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T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: T\u00e1n t\u1ec9nh b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai – Leil Lowndes<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cT\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ee3i g\u00ec – T\u0110LG?\u201d trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u201cAi c\u0169ng c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3, em y\u00eau \u1ea1!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tranh c\u00e3i n\u1ea3y l\u1eeda, anh ch\u00e0ng \u2013 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u0169 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u2013 c\u00e1u b\u1eb3n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cAi c\u0169ng c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3, em y\u00eau \u1ea1!\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y kinh s\u1ee3. Th\u1eadt l\u00e0 th\u00f4 b\u1ec9! Sao anh ta d\u00e1m xem t\u00f4i nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n h\u00e0ng v\u1eady? (\u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 anh ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i l\u1eddi y\u00eau). Th\u1eadt l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t suy ngh\u0129 kinh t\u1edfm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1edbi t\u00f4i, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb9p. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft l\u1eafm. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u1ecdn ngu\u1ed3n c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, kh\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay th\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1edbi t\u00f4i, y\u00eau l\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb, tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, l\u00e0 g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00e1i t\u00f4i. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u th\u01a1 c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 th\u01a1 Robert Burns1 \u0111\u00e3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd t\u1edbi tr\u00e1i tim t\u00f4i t\u1eeb khi t\u00f4i c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf: \u201cT\u00ecnh y\u00eau\/ \u00d4i b\u00e0i th\u01a1 tr\u1eef t\u00ecnh\/ V\u1eeba \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u01b0 thi\u00ean th\u1ea7n\/ V\u1eeba mong manh nh\u01b0 c\u00e1nh chim\/ V\u1eeba di\u1ec7u k\u1ef3 v\u1eeba khao kh\u00e1t d\u1ea1i \u0111i\u00ean\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00ec th\u1ebf, khi nghe anh ta so s\u00e1nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi anh ta y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1edbi d\u1ea1 d\u00e0y l\u1ee3n hay h\u1ea1t \u0111\u1eadu t\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ean th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u00e0ng h\u00f3a, t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y th\u1eadt qu\u00e1 s\u1ee9c ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng. T\u00f4i b\u1eebng b\u1eebng lao ra kh\u1ecfi ph\u00f2ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1eady l\u00e0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m sau \u0111\u00f3 (gi\u00e0 d\u1eb7n h\u01a1n v\u00e0 ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn n\u00f3i), t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi: \u201cAnh ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng?\u201d Hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a anh ta r\u1ed3i. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f2n \u0111i\u1ec1u anh ta n\u00f3i th\u00ec sao?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u1eb3ng ai ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean khi nghe c\u00e2u: \u201cAi c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa thu\u1eadn t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi\u201d. C\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ai s\u1ed1c khi bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 quy lu\u1eadt cung c\u1ea7u trong kinh doanh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n ch\u1eb3ng nao n\u00fang khi c\u00e1c b\u1eadc th\u1ea7y kinh doanh rao gi\u1ea3ng r\u1eb1ng trong m\u1ecdi th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quan t\u00e2m nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 T\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ee3i g\u00ec (T\u0110LG)?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1eady t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ee9ng kh\u1ef1ng l\u1ea1i khi c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u n\u00f3i cho ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng quy lu\u1eadt t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

G\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng khoa h\u1ecdc \u2013 kh\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u1ecdc thuy\u1ebft v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Sigmund Freud (th\u0103ng hoa t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c) hay Theodore Reik (l\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ea7y ch\u1ed7 tr\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n) \u2013 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t ra m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 b\u00f3c t\u00e1ch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea7ng s\u00e2u h\u01a1n trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng? H\u1ecd c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi \u201ccon qu\u00e1i th\u00fa\u201d n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng? M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i: \u201cC\u00f3\u201d. S\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c l\u1ea1i b\u1eadt c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201cT\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u00f9 b\u1ea1n coi nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tuy\u1ebft hay Thi\u00ean s\u1ee9 th\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 cho l\u1eadp lu\u1eadn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1edf. V\u00e0 ai c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa thu\u1eadn t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3\u2026 trong c\u1ea3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u1eabn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t t\u00ean cho nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc thuy\u1ebft t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u201cGi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb\u201d (hay \u201cTrao \u0111\u1ed5i\u201d). N\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem nh\u01b0 \u201cNguy\u00ean t\u1eafc \u0111\u1ed5i ng\u1ef1a\u201d ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea1i sao c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u1ea1i gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed5i ng\u1ef1a?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1ecdc thuy\u1ebft t\u00ecnh y\u00eau gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc trao \u0111\u1ed5i h\u1ee3p l\u00fd trong kinh doanh v\u00e0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1edf. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 gi\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m, gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang t\u00ednh ch\u1ee7 quan. Nh\u01b0ng nh\u00ecn chung, c\u1ea3 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ed c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 h\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 h\u00e0ng x\u1ea5u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong gi\u1edbi bu\u00f4n ng\u1ef1a, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng con ng\u1ef1a \u201cqu\u00e1n qu\u00e2n v\u00f4 \u0111\u1ecbch\u201d, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng con ng\u1ef1a \u201cth\u1ea3i\u201d (d\u00e0nh cho nh\u00e0 m\u00e1y keo). T\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ea5u gi\u00e1 ng\u1ef1a, ng\u01b0\u1eddi mua th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh m\u00e0 h\u1ecd v\u1eabn mi\u00eau t\u1ea3 l\u00e0 \u201cch\u1ea1y nhanh\u201d, \u201ct\u1ed1t t\u00ednh\u201d, \u201ckh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1eadt x\u1ea5u\u201d v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 \u201c\u0111\u1eb9p m\u00e3\u201d n\u1eefa. (Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 kh\u00e1c g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ec9?)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ng\u1ef1a \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi gi\u00e1. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang trao \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t con ng\u1ef1a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9ng nh\u1eadn l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t con ng\u1ef1a kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u1ea5y ch\u1ee9ng nh\u1eadn n\u00f2i (ng\u1ef1a), th\u00ec t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 con ng\u1ef1a \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m \u201cv\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c trao \u0111\u1ed5i tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0 trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, c\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng \u0111em nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0o b\u00e0n th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n nhi\u1ec1u gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng d\u1ec5 c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u00e1n \u0111\u1ed5 m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 h\u1ecdc thuy\u1ebft gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb cho ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e0ng c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng, v\u00f4 t\u01b0 trong m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, th\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e0ng d\u1ec5 ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lo\u1ea1i ti\u1ec1n n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201cmua\u201d \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi t\u1ed1t?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u1edfi x\u01b0\u1edbng Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc Gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 li\u1ec7t k\u00ea ra 6 nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 l\u00e0 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n tr\u00ean \u201cth\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1edf\u201d khi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau nhau \u0111i \u201cmua\u201d ch\u1ed3ng ho\u1eb7c v\u1ee3. 1) Ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2) T\u00e0i s\u1ea3n ho\u1eb7c ti\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a 3) \u0110\u1ecba v\u1ecb ho\u1eb7c uy t\u00edn 4) Tri th\u1ee9c <\/p>\n\n\n\n

5) K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng<\/a> giao ti\u1ebfp<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6) B\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng, trong nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u1ea5t, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau nhau th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u01a1n ho\u1eb7c k\u00e9m nhau trong m\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 n\u00eau tr\u00ean. Ho\u1eb7c n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, c\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u0169ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u1ee9ng v\u1edbi nhau tr\u00ean m\u1ecdi l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c. Nh\u01b0ng th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau nhau, qu\u1ea5n l\u1ea5y nhau t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i \u201c\u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec1u\u201d trong c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng l\u1ea5y nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t \u2013 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh \u2013 l\u00e0m d\u1eabn ch\u1ee9ng. C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u1edf kh\u1eafp m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi (M\u1ef9, Canada, \u0110\u1ee9c, Nh\u1eadt B\u1ea3n) \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u01b0\u1eddng ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat, h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn nh\u01b0 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e3 quan s\u00e1t c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i tr\u1ebb t\u1ea1i c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd theo thang \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1eeb 1-10 \u2013 thang \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 huy\u1ec1n tho\u1ea1i Bo Derek1. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng 60% c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 ch\u00eanh nhau 1 \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 85% ch\u00eanh nhau nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t 2 \u0111i\u1ec3m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m tra nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong v\u00e0i tu\u1ea7n, d\u00f9 \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u \u2013 xem phim, mua s\u1eafm, d\u1ef1 ti\u1ec7c, \u0111i \u0103n \u1edf nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng \u2013 t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u quan s\u00e1t c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p trai, g\u00e1i y\u00eau nhau. Tr\u00ean thang \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1eeb 1 \u0111\u1ebfn 10, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. V\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ch\u00eanh nhau qu\u00e1 2 \u0111i\u1ec3m! Kh\u00f4ng tin b\u1ea1n c\u1ee9 th\u1eed \u0111i!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec3m nhau \u1edf c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m, th\u00ec \u201ct\u00e0i s\u1ea3n\u201d c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u00eanh l\u1ec7ch nhau. \u0110\u01a1n c\u1eed, khi xu\u1ed1ng ph\u1ed1, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y c\u1ea3nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef xinh \u0111\u1eb9p l\u1ed9ng l\u1eaby kho\u00e1c tay m\u1ed9t \u00f4ng gi\u00e0 x\u1ea5u x\u00ed hay kh\u00f4ng? Suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n khi nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u1ea3nh t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Th\u00f4i n\u00e0o, th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn \u0111i, ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u1ea9m b\u1ea9m: \u201c\u00d4ng ta ph\u1ea3i gi\u00e0u l\u1eafm \u0111\u00e2y!\u201d Ho\u1eb7c nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t anh ch\u00e0ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1eb9p trai tay trong tay v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef r\u1ea5t, r\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ngh\u0129: \u201cC\u00f4 ta h\u1eb3n ph\u1ea3i r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t t\u00ednh\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc \u0110\u1ed5i ng\u1ef1a hay C\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1i c\u00e3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb9p, nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n, \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh trong vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0o nh\u1eefng n\u0103m 1930, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c Oakland California \u0111\u00e3 quan s\u00e1t c\u00e1c h\u1ecdc sinh<\/a> n\u1eef kh\u1ed1i l\u1edbp 5 v\u00e0 l\u1edbp 6 n\u00f4 \u0111\u00f9a tr\u00ean s\u00e2n ch\u01a1i. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ebfp lo\u1ea1i c\u00e1c c\u00f4 b\u00e9 d\u1ef1a theo ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kho\u1ea3ng 20 n\u0103m sau, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u0169 v\u00e0 t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng c\u00f4 g\u00e1i n\u00e0y, x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh xem h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra l\u00e0 c\u00f4 n\u00e0o xinh h\u01a1n, c\u00f4 \u0111\u00f3 ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng \u201ct\u1ed1t h\u01a1n\u201d. Nh\u1eefng c\u00f4 xinh \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n, h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn h\u01a1n th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 h\u01a1n, quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c h\u01a1n. C\u00f2n nh\u1eefng c\u00f4 k\u00e9m xinh, k\u00e9m h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng \u201cl\u00e0m t\u1ed1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec7n m\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 v\u1eadn may c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta hay kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i nho nh\u1ecf, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t anh ch\u00e0ng. Nh\u01b0ng, th\u1eadt may m\u1eafn, \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i \u201cti\u1ec1n t\u1ec7\u201d duy nh\u1ea5t ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u201cmua\u201d \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. T\u00ednh c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu, k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng<\/a> giao ti\u1ebfp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1, nh\u00e3 nh\u1eb7n v\u00e0 tri th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u0169ng th\u00eam \u0111i\u1ec3m, t\u0103ng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb cho b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u00f4ng qua cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e1n d\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t khi\u1ebfn Con m\u1ed3i\/\u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n y\u00eau b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c (nh\u01b0 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh, ti\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a v\u00e0 uy t\u00edn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n), t\u00f4i s\u1ebd cung c\u1ea5p cho b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 t\u0103ng m\u1ed1i c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn, suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec3 \u201cthao t\u00fang\u201d suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng ki\u1ec3m tra xem b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n xinh \u0111\u1eb9p\/\u0111\u1eb9p trai, gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 hay quy\u1ec1n n\u0103ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o n\u1ebfu m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean \u2013 nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0: C\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y v\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd cao h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ef1c-k\u1ef3 l\u1ed9ng l\u1eaby, v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng gi\u00e0u c\u00f3, hay m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 c\u00f4ng ch\u00faa ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea1i sao? V\u00ec l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng \u0111em l\u1ea1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi li\u00ean quan. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 l\u00e2u v\u1ec1 d\u00e0i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n khi m\u00f4n \u0111\u0103ng h\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed1i. V\u00ec v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng b\u00f3c t\u00e1ch v\u00e0i l\u1edbp c\u1ee7a Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc C\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m tra xem ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 (nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc n\u00e0y) nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0 khi \u0111\u00f3, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn mu\u1ed1n, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 cho b\u1ea1n c\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng? B\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n c\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed \u0111\u1eb9p trai ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 c\u00f4ng ch\u00faa xinh \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u00e2u!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c c\u00f4 g\u00e1i th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 t\u00f4i t\u1ed1i n\u00e0o c\u0169ng tr\u00f9m ch\u0103n m\u01a1 v\u1ec1 ch\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed \u0111\u1eb9p trai m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u01b0\u1ee1i b\u1ea1ch m\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, ch\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd y\u00eau ch\u00fang t\u00f4i say \u0111\u1eafm, che ch\u1edf ch\u00fang t\u00f4i, v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac m\u00e3i m\u00e3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft c\u1ee9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ch\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed \u0111\u1eb9p trai. \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed gi\u00e0u c\u00f3, m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng, t\u1eed t\u1ebf, ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f2n m\u01a1 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 th\u01a1, m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129 ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m \u201cho\u00e0ng t\u1eed\u201d. V\u1ecb ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e1c s\u0129 \u0111\u00e1ng k\u00ednh, m\u1ed9t CEO t\u00e0i n\u0103ng, m\u1ed9t t\u00e0i phi\u1ec7t \u1edf thung l\u0169ng Silicon hay m\u1ed9t th\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1c bang. Nh\u01b0ng d\u00f9 c\u00f3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn l\u00e0 ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1ee1i c\u00e1c c\u00f4 g\u00e1i, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u00e2y gi\u1edd c\u00e1c c\u00f4 v\u1eabn tin \u201cm\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n\u201d. C\u00e1c c\u00f4 c\u00f3 \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng? Ch\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n. Nh\u01b0ng khi th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, c\u00e1c c\u00f4 s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra l\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n anh ta xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n! N\u1ebfu h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm, b\u1ea1n – c\u00e1c qu\u00fd c\u00f4 – s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed \u0111\u1eb9p trai. C\u00f2n c\u00e1nh m\u00e0y r\u00e2u s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 c\u00f4ng ch\u00faa xinh \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00f9a sao? Kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n v\u1eady. Tr\u1eeb khi b\u1ea1n sinh ra trong ho\u00e0ng t\u1ed9c \u2013 tr\u1eeb khi b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng xinh \u0111\u1eb9p, c\u0169ng gi\u00e0u c\u00f3, c\u0169ng t\u00e0i n\u0103ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u2013 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi v\u1ecb ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed ho\u1eb7c c\u00f4 c\u00f4ng ch\u00faa s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng. V\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. \u201cKh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang\u201d, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i: \u201cN\u1ebfu t\u00f4i l\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n, gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 h\u01a1n v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o h\u01a1n t\u00f4i, th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u00e0 \u201ct\u1ed1t h\u01a1n\u201d th\u00f4i. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i l\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201ct\u1ed1t h\u01a1n\u201d t\u00f4i th\u00ec t\u00f4i s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t sung s\u01b0\u1edbng.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 ra \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng k\u00e9o d\u00e0i. H\u1ecdc thuy\u1ebft c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nhanh ch\u00f3ng th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng \u201ctr\u00ean c\u01a1\u201d b\u1ea1n bao nhi\u00eau, th\u00ec c\u1ea3 hai b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nhanh ch\u00f3ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u1ed1n kh\u1ed5 b\u1ea5y nhi\u00eau. Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 ra l\u00e0 khi c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng trong m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng kh\u00f4i ph\u1ee5c tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng. Hay n\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u201csan b\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201ch\u01a1n\u201d m\u00ecnh?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1i sao trong m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201ctr\u00ean c\u01a1\u201d s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng. Sau khi t\u00ecnh gi\u1ea3m n\u1ed3ng, anh ta ho\u1eb7c c\u00f4 ta s\u1ebd nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u1ecd x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1ebf c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201ck\u00e9m c\u01a1\u201d th\u00ec sao? Anh ta ho\u1eb7c c\u00f4 ta c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y may m\u1eafn khi \u201ct\u00f3m\u201d \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Theo l\u00fd th\u00ec c\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i v\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0o c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c lo l\u1eafng, b\u1ea5t an, lu\u00f4n s\u1ee3 r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u00fang, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n 500 c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i \u0111ang h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 t\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Wisconsin \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh xem n\u1eeda kia c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd mang \u201ct\u00e0i s\u1ea3n\u201d nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, \u00edt h\u01a1n hay b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0o trong quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra l\u00e0 \u201ct\u00e0i s\u1ea3n\u201d m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0o m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00e0ng c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng bao nhi\u00eau, h\u1ecd c\u00e0ng th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n b\u1ea5y nhi\u00eau. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t trong hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 h\u01a1n, ho\u1eb7c h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn h\u01a1n, th\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng. V\u00e0 s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n s\u1ebd nhanh ch\u00f3ng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau \u0111\u00f3, nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng hay s\u1ebd \u00e2m th\u1ea7m x\u1ea3y ra, v\u00e0 \u201ccon qu\u00e1i v\u1eadt\u201d m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u g\u1eb7m nh\u1ea5m t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Trong cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng, c\u00e1c b\u00ean s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec3 \u201cc\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1\u201d. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201ctr\u00ean c\u01a1\u201d c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u tinh vi, t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 t\u1ef1 cho m\u00ecnh quy\u1ec1n giao ti\u1ebfp, \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o anh ta\/c\u00f4 ta th\u00edch. Ho\u1eb7c l\u1eb7ng thinh b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 \u201ctr\u00ean c\u01a1\u201d c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, tr\u00ecu m\u1ebfn v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng, ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea5m v\u1eadn quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c. N\u1ebfu c\u00f4 ta \u0111ang cho \u0111i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n ch\u1ed3ng, ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 ta s\u1ebd t\u00ednh to\u00e1n: \u201cT\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 anh ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i?\u201d Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng \u201ch\u01a1n c\u01a1\u201d th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ee3p l\u00fd khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ngo\u00e0i lu\u1ed3ng. Anh ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 tr\u1ea5n an m\u00ecnh l\u00e0: \u201cM\u00ecnh x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201cl\u00e9p v\u1ebf\u201d trong m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ea3i cam ch\u1ecbu m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u1ea5p b\u00eanh, b\u1ea5t an v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ea3i \u201cnh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn\u201d, \u201cnu\u1ed1t c\u1ee5c t\u1ee9c v\u00e0o trong\u201d b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ni\u1ec1m h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00ec \u201cv\u1edb\u201d \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady nhanh ch\u00f3ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1ed7i \u00e1m \u1ea3nh th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i g\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p, x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia. Th\u1eadt ch\u1eb3ng th\u00fa v\u1ecb g\u00ec khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee9 lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u01a1n n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, b\u1ea1n k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed \u0111\u1eb9p trai gi\u00e0u c\u00f3, anh ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh h\u1ea1 b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 tinh th\u1ea7n (ho\u1eb7c th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c). Ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t r\u1ed3 v\u00ec ph\u1ea3i n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e8 b\u1eb9p. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn r\u01b0\u1ee3u, thu\u1ed1c phi\u1ec7n ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f4ng n\u01b0\u01a1ng Diana v\u00e0 Th\u00e1i t\u1eed Charles1 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t ph\u1ea7n vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1 b\u1ecf quan ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m v\u1ec1 ni\u1ec1m vui khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed. \u1ede Hollywood, n\u01a1i m\u00e0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y nh\u01b0 ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 NASDAQ, chuy\u1ec7n ly h\u00f4n c\u0169ng ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u01b0 chuy\u1ec7n k\u1ebft h\u00f4n. 1 Diana \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng khi b\u00e0 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi Ho\u00e0ng th\u00e2n Charles. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang do \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb ho\u00e0ng gia c\u1ee7a b\u00e0. Sau nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m d\u01b0 lu\u1eadn b\u00e0n t\u00e1n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 trong cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, Ho\u00e0ng th\u00e2n Charles v\u00e0 Diana \u0111\u00e3 ly h\u00f4n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gi\u1ea3 s\u1eed b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u00e0ng c\u00f4ng ch\u00faa M\u1ef9 ki\u1ec1u di\u1ec5m, gi\u00e0u c\u00f3, b\u1ea1n \u0111em l\u00f2ng y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee3 s\u1eeda \u1ed1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1eb9p trai, tinh t\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1eeda \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u1ed1ng cho chi\u1ebfc du thuy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a cha b\u1ea1n. V\u00ec b\u1ea1n tin v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c, n\u00ean b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi anh ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00fac n\u00e0y, hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eafm quy\u1ec1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f3, ki\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 (b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh) \u0111i ngh\u1ec9 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u ho\u1eb7c mua xe g\u00ec. Ban \u0111\u1ea7u, c\u1ea3 hai b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u cho r\u1eb1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 h\u1ee3p l\u00fd, v\u00ec suy cho c\u00f9ng, \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 d\u00f9ng ti\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 (b\u1ea1n) \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 cho c\u00e1c kho\u1ea3n \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng anh ch\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u1eeda \u1ed1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc tinh t\u1ebf, nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m kia l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m ki\u00eau h\u00e3nh. Theo th\u1eddi gian, c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a anh ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 khi anh ta cho r\u1eb1ng anh ta may m\u1eafn khi c\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n, th\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd k\u1ebft th\u00fac b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c ly d\u1ecb c\u00f2n cay \u0111\u1eafng h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 l\u00e0m g\u00ec sai. Anh ta c\u0169ng v\u1eady. Anh ta l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t. B\u1ea1n ch\u01a1i c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng. Ch\u00ednh tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t hai b\u1ea1n. Anh ta s\u1ebd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 \u1edf qu\u00e1n c\u00e0 ph\u00ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra n\u1ebfu t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n sau khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00f4i khi, c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng, s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n sau khi h\u1ecd k\u1ebft h\u00f4n. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t trong hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i g\u00ec, \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i \u0111i\u1ec3m, th\u00ec v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u00ean l\u00e0 Laura, m\u1ed9t ph\u00f3ng vi\u00ean truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y r\u1ea5t ph\u1ea5n kh\u00edch khi t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y anh ch\u00e0ng trong m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng minh, l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty l\u1edbn. H\u1ecd k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, v\u00e0 Laura vui v\u1ebb b\u1ecf c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u1edf New York c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ebfn California s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng ch\u1ed3ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kho\u1ea3ng m\u1ed9t n\u0103m sau, Laura \u0111\u1ebfn New York th\u0103m t\u00f4i. T\u1ed1i n\u00e0o Bob c\u0169ng g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n. C\u00f4 b\u1ea1n t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ch\u1ed3ng qua \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hai n\u0103m sau, v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1t nh\u1eefng v\u1ee5 l\u00e0m \u0103n kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t, Bob \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ti\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Laura v\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u0103m t\u00f4i (khi h\u1ecd v\u1eabn c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng chi tr\u1ea3 cho vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3). Bob v\u1eabn g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e1ng bu\u1ed3n l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nghe th\u1ea5y trong gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a Laura c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 v\u1ebb th\u00f4 l\u1ed7, tr\u1ecbch th\u01b0\u1ee3ng khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng. Laura b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u than phi\u1ec1n h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc \u201cc\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi\u201d c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi Bob. V\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111ang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u00e1c c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh \u1edf New York. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u00f3i ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec n\u1ebfu quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i New York. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 n\u0103m t\u1edbi Bob v\u00e0 Laura c\u00f3 c\u00f2n \u1edf b\u00ean nhau n\u1eefa kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i c\u00f2n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 b\u1ea1n n\u1eefa, t\u00ean l\u00e0 Sally. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y t\u00f4i g\u1eb7p khi c\u00f2n h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc. Ai c\u0169ng th\u00edch Sally v\u00ec c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh cho m\u1eabu ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cki\u1ec1u n\u1eef t\u00f3c v\u00e0ng\u201d. Sally kh\u00f4ng th\u00f4ng minh t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p ch\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sally k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t anh ch\u00e0ng c\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, Jim. Sally r\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u2013 cho t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, khi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y t\u0103ng c\u00e2n v\u00f9n v\u1ee5t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sally than phi\u1ec1n: \u201cM\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd Jim \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c. Anh \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian b\u00ean m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Anh \u1ea5y th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng. Anh \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 n\u1eefa. C\u0169ng \u00edt n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh h\u01a1n. Chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169ng th\u01b0a th\u1edbt d\u1ea7n, c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 anh \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1eb3ng khi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc C\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng th\u1ea5y ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng Jim \u0111ang \u201ckh\u00f4i ph\u1ee5c tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng\u201d m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c. C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u ph\u00e2n t\u00edch s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 nh\u01b0 sau: \u201cKhi Sally v\u00e0 Jim k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, Sally mang v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p h\u00ecnh th\u1ec3 v\u00e0o m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, c\u00f2n Jim mang v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh. V\u00ec v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y phai nh\u1ea1t d\u1ea7n, th\u00ec \u201ct\u00e0i s\u1ea3n\u201d anh ta mang v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng v\u1eady\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 Jim kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e1 Sally. Anh ta v\u1eabn y\u00eau v\u1ee3. Ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a anh ta \u0111ang c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i th\u00f3i quen d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu c\u1ee7a anh ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n khi m\u1ed9t trong hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201cph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m\u201d. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 ngo\u00e0i lu\u1ed3ng, th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i im l\u1eb7ng, \u0111\u00f3ng b\u0103ng, v\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 cho t\u1edbi khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ee7 b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp cho sai l\u1ea7m \u0111\u00f3. M\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 n\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ec7n d\u1eabn c\u00e1c v\u00ed d\u1ee5 k\u1ecbch t\u00ednh khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3n t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n th\u1eeba k\u1ebf k\u1ebfch x\u00f9, b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t vi\u1ec7c ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed b\u1ecb bi\u1ebfn d\u1ea1ng nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng trong m\u1ed9t v\u1ee5 tai n\u1ea1n. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ph\u00e1 h\u1ee7y \u201ctr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng\u201d trong quan h\u1ec7 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng trong nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00edch k\u1ef7, v\u00f4 t\u00e2m. H\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng n\u1ee1 r\u1eddi b\u1ecf ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng l\u1ea1i t\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 b\u1eb1ng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t nh\u01b0: gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt c\u00e1c bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, l\u00e0m x\u1ea5u ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh (c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd), ho\u1eb7c tr\u1edf n\u00ean mi\u1ec5n c\u01b0\u1ee1ng khi ph\u1ea3i hi sinh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd v\u00ec l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201ctr\u00ean c\u01a1\u201d ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0; n\u1eafm quy\u1ec1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111i th\u0103m cha m\u1eb9 ai v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y ngh\u1ec9, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t ngh\u1ec9 ri\u00eang. Nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng nh\u1ecf s\u1ebd d\u1eabn t\u1edbi b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh l\u1edbn trong nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1ee1i c\u00e1c ch\u00e0ng trai, c\u00f4 g\u00e1i \u0111i s\u0103n, n\u1ebfu sau khi nghe t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201ch\u01a1n\u201d m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn ngh\u0129: \u201cC\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 h\u01a1n b\u1ea3n k\u00ea t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\u201d, th\u00ec h\u00e3y \u0111i theo t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i nhan s\u1eafc, t\u00e0i kho\u1ea3n ng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng ho\u1eb7c lai l\u1ecbch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi \u201ccon m\u1ed3i\u201d b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n s\u0103n. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quan \u0111i\u1ec3m, suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 \u201ct\u00e0i s\u1ea3n\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00f3 nh\u1eb1n nh\u1ea5t, y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean trong danh s\u00e1ch \u201ct\u00e0i s\u1ea3n\u201d li\u1ec7t k\u00ea \u1edf tr\u00ean: ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? \u0110\u1ec3 t\u00f4i n\u00f3i th\u1ebf n\u00e0y cho \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. Sau khi ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u ban \u0111\u1ea7u cho ch\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n gi\u1eefa ph\u1eabu thu\u1eadt th\u1ea9m m\u1ef9 ho\u1eb7c t\u1ef1 t\u1eed. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, h\u00e3y n\u00f3i th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o tin x\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta \u2013 c\u1ea3 nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111i\u1ec3m 10 trong thang \u0111i\u1ec3m ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh \u2013 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0: ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh quan tr\u1ecdng!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f3 nh\u1edb h\u1ed3i h\u1ecdc c\u1ea5p ba, khi b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng\/anh ch\u00e0ng l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t, b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: \u201c\u1ed2, tr\u00f4ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\u201d, ho\u1eb7c: \u201c\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t anh ch\u00e0ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eb9p trai\u201d. Hi v\u1ecdng ti\u00eau tan, \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00fang nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 v\u1edbi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thao t\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c suy ngh\u0129, c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn (v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh) \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00faa ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t ch\u00fang ta b\u1eb1ng v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt th\u00f4ng minh. C\u00e1c th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt n\u00e0y (ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng<\/a> giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n) c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn t\u1edbi \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a con m\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n h\u01a1n l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c trang \u0111i\u1ec3m. Ch\u00fang ta coi th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 \u201c\u01b0a nh\u00ecn\u201d?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c nhau gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a. \u1ede \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00fang ta, g\u1ea7y l\u00e0 \u201c\u01b0a nh\u00ecn\u201d (\u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef Sirono \u1edf Bolivia, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n nh\u1ed3i nh\u00e9t \u0111\u1ec3 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 b\u00e9o tr\u00f2n, \u0111\u1eaby \u0111\u00e0, v\u1eeba v\u00f2ng tay \u00f4m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng M\u1ef9 th\u00edch h\u00f4n nh\u1eb9 l\u00ean \u0111\u00f4i m\u00f4i cong cong h\u00ecnh chi\u1ebfc cung c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. (Kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 m\u00f4i ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef Ubangis, b\u00e8 b\u00e8 nh\u01b0 chi\u1ebfc b\u00e1nh k\u1ebfp h\u00ecnh \u0111\u0129a).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n kh\u00e1c nhau v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn \u1edf kh\u1eafp n\u01a1i tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. T\u1ea1o h\u00f3a \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 cho ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft ai n\u00f3ng b\u1ecfng, h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn v\u00e0 ai kh\u00f4ng. Ngay c\u1ea3 trong n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i ng\u00e0y nay, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u0169ng v\u1eabn th\u00edch ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e9t r\u1eafn r\u1ecfi, kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh, t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng, chu \u0111\u00e1o. \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u00edch ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 v\u1ebb l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n, h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 sinh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u xem c\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111ang th\u1ecbnh h\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ki\u1ec3u ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh n\u00e0o ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u00edch?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u00edch nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef b\u1ecb h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn, g\u1ea7n g\u0169i, chan h\u00f2a, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p t\u1ed1i \u01b0u c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh ng\u00e2y th\u01a1 tr\u1ebb con v\u1edbi \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft to tr\u00f2n, \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u1edbi b\u1ed9 ng\u1ef1c v\u1ea1m v\u1ee1, c\u1eb1m r\u1ed9ng, \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi t\u01b0\u01a1i v\u00e0 trang ph\u1ee5c ch\u1ec9n chu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ki\u1ec3u c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u00edch? Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00edch ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ed5 ng\u01b0\u1eddi trung b\u00ecnh, ph\u1ea7n tr\u00ean (t\u1eeb eo l\u00ean) v\u1ea1m v\u1ee1 h\u01a1n ph\u1ea7n d\u01b0\u1edbi. C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y, h\u1ecd th\u00edch ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201ch\u00ecnh ch\u1eef V\u201d h\u01a1n ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201ch\u00ecnh qu\u1ea3 l\u00ea\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u201ckh\u1ea9u v\u1ecb\u201d ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ki\u1ec3u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 v\u00f3c d\u00e1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng. Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u1edf t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp kinh t\u1ebf – x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef qu\u00e9t d\u1ecdn l\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ea5p, th\u00edch nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201c\u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u01a1 b\u1eafp\u201d h\u01a1n. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3 l\u01b0\u01a1ng cao, nh\u01b0 b\u00e1c s\u0129 t\u00e2m l\u00fd ho\u1eb7c b\u00e1c s\u0129 t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n, l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5y ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ef1c l\u01b0\u1ee1ng, v\u1ea1m v\u1ee1 kh\u00f4ng v\u1eeba m\u1eaft. H\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00edch ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0 sinh, thanh m\u1ea3nh v\u00e0 tinh t\u1ebf.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1ebf c\u00f2n chi\u1ec1u cao th\u00ec sao? M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng c\u00e0ng cao c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t v\u00ec v\u0103n h\u00f3a c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta coi tr\u1ecdng chi\u1ec1u cao. Qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c, m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1eddi t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea7u ch\u1ecdn \u1edf M\u1ef9 k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 20 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao h\u01a1n trong s\u1ed1 hai \u1ee9ng vi\u00ean. V\u00e0 t\u1edd Th\u1eddi b\u00e1o ph\u1ed1 Wall \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a tin l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng sinh vi\u00ean t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc cao h\u01a1n (kho\u1ea3ng 1m85 ho\u1eb7c h\u01a1n) c\u00f3 m\u1ee9c l\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u1edfi \u0111i\u1ec3m cao h\u01a1n 12,4% so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng sinh vi\u00ean cao ch\u01b0a t\u1edbi 1m80.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 quan h\u1ec7, r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng cao h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef – th\u1ea5p, trung b\u00ecnh hay cao – \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng nh\u01b0 nhau v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh, ch\u1ec9 tr\u1eeb chi\u1ec1u cao. Chi\u1ec1u cao trung b\u00ecnh th\u1eafng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u01b0a c\u00e1c ch\u00e0ng trai, khi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 k\u00edch c\u1ee1 (v\u00e2ng, k\u00edch c\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3), ngu\u1ed3n duy nh\u1ea5t t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn ch\u1ee9ng l\u00e0 b\u00e0i b\u00e1o c\u00f3 t\u00ean l\u00e0 \u201cTo c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n?\u201d m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u0103ng tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y. B\u00e0i b\u00e1o n\u00f3i ki\u1ec3u l\u1eadp l\u1edd n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f4i (ph\u00f2ng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u00e1c \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ea7m t\u1edd b\u00e1o l\u00ean v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m). Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1ee9c \u1ea3nh \u0111i k\u00e8m b\u00e0i b\u00e1o l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eb7t ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi m\u1edf. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u1ea3nh hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn, n\u1eb1m l\u0103n tr\u00ean s\u00e0n, khi m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd gi\u01a1 ng\u00f3n \u00fat th\u1eb3ng l\u00ean.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ki\u1ec3u ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u00edch?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ecf ra l\u00fang t\u00fang. (C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn l\u00e0 \u201c\u1eea, th\u00ec\u2026 \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u2013 mm mm \u2013 \u1eeb th\u00ec, \u01b0a nh\u00ecn\u201d). Tuy nhi\u00ean, m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc ki\u00ean t\u00e2m \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng xem l\u00e0 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00fang, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 g\u1ea7y. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. Trong m\u1ed9t ph\u00e2n t\u00edch v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng m\u1ea9u qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng anh ch\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n, c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra l\u00e0 trong s\u1ed1 28 \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng khao kh\u00e1t, mong mu\u1ed1n \u1edf ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u00ec \u201cg\u1ea7y\u201d \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u danh s\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00e1c, t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp v\u00e0 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u1edf t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i h\u01a1n th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ecdn m\u1eabu ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ng\u1ef1c to, h\u00f4ng l\u1edbn. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp cao h\u01a1n v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ch\u1ecdn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef khung h\u00ecnh nh\u1ecf h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd cho m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u1edf c\u00e1c t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp kh\u00e1c nhau xem \u1ea3nh ng\u1ef1c tr\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng ng\u1ef1c b\u1ef1 trong nh\u1eefng t\u01b0 th\u1ebf kh\u00eau g\u1ee3i, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1ee9c h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn \u0103n m\u1eb7c k\u00edn \u0111\u00e1o h\u01a1n. Khi h\u1ecfi h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n \u201cvui v\u1ebb\u201d c\u00f9ng ai th\u00ec c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u. Nh\u01b0ng khi h\u1ecfi h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ecdn ai l\u00e0m v\u1ee3, th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp \u201ctr\u00ean\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cd\u01b0\u1edbi\u201d \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1ecdn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0103n m\u1eb7c k\u00edn \u0111\u00e1o h\u01a1n. V\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u1edf t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp th\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u01b0u c\u00f2n th\u00edch \u201cvui v\u1ebb\u201d v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0103n m\u1eb7c k\u00edn \u0111\u00e1o h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc l\u00e0 c\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ra nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u00edch. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh kh\u00e1c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi ti\u1ec3u ti\u1ebft.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00e3 t\u1eebng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi v\u0103n h\u00f3a c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb \u00e1m \u1ea3nh b\u1edfi t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1ee9ng, s\u1ef1 m\u00f4n \u0111\u0103ng h\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed1i. Gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0 theo th\u1eddi gian, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef da s\u00e1ng h\u01a1n m\u00e0u da c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ng\u0103m ng\u0103m \u0111en th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea3ng trong ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, khi ch\u00fang ta thay \u0111\u1ed5i, th\u00ec ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n c\u0169 v\u1ec1 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p (g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eb7t thi\u00ean th\u1ea7n, \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft tr\u00f2n \u0111en, m\u00e1i t\u00f3c d\u00e0i m\u01b0\u1ee3t) c\u0169ng nhanh ch\u00f3ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb9p h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u hi\u1ec7n nay r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c so v\u1edbi v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu \u0111\u00f3. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1i qu\u00e1t duy nh\u1ea5t ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00fat ra v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai ph\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00edch ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 n\u01b0\u1edbc da s\u00e1ng, c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 thon g\u1ecdn, m\u00e1i t\u00f3c b\u00f3ng m\u01b0\u1ee3t, h\u00e0m r\u0103ng tr\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec1u v\u00e0 c\u1eb7p m\u1eaft s\u00e1ng (n\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 \u201ckh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh\u201d).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn con m\u1ed3i ngh\u0129 t\u00f4i tr\u00f4ng xinh h\u01a1n?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1eb9p kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh kh\u00e1ch quan. \u0110\u1eb9p c\u0169ng t\u00f9y m\u1eaft nh\u00ecn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1eb9p l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t quan \u0111i\u1ec3m, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1. G\u1ea1t ki\u1ec3u t\u00f3c, qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o v\u00e0 trang \u0111i\u1ec3m sang m\u1ed9t b\u00ean (\u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y cho nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c), \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thao t\u00fang suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a con m\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n \u0111ang s\u0103n \u0111u\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi t\u00f4i \u0111ang nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eedi cho t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9n b\u0103ng ghi h\u00ecnh ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh \u201c20-20\u201d \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00e1 l\u00e2u v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn, cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat sinh l\u00fd. Trong m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3nh quay, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i t\u00f3c v\u00e0ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng xinh \u0111\u1eb9p (di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean do \u0111\u00e0i ABC thu\u00ea) \u0111\u1ee9ng \u1edf b\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng qu\u1ed1c l\u1ed9, c\u1ea1nh chi\u1ebfc xe ch\u1ebft m\u00e1y c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong ph\u00e2n c\u1ea3nh ti\u1ebfp theo, m\u1ed9t di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee9ng b\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng qu\u1ed1c l\u1ed9. V\u1eabn l\u00e0 b\u1ed9 qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o \u0111\u00f3. V\u1eabn l\u00e0 chi\u1ebfc xe ch\u1ebft m\u00e1y \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00e0y k\u00e9m h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn h\u01a1n, ho\u1eb7c \u00edt nh\u1ea5t c\u0169ng l\u00e0 theo \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 s\u1ea3n xu\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f3 xe n\u00e0o ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi h\u1ecfi c\u00f4 c\u00f3 c\u1ea7n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u00e0o m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m b\u0103ng qua b\u1ed1n l\u00e0n \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng? C\u00e1c xe c\u1ee9 ph\u00f3ng v\u00e8o v\u00e8o qua. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t hai xe \u0111i ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i, nh\u01b0ng khi anh ch\u00e0ng t\u00e0i x\u1ebf nh\u00ecn tho\u00e1ng qua c\u00f4, h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u t\u0103ng t\u1ed1c b\u1ecf \u0111i. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc xe d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e1i xe ch\u1ec9 cho c\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u01a1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u0103ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1eabn ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n c\u1ea3 hai di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean, hai c\u00f4 ng\u1ed3i c\u1ea1nh nhau. T\u00f4i nh\u1ea5n n\u00fat t\u1ea1m d\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn k\u1ef9 h\u01a1n hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00e0y. T\u00f4i nh\u00ecn k\u1ef9 c\u00f4 n\u00e0y, r\u1ed3i c\u00f4 kia, r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i quay v\u1ec1 nh\u00ecn c\u00f4 l\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129: \u201cNgo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh h\u1ecd ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c nhau l\u00e0 m\u1ea5y!\u201d Nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, n\u00ean t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u1ecfi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 cho m\u1ed9t anh b\u1ea1n xem khung h\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ee9ng y\u00ean c\u1ee7a hai c\u00f4. Anh b\u1ea1n t\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd: \u201cCh\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c nhau l\u00e0 m\u1ea5y\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 sao nh\u1ec9? Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng xem l\u1ea1i cu\u1ed9n b\u0103ng. Sau \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eadt l\u1ea1i to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u1ea3nh quay cho b\u1ea1n t\u00f4i xem. \u201c\u1ed2, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1ed3i\u201d, anh b\u1ea1n t\u00f4i th\u1ed1t l\u00ean. L\u00fac n\u00e0y anh ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y. \u201c\u0110\u00fang, \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 c\u00f4 di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u xinh h\u01a1n h\u1eb3n\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ea7n xem th\u1ee9 ba t\u00f4i m\u1edbi kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00ed m\u1eadt. C\u00f4 di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00ecn c\u00e1c xe \u0111i qua. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y nghi\u00eang \u0111\u1ea7u, \u0111\u1ea9y vai v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda sau, \u01b0\u1ee1n ng\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Tr\u00f4ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y vui v\u1ebb, \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau, t\u1ef1 tin \u2013 do \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f4 th\u1ee9 hai ch\u1ec9 d\u1ef1a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0o xe, v\u1ebb m\u1eb7t th\u00ec ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng m\u1eaft giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi c\u00e1c xe \u0111i qua. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y tr\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng, hai tay l\u1ea1i khoanh tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u1ef1c (v\u1eady l\u00e0 gi\u1ea5u m\u1ea5t hai th\u1ee9 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n r\u1ea5t gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y). Tr\u00f4ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3, c\u00e1u k\u1ec9nh, t\u1ef1 ti \u2013 do \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y x\u1ea5u. Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1eb9p h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ch\u1ecb em b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt thay \u0111\u1ed5i quan \u0111i\u1ec3m, suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a con m\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n \u0111i s\u0103n v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n: H\u00e3y x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng cho m\u00ecnh lo\u1ea1i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 \u201c\u0111\u1eb9p\u201d v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tin. B\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 s\u1ebd \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n di chuy\u1ec3n v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 duy\u00ean d\u00e1ng v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1eb9p l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 47: (d\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1c c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n) H\u00e3y di chuy\u1ec3n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111i\u1ec3m \u201c10\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c T\u1ea1o h\u00f3a kh\u00f4ng? Kh\u00f4ng. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng. H\u00e3y tin r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 sinh v\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t t\u1eebng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean h\u00e0nh tinh n\u00e0y. V\u00ec th\u1ebf h\u00e3y di chuy\u1ec3n cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u1ee9ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00e0o c\u00e1c qu\u00fd \u00f4ng, th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3, chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi s\u1ee9c quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

G\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, sau m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi xin t\u00f4i l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. Anh ta l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb9p trai, nh\u01b0ng anh ta l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ee9ng kh\u00fam n\u00fam tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t t\u00f4i, hai tay anh ta c\u1ee9 l\u00fac l\u1eafc, nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ch\u1ea3 c\u00f2n d\u00f9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec n\u1eefa. M\u1eaft anh ta thi tho\u1ea3ng l\u1ea1i tr\u00e1nh \u00e1nh m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u00e0 l\u1ed9 r\u00f5 v\u1ebb x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anh ta \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i m\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o th\u00ec hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n l\u1eafc vai anh ta v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o: \u201cN\u00e0y, \u0111\u1eebng quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i g\u00ec. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, h\u00e3y ch\u1ec9nh \u0111\u1ed1n l\u1ea1i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a anh \u0111i!\u201d Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, c\u01a1 b\u1eafp v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 48: (d\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1c anh ch\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n) H\u00e3y di chuy\u1ec3n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201cc\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00e1ng\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1ee1i c\u00e1c qu\u00fd \u00f4ng, h\u00e3y \u0111i l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u00eam \u00e1i nh\u01b0ng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, r\u1eafn r\u1ecfi. B\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea1nh b\u1ea1o. Tr\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u v\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y d\u1eaft tay ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef khi \u0111i qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, h\u00e3y gi\u00fap h\u1ecd l\u00ean v\u00e0 xu\u1ed1ng xe, v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nhi\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u201cnam t\u00ednh\u201d kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u1ea5y quy\u1ebfn r\u0169.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00f4 s\u1ed1 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o t\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn ch\u00fang ta t\u1edbi th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt kh\u00e1c th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y. Th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt n\u00e0y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n t\u0103ng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ee3i th\u1ebf \u201cs\u00e1t g\u00e1i\/s\u00e1t trai\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u01b0u t\u00e2m t\u1edbi k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u0103ng g\u1ea5p \u0111\u00f4i c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong l\u1ea7n \u201ct\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng\u201d \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng y\u00eau ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng (P.L.P) ti\u1ebfp theo th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 tin kh\u00f4ng? H\u00e3y c\u1ee9 tin \u0111i!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea1i c\u00e1c c\u00e2u l\u1ea1c b\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n \u1edf kh\u1eafp m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i, c\u00e1c anh ch\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb b\u1eafn h\u1ea1 khi c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn m\u1ed9t qu\u00fd c\u00f4. T\u1ed1i n\u00e0o c\u00e1c c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng \u201cc\u1ecdc \u0111i t\u00ecm tr\u00e2u\u201d c\u0169ng v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ch\u00fa th\u1ecf tr\u1eafng ng\u01a1 ng\u00e1c nh\u00ecn chi\u1ebfc \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 sinh h\u1ecdc. V\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u00edch l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u1edf kh\u1eafp n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9 \u0111\u1ec1u k\u00eau than r\u1eb1ng sao l\u00fac n\u00e0o h\u1ecd c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u201cvai ph\u1ee5\u201d ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u201cvai ch\u00ednh\u201d trong nh\u1eefng b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c c\u01b0\u1edbi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea1i sao chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i x\u1ea3y ra?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00ec h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111ang nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn, \u0111u\u1ed5i theo con m\u1ed3i kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Nh\u1eefng con s\u00f3i c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ee7a tr\u0103ng, s\u1ee7a vu v\u01a1, v\u00f4 \u00edch m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00e0m c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 gia t\u0103ng l\u1ee3i th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n? B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch theo \u0111u\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng, t\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u1ee9ng h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00fang v\u1eady, th\u01b0a c\u00e1c qu\u00fd \u00f4ng, th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c \u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1eddi m\u1eaft kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng n\u00f3ng b\u1ecfng, xinh \u0111\u1eb9p. C\u00e1c \u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n, h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eb3ng l\u1ebd c\u00e1c \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y ch\u00e1n c\u1ea3nh c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c \u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u201c\u0111\u00e1nh\u201d cho b\u1ea7m d\u1eadp m\u1ed7i khi c\u1ea5t l\u1eddi \u201cXin ch\u00e0o\u201d sao? V\u1edbi ph\u00e1i y\u1ebfu, s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n khi theo \u0111u\u1ed5i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9 l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n, h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn ngang t\u1ea7m v\u1edbi h\u1ecd, v\u00ec ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao c\u00e1c \u201c\u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m\u201d h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ng\u1eafm k\u1ef9 m\u00ecnh trong g\u01b0\u01a1ng. (Th\u00f4i n\u00e0o, \u0111\u1eebng t\u1ef1 l\u1eeba m\u00ecnh, h\u00e3y lau g\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i). Sau \u0111\u00f3 h\u00e3y \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1ch quan, d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean thang \u0111i\u1ec3m \u201c10\u201d. (N\u1ebfu c\u1ea7n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, h\u00e3y nh\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n). B\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec3m, 4, 6, 8 hay cao h\u01a1n? B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, h\u00e3y nh\u1edb l\u1ea5y s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, sau \u0111\u00f3 nh\u00ecn sang con m\u1ed3i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn. C\u0169ng d\u00f9ng thang \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 h\u01a1n\/k\u00e9m b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c hai \u0111i\u1ec3m, h\u00e3y ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec h\u00e3y qu\u00ean \u0111i. C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 ra l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u00edch \u00f4m, h\u00f4n kh\u00f4ng? C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc c\u0169ng d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ec1 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1ec5 bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 tr\u00ecu m\u1ebfn, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01a1n. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 quan s\u00e1t c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i t\u1ea1i c\u00e1c b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c v\u00e0 c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec3m h\u1eb9n d\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n. V\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u00fang.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u00f9 c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i l\u00e0 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u \u201cxinh\u201d hay \u0111\u1ec1u \u201cx\u1ea5u\u201d, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 v\u1ebb h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean y\u00eau nhau h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ed9 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn. 60% c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i gi\u1ed1ng nhau ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u00f4m \u1ea5p nhau, 46% c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i gi\u1ed1ng nhau th\u01b0\u1eddng \u00e2u y\u1ebfm, v\u00e0 22% c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i \u00edt gi\u1ed1ng nhau thi tho\u1ea3ng m\u1edbi ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi nhau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 khi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u1eafm thi\u1ebft n\u00e0y, th\u00ec c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u201cng\u01b0u t\u1ea7m ng\u01b0u, m\u00e3 t\u1ea7m m\u00e3\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 49: G\u01b0\u01a1ng kia ng\u1ef1 \u1edf tr\u00ean t\u01b0\u1eddng<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ec3 t\u0103ng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n khi s\u0103n con m\u1ed3i m\u1edbi, ch\u1ec9 n\u00ean s\u0103n con m\u1ed3i c\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t t\u1edbi hai \u0111i\u1ec3m trong thang \u0111i\u1ec3m h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn. (\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng gi\u00fap t\u0103ng ni\u1ec1m h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac chuy\u1ec3n sang hai nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 ti\u1ebfp theo trong b\u1ea3ng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb: 2) Gia t\u00e0i v\u00e0 3) \u0110\u1ecba v\u1ecb ho\u1eb7c uy t\u00edn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Theo \u0111u\u1ed5i con m\u1ed3i gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 v\u00e0 n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi vi\u1ebft cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea5n kh\u00edch n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai ch\u1ecbu l\u1eafng nghe t\u00f4i l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111ang kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 m\u1ed9t m\u00f4n khoa h\u1ecdc gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng nhau. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe t\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n, v\u00e0 \u0111ang \u0111i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd h\u1ecfi xem ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n \u0111em l\u00f2ng y\u00eau l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec, sau m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1t nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201ct\u1eed t\u1ebf\u201d, \u201c\u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cth\u00f4ng minh\u201d, s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd t\u00ecm cho m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201cgi\u00e0u c\u00f3\u201d, \u201cc\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c\u201d, \u201cc\u00f3 v\u0103n h\u00f3a\u201d v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 \u201cthu\u1ed9c t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp th\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u01b0u\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00fang l\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 khi t\u00f4i vi\u1ebft ch\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e1c ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n v\u1ec1 con m\u1ed3i cao h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb, th\u00e2n th\u1ebf, t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i b\u1eaby \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. \u1ede nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea7n kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 \u201ct\u00ecnh c\u1edd\u201d g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eed t\u1ebf, l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1, th\u00f4ng minh v\u00e0 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn h\u01a1n. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecnh c\u1edd g\u1eb7p con m\u1ed3i \u201cgi\u00e0u c\u00f3 h\u01a1n\u201d, \u201cthanh tao h\u01a1n\u201d, \u201cth\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u01b0u\u201d ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i cao h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i gi\u00e0u c\u00f3<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed3 ngh\u1ec1 \u0111i s\u0103n \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 s\u0103n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con m\u1ed3i \u201cngon\u201d? Hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i v\u1ea5t chi\u1ebfc \u00e1o s\u01a1 mi ki\u1ec3u Hawai, b\u1ed9 vest b\u1eb1ng v\u1ea3i polyester trong t\u1ee7 qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111i. Nh\u1eefng anh ch\u00e0ng gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 c\u1eb7p m\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea1i b\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 m\u00e3 ngo\u00e0i b\u1ea3nh ch\u1ecde gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd. V\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1edbi ch\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1eebng c\u1ed1 nh\u1ed3i nh\u00e9t m\u1ed9t chi ti\u1ebft r\u1ebb ti\u1ec1n n\u00e0o v\u00e0o v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ki\u1ec3u t\u00f3c h\u1ee3p th\u1eddi, chi\u1ebfc \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 \u0111\u1eaft \u0111\u1ecf, trang s\u1ee9c b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0ng th\u1eadt. Ph\u1ea3i th\u1ebf m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i gi\u1ea7y K-Mart s\u1ebd n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m bi\u1ec3n nh\u1ea5p nh\u00e1y \u201cl\u1ea1c l\u00f5ng\u201d v\u1edbi b\u1ed9 qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4. Th\u00e0 ch\u01b0ng di\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i t\u1ea5t th\u1ec3 thao \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1eaft c\u00e1 ch\u00e2n gi\u00e1 20 \u0111\u00f4 c\u00f2n h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ed3 r\u1ebb ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1n mua \u1edf qu\u1ea7y gi\u1ea3m gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a si\u00eau th\u1ecb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 50: R\u00e1ch nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i sang<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c qu\u00fd \u00f4ng, h\u00e3y mua m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 vest sang tr\u1ecdng. Ph\u1ea3i ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee3 may l\u00e0 b\u1eadc th\u1ea7y s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o n\u00ean nh\u1eefng chi ti\u1ebft b\u00ed \u1ea9n th\u00fa v\u1ecb trong n\u1eafp t\u00fai, \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ebb, ve \u00e1o\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c qu\u00fd c\u00f4, c\u00e1c c\u00f4 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1eb7c \u201cqu\u1ea7n \u00e1o may s\u1eb5n\u201d. Nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o nh\u1eefng b\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed3 may s\u1eb5n \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 t\u00ean nh\u00e0 thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf<\/a> tr\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 (c\u00f3 th\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec7u).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi s\u0103n \u0111u\u1ed5i con m\u1ed3i gi\u00e0u c\u00f3, ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ee9 g\u00ec tr\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n 100 \u0111\u00f4, tr\u1eeb t\u1ea5t v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3 l\u00f3t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef. N\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n ki\u1ec3u \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u\u201d kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i khoe m\u1ebd ki\u1ec3u \u201cKhi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e1i xe ri\u00eang \u0111\u01b0a t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ebfn Elizabeth Arden s\u00e1ng nay trong chi\u1ebfc Bentley c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i\u2026\u201d Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng c\u1ee7a t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp d\u01b0\u1edbi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng uy\u1ec3n ng\u1eef cho m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 t\u1eeb l\u1ea1i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb th\u1ea5p k\u00e9m. \u1ede Anh, n\u01a1i m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00fd th\u1ee9c h\u01a1n (ho\u1eb7c \u00edt nh\u1ea5t c\u0169ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1ee3ng ng\u00f9ng) v\u1ec1 t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 v\u0103n t\u00ean l\u00e0 Nancy Mitford \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i b\u00e1o v\u1ec1 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp th\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u01b0u v\u00e0 Kh\u00f4ng- th\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u01b0u. T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u201cT\u201d (\u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp th\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u01b0u) v\u00e0 Kh\u00f4ng-T (\u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngay khi t\u1edd t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u1edf c\u00e1c qu\u1ea7y b\u00e1o, n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y ra t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng h\u1ed7n lo\u1ea1n tr\u00ean c\u1ea3 n\u01b0\u1edbc. Nh\u01b0 Phillip Toynbee n\u00f3i trong ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh \u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi quan s\u00e1t London\u201d, b\u00e0i b\u00e1o n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u201cph\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c b\u1ea1n b\u00e8\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nancy Mitford \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng v\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u201cT\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cKh\u00f4ng-T\u201d. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi Anh th\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u01b0u th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u v\u1edbi nhau, th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i: \u201c\u00d4ng\/ B\u00e0 th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u1ea1?\u201d Khi \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi Anh th\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u01b0u th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u0169ng nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng ngh\u0129 g\u00ec\u201d \u201c\u00d4ng\/b\u00e0 th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u1ea1?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi Anh t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n, hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi Anh Kh\u00f4ng-T, khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi: \u201c\u00d4ng\/B\u00e0 th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u1ea1?\u201d th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u00f3. \u201c\u00d4ng\/B\u00e0 th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u1ea1?\u201d \u201cR\u1ea5t kh\u1ecfe, c\u00e1m \u01a1n \u00f4ng\/b\u00e0\u201d. Ho\u1eb7c t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n n\u1eefa l\u00e0: \u201cR\u1ea5t vui \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1eb7p \u00f4ng\/b\u00e0, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u1ede M\u1ef9 c\u0169ng th\u1ebf.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t d\u1eabn ch\u1ee9ng kh\u00e1c ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng gi\u1ea3 m\u1ea1o, b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1edbi th\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u01b0u l\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng uy\u1ec3n ng\u1eef. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng t\u1eeb \u201cth\u1ecbnh v\u01b0\u1ee3ng\u201d, trong khi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 thu\u1ed9c t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp th\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u01b0u l\u1ea1i d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb \u201cgi\u00e0u c\u00f3\u201d. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi Kh\u00f4ng-T n\u00f3i \u201cgi\u1ea5y gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nhu c\u1ea7u\u201d, c\u00f2n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c gi\u1edbi th\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u01b0u l\u1ea1i g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u201cgi\u1ea5y v\u1ec7 sinh\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp tr\u00ean v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp d\u01b0\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3, \u0111\u00e1ng bu\u1ed3n l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f2n bu\u1ed3n h\u01a1n v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi s\u0103n \u0111u\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t con m\u1ed3i b\u00e9o b\u1edf, h\u00e3y b\u1ecf ngay c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng uy\u1ec3n ng\u1eef. H\u00e3y n\u00f3i to\u1ea1c m\u00f3ng heo ra. Nh\u00e0 v\u1ec7 sinh th\u00ec g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cnh\u00e0 v\u1ec7 sinh\u201d, ch\u1ee9 \u0111\u1eebng g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cph\u00f2ng anh C\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d, d\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1eadt v\u00e0 \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o th\u00ec g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cd\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1eadt\u201d v\u00e0 \u201c\u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o\u201d ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cc\u1eadu b\u00e9\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cc\u00f4 b\u00e9\u201d. Khi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u201cc\u1ee7a qu\u00fd\u201d, ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 qu\u00fd t\u1ed9c th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00f9ng \u0111\u00fang t\u1eeb \u201ctinh ho\u00e0n\u201d. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t t\u1eeb qu\u00e1 th\u00f4 thi\u1ec3n, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng t\u1eeb ti\u1ebfng Ph\u00e1p. \u201cM\u00f4ng \u0111\u00edt\u201d l\u00e0 t\u1eeb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u201cb\u00e0n t\u1ecda\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 51: H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1eb3ng c\u1ea5p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ec3 b\u1eaby \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con m\u1ed3i b\u00e9o b\u1edf, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i thu th\u1eadp nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb \u201cthu\u1ed9c\u201d t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp th\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u01b0u, v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 nh\u1edb ch\u00fang. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n b\u1ecf c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i gi\u1ea3m, n\u00f3i tr\u00e1nh \u0111i l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. (V\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00ean b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i h\u1edb).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u00eam m\u1ed9t g\u1ee3i \u00fd khi giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u c\u00f3. H\u00e3y ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3i ch\u1eadm th\u00f4i. N\u00f3i nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng th\u00f4i. V\u00e0 n\u00f3i r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0o. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e2ng gi\u1ecdng m\u00ecnh l\u00ean. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tham kh\u1ea3o \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, Barbara. C\u00f4 b\u1ea1n n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5t gi\u1ecdng r\u1ea5t hay. Gi\u1ecdng Barbara r\u1ea5t thanh tao. Qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 ki\u1ebfm s\u1ed1ng nh\u1edd ch\u1ea5t gi\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n mua xe \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 trang s\u1ee9c \u0111\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft Barbara \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 v\u00e0i ngh\u00ecn \u0111\u00f4 v\u00e0o luy\u1ec7n gi\u1ecdng, v\u00ec th\u1ebf t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi xem c\u00f4 \u1ea5y thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec. Vi\u1ec7c luy\u1ec7n gi\u1ecdng \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng? \u201cC\u00f3 ch\u1ee9\u201d, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. \u201cNh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00f3m g\u1ecdn v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u\u201d. \u201cL\u00e0 g\u00ec v\u1eady?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1eb1ng ch\u1ea5t gi\u1ecdng phun ch\u00e2u nh\u1ea3 ng\u1ecdc, Barbara \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 52: Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00ed m\u1eadt c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c u\u1ed1n l\u01b0\u1ee1i ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 ph\u00e1t \u00e2m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c \u00e2-m t-i-\u1ebf-t, v\u00e0 h\u00e3y ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh m\u1ecdi t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eadt ra kh\u1ecfi mi\u1ec7ng b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp T n\u00f3i g\u00ec?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh gia nh\u1eadp ph\u1ed1 Ung Dung, Tho\u1ea3i M\u00e1i, h\u00e3y h\u1ecdc \u201cng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ed1\u201d c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd l\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft n\u1ed9i dung, m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nhanh ch\u00f3ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn, c\u00f3 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u01b0u ti\u00ean. Gi\u00e1 c\u1ea3, ti\u1ec1n nong th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn. (Suy cho c\u00f9ng th\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n, v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n quan t\u00e2m n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1ng gi\u00e1 bao nhi\u00eau).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u1eddi s\u1ef1, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Quan \u0111i\u1ec3m ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb gay g\u1eaft, kh\u00f4ng. Chuy\u1ec7n nghi\u00eam t\u00fac, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f9a c\u1ee3t, kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u00f2 ti\u00eau khi\u1ec3n, gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i. T\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i. Thi tho\u1ea3ng, t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi (v\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp lao \u0111\u1ed9ng, t\u00f4i ch\u1eafc th\u1ebf) t\u1edbi c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i ti\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a to\u00e0n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 ch\u00ednh trong \u0111\u1eddi h\u1ecd l\u00e0 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1c h\u1ed9i t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n \u0111ang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm ngu\u1ed3n t\u00e0i tr\u1ee3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea1i h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i ti\u1ec7c, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00edch n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c t\u1ee5 t\u1eadp ki\u1ec3u n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi: \u201cAnh l\u00e0m ngh\u1ec1 g\u00ec?\u201d V\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ecb c\u00f4ng t\u1eed danh gia v\u1ecdng t\u1ed9c ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec. \u00cdt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 h\u1ecd ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i lo ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec3 chi ti\u00eau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1ebf c\u00f2n tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p con m\u1ed3i b\u00e9o b\u1edf th\u00ec sao? T\u1ed1t h\u01a1n h\u1ebft l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd l\u00e0m g\u00ec. V\u00ec s\u1ebd th\u1eadt khi\u1ebfm nh\u00e3 khi h\u1ecfi c\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 (h\u1ecfi h\u1ecd l\u00e0m g\u00ec?).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 53: \u0110\u1eebng h\u1ecfi \u201canh\/em l\u00e0m ngh\u1ec1 g\u00ec\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y l\u1eafng tai nghe \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o th\u00edch h\u1ee3p cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i. Con m\u1ed3i b\u00e9o b\u1edf v\u00e0 g\u00e3 c\u00f4ng t\u1eed nh\u00e0 gi\u00e0u th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i ch\u00e2n r\u1ea5t nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m. B\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u01b0\u1ee3n v\u00f2ng quanh v\u00e0 d\u1eabm l\u00ean ch\u00e2n h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n c\u1ea3, h\u00e3y tr\u00e1nh h\u1ecfi c\u00e2u-h\u1ecfi-th\u01b0\u1eddng-th\u1ea5y-t\u1ea1i- c\u00e1c-b\u1eefa-ti\u1ec7c: \u201cAnh\/Em l\u00e0m ngh\u1ec1 g\u00ec?\u201d C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 thu\u1ed9c t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp lao \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng t\u1eeb c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con m\u1ed3i c\u00f3 uy t\u00edn, thanh th\u1ebf<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t th\u00e2n t\u1eeb n\u01a1i gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 h\u01a1n th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 h\u01a1n, nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 h\u01a1n, xe c\u1ed9 gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 h\u01a1n\u2026 v\u00e0 t\u1eeb v\u1ef1ng c\u0169ng gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 h\u01a1n. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i s\u1edf h\u1eefu nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfc xe to, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng tr\u00e1nh d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfc xe nh\u1ecf th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng. Ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb h\u1ecd s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u0169ng v\u1eady. H\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb \u0111ao to b\u00faa l\u1edbn. Nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00e1nh d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ec3 \u0103n n\u00f3i kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u c\u00f3, h\u00e3y s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt m\u00e0 t\u00f4i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 T\u1eeb \u0111i\u1ec3n t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. H\u00e3y ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n hay s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 \u201c\u1ed5n\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cth\u00f4ng minh\u201d. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u \u201cTr\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ea5y\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201c\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00f4ng minh\u201d r\u1ea5t hay \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y nh\u1ea5c quy\u1ec3n t\u1eeb \u0111i\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a \u1edf tr\u00ean k\u1ec7 xu\u1ed1ng. H\u00e3y tra t\u1eeb \u201c\u1ed5n\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cth\u00f4ng minh\u201d. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y h\u00e0ng t\u00e1 nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a \u201cgi\u00e0u c\u00f3\u201d h\u01a1n. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 khi th\u1eed qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o, h\u00e3y ch\u1ecdn ba ho\u1eb7c b\u1ed1n t\u1eeb c\u00f3 v\u1ebb h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Sau \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ee1i c\u00e1c ch\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n, l\u1ea7n t\u1edbi khi b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n khen con m\u1ed3i \u01b0u t\u00fa c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi c\u00f4 ta r\u1eb1ng tr\u00f4ng c\u00f4 ta \u201c\u1ed5n\u201d, h\u00e3y n\u00f3i\u2026 \u201c\u00d4i, Sue, em \u0111\u1eb9p m\u00ea h\u1ed3n\u201d. Ho\u1eb7c tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi. Ho\u1eb7c \u201c\u00d4i, Sue, tr\u00f4ng em m\u1edbi \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0m sao\u201d. \u201c\u00d4i, ch\u00faa \u01a1i, tr\u00f4ng em m\u1edbi qu\u00fd ph\u00e1i l\u00e0m sao!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f2n c\u00e1c qu\u00fd c\u00f4 \u0111i s\u0103n, n\u1ebfu c\u00e1c c\u00f4 mu\u1ed1n khen con m\u1ed3i tr\u00ed th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i v\u1edbi anh ta r\u1eb1ng anh ta \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u201cth\u00f4ng minh\u201d \u01b0? Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 h\u00e3y n\u00f3i \u201c\u00d4i, George, anh th\u1eadt l\u00e0 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o\u201d. Ho\u1eb7c th\u00e1o v\u00e1t, m\u01b0u tr\u00ed l\u00e0m sao. Ho\u1eb7c \u201cGeorge, anh th\u1eadt tinh kh\u00f4n qu\u00e1!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen d\u1ed3n d\u1eadp, li\u00ean ti\u1ebfp. H\u00e3y t\u00edch l\u0169y t\u1eeb \u0111i\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111ao to b\u00faa l\u1edbn, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n th\u00edch, nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 khi \u0111i m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i gi\u1ea7y m\u1edbi, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nhanh ch\u00f3ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi con m\u1ed3i gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 54: T\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n lai l\u1ecbch gi\u00e0u c\u00f3, h\u00e3y ch\u1ecdn nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 t\u1eeb nh\u00f3m nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc v\u00f2ng c\u1ed5 \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd, h\u00e3y th\u1eed d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau \u0111\u00f3 h\u00e3y n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 nh\u1ea3 ng\u1ecdc phun ch\u00e2u khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi con m\u1ed3i c\u00f3 uy th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1eb7t c\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0o t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng<\/a> giao ti\u1ebfp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u201ct\u00e0i s\u1ea3n\u201d v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng \u201cgi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c thao t\u00fang \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a con m\u1ed3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1\u2026 1) Ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n 2) T\u00e0i s\u1ea3n ho\u1eb7c ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n 3) \u0110\u1ecba v\u1ecb ho\u1eb7c uy t\u00edn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ba \u201ct\u00e0i s\u1ea3n\u201d \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng m\u00e0 c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc cho l\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Ch\u00fang quan tr\u1ecdng. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t. Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch ba \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh sau h\u01a1n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0: 4) Tri th\u1ee9c 5) K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng<\/a> giao ti\u1ebfp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1 t\u00ednh 6) B\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t 240 241<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gi\u1edd ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 t\u01b0. Vi\u1ec7c theo \u0111u\u1ed5i tri th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi, nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea1n ni\u1ec1m vui trong su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 t\u00edch l\u0169y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f4ng qua ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n l\u1edbn khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111em l\u00f2ng y\u00eau b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 t\u00f4i, th\u1ea5y ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng b\u1ee5i b\u1eb7m, h\u00fat t\u1ea9u, \u00e1o len c\u00f3 mi\u1ebfng v\u1ea3i da v\u00e1 \u1edf khu\u1ef7u tay l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 coi l\u00e0 \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1eebng th\u00f4 k\u1ec7ch\u201d nh\u01b0ng anh ta l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t thi\u00ean t\u00e0i v\u1ec1 m\u00e1y vi t\u00ednh. Ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a anh ta th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb anh ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1ee1i c\u00e1c tay s\u0103n m\u1ed3i, h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ng\u00e0y nay, th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p. Ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u201cli\u1ec1u thu\u1ed1c k\u00edch d\u1ee5c\u201d \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u00f4ng minh, tham v\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1 t\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n th\u1ee9 n\u0103m gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb cao h\u01a1n tr\u00ean th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecnh \u00e1i m\u1edf. Nh\u1eefng th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt xuy\u00ean su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1eadp trung gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft hai kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh n\u00e0y. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00e0i s\u1ea3n cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng trong danh s\u00e1ch, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng k\u00e9m quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t, l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t trong t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c li\u1ec7t k\u00ea \u1edf danh s\u00e1ch. Hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean n\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 s\u00e2u xa nh\u1ea5t. \u0110\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ai \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. H\u00e3y v\u00f4 t\u01b0 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i g\u00ec. H\u00e3y chung th\u1ee7y trong quan h\u1ec7, c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh v\u00e0 linh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Danh s\u00e1ch c\u00e1c \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a \u201cb\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t\u201d c\u00f2n k\u00e9o d\u00e0i. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u201ct\u00e0i s\u1ea3n\u201d c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb khi b\u1ea1n \u0111em n\u00f3 v\u00e0o trong m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc, m\u1ecdi kinh nghi\u1ec7m b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 x\u1eed l\u00fd, m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 \u201cl\u1ee3i \u00edch\u201d h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 55: T\u0103ng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ec3 t\u0103ng \u201cgi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd ng\u1eebng h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi, \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd ng\u1eebng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1 t\u00ednh v\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng t\u00ednh t\u1ed1t. Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ea1n v\u00e0ng xuy\u00ean th\u1ee7ng tr\u00e1i tim con m\u1ed3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gi\u00fap h\u1ecd tin r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd y\u00eau b\u1ea1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 con m\u1ed3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 b\u1ea1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Y\u00eau ai \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecd y\u00eau l\u1ea1i, l\u00e0 ki\u1ec3u th\u01b0\u1edfng ph\u1ea1t \u0111an xen. Ch\u00fang ta h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 ho\u1eb7c \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 ch\u00fang ta. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng khi l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng theo Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc C\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, \u1edf n\u01a1i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 trong ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ebb \u0111i\u1ec3m. Ai l\u00e0m cho ai nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n? T\u1ed5ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng? Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng ki\u1ec3u \u0103n mi\u1ebfng tr\u1ea3 mi\u1ebfng, m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t, hai tr\u1ea3 hai. \u201cMi\u1ebfng \u0103n\u201d c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u201ctr\u1ea3 l\u1ec5\u201d cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, h\u1ee1i c\u00e1c c\u00f4 n\u00e0ng th\u1ee3 s\u0103n, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n y\u00eau m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00edch l\u00e1i xe \u0111\u01b0a anh ta \u0111i l\u00e0m khi xe anh ta b\u1ecb h\u1ecfng. S\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m k\u00edch c\u1ee7a anh ta l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea1n. C\u00f2n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ch\u00e0ng trai, b\u1ea1n th\u00edch t\u1eb7ng hoa cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau. N\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e1i xe \u0111\u01b0a anh ta \u0111i l\u00e0m, hay t\u1eb7ng hoa cho c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng? C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng, ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i mu\u1ed1n? C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. Ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau anh \u1ea5y, ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau c\u00f4 \u1ea5y. Ho\u1eb7c ch\u00ed \u00edt \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta t\u1ef1 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y d\u1eabn ch\u00fang ta t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh th\u00fa v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i t\u00ecnh \u00e1i. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c tin r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111ang y\u00eau b\u1ea1n. C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u201ch\u1ecdc thuy\u1ebft nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh\u201d. \u201cNh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng duy tr\u00ec tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m l\u00fd. V\u00e0 khi s\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng kh\u00f4i ph\u1ee5c tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c gi\u1eef cho h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Khi h\u1ecd l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd \u0111ang l\u00e0m v\u00ec m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, v\u00ec h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh nguy\u1ec7n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec m\u1ed9t nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n \u00fd ngh\u0129a s\u1ebd xem nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111em l\u1ea1i l\u1ee3i \u00edch v\u1ec1 ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c. C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e0ng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c cho m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m t\u00ecnh nguy\u1ec7n th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn kho\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ec1n b\u00f9 cho c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c h\u1ecd b\u1ecf ra, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 xem nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 quan s\u00e1t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, sau \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh, theo b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng, tri\u1ebft l\u00fd v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f3. H\u1ecd t\u1ef1 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n: \u201cCh\u00faa \u01a1i, m\u00ecnh \u0111ang n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c cho nh\u00f3m n\u00e0y. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd\u201d. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cnh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0o m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb ng\u1ed1c ho\u1eb7c ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n. V\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ai mu\u1ed1n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng th\u1ebf.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 cho ai \u0111\u00f3, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 v\u1ee5 l\u1ee3i, ch\u1eb3ng m\u1ea3y may mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i c\u00e1i g\u00ec, th\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn l\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u00edch ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3\u2026 v\u1eady l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 quan s\u00e1t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. H\u1ecd c\u00f2n quan s\u00e1t ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, v\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta tin t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c quan s\u00e1t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta. Do \u0111\u00f3, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eb7ng th\u01b0\u1edfng cho h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh d\u1eady s\u1edbm, l\u00e1i xe \u0111\u01b0a \u201ccon m\u1ed3i\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111i d\u1ea1o, ho\u1eb7c th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 cho c\u00f4 \u1ea5y, th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau. C\u00f2n l\u00fd do g\u00ec kh\u00e1c khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ea1t c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh sang m\u1ed9t b\u00ean, v\u00e0 ti\u00eau x\u00e0i s\u1ed1 ti\u1ec1n ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f3 nh\u1ecdc b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ecbch th\u00e0nh th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi nh\u1eb1m gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con m\u1ed3i r\u1eb1ng anh ta ho\u1eb7c c\u00f4 ta \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TH\u1ee6 THU\u1eacT 56: H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 anh ta\/c\u00f4 ta gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 b\u1ea1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 con m\u1ed3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 cho b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y c\u00e1m \u01a1n h\u1ecd, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng t\u1ecf ra qu\u00e1 bi\u1ebft \u01a1n. H\u00e3y h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng khi h\u1ecd nh\u00fan nh\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00ec b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ec3 kh\u00f4i ph\u1ee5c nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 ch\u1eafc h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 y\u00eau b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t l\u1eddi c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o: \u0110\u1eebng qu\u00e1 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt n\u00e0y. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m l\u1ec7ch c\u00e1n c\u00e2n. N\u1ebfu con m\u1ed3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y anh ta ho\u1eb7c c\u00f4 ta \u0111ang l\u00e0m qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u1eadt v\u00e0 ch\u00ecm ngh\u1ec9m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00e0y! Th\u1ebf c\u00f2n \u201c\u00d4i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, b\u00e0i th\u01a1 tr\u1eef t\u00ecnh\/ V\u1eeba \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u01b0 thi\u00ean th\u1ea7n, v\u1eeba mong manh nh\u01b0 c\u00e1nh chim\u2026\u201d th\u00ec sao?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd th\u1eafc m\u1eafc: \u201cTh\u1ebf ki\u1ec3u t\u00ecnh y\u00eau trong s\u00e1ng, thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng v\u1ecb k\u1ef7 th\u00ec xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u? Nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i n\u00f3i y\u00eau nhau tr\u1ecdn \u0111\u1eddi, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft m\u1edbi chia l\u00eca \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecd\u2026 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00fang, t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0o \u0111\u00fang th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m. Qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c v\u1ea7n th\u01a1 t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a Robert Burns v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u1ec9 mang t\u00ednh th\u1ef1c d\u1ee5ng, ch\u1ec9 coi tr\u1ecdng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00edch v\u1edbi nhau. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi nhau, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac b\u00ean nhau v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn l\u00ean tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ecd, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m th\u1ebb ghi \u0111i\u1ec3m r\u1ea5t to tr\u00ean tr\u1eddi. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng trong m\u1ed7i vi\u1ec7c, m\u1ed7i th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecdn h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb ch\u1ee7 quan m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u00e0o m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1. V\u00ec khi hai b\u00ean nguy\u1ec7n g\u1eafn b\u00f3 trong m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi, th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n \u0103n mi\u1ebfng tr\u1ea3 mi\u1ebfng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, h\u00e0ng tu\u1ea7n, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 h\u00e0ng th\u00e1ng n\u1eefa. Th\u1ebb \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng \u2013 trong m\u1ed9t l\u00fac.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng khi anh ta theo h\u1ecdc tr\u01b0\u1eddng y. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u1edf v\u00e0o th\u1ebf \u201ctr\u00ean c\u01a1\u201d trong v\u00e0i n\u0103m. Anh ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1eddi h\u01a1n. Nh\u01b0ng khi anh ta \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eb1ng, anh ta c\u00f3 \u201cnhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5\u201d ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 ti\u1ec1n cho vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3, ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u201cc\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1ebf c\u00f2n quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb l\u1ec7ch v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t b\u00ean trong m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i th\u00ec sao? Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng y\u00eau d\u1ea5u t\u00ecnh nguy\u1ec7n ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi \u0111au y\u1ebfu trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m cu\u1ed1i \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1ef1c ra th\u00ec, nh\u1eefng n\u0103m b\u00ean nhau \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u201ct\u00e0i s\u1ea3n\u201d \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111em v\u00e0o m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u201ctr\u1ea3 l\u1ec5\u201d ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecd y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00ec nh\u1eefng n\u0103m th\u00e1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau nhau \u0111\u00e3 cam k\u1ebft, th\u1ec1 nguy\u1ec1n, th\u00ec con thuy\u1ec1n v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb ch\u00ecm d\u00f9 n\u00f3 b\u1ecb nghi\u00eang v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t  ph\u00eda. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i l\u1eadt v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda b\u00ean kia tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi v\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u00eam \u00e1i. C\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn chuy\u1ec7n thi\u00ean v\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd trong m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian. V\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng minh s\u1ebd \u201c\u0111\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef th\u0103ng b\u1eb1ng cho nh\u1eefng t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i d\u00e0nh ra v\u00e0i trang \u0111\u1ec3 vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 tri\u1ebft l\u00fd n\u00e0y? V\u00ec ch\u00ednh nh\u1edd n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng r\u1eafn ch\u1eafc n\u00e0y (s\u1ef1 C\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng) m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111em l\u00f2ng y\u00eau m\u00ecnh. Qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 gia t\u0103ng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong quan h\u1ec7 y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e3y v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng ch\u00fang nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, nhanh h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: T\u00e1n t\u1ec9nh b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai – Leil Lowndes Gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc \u201cT\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ee3i g\u00ec – T\u0110LG?\u201d trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u201cAi c\u0169ng c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3, em y\u00eau \u1ea1!\u201d Trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tranh c\u00e3i n\u1ea3y l\u1eeda, anh ch\u00e0ng \u2013 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u0169 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u2013 c\u00e1u b\u1eb3n n\u00f3i […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16513","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tam-ly"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16513","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16513"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16513\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16514,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16513\/revisions\/16514"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16513"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16513"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16513"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}