T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: 80 l\u1eddi m\u1eb9 g\u1eedi con g\u00e1i \u2013 T\u1eeb Ninh<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Minh Anh th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
H\u00f4m qua, sau khi t\u1eeb nh\u00e0 b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i v\u1ec1, con h\u1ecfi m\u1eb9 v\u1edbi v\u1ebb m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ea7y b\u00ed \u1ea9n: \u201cM\u1eb9 \u01a1i, m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft anh Th\u1ee5y \u1edf c\u1ea1nh nh\u00e0 b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng? Ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1i anh l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc c\u00f9ng l\u1edbp v\u1edbi ch\u1ecb Lan \u1ea5y? Ch\u1ecb Lan n\u00f3i th\u1ea7m v\u1edbi con r\u1eb1ng, anh Th\u1ee5y th\u01b0\u1eddng vi\u1ebft th\u01b0 cho ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y, mu\u1ed1n h\u1eb9n ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y ra ngo\u00e0i ch\u01a1i. Hi hi, ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 n\u00ean \u0111i hay kh\u00f4ng, c\u0169ng “h\u01a1i” mu\u1ed1n \u0111i, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng h\u01a1i lo l\u1eafng, c\u00f2n b\u1ea3o con gi\u00fap ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y ngh\u0129 c\u00e1ch n\u1eefa\u2026. M\u1eb9 \u00e0, m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n. S\u1ef1 giao l\u01b0u gi\u1eefa con trai v\u00e0 con g\u00e1i l\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00e2m l\u00ed tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec. Gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u00f9ng trang l\u1ee9a th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u s\u1edf th\u00edch, \u0111am m\u00ea t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng chung ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nhau. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh giao l\u01b0u t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y, con trai v\u00e0 con g\u00e1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nhau, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch khoan dung, nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn, h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3, h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, gi\u00fap qu\u00ean \u0111i nh\u1eefng phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o trong h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd, r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng vui m\u1eebng. Khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n v\u00e0 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng \u0111\u00e1ng qu\u00fd trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00e2m l\u00ed, t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0ng \u1edf l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean, c\u00e1c con v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t th\u1ecb phi, \u0111\u00fang sai, v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0ng sau khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o giai \u0111o\u1ea1n d\u1eady th\u00ec, do s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00e2m l\u00ed gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh, c\u00e1c c\u00f4 b\u00e9, c\u1eadu b\u00e9 th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u giao l\u01b0u, chia s\u1ebb c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t r\u1ea5t t\u00f2 m\u00f2 v\u00e0 kh\u00e1t khao m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c giao l\u01b0u v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi, nhi\u1ec1u khi kh\u00f3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng rung \u0111\u1ed9ng, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00ean g\u00e2y ra “chuy\u1ec7n d\u1ea1i d\u1ed9t”. V\u00ec v\u1eady, m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c c\u00f4 b\u00e9, c\u1eadu b\u00e9 \u1edf trong \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec, t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n h\u1ebft l\u00e0 tham gia c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eadp th\u1ec3, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c tr\u00e1nh g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 ri\u00eang t\u01b0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00f2n v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ecb Lan nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u01b0 (c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 coi l\u00e0 th\u01b0 t\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng?), c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n trai mu\u1ed1n h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 v\u1edbi ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean hoang mang, lo l\u1eafng, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean d\u1eedng d\u01b0ng, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfm x\u1ec9a. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m m\u01a1 h\u1ed3 gi\u1eefa con trai, con g\u00e1i v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft v\u00e0 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 chuy\u1ec7n y\u00eau s\u1edbm, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn c\u1ea7n tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, b\u1ea3o ch\u1ecb Lan kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9 th\u00f4ng tin n\u00e0y cho c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c bi\u1ebft, l\u00e0m cho c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ai ai c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, khi\u1ebfn cho c\u1eadu b\u00e9 kia b\u1ecb ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh. C\u1ea3 hai c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 trong c\u1ee7a c\u1eadu \u1ea5y, h\u01a1n n\u1eefa c\u00f2n g\u00e2y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfm x\u1ec9a \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1eadu \u1ea5y, kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi h\u1eb9n h\u00f2, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng g\u1eedi th\u01b0 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1eadu ta, tuy nhi\u00ean c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m m\u1eb7t l\u1ea1nh hay c\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1ea1o c\u1eadu ta, c\u1ee9 coi nh\u01b0 chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y ch\u01b0a h\u1ec1 x\u1ea3y ra v\u1eady. L\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh l\u1ea1i, c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian suy ngh\u0129 k\u0129 c\u00e0ng, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1eadu ta s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u ra t\u00e2m \u00fd c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn h\u1ee3p l\u00ed. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 c\u1eadu ta v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu hi\u1ec3u, v\u1eady th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i nghi\u00eam t\u00fac nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 r\u1ed3i. C\u00e1c con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh n\u00f3i r\u00f5 ho\u1eb7c vi\u1ebft cho c\u1eadu ta m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c th\u01b0, bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ea1t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec1n h\u00f2a, kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o nh\u01b0ng ki\u00ean quy\u1ebft, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f4i th\u00f4i, d\u00e0i d\u00f2ng. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ch\u00e0ng trai s\u1ebd v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u201c\u0111eo b\u00e1m\u201d, v\u1eady th\u00ec c\u00e1c con c\u1ea7n nghi\u00eam ngh\u1ecb c\u1ea3nh c\u00e1o c\u1eadu ta, y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1eadu ta t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t ngay h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y; khi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1edd b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 hay th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ee9ng ra h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, m\u1eb9 khuy\u00ean con n\u00ean n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u1ecb Lan r\u1eb1ng: n\u00ean n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecbnh, b\u1ea3o m\u1eb9 ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y ch\u1edb n\u00ean can thi\u1ec7p, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e1c \u1ea5y bi\u1ebft. M\u1eb9 v\u1eabn mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i th\u00eam v\u00e0i c\u00e2u, m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e2m \u201ct\u00e1m ch\u1eef\u201d \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t trong vi\u1ec7c qua l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi con trai nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: \u201cNhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh, c\u1edfi m\u1edf, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Trong tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec, cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 con trai hay con g\u00e1i th\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. Trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c qu\u00e1 l\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea1t s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m m\u00ecnh xem th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta; n\u1ebfu c\u1ed1 \u00fd l\u00e0m b\u1ed9 l\u00e0m t\u1ecbch s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y con gi\u1ea3 t\u1ea1o, kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh; n\u1ebfu th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ra s\u1ef1 ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o, th\u1edd \u01a1, d\u1eedng d\u01b0ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ef1 nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, khi\u1ebfn cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng xa l\u00e1nh con h\u01a1n. Nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh, ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, c\u1edfi m\u1edf, t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ec3 giao l\u01b0u v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n. Ngo\u00e0i ra, h\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean t\u00f9y ti\u1ec7n b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1ea1o di\u1ec7n m\u1ea1o, c\u00e1ch \u0103n m\u1eb7c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c; kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean coi th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp<\/a> c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc, kh\u00f4ng t\u00f9y ti\u1ec7n \u0111\u1eb7t bi\u1ec7t danh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c\u2026. Con ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng, trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 giao l\u01b0u v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u1ec9 khi con t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng g\u1ea5p b\u1ed9i t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n M\u1eb9<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: 80 l\u1eddi m\u1eb9 g\u1eedi con g\u00e1i \u2013 T\u1eeb Ninh Minh Anh th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn: H\u00f4m qua, sau khi t\u1eeb nh\u00e0 b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i v\u1ec1, con h\u1ecfi m\u1eb9 v\u1edbi v\u1ebb m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ea7y b\u00ed \u1ea9n: \u201cM\u1eb9 \u01a1i, m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft anh Th\u1ee5y \u1edf c\u1ea1nh nh\u00e0 b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng? Ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1i anh l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16802","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tam-ly"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16802","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16802"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16802\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16803,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16802\/revisions\/16803"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16802"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16802"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16802"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}