T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: 80 l\u1eddi b\u1ed1 g\u1eedi con trai \u2013 H\u00e1n Tr\u00fac<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Con trai c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00f2n nh\u1edb c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n con v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n B\u1eb1ng c\u00e3i nhau, sau chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 con \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i gi\u1ea3ng h\u00f2a c\u00f9ng c\u1eadu \u1ea5y, nh\u01b0ng B\u1eb1ng v\u1eabn v\u00f9ng v\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn. Con \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef n\u00f3i: \u201cCh\u00e1n ph\u00e8o, \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3 nh\u1ecf m\u1ecdn, ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat n\u00e0o c\u1ea3!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt, khoan dung \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u1edf con trai. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ee5ng d\u1ea1 h\u1eb9p h\u00f2i, kh\u00f4ng khoan dung \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u0169ng t\u00ednh t\u00ednh to\u00e1n to\u00e1n, keo ki\u1ec7t b\u1ee7n x\u1ec9n th\u00ec th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
K\u1ef3 th\u1ef1c, m\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac h\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, khoan dung v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111ang \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed khoan dung v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1eef cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, khoan dung c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00f3a gi\u1ea3i m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn khoan dung \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t h\u00f4m, Goethe \u0111i d\u1ea1o trong c\u00f4ng vi\u00ean g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng. L\u1ea7n n\u00e0y ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a Goethe n\u00f3i r\u1ea5t to: \u201cT\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ebfn nay t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd nh\u01b0\u1eddng b\u01b0\u1edbc cho k\u1ebb ng\u1ed1c!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Goethe li\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e1p: \u201cC\u0169ng may l\u00e0 t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i\u201d. R\u1ed3i v\u1eeba n\u00f3i v\u1eeba m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi b\u01b0\u1edbc sang m\u1ed9t b\u00ean.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Goethe \u0111\u00e3 d\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c v\u1eeba h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1eeba khoan dung \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tranh c\u00e3i v\u00f4 v\u1ecb, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n n\u00ean s\u1ef1 nh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u1ee5c ng\u1eef c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e2u, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n: \u201cM\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecbn b\u1eb1ng ch\u00edn \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0nh\u201d, \u201cD\u0129 h\u00f2a vi qu\u00fd\u201d\u2026 Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb ch\u1ecbu thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i, l\u00e0 nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ed9, nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt ra n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng khoan dung \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Khoan dung \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 tu d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 kh\u00ed ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Mu\u1ed1n khoan dung \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i \u0111i\u1ec3m sau:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t: ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch bi\u1ebft ho\u00e1n \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ecb tr\u00ed. Ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u00ean l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 suy x\u00e9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, th\u1eed tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu thi\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ec1 bao nhi\u00eau, v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 h\u00f2a b\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd gi\u00fap cho tim con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian r\u1ed9ng m\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 bao dung \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Th\u1ee9 hai: h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch qu\u00ean. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m, ai c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, h\u00e3y th\u1eed qu\u00ean \u0111i nh\u1eefng th\u1ecb phi, \u0111\u00fang sai \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1eddi gian l\u00e0m thu\u1ed1c gi\u1ea3m \u0111au, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00eam nhi\u1ec1u \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng, nhi\u1ec1u ni\u1ec1m vui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Th\u1ee9 ba: Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean t\u00ednh to\u00e1n. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5p m\u1ecdi sai l\u1ea7m, thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, canh c\u00e1nh trong l\u00f2ng s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 g\u00e1nh th\u00eam m\u1ed9t g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng tr\u00ean l\u01b0ng, h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf t\u01b0 duy c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Th\u1ee9 t\u01b0: Khoan dung c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i. S\u1ef1 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh th\u01b0\u1eddng khi\u1ebfn cho con \u0111au l\u00f2ng, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng tranh lu\u1eadn, bi\u1ec7n lu\u1eadn ho\u1eb7c \u201cph\u1ea3n ph\u00e1o\u201d l\u1ea1i s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng kh\u1eafc s\u00e2u th\u00eam s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m, m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn \u0111\u00f3. H\u00e3y th\u1eed t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, t\u00ecm ra ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 giao l\u01b0u, quy\u1ec1n ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd s\u1ebd n\u1eb1m trong tay c\u1ee7a con, v\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u1ed5n th\u1ecfa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u00e0 con n\u00ean nh\u1edb, mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u1edf xung quanh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9, kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1i tim khoan dung \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 cho con trai n\u00e2ng cao ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea5y con trai \u1ea1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
B\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a con.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: 80 l\u1eddi b\u1ed1 g\u1eedi con trai \u2013 H\u00e1n Tr\u00fac Con trai c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1: C\u00f2n nh\u1edb c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n con v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n B\u1eb1ng c\u00e3i nhau, sau chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 con \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i gi\u1ea3ng h\u00f2a c\u00f9ng c\u1eadu \u1ea5y, nh\u01b0ng B\u1eb1ng v\u1eabn v\u00f9ng v\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn. Con \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef n\u00f3i: \u201cCh\u00e1n ph\u00e8o, \u0111\u00fang […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16676","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tam-ly"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16676","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16676"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16676\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16677,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16676\/revisions\/16677"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16676"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16676"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16676"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}