).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng: \u201c\u1eea, qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 th\u1ebf. Anh \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ch\u01a1i tennis h\u00e0ng tu\u1ea7n m\u00e0\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n: \u201c\u1ed2, em hi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a anh\u201d (\u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m). \u201cTh\u1eadt kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp khi mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Anh \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00f4n n\u00e0o thay th\u1ebf cho tennis ch\u01b0a?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng: \u201cTh\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0 r\u1ed3i. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd anh tr\u01b0\u1ee3t pa-tanh r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. V\u00e0 anh th\u00edch n\u00f3 \u2013 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n: \u201c\u1ed2, tuy\u1ec7t qu\u00e1 John \u1ea1 (t\u00ean \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n). \u201cAnh gi\u1ed1ng em v\u00ec em c\u0169ng th\u00edch t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9\u201d (\u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m h\u01a1n n\u1eefa).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean d\u00f9ng c\u00e1c t\u1eeb ng\u1eef th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m \u1edf m\u1ecdi c\u00e2u nh\u01b0 n\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n qu\u00e1 h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n \u1edf tr\u00ean v\u1eeba l\u00e0m. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed9, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean xen k\u1ebd nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef \u0111\u00f3 trong cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 ve vu\u1ed1t c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn anh \u1ea5y\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb van v\u1ec9 hay xu n\u1ecbnh. Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng sa v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o duy tr\u00ec t\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u0129nh \u0111\u1ea1c, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong khi t\u1ecf ra \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 33: V\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef bi\u1ec3u th\u1ecb s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y \u0111i\u1ec3m xuy\u1ebft nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng trong su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. Ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng l\u00ean cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd nh\u01b0: \u201cAnh\/em hi\u1ec3u \u00fd em\/anh\u201d, \u201c\u0110\u00fang, em\/anh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00fang\u201d, \u201cAnh\/em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3\u201d. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u00edch: \u201cAnh\/ em hi\u1ec3u\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng trong nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i g\u00e2y \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i k\u1ec3 cho c\u00f4 \u1ea5y nghe c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o, th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd. Ho\u1eb7c h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn c\u00f4 \u1ea5y b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n hay, m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n h\u00e0i vui nh\u1ed9n. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ng\u00e0y nay, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec1u ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n ho\u1eb7c ph\u00f4 b\u00e0y th\u00eam n\u1eefa ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00e2ng cao v\u1ecb th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1ebf \u0111\u00e2u c\u00e1c qu\u00fd \u00f4ng, kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi n\u00e0ng. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0o n\u00e0ng. (\u0110\u1eebng lo c\u00e1c qu\u00fd \u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u1ecfa s\u00e1ng. B\u1ea3n n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef s\u1ebd t\u1ecfa nh\u1eefng tia n\u1eafng \u1ea5m \u00e1p xung quanh b\u1ea1n).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi, chi ti\u1ebft nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn v\u1edbi h\u1ecd h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u l\u00e0 kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh th\u00fa v\u1ecb nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i khi hai b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00e2n m\u1eadt h\u01a1n. Nh\u01b0ng l\u00fac n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n th\u00fa v\u1ecb h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 34: Ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y xem cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u00e1nh \u0111\u00e8n pha c\u1ef1c m\u1ea1nh. M\u1ed7i khi n\u00f3 chi\u1ebfu l\u00ean h\u1ecd, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng. N\u1ebfu \u00e1nh \u0111\u00e8n \u0111\u00f3 xoay quanh b\u1ea1n, ho\u1eb7c h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n (v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 b\u1ea1n n\u1eefa) tr\u1edf n\u00ean k\u00e9m th\u00fa v\u1ecb h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng chi ti\u1ebft th\u00e2n m\u1eadt<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 ng\u00f4i sao c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft c\u00f3 nhan \u0111\u1ec1 Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i. Ai c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u201ct\u00f4i \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cm\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4i l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng nh\u1edb\u201d. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 b\u00ed quy\u1ebft: B\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 ai \u0111\u00f3, n\u1ebfu chia s\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quan \u0111i\u1ec3m cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi ta, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t th\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, khi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1nh r\u0103ng v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh quan tr\u1ecdng ki\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 \u0103n g\u00ec trong b\u1eefa s\u00e1ng, \u0111i \u0111\u00f4i gi\u1ea7y n\u00e0o h\u00f4m nay hay c\u00f3 n\u00ean m\u1ea5t th\u1eddi gian x\u1ec9a r\u0103ng hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng hay nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f4i y\u00eau nhau t\u1eeb l\u00e2u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00f4 t\u01b0 chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi nhau m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. \u201cEm mu\u1ed1n \u0103n s\u00e1ng g\u00ec h\u1ea3 em y\u00eau?\u201d \u201cEm s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111i \u0111\u00f4i gi\u1ea7y \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng?\u201d \u201cEm c\u00f3 nh\u1edb x\u1ec9a r\u0103ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea5y?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng khi b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1edbi, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd \u0103n g\u00ec trong b\u1eefa s\u00e1ng, hay h\u1ecd c\u00f3 nh\u1edb x\u1ec9a r\u0103ng hay kh\u00f4ng. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt t\u1ee9c th\u00ec. \u0110\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 h\u00e3y nh\u1edb t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng chi ti\u1ebft th\u00e2n m\u1eadt trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n kh\u00f4n kh\u00e9o ch\u0103m ch\u00fat cho kh\u00e1t khao l\u00e0m ng\u00f4i sao c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt t\u00f4i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201ctheo d\u00f5i\u201d. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t kh\u00f4ng l\u01b0u theo d\u00f5i c\u00e1c m\u00e1y bay tr\u00ean m\u00e0n h\u00ecnh ra-\u0111a, c\u00e1c th\u1ee3 s\u0103n th\u00f4ng minh s\u1ebd theo d\u00f5i d\u00f2ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng hay s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ebfu trong cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, ch\u00e0ng n\u00f3i ch\u00e0ng \u0103n b\u00e1nh g\u1ea1o trong b\u1eefa s\u00e1ng, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y ghi nh\u1edb v\u00e0 nh\u1eafc t\u1edbi n\u00f3 sau n\u00e0y. C\u00f2n n\u1ebfu trong khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, n\u00e0ng b\u1ea3o v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y n\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i nh\u1ea7m gi\u1ea7y \u0111i l\u00e0m, h\u00e3y t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp t\u1edbi n\u00f3 l\u1ea7n sau. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf n\u00e0ng l\u00e0 ng\u00f4i sao \u0111\u00e1ng nh\u1edb trong c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea3i ng\u00e2n h\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eb7p.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n, nh\u1eefng g\u00e3 th\u1ee3 s\u0103n th\u00f4ng minh lu\u00f4n gi\u1eef m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u1ed5 b\u00ed m\u1eadt trong tr\u00ed n\u00e3o v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y, ni\u1ec1m th\u00edch th\u00fa cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng. H\u1ecd v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n d\u00f5i theo n\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m t\u1eeb l\u1ea7n tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n cu\u1ed1i. Khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u li\u00ean h\u1ec7 tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i, nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean th\u1ed1t ra c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u2013 ho\u1eb7c tr\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i, ho\u1eb7c tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp \u2013 s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp t\u1edbi n\u00f3. \u201cJoe n\u00e0y? Ch\u00e0o em! Cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp t\u1ed5ng k\u1ebft cu\u1ed1i n\u0103m sao r\u1ed3i?\u201d \u201cCh\u00e0o Linda. Em g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a em c\u00f3 nh\u00f3c ch\u01b0a?\u201d \u201cCh\u00e0o anh. Anh v\u1eabn duy tr\u00ec nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng T\u1ee9 Xuy\u00ean m\u00e0 l\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 nh\u1eafc t\u1edbi ch\u1ee9 h\u1ea3? \u201cDiane n\u00e0y, c\u00e1i r\u0103ng \u0111au c\u1ee7a em gi\u1edd sao r\u1ed3i?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m l\u1edbn trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 35: Theo d\u00f5i<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t kh\u00f4ng l\u01b0u, h\u00e3y theo d\u00f5i t\u1eebng chi ti\u1ebft nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. H\u00e3y nh\u1eafc t\u1edbi ch\u00fang trong cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n tin t\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n l\u1edbn hay nh\u1ecf cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ai \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft ch\u00fang r\u1ea5t r\u00f5. Ch\u00fang l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt ch\u00ednh trong ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i. V\u00e0 h\u1ecd y\u00eau b\u1ea1n v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn ra v\u1ecb th\u1ebf ng\u00f4i sao c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i th\u00e2n m\u1eadt, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n vui ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd th\u00ec th\u1ea7m nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0o tai nhau, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Neil Simon, nh\u00e0 so\u1ea1n k\u1ecbch \u0111\u00e3 truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng cho th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt n\u00e0y. Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch d\u00e0i d\u00f2ng, \u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 kh\u00e1n gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a s\u00e2n kh\u1ea5u k\u1ecbch Broadway hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng hai di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean tr\u00ean s\u00e2n kh\u1ea5u \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n hay ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau nhau \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e2u. \u00d4ng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1edbi nhau nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef khi\u1ebfn kh\u00e1n gi\u1ea3 ch\u1eb3ng hi\u1ec3u g\u00ec. Nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i c\u1ea3 hai c\u00f9ng ph\u00e1 l\u00ean c\u01b0\u1eddi. Kh\u00e1n gi\u1ea3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p: hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u00e2n m\u1eadt t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 h\u00e3y t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t truy\u1ec7n c\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 d\u00e0nh ri\u00eang cho hai b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n k\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n, ho\u1eb7c v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n ho\u1eb7c v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m, h\u00e3y nh\u1edb m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ph\u1ea7n trong \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh. Sau \u0111\u00f3 th\u00eam v\u00e0o l\u1eddi l\u1ebd, m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n vui nho nh\u1ecf, g\u1ee3i l\u00ean ph\u1ea7n th\u00edch th\u00fa c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Thi tho\u1ea3ng t\u00f4i \u0111i ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi c\u1eadu b\u1ea1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi Anh t\u00ean l\u00e0 Charles. L\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean t\u00f4i g\u1eb7p Charles t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c, anh \u0111ang k\u1ec3 v\u1edbi nh\u00f3m b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh leo n\u00fai v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00e1c. Sau v\u00e0i gi\u1edd trong chuy\u1ebfn th\u00e1m hi\u1ec3m, \u0111o\u00e0n \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ng\u1ecdn n\u00fai d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u1ee9ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1 l\u1edf. Anh v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o khu v\u1ef1c nguy hi\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean, ch\u1eb3ng ai trong s\u1ed1 h\u1ecd, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 Charles, th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Charles ch\u1ee3t nh\u1edb m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ph\u00edch tr\u00e0 n\u00f3ng trong ba l\u00f4. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi leo n\u00fai d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00f3 nghi ng\u1edd nh\u00ecn nh\u1eefng c\u1eadu nh\u1ecf run s\u1ee3 tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ec9nh n\u00fai, Charles \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb. B\u1eb1ng ch\u1ea5t gi\u1ecdng Anh kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp, anh n\u00f3i: \u201c\u1ed2, ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m t\u00e1ch tr\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e3 n\u00e0o\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00dd t\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1eadt hay! M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u \u00f9a \u0111i t\u00ecm ch\u1ed7 ng\u1ed3i. V\u00e0 khi \u0111\u00e3 ng\u1ed3i tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng t\u1ea3ng \u0111\u00e1, h\u1ecd l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t l\u1ed9 tr\u00ecnh thay th\u1ebf, an to\u00e0n h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Charles \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i ra \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i ra l\u00e0, ch\u00ednh Charles, \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ee9u tho\u00e1t m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd, anh \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ee9u tho\u00e1t sinh m\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eb1ng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i: \u201c\u1ed2, ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t t\u00e1ch tr\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e3 n\u00e0o!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau \u0111\u00f3 trong b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c, Charles \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e0 b\u1eadt ti vi \u0111\u1ec3 theo d\u00f5i ph\u1ea7n cu\u1ed1i tr\u1eadn b\u00f3ng ch\u00e0y c\u1ee7a Anh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh t\u1ed1i h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1eadt t\u1ec7.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i nh\u00e1y m\u1eaft v\u1edbi Charles v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o: \u201c\u1ed2, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t t\u00e1ch tr\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e3 n\u00e0o\u201d. Anh ph\u00ec c\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean anh \u1ea5y ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 36: C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n vui ri\u00eang t\u01b0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ec3 s\u1edbm t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt, h\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn trong khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n. Sau \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y nh\u1eb7t ra nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef m\u00e0 anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y t\u1ecf ra r\u1ea5t th\u00edch th\u00fa. N\u1eafm b\u1eaft \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00fa v\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 sau n\u00e0y c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i n\u00f3 trong cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n vui ri\u00eang t\u01b0, h\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau nhau t\u1eeb l\u00e2u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt giao ti\u1ebfp nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u01b0u \u00fd v\u00e0i \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng: 1. Ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ecdn nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n m\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u1ecfa s\u00e1ng \u2013 n\u01a1i m\u00e0 anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1eb1ng h\u1ec1. 2. Sau khi b\u1ea1n nghe c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 qua \u0111i m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ea1n nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n ri\u00eang t\u01b0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean. Kho\u1ea3ng ng\u01b0ng c\u00e0ng l\u00e2u, c\u00fa \u201cra \u0111\u00f2n\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f9a vui ri\u00eang v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u k\u1ef3 di\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u1eafn b\u00f3 th\u00eam m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, n\u00f3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0m m\u1ec1m \u0111i nh\u1eefng g\u00f3c c\u1ea1nh th\u00f4 nh\u00e1m tr\u00ean b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ec1 sau. Cho t\u1edbi b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, m\u1ed7i khi Charles \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch, t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: \u201c\u1ed2, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t t\u00e1ch tr\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00e9\u201d. L\u1ea7n n\u00e0o anh \u1ea5y c\u0169ng b\u1eadt c\u01b0\u1eddi. Charles th\u00edch c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c anh \u1ea5y qu\u00ean lu\u00f4n vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi anh. V\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec t\u00f4i l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c theo c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u01b0\u1edbc 3: Ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 \u201c\u00d4i em\/anh y\u00eau, em\/anh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c qu\u00e1 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi khi th\u00e1i nh\u1eefng c\u00e2y n\u1ea5m n\u00e0y\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u01b0\u1edbc 3, trong cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n ban \u0111\u1ea7u, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 h\u1ecd. Gi\u1edd l\u00e0 l\u00fac b\u1ed5 sung th\u00eam nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn. Nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3ng gi\u00e3n c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cnh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ng\u1ee3i khen\u201d. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd n\u00f3i cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u00e2y gi\u1edd s\u1ebd chuy\u1ec3n sang c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng: \u201c\u00c0 v\u00e2ng, em th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00ec c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3. V\u1eady n\u00ean em quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ecf\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n: \u201c\u1eea, em \u0111\u00e3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1eadt d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m\u201d (ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng: \u201cV\u00e2ng. \u00c0, em \u0111\u00e3 tham gia m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i kh\u00f3a h\u1ecdc bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00e2ng cao chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n v\u1ec1 k\u1ebf to\u00e1n\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n: \u201cTh\u1eadt \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn\u201d (t\u00e1n \u0111\u1ed3ng).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng: \u201cV\u00e2ng, em c\u0169ng ngh\u0129 th\u1ebf\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n: \u201cEm \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng<\/a> m\u1edbi ch\u01b0a?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. \u201cCh\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1ed3i. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap em t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng ty hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea5y\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n: \u201cTuy\u1ec7t qu\u00e1 John \u1ea1! (nh\u1eafc t\u1edbi t\u00ean c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng). Th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi khi bi\u1ebft em \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00fang\u201d (\u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n ti\u1ebfp di\u1ec5n, h\u00e3y ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111an c\u00e0i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen h\u1ebft l\u1eddi. Ch\u00fang \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng khen ng\u1ee3i nho nh\u1ecf nh\u01b0: \u201cAnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y em \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c r\u1ea5t v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3. Th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t\u201d. \u201cC\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 em \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft t\u1ed1t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00fac m\u1eebng em nh\u00e9\u201d. \u201cEm n\u00f3i g\u00ec c\u01a1? Kh\u00f4ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e2u nh\u00e9\u201d. \u201cEm \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt \u01b0? Ch\u00faa \u01a1i, th\u1eadt \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c anh ch\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n: Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 v\u1ebb kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng, theo b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng, v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi mang t\u00ednh c\u1ea1nh tranh h\u01a1n, \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m suy gi\u1ea3m v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e0ng n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tin, anh ta c\u00e0ng d\u1ec5 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, khen ng\u1ee3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd l\u00e0m t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1ecb th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u00eam n\u1eefa, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i \u1edf ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n v\u1ecb th\u1ebf. V\u1edbi h\u1ecd, khen ng\u1ee3i l\u00e0m \u0111\u1eadm \u0111\u00e0 th\u00eam s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt. Khi b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh l\u1eddi khen cho ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00e3 th\u1ee3 s\u0103n kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng hi\u1ebfm hoi, th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef anh ta v\u1eeba g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n: B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa s\u1ee9c phung ph\u00ed v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen t\u1eb7ng. Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 xu n\u1ecbnh th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn s\u1ebd h\u1ee3p l\u00fd m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o v\u1edbi \u0111\u00f4i tai c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi anh em c\u00f9ng cha kh\u00e1c m\u1eb9 m\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 (v\u00e0, t\u00f4i c\u00f2n s\u1edbm ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t th\u00f4ng minh n\u1eefa). V\u00e0i tu\u1ea7n sau \u0111\u00e1m c\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, h\u1ecd m\u1eddi t\u00f4i t\u1edbi nh\u00e0 d\u00f9ng b\u1eefa t\u1ed1i. Lary l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ebfp gi\u1ecfi, Regina v\u00e0 t\u00f4i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 b\u1ebfp cho anh. Ba ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u00fai h\u00fai quanh b\u1ebfp. Regina g\u1ecdt h\u00e0nh, Lary \u0111ang th\u00e1i n\u1ea5m, c\u00f2n t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ed5 ch\u00fat n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o n\u1ed3i \u0111un. M\u1ed9t l\u00fac, t\u00f4i nghi\u00eang ng\u01b0\u1eddi qua b\u1ebfp l\u00f2 v\u00e0 nghe th\u1ea5y Regina th\u1ee7 th\u1ec9 v\u1edbi Lary ph\u00eda sau: \u201c\u00d4i anh y\u00eau, anh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi khi th\u00e1i nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i n\u1ea5m \u0111\u00f3. Tr\u00f4ng c\u00e1c mi\u1ebfng m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7n l\u00e0m sao\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i quay sang c\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u00e1c v\u1edbi Regina v\u00ec c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f9a c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f9a! Regina t\u1ecf ra th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 nh\u1eefng l\u00e1t n\u1ea5m th\u00e1i nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y. V\u00e0 Lary m\u1edbi l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang c\u01b0\u1eddi \u2013 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 sung s\u01b0\u1edbng \u2013 c\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0o l\u00fac \u1ea5y, Regina \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, c\u00f4 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef r\u1ea5t th\u00f4ng minh. C\u00f4 bi\u1ebft Lary r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u1ea5u b\u1ebfp c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn c\u1ee7a anh. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng, ch\u00ednh vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a Regina \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi anh em c\u00f9ng cha kh\u00e1c m\u1eb9 v\u1edbi t\u00f4i y\u00eau c\u00f4 say \u0111\u1eafm. V\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd m\u00e3i l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 37: Trao t\u1eb7ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 t\u0103ng th\u00eam, h\u00e3y th\u00eam v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m s\u00e2u s\u1eafc c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y \u0111an c\u00e0i v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb nho nh\u1ecf nh\u01b0: \u201cT\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ea5y!\u201d, \u201cKh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3i \u0111\u00e2u\u201d, \u201cN\u00e0y, th\u00f4ng minh \u0111\u1ea5y\u201d. (C\u00e1c c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n \u01a1i, \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ecf m\u1eb7t th\u1ebf. \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn n\u00f3 h\u1ebft. C\u00f2n c\u00e1c anh ch\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n, h\u00e3y b\u1eaft m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i nh\u00e9. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng<\/a> m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea5y).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u01b0\u1edbc 4: L\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i h\u00e0m ng\u00f4n \u201cAnh\/em qu\u00e1 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e1n d\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n khi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn c\u00f2n qu\u00e1 m\u1ecfng manh, ch\u01b0a ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khen qu\u00e1 l\u1eddi. H\u00e3y ng\u1ee5 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u1edf ph\u1ea7n \u201cng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean\u201d trong c\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i h\u00e0m ng\u00f4n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i ki\u1ec3u nh\u01b0: \u201cEm\/anh qu\u00e1 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng\u2026\u201d Ho\u1eb7c: \u201cB\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai d\u1ec5 coi nh\u01b0 anh\/anh c\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng\u2026\u201d B\u1ea1n \u0111ang ca ng\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eafn l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee5 \u00fd \u0111\u00f3 trong ph\u1ea7n m\u1ec7nh \u0111\u1ec1 t\u1ef1 do c\u1ee7a c\u00e2u n\u00f3i, v\u00ed nh\u01b0: \u201cL\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh nh\u01b0 anh\/em, anh\/em s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u1eeba b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t \u00e2m m\u01b0u nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, nh\u01b0ng em\/anh th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 d\u00ednh ph\u1ea3i\u201d. \u201cB\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai nhanh nh\u1eb9n nh\u01b0 anh\/em \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i v\u1edbi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee5 \u00fd l\u00e0 n\u00f3i b\u00f3ng gi\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. \u201cNh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng minh nh\u01b0 em\/anh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 v\u1eady\u201d. \u201cNh\u1eefng ai c\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u01b0 em\/anh \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n g\u00ec\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 do s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee5 \u00fd, b\u1edfi n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ed1 \u00fd t\u00e1n t\u1ec9nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y. Quan \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00f4n vinh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i ra m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 38: L\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i ng\u1ee5 \u00fd<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y l\u00e1t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1edbi tr\u00e1i tim ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee5 \u00fd trong ph\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 hai \u1edf c\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00f4n vinh h\u1ecd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch nh\u1eafc t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. \u2026 \u201cAnh\/em c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t y\u00eau nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u em\/anh th\u00edch\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u khen ng\u1ee3i \u0111i\u1ec3m g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u00edch th\u00fa v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n n\u1eefa n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n khen ng\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 n\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00fac b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, h\u00e3y thu th\u1eadp m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c nh\u1eefng ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u1ee3i khen ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y. H\u00e3y c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp, \u0111\u00fang tr\u1ecdng t\u00e2m v\u00e0o tr\u00e1i tim \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u1eafng nghe b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f4i tai c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd. Trong khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u0111ang n\u00f3i, h\u00e3y quan s\u00e1t g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eb7t h\u1ecd. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m t\u1edbi \u0111\u00f4i g\u00f2 m\u00e1 \u1eedng h\u1ed3ng, \u00e1nh m\u1eaft r\u1ef1c s\u00e1ng v\u00e0 n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea5p l\u00e1nh. Nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 cho b\u1ea1n \u2013 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y vui s\u01b0\u1edbng. Khi g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eb7t h\u1ecd tr\u1edf n\u00ean sinh \u0111\u1ed9ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a h\u1ecd \u0111ang th\u00edch th\u00fa v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd k\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n nghe. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1ea1t nh\u1ebdo khi n\u00f3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1eebng b\u1eadn t\u00e2m t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c khen ng\u1ee3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

G\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0103n tr\u01b0a v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u0103n quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 nh\u01b0ng kh\u00e1 c\u1ef1c \u0111oan c\u00f3 t\u00ean l\u00e0 Ralph. Bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3, anh \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 b\u00e0i di\u1ec5n thuy\u1ebft v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m c\u00e1c n\u1eef gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh kinh doanh. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi di\u1ec5n thuy\u1ebft, anh \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ee3 r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 n\u1eef quy\u1ec1n trong nh\u00f3m s\u1ebd \u0103n t\u01b0\u01a1i, nu\u1ed1t s\u1ed1ng anh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi anh k\u1ec3 cho t\u00f4i nghe c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n, \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft anh b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ea5p l\u00e1nh. B\u1eb1ng v\u1ebb sinh \u0111\u1ed9ng tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, anh nh\u1eafc t\u1edbi c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u01b0\u1eddi \u201ct\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng\u201d v\u00e0 m\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u b\u00e0i di\u1ec5n thuy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau \u0111\u00f3, c\u0169ng trong b\u1eefa tr\u01b0a n\u00e0y, anh k\u1ec3 cho t\u00f4i nghe m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c. C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n th\u1ee9 hai n\u00e0y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Anh k\u1ec3 cho t\u00f4i nghe h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 \u1edf ph\u00f2ng c\u1ed5 phi\u1ebfu khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, anh nhanh ch\u00f3ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u1ee7 t\u1ecbch \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ty. Nh\u01b0ng trong su\u1ed1t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y, g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eb7t anh tr\u00f4ng th\u1edd \u01a1, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 t\u1ecf ra x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 \u201cth\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u\u201d n\u00e0o Ralph s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen ng\u1ee3i h\u01a1n? V\u00e2ng, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 \u1edf ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n, th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u sau \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ca ng\u1ee3i h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng Ralph l\u1ea1i cho r\u1eb1ng, vi\u1ec7c chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng n\u1eef kh\u00e1n gi\u1ea3 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng thi\u1ebfu th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn anh ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ebfu nh\u00e2n c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i, b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00e1i tim c\u1ef1c \u0111oan c\u1ee7a Ralph, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00f3i: \u201c\u00d4i Ralph, anh th\u1eadt th\u00f4ng minh khi \u0111\u00e3 m\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i c\u00f4ng khai \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Ni\u1ec1m t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd n\u1eb1m \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u? B\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecd ghi nh\u1eadn \u1edf m\u00ecnh nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec? C\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00edch m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t th\u00f4ng minh kh\u00f4ng? V\u00f4 c\u00f9ng xinh \u0111\u1eb9p kh\u00f4ng? M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi duy t\u00e2m?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anh \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u00edch m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb s\u00e1t g\u00e1i, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4n ngoan? M\u1ed9t g\u00e3 trai b\u1ee5i b\u1eb7m. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecd t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 khi\u1ebfu h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1ec1 l\u00f2ng trung th\u1ef1c, s\u1ef1 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ho\u1eb7c gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 Ralph, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 n\u1eef quy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng qua khi\u1ebfu h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00f4ng minh c\u1ee7a anh. H\u00e3y ph\u00e2n t\u00edch nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u00edch th\u00fa v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 ca ng\u1ee3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn s\u1ebd th\u00edch b\u1ea1n khen ng\u1ee3i s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng minh v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft s\u00e2u s\u1eafc c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y h\u01a1n l\u00e0 v\u1ebb b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i. C\u00f2n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t, r\u1ea5t ng\u1ea1i khi nghe b\u1ea1n khen anh \u1ea5y th\u00f4ng minh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, m\u00e0 s\u1ebd t\u1ecf ra n\u1ed3ng n\u00e0n h\u01a1n khi b\u1ea1n khen tr\u00f4ng anh \u1ea5y d\u1ec5 coi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng\/anh ch\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn, khi khen ng\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u \u00fd t\u1edbi t\u00ednh th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m. Vi\u1ec7c ca ng\u1ee3i nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng nh\u1ecf g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y s\u1ebd hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n vi\u1ec7c t\u00e1n th\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e3 l\u00f9i v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 xa x\u00f4i. N\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c khen ng\u1ee3i b\u1ed9 trang ph\u1ee5c m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a ai \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y mua n\u00f3. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, Ralph mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen v\u00ec \u201cchi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng v\u1edbi c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y h\u01a1n v\u00ec n\u00f3 v\u1eeba x\u1ea3y ra v\u00e0o s\u00e1ng h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3. Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, vi\u1ec7c \u201cth\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn nhanh ch\u00f3ng\u201d kia \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y c\u1ea3 th\u1eadp k\u1ef7 r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 39: Khen ng\u1ee3i \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i c\u00f4ng khai, h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh: \u201cCon ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec nh\u1ea5t?\u201d R\u1ed3i h\u00e3y ch\u1ecdn m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau th\u1eadt chu\u1ea9n x\u00e1c. C\u0169ng n\u00ean c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc t\u00ednh th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u00e2m n\u00f3ng tr\u00e1i tim ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y h\u01a1n b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c ca ng\u1ee3i m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u \u0111\u00e3 qua.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u01b0\u1edbc 5: Nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1t s\u00fang l\u1edbn<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cEm\/anh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t anh\/em t\u1eebng g\u1eb7p\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khen qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c, c\u00fa b\u1eafn ti\u1ebfp theo c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt uy l\u1ef1c. C\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00f4 la li\u00ean minh, \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u201cph\u00e1 gi\u00e1\u201d nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i c\u00f3 v\u1ebb h\u01a1i d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m, t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng \u00e2m thanh \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn, v\u00e0 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd s\u1ef1 khen ng\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh d\u1ee5m n\u00f3 cho l\u1eddi khen quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00e2u l\u00e0 l\u1eddi khen quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e2u: \u201c\u00d4i, em th\u00edch c\u00e1i c\u00e0 v\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a anh qu\u00e1\u201d. L\u1eddi khen quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn, tr\u00fang \u0111\u00edch, quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng mu\u1ed1n ng\u1ea1t th\u1edf.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o v\u1ec1 giao ti\u1ebfp, t\u00f4i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch gi\u00e1n ti\u1ebfp k\u00e9o m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1edbi c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean kh\u00e1c. Giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7u trong ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham gia t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ph\u1ea7n sau c\u1ee7a ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh, t\u00f4i h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn h\u1ecd nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 nh\u1edb v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t n\u00e9t t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch t\u00edch c\u1ef1c n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 h\u1ecd tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng. T\u00f4i b\u1ea3o: \u201cKh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u0169ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i quan s\u00e1t t\u00edch c\u1ef1c ri\u00eang t\u01b0\u201d. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5m \u00e1p tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. \u201c\u0110\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t\u201d, t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o h\u1ecd: \u201cHo\u1eb7c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd\u201d. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u00edt nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

R\u1ed3i t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o: \u201c\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, h\u00e3y m\u1edf m\u1eaft ra v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u0129\u201d. \u201cG\u00ec c\u01a1, n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd h\u1ea3?\u201d T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd. \u201cTh\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129 ri\u00eang t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd sao?\u201d \u201c\u0110\u00fang v\u1eady! H\u00e3y n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1ecd d\u00e0nh cho nhau nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i v\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt vui. Sau con s\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ed3i h\u1ed9p qu\u00e9t qua \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng, nh\u1eefng n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ecf m\u1eb7t \u1ea5m \u00e1p lan ra. T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh ph\u00eda b\u00ean ph\u1ea3i v\u00e0 b\u00ean tr\u00e1i. V\u00e0 tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u1ea5m \u00e1p v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u00f3 cho h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u1eddi khen quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0o h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 v\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe? Nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau nh\u01b0: \u201cAnh\/em c\u00f3 khi\u1ebfu h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi\u201d. \u201cAnh\/em ngh\u0129 em\/anh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u0169 c\u00f4ng. Anh\/em nh\u1ea3y qu\u00e1 duy\u00ean d\u00e1ng\u201d. \u201cAnh\/em r\u1ea5t \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi b\u00e0n tay c\u1ee7a em\/anh. Ch\u00fang nh\u01b0 tay c\u1ee7a ngh\u1ec7 s\u1ef9 piano v\u1eady\u201d. \u201cAnh\/em th\u1ea5y em\/anh c\u00f3 khi\u1ebfu th\u1ea9m m\u0129 r\u1ea5t tuy\u1ec7t\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khen quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i g\u00ec cho t\u00f4i?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 t\u1edbi l\u00fac n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn ra th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt l\u1eddi khen quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 cho m\u00ecnh khi th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

G\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t k\u1ebf to\u00e1n vi\u00ean, m\u1ed9t anh ch\u00e0ng t\u1ebb ng\u1eaft. Khi t\u00f4i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi anh ch\u00e0ng k\u1ebf to\u00e1n nh\u1ea1t nh\u1ebdo n\u00e0y, anh ta nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u v\u00e0o m\u1eaft t\u00f4i v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201cLeil\u201d \u2013 anh ta nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ean t\u00f4i \u2013 \u201cC\u00f4 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 t\u00f4i t\u1eebng g\u1eb7p\u201d. \u201cOa! D\u1eebng l\u1ea1i! Ng\u1eebng m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u0111\u00e3 n\u00e0o! \u0110\u1ea7u g\u1ed1i t\u00f4i nh\u01b0 y\u1ebfu \u0111i. T\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat PEA \u0111ang ph\u00f3ng qua m\u1ea1ch m\u00e1u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i?\u201d Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ai? T\u00f4i ngh\u0129. B\u1ea5t ch\u1ee3t anh ch\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u1ea5t th\u00fa v\u1ecb. Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n d\u00f9ng b\u1eefa tr\u01b0a v\u1edbi anh ta v\u00e0o tu\u1ea7n sau \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi im l\u1eb7ng, ch\u00e0ng trai th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 t\u1ebb ng\u1eaft v\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ch\u1eb3ng \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u. Nh\u01b0ng l\u1eddi khen quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a anh ch\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i t\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 40: L\u1eddi khen quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o trong \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u2013 \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u00e2u s\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 n\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau \u0111\u00f3 h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o m\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y, g\u1ecdi t\u00ean h\u1ecd, g\u00e2y \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi h\u1ecd b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi khen quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khen khi chia tay v\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ed1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00ean l\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1eafp b\u1eafp: \u201c\u00d4i tr\u1eddi, c\u1ea3m \u01a1n\u201d. (Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng lo, anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen th\u00eam).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1eebng d\u00e0nh cho \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1eddi khen quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh trong m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ng. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb xem nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb kh\u00fam n\u00fam ho\u1eb7c th\u00edch ch\u0103n d\u1eaft. V\u00e0 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i, h\u00e3y ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n khen h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec3m g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 n\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, t\u00f4i tham gia m\u1ed9t v\u1edf k\u1ecbch nh\u1ecf m\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00f3ng t\u1edbi 8 nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt kh\u00e1c nhau. T\u00f4i ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o ngh\u0129: \u201cm\u00ecnh th\u1eadt l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1eef di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean linh ho\u1ea1t\u201d. Vai di\u1ec5n k\u00e9m \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u1ea5t, theo \u00fd t\u00f4i, l\u00e0 khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u00f3ng m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 ma-n\u01a1-canh trong c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng t\u1ea1p h\u00f3a. Trong v\u1edf k\u1ecbch \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed9t nam di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 di\u1ec5n to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 trong khi anh ta v\u00e1c t\u00f4i qua s\u00e2n kh\u1ea5u nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t x\u00e1c ch\u1ebft l\u1ea1nh c\u1ee9ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00f4i khi, m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1n gi\u1ea3 \u00f9a \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00ean t\u00f4i sau bu\u1ed5i di\u1ec5n, n\u1eafm tay t\u00f4i v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201c\u1ed2, t\u00f4i th\u00edch c\u00f4 trong c\u1ea3nh di\u1ec5n ma-n\u01a1-canh \u0111\u00f3\u201d. T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y gh\u00e9t l\u00e0m sao! B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 tin t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 x\u1eedng c\u1ed3 l\u00ean v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi t\u00e1n d\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 cho h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3n t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t nam di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean: \u201cTh\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t l\u00e0m sao, anh l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1edb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi tho\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1ec9\u201d, hay v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t v\u0169 c\u00f4ng: \u201cTr\u00f4ng anh\/em th\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb9p trong trang ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u00f3\u201d, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m s\u1ef1 bi\u1ec3u di\u1ec5n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen c\u1ed1 \u00fd \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd r\u01a1i t\u00f5m \u0111\u00e2u m\u1ea5t v\u00e0 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng h\u00e2m n\u00f3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, h\u00e3y trang b\u1ecb 9 th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt xoa d\u1ecbu c\u00e1i t\u00f4i, \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e0nh l\u1ea5y tr\u00e1i tim ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y. Tuy nhi\u00ean, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng ch\u00fang, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh c\u00e2u cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng. \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 khen ng\u1ee3i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd. \u0110i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh c\u1ed7 m\u00e1y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u201cCh\u1edd ch\u00fat, c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00edch khen?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4 la c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb kh\u1ed1n c\u00f9ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u00e0 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t tri\u1ec7u ph\u00fa. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen c\u0169ng b\u1edbt \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u0111i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang theo \u0111u\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn ho\u1eb7c h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 h\u01a1n (v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh th\u1ef1c h\u01a1n) trong l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 quen v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1ee3i khen, v\u00ec th\u1ebf h\u1ecd c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng m\u1eb7n m\u00e0 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 khen ng\u1ee3i cho th\u1ea5y, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 th\u1ea5p l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u00e9m h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 n\u00f3 cao h\u01a1n. Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta khao kh\u00e1t nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ecb nh\u1ed1t b\u00ean trong nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eb7t th\u1ea3n nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111ang g\u00e0o kh\u00f3c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3 t\u1ef1 do b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n khi\u1ebfn c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh xinh \u0111\u1eb9p. B\u1ecb m\u1eafc k\u1eb9t b\u00ean trong m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a c\u00f3c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed \u0111\u1eb9p trai ch\u1edd b\u1ea1n h\u00f4n l\u00ean anh ta b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 41: L\u1eddi khen \u0111\u1eb7t \u0111\u00fang ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t v\u00e0 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng qu\u00e1 quen v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i n\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u khi h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng m\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec3 tai \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a quen v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen, anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd khao kh\u00e1t nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 n\u00f3 nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u0103n ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 quan s\u00e1t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i t\u1ee9c th\u1eddi \u201cNh\u1eefng g\u00ec anh\/em v\u1eeba l\u00e0m th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u00e1t s\u00fang l\u1ee5c nh\u1ecf b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai d\u00f9 g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eb7t h\u1ecd b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng hay xinh \u0111\u1eb9p, th\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 hay v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i. T\u00f4i g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u201cL\u1eddi khen t\u1ee9c th\u1eddi\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc tr\u1ecdng y\u1ebfu m\u00e0 khi \u0111\u00f3, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng khen ng\u1ee3i, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y. N\u1ebfu anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u (\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ecdt v\u00e0o v\u00f2ng chung k\u1ebft sau bu\u1ed5i bi\u1ec3u di\u1ec5n, \u0111\u00e0m ph\u00e1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng, n\u1ea5u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eefa \u0103n ngon), h\u00e3y ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean th\u1ed1t ra t\u1eeb mi\u1ec7ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng m\u00e0 anh\/ c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0o l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi lu\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n trong \u00f3c: \u201cM\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?\u201d N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n m\u1ea5t nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u00eau n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean d\u00e0nh t\u1eb7ng h\u1ecd nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i t\u1ee9c th\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n k\u1ec3 cho t\u00f4i nghe chuy\u1ec7n anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i, tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00e0i di\u1ec5n v\u0103n anh \u0111\u1ecdc trong h\u1ed9i ngh\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0nh m\u00ecnh. Ngay sau khi anh \u0111\u1ecdc \u2013 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u1edbn \u2013 anh len gi\u1eefa \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng t\u00e1n th\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ch\u1ed7 ng\u1ed3i c\u1ea1nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan tr\u1ecdng kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a anh. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u00f3i v\u1edbi anh l\u00e0: \u201cH\u00e3y v\u1eaby tay v\u1edbi Bill v\u00e0 Sue \u0111ang tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd c\u0169ng t\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y\u201d. Tr\u1eddi \u1ea1! Th\u1eadt l\u00e0 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng. L\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i m\u00e0 anh x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u00e2u r\u1ed3i?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0i ph\u00fat sau c\u00f4 \u1ea5y m\u1edbi n\u00f3i: \u201cAnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc b\u00e0i di\u1ec5n v\u0103n th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t, Sweetie \u1ea1\u201d. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 mu\u1ed9n. S\u1ebd kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu c\u00f4 \u1ea5y khen ng\u1ee3i b\u00e0i di\u1ec5n v\u0103n c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y tr\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi n\u00f3i: \u201c\u00c0 nh\u00e2n ti\u1ec7n\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 42: L\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i t\u1ee9c th\u1eddi<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngay khi con m\u1ed3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, h\u00e3y khen ng\u1ee3i ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c. Nh\u1eefng \u00e2m ti\u1ebft \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7y v\u1ebb t\u00e1n t\u1ec9nh v\u1edbi c\u00e2u ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi: \u201cT\u00f4i n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u1ea7n l\u01b0u \u00fd v\u1edbi l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i t\u1ee9c th\u1eddi. H\u00e3y ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 l\u1eddi khen c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1eafn \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9 cao. Khi nghi ng\u1edd, m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i cao h\u01a1n ch\u00fat n\u1eefa. \u201cC\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ea5y\u201d c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m n\u1ebfu anh \u1ea5y ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc. \u201cTr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi\u201d c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 n\u1ebfu c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1edbi m\u1ed9t di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean h\u00e0i, g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng nh\u1eefng g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eb7t nh\u1ea5p nh\u00f4 gi\u1eefa bi\u1ec3n ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong c\u00e2u l\u1ea1c b\u1ed9. Khi anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc, b\u1ea1n ng\u1edd r\u1eb1ng anh \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft ai l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u r\u00fac r\u00edch, hay ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi lan d\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady! L\u00e0 m\u1ed9t di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c ai l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean ph\u00e1t ra ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi; ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c l\u00e0 bao l\u00e2u sau khi c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ec3 v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh trong ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n \u01a1i, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady v\u1edbi \u0111a s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, ngay c\u1ea3 khi h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 k\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n vui cho v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 43: (\u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t d\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1c c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n) L\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n c\u00f3 v\u1ebb b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0a ra th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean n\u00e0y. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ecf qua, \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u1eadt c\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y. V\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e2u nh\u1ea5t. Nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eadt c\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean khi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n vui v\u00e0 \u1edf l\u1ea1i cho t\u1edbi cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng khi n\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng ch\u00e0ng \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang y\u00eau g\u1ecdi nhau b\u1eb1ng t\u00ean th\u00e2n m\u1eadt<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00fac n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng cho m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i b\u1eaby ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o kh\u00e1c nh\u1eb1m t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn anh\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 bi\u1ec7t danh. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u Roberts c\u1ee7a h\u00f4m nay t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cBobby\u201d. Nhi\u1ec1u Elizabeths t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cBetsy\u201d b\u00e9 nh\u1ecf. Nhi\u1ec1u Johns l\u00e0 \u201cJohnny\u201d v\u00e0 Sues l\u00e0 \u201cSuzie\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i t\u00ean khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng? T\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea5y. M\u1eb9 t\u00f4i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec1u g\u1ecdi t\u00f4i l\u00e0 \u201cLeilie\u201d. T\u00ean g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi m\u00e3i cho t\u1edbi khi t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 nghe kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trang tr\u1ecdng cho c\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb m\u1ed9t chuy\u00ean gia<\/a> tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 t\u00f4i khao kh\u00e1t tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh. V\u1eady l\u00e0, c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1 t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, \u0111\u00e3 mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00ean g\u1ecdi. T\u00f4i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1ecdi t\u00f4i l\u00e0 \u201cLeil\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb th\u1eddi th\u01a1 b\u00e9, Rick \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 cho t\u1edbi h\u00f4m nay, v\u1eabn g\u1ecdi t\u00f4i l\u00e0 Leilie. C\u1ee9 m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n t\u00f4i nghe \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi Leilie, tim t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i r\u1ed9n l\u00ean nh\u1eefng k\u00fd \u1ee9c tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1. Nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y khi nghe ti\u1ebfng g\u1ecdi \u201cLeilie\u201d \u0111\u00e3 lan truy\u1ec1n t\u1edbi Rick. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng, vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 Rick (t\u00f4i g\u1ecdi anh \u1ea5y l\u00e0 Ricky) g\u1ecdi t\u00f4i l\u00e0 Leilie l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 khi\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i k\u00e9o d\u00e0i l\u00e2u \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1eady.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 44: G\u1ecdi t\u00ean g\u1ecdi th\u00e2n m\u1eadt<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ebfu ti\u1ec7n, h\u00e3y h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n xem h\u1ed3i nh\u1ecf c\u00f4\/anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 g\u00ec. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd th\u00edch t\u00ean g\u1ecdi n\u00e0y, h\u00e3y n\u00f3i: \u201c\u1ed2, t\u00f4i th\u00edch n\u00f3. Em\/anh c\u00f3 ng\u1ea1i n\u1ebfu anh\/em g\u1ecdi em\/ anh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m th\u01a1 \u1ea5u v\u00e0 c\u00e1c t\u00ean g\u1ecdi thu\u1edf nh\u1ecf c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c r\u1ea5t m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. V\u00e0 c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 lo\u1ea1i v\u0169 kh\u00ed n\u00e0o, n\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ph\u1ea3n t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o, vi\u1ec7c nghe l\u1ea1i t\u00ean g\u1ecdi h\u1ed3i x\u01b0a c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea5y l\u00ean trong h\u1ecd nh\u1eefng k\u00fd \u1ee9c kinh kh\u1ee7ng. N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 Walter t\u1eebng li\u00ean t\u1ee5c tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t anh \u1ea5y, vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n g\u1ecdi anh \u1ea5y l\u00e0 Wally c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00e0ng ph\u00e1t kh\u00f9ng. N\u1ebfu Elizabeths l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb t\u1eebng b\u1ecb b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u00e1i t\u00ean Betsy th\u00f4i c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn c\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u. V\u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e3y th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, vi\u1ec7c d\u00f9ng bi\u1ec7t danh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd s\u1ebd l\u00e0m n\u1ed3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3m th\u00eam s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt. V\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t ra m\u1ed9t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u1ecf ch\u1ea5t PEA qua m\u1ea1ch m\u00e1u c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n nh\u1eafc t\u1edbi c\u00e1i t\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng khen ng\u1ee3i b\u1ea1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y, t\u00f4i d\u1ea1o quanh c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng s\u00e1ch t\u00ecm mua cu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i. Ch\u1eb3ng t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00e2u c\u1ea3. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n l\u1eddi x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m, \u201cd\u00f9ng trong m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p\u201d (kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd cho r\u1eb1ng t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 n\u00e0y \u0111\u00fang?)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7y r\u1eaby nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho l\u00e0 h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc ki\u1ec3u nh\u01b0: \u201cN\u00e0y, tr\u00f4ng anh\/em x\u1ea5u qu\u00e1, anh\/em ph\u1ea3i s\u1eeda l\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh ch\u1ee5p tia X \u0111i\u201d. Hay nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ec3u nh\u01b0: \u201cEm\/anh tr\u00f4ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i k\u00ednh c\u1ee7a anh\/em\u201d. T\u00f4i \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o, v\u00e2ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n l\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ebb ti\u1ec1n. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ai \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta, ngay c\u1ea3 khi ta ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi l\u1ebd nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, v\u1eabn v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng khi h\u1ecd khen ng\u1ee3i ta. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00e1 v\u1ee5ng v\u1ec1 trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khen\u2026 v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn ch\u00fang. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 t\u00ednh d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c. H\u1ecd \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 l\u1eafp b\u1eafp m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch y\u1ebfu \u1edbt: \u201cC\u1ea3m \u01a1n\u201d. Ho\u1eb7c t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n, h\u1ecd n\u00f3i: \u201c\u1ed2 v\u00e2ng, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 may m\u1eafn th\u00f4i\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1m n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vui v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 khen ng\u1ee3i b\u1ea1n. Th\u00eam n\u1eefa, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 l\u00fang b\u00fang n\u00f3i: \u201ckh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 v\u1eady \u0111\u00e2u\u201d, ho\u1eb7c quy n\u00f3 cho \u201cmay m\u1eafn\u201d, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00e1n ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng s\u1ebd qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t vi\u1ec7c khen ng\u1ee3i b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed7i khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y khen ng\u1ee3i b\u1ea1n, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i: \u201c\u1ed2, chuy\u1ec7n v\u1eb7t \u1ea5y m\u00e0\u201d hay: \u201cC\u1ea3m \u01a1n\u201d. H\u00e3y \u0111i th\u00eam m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc n\u1eefa t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. H\u00e3y \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i v\u1ebb r\u1ea1ng r\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a l\u1eddi khen \u1ea5y ngay tr\u00ean g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i. H\u00e3y nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i ngay: \u201cAnh\/em th\u1eadt t\u1ed1t\u201d, ho\u1eb7c: \u201c\u00dd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 45: H\u00e3y \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 r\u1ea1ng r\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y khen ng\u1ee3i b\u1ea1n \u2013 ho\u1eb7c h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec b\u1ea1n th\u00edch n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u2013 h\u00e3y ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh v\u1edbi h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y c\u1ea3m \u01a1n h\u1ecd v\u00ec \u201c\u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi th\u0103m\u201d hay \u201c\u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn ra\u201d. H\u00e3y g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i r\u1ea5t con tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt t\u01b0\u01a1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 r\u1ea5t cao l\u1eddi khen c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi b\u1ea1n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt n\u00e0y, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vui v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 khen b\u1ea1n. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac vui v\u1ebb, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u00fd ngh\u0129 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n khi b\u1ea1n khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gi\u1eef cho nh\u1eefng vi\u00ean than t\u00ecnh y\u00eau h\u1ed3ng m\u00e3i \u201cT\u00f4i y\u00eau c\u00e1ch em nh\u0103n m\u0169i khi c\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng hai chi\u1ec1u. Th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a ai \u0111\u00f3 lu\u00f4n n\u1ed3ng nhi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n n\u1ebfu t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh cho h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00e1c s\u0129 Benjamin Spock l\u00e0 b\u00e1c s\u1ef9 nhi khoa n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng n\u0103m 1950 \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y cho c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 \u1edf M\u1ef9 c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd. Ng\u00e0y nay, v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nh\u1eefng tranh c\u00e3i xung quanh h\u1ecdc thuy\u1ebft ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng. Nh\u01b0ng v\u1ecb b\u00e1c s\u1ef9 c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t hay n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u1ed1t. \u00d4ng n\u00f3i, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0, \u201ch\u00e3y n\u00f3i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00f3 th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p b\u00ean trong n\u00f3\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i g\u1ecdi th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u201cSpocking\u201d theo t\u00ean c\u1ee7a v\u1ecb b\u00e1c s\u1ef9 nhi \u1ea5y. Spocking \u1edf c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, l\u00e0 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y b\u00e0y t\u1ecf nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n th\u00edch, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 \u1edf h\u1ecd \u2013 v\u00e0 h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n th\u00edch, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u y\u00eau b\u1edfi v\u00f4 v\u00e0n nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do kh\u00e1c nhau. C\u00e1i \u201cl\u00f4-gic\u201d xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1 t\u00f9y \u00fd nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n y\u00eau c\u00e1ch c\u00f4 \u1ea5y nh\u0103n m\u0169i m\u1ed7i khi c\u01b0\u1eddi hay t\u00f4n th\u1edd c\u00e1ch anh \u1ea5y ve vu\u1ed1t tr\u00ean m\u00e1 b\u1ea1n. Ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed v\u00ec l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u1ea1n m\u1eddi anh \u1ea5y t\u1edbi nh\u00e0 \u0103n t\u1ed1i, anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 r\u1eeda b\u00e1t. N\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y khi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, ho\u1eb7c s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng t\u00ednh trung th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ec3 y\u00eau (v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n), h\u00e3y khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd l\u00e0m khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y n\u00f3i: \u201cAnh th\u00edch c\u00e1ch em nh\u0103n m\u0169i m\u1ed7i khi em c\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y n\u00f3i: \u201cTh\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi khi anh vu\u1ed1t ve m\u00e1 em\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y n\u00f3i: \u201cAnh c\u00f3 tin kh\u00f4ng, m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u em th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 y\u00eau anh ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00fac anh \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eeda b\u00e1t\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y n\u00f3i: \u201cAnh ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd c\u1ee7a em khi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y n\u00f3i: \u201cEm r\u1ea5t t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 trung th\u1ef1c s\u00e2u s\u1eafc c\u1ee7a anh\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i v\u1eabn nh\u1edb b\u1ee9c tranh \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t t\u1edd t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed, n\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f3c. B\u1ee9c tranh v\u1ebd c\u1ea3nh c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ngh\u00e8o, th\u1eeba c\u00e2n v\u00e0 ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c b\u00ean chi\u1ebfc b\u00e0n trong c\u0103n b\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng m\u1eb7c \u00e1o ph\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea1o r\u00e2u. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u00f4 u\u1ed1n t\u00f3c tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u. Ch\u00e9n \u0111\u0129a v\u00e0 t\u00e3 b\u1ea9n treo tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t d\u00e2y ph\u01a1i qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o t\u1ea1m b\u1ee3 m\u00f3c t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t \u1ed1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc sang t\u1ee7 l\u1ea1nh. H\u1ecd \u0111ang u\u1ed1ng c\u00e0 ph\u00ea b\u1eb1ng m\u1ea5y c\u00e1i c\u1ed1c c\u0169, s\u1ee9t m\u1ebb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u1eddi ch\u00fa th\u00edch l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201cAnh y\u00eau c\u00e1ch em nh\u0103n m\u0169i m\u1ed7i khi c\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d. H\u1ecd nh\u00ecn nhau th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 b\u1eeba b\u1ed9n, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3nh ngh\u00e8o t\u00fang, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu Spocking l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, h\u1ecd v\u1eabn h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 46: Spocking<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed h\u01a1i ngu ng\u1ed1c, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n th\u00edch \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Sau \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi kh\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, h\u00e3y n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd ngh\u0129. H\u01a1n vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i: \u201cAnh\/em y\u00eau em\/anh\u201d, h\u00e3y n\u00f3i cho h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft T\u1ea0I SAO.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng g\u00ec th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd y\u00eau th\u00edch. (V\u00e2ng, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng di\u1ec5n ra trong chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c). V\u00e0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra s\u1ef1 quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3, s\u1ebd ng\u1eebng nh\u0103n m\u0169i, ng\u1eebng vu\u1ed1t m\u00e1 ho\u1eb7c r\u1eeda b\u00e1t. V\u00e0 r\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e8n nh\u1ecf v\u1ee5t t\u1eaft trong chu\u1ed7i \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng m\u1edd t\u1ecf l\u00e0m n\u00ean t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e8n kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng l\u1ea7n l\u01b0\u1ee3t t\u1eaft \u0111i, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u1ebd \u0111i v\u00e0o ng\u00f5 c\u1ee5t. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n quan tr\u1ecdng n\u1eefa. V\u00e0 khi \u0111\u00f3, c\u1ea3 hai s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. H\u00e3y gi\u1eef k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt Spocking nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m b\u1ea1n y\u00eau th\u00edch \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u1ed1ng m\u00e3i.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: T\u00e1n t\u1ec9nh b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai – Leil Lowndes T\u00f4i y\u00eau em\/anh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 C\u1ea3 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec1u xoay quanh em\/anh – con m\u1ed3i m\u00e0 t\u00f4i theo \u0111u\u1ed5i C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 quy k\u1ebft chung cho m\u1ecdi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00edch […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16510","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tam-ly"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16510","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16510"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16510\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16511,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16510\/revisions\/16511"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16510"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16510"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16510"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}