{"id":16638,"date":"2021-12-05T13:43:38","date_gmt":"2021-12-05T06:43:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/post\/?p=16638"},"modified":"2021-12-05T13:43:39","modified_gmt":"2021-12-05T06:43:39","slug":"buc-thu-thu-59-do-co-phai-la-yeu-som-khong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/buc-thu-thu-59-do-co-phai-la-yeu-som-khong\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u1ee9c th\u01b0 th\u1ee9 59: \u0110\u00d3 C\u00d3 PH\u1ea2I L\u00c0 Y\u00caU S\u1edaM KH\u00d4NG?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: 80 l\u1eddi b\u1ed1 g\u1eedi con trai \u2013 H\u00e1n Tr\u00fac<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Con trai c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Con h\u1ecfi b\u1ed1, tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p b\u1ea1n B\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u201cy\u00eau s\u1edbm\u201d kh\u00f4ng? B\u1ed7ng nhi\u00ean b\u1ed1 th\u1ea5y tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean c\u00e1c con n\u00ean hi\u1ec3u th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 \u201cy\u00eau s\u1edbm\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1ebf n\u00e0y c\u00e1c con nh\u00e9, trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t d\u1ee5c t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 sinh l\u00fd t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, b\u1ea5t lu\u1eadn l\u00e0 con trai hay con g\u00e1i th\u00ec \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u00ec th\u1ebf n\u00ean m\u1edbi n\u1ea3y sinh s\u1ef1 hi\u1ebfu k\u1ef3, mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 th\u1eed c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng ng\u1ed9 nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 y\u00eau m\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cy\u00eau\u201d. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1i \u201ct\u00ecnh y\u00eau\u201d \u1ea5y m\u00e3i m\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u201ct\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh\u201d con trai nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cho d\u00f9 x\u00e9t t\u1eeb g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00e0o th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 vi\u1ec7c \u201cy\u00eau s\u1edbm\u201d. Ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb l\u00fd do \u201cy\u00eau s\u1edbm\u201d s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp<\/a> th\u00ec l\u00fd do quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1c con c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn th\u00ec h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u201cch\u00e0ng b\u1ea1ch m\u00e3 ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cn\u00e0ng c\u00f4ng ch\u00faa\u201d trong l\u00f2ng c\u00e1c con s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n thay \u0111\u1ed5i. C\u00f3 nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea, y\u00eau s\u1edbm g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft c\u1ee5c nh\u01b0 \u00fd. Con th\u1eed ngh\u0129 m\u00e0 xem, t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf cho \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1edd, con \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng r\u1ea5t th\u00edch m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ed3 n\u00e0o ch\u01b0a? Con th\u00edch n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao l\u00e2u th\u00ec ch\u00e1n? C\u00f4 b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i m\u00e0 h\u00f4m nay con v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng th\u00edch, v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng y\u00eau m\u1ebfn th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u00e0y mai th\u00f4i v\u00ec m\u1ed9t hay nhi\u1ec1u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f4 b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 \u201cr\u1eafc r\u1ed1i, phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c\u201d trong m\u1eaft con. M\u00e0 con g\u00e1i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, c\u0169ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng y\u00eau th\u00edch, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd b\u1ed7ng nhi\u00ean th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i c\u1eadu con trai m\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y t\u1eebng th\u00edch v\u00ec ch\u01a1i b\u00f3ng r\u1ed5 r\u1ea5t c\u1eeb \u1ea5y sao m\u00e0 hay n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i, c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac th\u1eadt v\u00f4 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, \u0111\u00fang th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh th\u00edch. T\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1edfi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c con c\u00f2n \u0111ang trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n v\u00e0 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c con v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i d\u1eabn t\u1edbi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 y\u00eau gh\u00e9t c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c con c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb thay \u0111\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean c\u0169ng c\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p v\u1ed1n d\u0129 con trai, con g\u00e1i \u1edf c\u1ea1nh nhau ch\u1eb3ng qua c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 v\u00ec n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201cnh\u00ecn \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ecbch\u201d nh\u01b0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 hay th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 hi\u1ec3u nh\u1ea7m, ch\u1ee5p m\u0169 hay b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1m b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft n\u1eeda v\u1eddi th\u1ed5i ph\u1ed3ng, b\u00e0n t\u00e1n khi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c con c\u00f3 \u00e1m th\u1ecb \u201ct\u00f4i \u0111ang y\u00eau, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111ang y\u00eau nhau!\u201d. Ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch c\u1ea5m \u0111o\u00e1n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc g\u00e1n gh\u00e9p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u0111\u00e3 k\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng m\u00e0 “l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3 th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt”.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00ec th\u1ebf cho n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean v\u1ed9i v\u00e3 ch\u1ee5p m\u0169 \u201cy\u00eau s\u1edbm\u201d l\u00ean b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai. C\u00e1c th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch con em, c\u00e1c con c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u00f9ng c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 g\u00e1n gh\u00e9p b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc. C\u00f2n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n B\u1eb1ng c\u1ee7a con th\u00ec n\u00ean b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, xem c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng ho\u1eb7c ng\u1ed9 nh\u1eadn kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ed1 ch\u1ec9 ra v\u00e0i \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u1ebf th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a con.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: 80 l\u1eddi b\u1ed1 g\u1eedi con trai \u2013 H\u00e1n Tr\u00fac Con trai c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1: Con h\u1ecfi b\u1ed1, tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p b\u1ea1n B\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u201cy\u00eau s\u1edbm\u201d kh\u00f4ng? B\u1ed7ng nhi\u00ean b\u1ed1 th\u1ea5y tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean c\u00e1c con n\u00ean hi\u1ec3u th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 \u201cy\u00eau s\u1edbm\u201d. Th\u1ebf n\u00e0y c\u00e1c con nh\u00e9, trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t d\u1ee5c […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16638","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tam-ly"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16638","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16638"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16638\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16639,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16638\/revisions\/16639"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16638"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16638"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16638"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}