T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: 80 l\u1eddi b\u1ed1 g\u1eedi con trai \u2013 H\u00e1n Tr\u00fac<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Con trai c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hai t\u1eeb \u201ct\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng\u201d n\u00e0y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn con kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y xa l\u1ea1 ch\u1ee9? B\u1edfi v\u00ec m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang l\u1edbn l\u00ean nh\u01b0 con s\u1ebd v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng hy v\u1ecdng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, \u0111\u1ed5i l\u1ea1i v\u1ecb tr\u00ed m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, con c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c – ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ea5y con trai nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 con mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng con th\u00ec con nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta. Cho d\u00f9 c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn, \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 kh\u00e1ch quan kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau, v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ee9ng \u1edf nh\u1eefng g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9, v\u1ecb tr\u00ed kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau, l\u1ee3i \u00edch kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau, t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n x\u1eed th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau n\u00ean g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 suy x\u00e9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau, r\u00fat ra nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau, l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau\u2026 V\u00ec th\u1ebf, tr\u00ean c\u01a1 s\u1edf kh\u00f4ng \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc, l\u00e0m tr\u00e1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng chu\u1ea9n t\u1eafc l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng suy ngh\u0129, \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c con soi g\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y v\u1eady – khi con c\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf trong g\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u01b0\u1eddi; khi con cau m\u00e0y – ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf trong c\u0169ng cau m\u00e0y; con la h\u00e9t v\u1edbi c\u00e1i g\u01b0\u01a1ng, th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong g\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u0169ng la h\u00e9t l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi con. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u1edf ph\u1ea1m vi nh\u1ecf th\u00ec l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf c\u00f9ng nhau, c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean trong c\u01a1 quan \u0111o\u00e0n th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng nhau l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, c\u00f9ng nhau h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c, c\u00f2n \u1edf ph\u1ea1m vi l\u1edbn ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i b\u00ecnh an, qu\u1ed1c gia ph\u1ed3n vinh\u2026 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 l\u1eabn nhau. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m. V\u1eady th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb tr\u00ed th\u00edch \u0111\u00e1ng, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 suy ngh\u0129, t\u00ecm ra nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa ho\u1eb7c t\u00ecm ra nh\u1eefng \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp<\/a> theo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Th\u1ee9 hai, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t, l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean g\u00e2y kh\u00f3 d\u1ec5 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n th\u00ec r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Th\u1ee9 ba, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c l\u1eafng nghe. Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111ang ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u1eaft ngang l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd cho d\u00f9 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee3i cho h\u1ecd n\u00f3i xong r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3t m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i l\u00ean quan \u0111i\u1ec3m, \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, sau \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi c\u00f9ng nhau b\u00e0n lu\u1eadn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Th\u1ee9 t\u01b0, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb, quy\u1ec1n th\u1ebf v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn ti\u1ec1n t\u00e0i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta, cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 hay tr\u1ebb con, hay nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u00f9ng trang l\u1ee9a, cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 ch\u00ed c\u1ed1t hay ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1ch qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nhau, ph\u1ea3i t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng h\u1ecd nh\u01b0 nhau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n