{"id":16610,"date":"2021-12-05T13:41:50","date_gmt":"2021-12-05T06:41:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/post\/?p=16610"},"modified":"2021-12-05T13:41:51","modified_gmt":"2021-12-05T06:41:51","slug":"buc-thu-thu-45-thay-doi-tam-ly-khi-day-thi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/buc-thu-thu-45-thay-doi-tam-ly-khi-day-thi\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u1ee9c th\u01b0 th\u1ee9 45: THAY \u0110\u1ed4I T\u00c2M L\u00dd KHI D\u1eacY TH\u00cc"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: 80 l\u1eddi b\u1ed1 g\u1eedi con trai \u2013 H\u00e1n Tr\u00fac<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Con trai c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>H\u00f4m n\u1ecd con c\u00f9ng anh h\u1ecd \u0111i xem phim v\u1ec1, con li\u00ean t\u1ee5c k\u00eau r\u1eb1ng: \u201cKh\u00f4ng xong r\u1ed3i, kh\u00f4ng xong r\u1ed3i, anh h\u1ecd d\u1ea1o n\u00e0y t\u1ef1 ki\u00eau qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e1ng! C\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 anh \u1ea5y soi l\u1ea1i m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ec9? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e2u m\u00e0 ai nh\u00ecn anh \u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ed9t t\u00ed li\u1ec1n t\u1ef1 hu\u00eanh hoang l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u1ea5y anh \u0111\u1eb9p n\u00ean m\u1edbi nh\u00ecn\u2026 Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y anh \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ebf \u0111\u00e2u\u201d. Ha ha, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 h\u00f4m nay b\u1ed1 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con \u2013 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00e2m l\u00fd trong tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Trong \u0111\u1eddi m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 hai l\u1ea7n t\u1ef1 \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea3y v\u1ecdt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. L\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 khi ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea7m 1 \u2013 3 tu\u1ed5i, c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00fac \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch d\u00f9ng c\u00e1i \u201ct\u00f4i\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u00ecnh, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1ea3y v\u1ecdt v\u1ec1 \u201cch\u1ea5t\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m \u201ct\u00f4i\u201d l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u1ea7n nh\u1ea3y v\u1ecdt th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sau khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec, c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1ea3y v\u1ecdt, nhanh ch\u00f3ng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng ri\u00eang v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u1edbng m\u1ea1o. S\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed9t ng\u1ed9t v\u1ec1 sinh l\u00fd n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn cho c\u00e1c con v\u1eeba c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u01a1 h\u1ed3, b\u1ea5t an song song v\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u00e1c con m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa l\u1ea1i h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i t\u00f4i \u2013 c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y s\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n. \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ea3y v\u1ecdt l\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 hai c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i \u201ct\u00f4i\u201d trong tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec, c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ti\u00eau ch\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c con.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>V\u1eady nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00e2m l\u00fd n\u00e0y b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u bi\u1ebft t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 xung quanh, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, t\u1ef1 th\u1ec3 nghi\u1ec7m, t\u1ef1 kh\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebf\u2026 T\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 t\u00ednh n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t trong \u00fd th\u1ee9c con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1edfi v\u00ec n\u1ebfu bi\u1ebft t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi c\u00f3 l\u00fd t\u00ednh, c\u00f3 ch\u1ee7 ki\u1ebfn, bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m g\u00ec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Suy ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngay t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tay ph\u1ea3i, tay tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i ch\u01b0a l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a b\u00ean tr\u00e1i b\u00ean ph\u1ea3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111i\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u00ean tr\u00e1i v\u00e0 b\u00ean ph\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec t\u01b0 duy l\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0m trung t\u00e2m l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n, tuy nhi\u00ean v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t n\u00f3 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t so v\u1edbi th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u. \u0110\u1ebfn giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y, c\u00e1c con \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u00fd th\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi kh\u00e1ch quan, \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 suy x\u00e9t \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1c con v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u1eadp trung ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1eadp trung ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, trong ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c t\u01b0 duy t\u00f4i l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m, nh\u1eefng thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean \u0111ang trong tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec th\u01b0\u1eddng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u01b0: r\u1ea5t ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n cho r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng \u0111ang r\u1ea5t quan t\u00e2m ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi c\u1eed ch\u1ec9, ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u1ea5y, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00e1n gi\u1ea3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c m\u00ecnh h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t s\u00e2n kh\u1ea5u l\u1edbn, m\u1ed7i gi\u00e2y m\u1ed7i ph\u00fat \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 h\u00e0ng ch\u1ee5c con m\u1eaft d\u00f5i theo, nh\u1ea5t c\u1eed nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta x\u00ec x\u00e0o \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 t\u00e1n th\u01b0\u1edfng, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 h\u00e2m m\u1ed9, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 ch\u1ebf gi\u1ec5u\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 anh h\u1ecd con v\u1eady, th\u1eadt ra c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0a m\u1eaft nh\u00ecn anh \u1ea5y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 khi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u00ecn anh \u1ea5y nh\u01b0ng anh \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i cho r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111ang nh\u00ecn m\u00ecnh, \u0111ang ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh n\u00ean c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb9p trai n\u00ean m\u1edbi c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1eady. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0, t\u1eeb trong s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m tr\u00e1i tim c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec h\u1ecd &#8211; nh\u1eefng thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean \u0111ang trong tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec \u1ea5y &#8211; l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng mong mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 hy v\u1ecdng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m, ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u0169ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng coi tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00ec v\u1eady m\u1edbi th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ra nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00e1n gi\u1ea3 \u1ea3o \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1eady.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y, anh h\u1ecd con \u201ct\u1ef1 ki\u00eau\u201d l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u1ec1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec. N\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eebng m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, con c\u0169ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u201ct\u1ef1 ki\u00eau\u201d nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u1ea5y ch\u1ee9\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>B\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a con.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: 80 l\u1eddi b\u1ed1 g\u1eedi con trai \u2013 H\u00e1n Tr\u00fac Con trai c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1: H\u00f4m n\u1ecd con c\u00f9ng anh h\u1ecd \u0111i xem phim v\u1ec1, con li\u00ean t\u1ee5c k\u00eau r\u1eb1ng: \u201cKh\u00f4ng xong r\u1ed3i, kh\u00f4ng xong r\u1ed3i, anh h\u1ecd d\u1ea1o n\u00e0y t\u1ef1 ki\u00eau qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e1ng! 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