T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: 80 l\u1eddi m\u1eb9 g\u1eedi con g\u00e1i \u2013 T\u1eeb Ninh<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Minh Anh th\u00e2n y\u00eau;<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ee9c th\u01b0 h\u00f4m tr\u01b0\u1edbc, con n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u201cqua loa cho xong chuy\u1ec7n\u201d, c\u00f2n nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng: \u201cN\u1ebfu con y\u00eau s\u1edbm, m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?” v\u00e0 c\u00f2n khi\u00eau kh\u00edch: \u201c\u0110\u00e2y ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 n\u1ed7i lo s\u1ee3 l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 hay sao?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i, vi\u1ec7c xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u01a1 h\u1ed3 v\u1ec1 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh trong tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 trong s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a con c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n nam n\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec3n trai, h\u00e0o ph\u00f3ng, c\u1edfi m\u1edf, r\u1ea5t thu h\u00fat con; khi\u1ebfn con n\u1ea3y sinh thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m, th\u1ea5y l\u01b0u luy\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng l\u00fac \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi nhau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng kinh ng\u1ea1c c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nh\u01b0ng m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i hi v\u1ecdng con kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng n\u00f3i ra t\u1eeb \u201cy\u00eau\u201d s\u1edbm, b\u1edfi v\u00ec s\u1ef1 thu h\u00fat l\u1eabn nhau v\u00e0 thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m l\u00fac n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201ct\u00ecnh y\u00eau\u201d. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i r\u00f5 v\u1edbi con r\u1eb1ng, \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng t\u00e1n \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c c\u00e1c con \u201cb\u1eaft tay h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng”, s\u1edbm t\u00ecm ra m\u1ed9t b\u1ea1ch m\u00e3 ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau. Ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh m\u00e0 c\u00e1c con cho r\u1eb1ng l\u00e0 \u201cc\u00e2u c\u1eeda mi\u1ec7ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn\u201d, m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh d\u1ea7n v\u1ec1 tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c, ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1ch m\u00e3 ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Khi c\u00e1c con v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a ch\u00edn mu\u1ed3i, c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cy\u00eau\u201d ch\u1ec9 mang l\u1ea1i t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho c\u00e1c con m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi trong \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec th\u01b0\u1eddng mang l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o, h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng t\u00e2m l\u00ed h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi con g\u00e1i d\u1eady th\u00ec s\u1edbm h\u01a1n con trai, m\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m nh\u1eefng thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m s\u01a1 khai l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. B\u1edfi v\u00ec \u0111ang \u1edf trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00e2m sinh l\u00ed, n\u00ean c\u1ea3 con trai v\u00e0 con g\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa hai gi\u1edbi. Xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 hi\u1ebfu k\u00ec, mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft t\u00ecnh y\u00eau gi\u1eefa hai gi\u1edbi r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c l\u00e0 g\u00ec n\u00ean c\u00e1c con kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ham mu\u1ed1n \u201cth\u1eed n\u1ebfm m\u00f9i y\u00eau\u201d m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00f2n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa. V\u1ed1n d\u0129 con trai v\u00e0 con g\u00e1i ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi nhau l\u00e0 v\u00ec n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i “h\u1ee3p c\u1ea1”, c\u00f3 s\u1edf th\u00edch v\u00e0 \u0111am m\u00ea gi\u1ed1ng nhau (th\u1ef1c ra \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111a s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y) nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb c\u00e1c \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u1edf tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i \u201cc\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng th\u1ea7n kinh\u201d v\u00e0 th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m, t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch ng\u0103n c\u1ea5m, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecb c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng l\u1edbp (c\u0169ng \u1edf trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i m\u01a1 h\u1ed3) b\u00e0n t\u00e1n, b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn, \u0111\u1ed3n th\u1ed5i th\u00e0nh quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u201cT\u00f4i \u0111ang y\u00eau, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111ang y\u00eau nhau\u201d. \u0110\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh b\u1ecb b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 hay th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n, hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ea3i qua l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nhau theo c\u00e1ch \u201cng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m\u201d, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u00e0ng khi\u1ebfn cho chuy\u1ec7n y\u00eau s\u1edbm tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u00ed \u1ea9n; m\u00e0 sau khi b\u1ecb ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc, t\u00e2m l\u00ed ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i c\u00e0ng th\u00eam m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft h\u01a1n. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n v\u00ec sao m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb \u201cy\u00eau\u201d m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nh\u01b0ng, c\u00f3 nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00ed h\u1ecdc t\u1eebng l\u00e0m th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea, y\u00eau qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm th\u01b0\u1eddng \u00edt khi mang l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3. H\u00e3y th\u1eed nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i xem t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1edd, con \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng r\u1ea5t th\u00edch th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, sau \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian th\u00ec b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ea5t h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1edbi v\u1eadt \u0111\u00f3 ch\u01b0a? \u0110\u00e3 t\u1eebng c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n nam n\u00e0o v\u00ec v\u1ebd \u0111\u1eb9p, ch\u1ea1y nhanh m\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y r\u1ea5t tuy\u1ec7t, nh\u01b0ng v\u1ec1 sau con l\u1ea1i ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y c\u00f2n n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i, nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t v\u00f4 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m ch\u01b0a? \u0110\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd con t\u1eebng r\u1ea5t m\u1ebfn m\u1ed9 m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4i sao, nh\u01b0ng qua m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y con m\u1eaft th\u1ea9m m\u1ef9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u1eadt n\u1ef1c c\u01b0\u1eddi, th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u1ed5i ch\u01b0a? Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 c\u00f3. T\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1edfi v\u00ec kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con \u0111ang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt c\u1ee7a con s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y; quan \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1i sai, nh\u00e2n sinh quan c\u1ee7a con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n, tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt; s\u1ef1 s\u00e0ng l\u1ecdc v\u00e0 s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a con c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00f2n m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p trong c\u00e1c b\u1ed9 phim truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00e1c c\u00f4 g\u00e1i tr\u1ebb \u0111em l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o, g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201ct\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Con g\u00e1i d\u1eady th\u00ec s\u1edbm v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh s\u1edbm h\u01a1n con trai, \u1edf trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n t\u00e2m l\u00ed v\u1ec1 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh manh nha ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, s\u1ef1 quan s\u00e1t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn t\u00e2m l\u00ed c\u1ee7a con g\u00e1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i tinh t\u1ebf, th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m r\u1ea5t phong ph\u00fa. V\u00ec v\u1eady, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh tu\u1ea5n t\u00fa, c\u00f3 l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, c\u00f3 c\u00e1 t\u00ednh, c\u01b0 x\u1eed \u0111i\u1ec1m \u0111\u1ea1m, \u0111\u1ea7y kinh nghi\u1ec7m\u2026 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i t\u00f3m l\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng hai t\u1eeb \u201ctr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh\u201d – \u0111\u00e2y l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n nam c\u00f9ng l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, d\u1ec5 thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 m\u1ebfn m\u1ed9, s\u00f9ng b\u00e1i, k\u00ednh n\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a con g\u00e1i, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 n\u1ea3y sinh t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. Nh\u01b0ng kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c, t\u00e2m l\u00ed v\u00e0 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 th\u01b0\u1eddng khi\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 s\u00f9ng b\u00e1i c\u1ee7a con g\u00e1i mang theo s\u1ef1 k\u00ednh n\u1ec3, \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean v\u00e0o v\u1ecb tr\u00ed kh\u00f4ng b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng. Khi con g\u00e1i d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 s\u00f9ng b\u00e1i l\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng tr\u1ebb con v\u00e0 n\u1ef1c c\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u00ec v\u1eady, m\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n con hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng, nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p m\u1eb9 li\u1ec7t k\u00ea tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00e0 l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c con t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Khi c\u00e1c con c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 g\u00ec, \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng n\u00f3i ra t\u1eeb n\u00e0y, c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean v\u00ec th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u01a1 h\u1ed3 n\u00e0y m\u00e0 l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed tu\u1ed5i xu\u00e2n, \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u201cL\u00fac c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau\u201d c\u0169ng c\u00f3 v\u00e0i ph\u1ea7n tri\u1ebft l\u00ed \u0111\u1ea5y con \u1ea1!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: 80 l\u1eddi m\u1eb9 g\u1eedi con g\u00e1i \u2013 T\u1eeb Ninh Minh Anh th\u00e2n y\u00eau; Nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ee9c th\u01b0 h\u00f4m tr\u01b0\u1edbc, con n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u201cqua loa cho xong chuy\u1ec7n\u201d, c\u00f2n nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng: \u201cN\u1ebfu con y\u00eau s\u1edbm, m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?” v\u00e0 c\u00f2n khi\u00eau kh\u00edch: […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16798","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tam-ly"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16798","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16798"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16798\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16799,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16798\/revisions\/16799"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16798"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16798"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16798"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}