T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: 80 l\u1eddi m\u1eb9 g\u1eedi con g\u00e1i \u2013 T\u1eeb Ninh<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Minh Anh th\u00e2n y\u00eau:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
H\u00f4m nay, m\u1eb9 v\u1eabn mu\u1ed1n k\u1ec3 cho con nghe th\u00eam m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00f3 hai anh em nh\u00e0 n\u1ecd, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ef1c k\u00ec l\u1ea1c quan, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng bi quan. M\u1ed9t h\u00f4m, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u1ecd ch\u1ee3t n\u1ea3y ra \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0m cho t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a hai anh em thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1ed1t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 l\u1ea1c quan v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea7y ph\u00e2n ng\u1ef1a v\u00e0 nh\u1ed1t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 bi quan v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng sau, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111i v\u00e0o c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a c\u1eadu b\u00e9 bi quan th\u00ec ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra c\u1eadu b\u00e9 \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i thu lu trong g\u00f3c, n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u0169i t\u00e8m lem. H\u00f3a ra, do b\u1ea5t c\u1ea9n c\u1eadu b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m h\u1ecfng \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i v\u00e0 \u0111ang r\u1ea5t s\u1ee3 s\u1ebd b\u1ecb b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 tr\u00e1ch m\u1eafng. Khi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111i v\u00e0o c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng c\u00f3 c\u1eadu b\u00e9 l\u1ea1c quan, h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y c\u1eadu b\u00e9 \u0111ang h\u00e0o h\u1ee9ng d\u00f9ng x\u1ebbng h\u00f3t ph\u00e2n ng\u1ef1a, d\u1ed3n h\u1ebft v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t g\u00f3c r\u1ea5t s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd. Th\u1ea5y b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o, c\u1eadu b\u00e9 l\u1ea1c quan vui v\u1ebb n\u00f3i: \u201cB\u1ed1, \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y nhi\u1ec1u ph\u00e2n ng\u1ef1a th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, quanh \u0111\u00e2y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t con ng\u1ef1a r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb9p, con ph\u1ea3i d\u1ecdn cho n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7 \u1edf th\u1eadt s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u1eadu b\u00e9 l\u1ea1c quan n\u00e0y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u1ef1u t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng M\u1ef9 Reagan. Ch\u00ednh \u00f4ng t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 \u0111\u01b0a b\u00e1o cho \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t minh tinh Hollywood, \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1c ti\u1ec3u bang v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng M\u1ef9, t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch l\u1ea1c quan \u0111\u00f3ng m\u1ed9t vai tr\u00f2 r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn. L\u1ea1c quan l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch ho\u1eb7c xu h\u01b0\u1edbng, khi\u1ebfn cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1eb7t c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c, k\u00ec v\u1ecdng v\u00e0o k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i. S\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t gi\u1eefa l\u1ea1c quan v\u00e0 bi quan ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u00ed gi\u1ea3i nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea5t l\u1ee3i: Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a l\u1ea1c quan cho r\u1eb1ng, nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i, khi\u1ebfn cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vui v\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u0129nh c\u1eedu, ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u00e9o theo nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh, cho d\u00f9 c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ea5t l\u1ee3i x\u1ea3y ra c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi; c\u00f2n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a bi quan l\u1ea1i cho r\u1eb1ng, chuy\u1ec7n t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi, chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea5u m\u1edbi l\u00e0 v\u0129nh c\u1eedu, khi chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea5u x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn, b\u1ecdn h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n t\u1eeb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, t\u1eeb kh\u00e1ch quan m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5 h\u1ebft l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. X\u00e9t t\u1eeb g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00e2m l\u00ed h\u1ecdc, l\u1ea1c quan kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng s\u1ea3n sinh \u201cch\u1ea5t mi\u1ec5n d\u1ecbch\u201d t\u00e2m l\u00ed tr\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng: nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1c quan lu\u00f4n tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, hi v\u1ecdng, li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u. T\u00ednh c\u00e1ch l\u1ea1c quan l\u00e0 v\u0169 kh\u00ed \u0111\u1eafc l\u1ef1c khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 bi \u0111\u00e1t, b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, \u0111au kh\u1ed5 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. B\u1edfi v\u1eady, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1c quan th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ee9ng tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, c\u00e0ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u0169ng kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi quan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Trong t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 tinh t\u1ebf b\u1ea9m sinh. S\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m sinh l\u00ed trong tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec khi\u1ebfn cho c\u00e1c con kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng b\u1ea5t \u1ed5n v\u00ec m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u01a1 h\u1ed3, u u\u1ea5t, tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e2u, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed n\u1ea3y sinh tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i bi quan. V\u00ec v\u1eady, c\u00e1c con c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c g\u00ecn gi\u1eef t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1edfi m\u1edf, l\u1ea1c quan v\u1ed1n c\u00f3, h\u01a1n n\u1eefa c\u00f2n c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, c\u1ea7n ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng s\u00e1ch b\u00e1o, phim \u1ea3nh l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, th\u00fa v\u1ecb, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, l\u1ea1c quan, l\u00e0m phong ph\u00fa \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tinh th\u1ea7n, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, gi\u00fap t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng th\u0103ng hoa. C\u1ea7n c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 bi quan, t\u1ed1i t\u0103m, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3 g\u00e2y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Th\u1ee9 hai, c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m quen v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, giao l\u01b0u r\u1ed9ng r\u00e3i. Cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4, cha m\u1eb9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn hay b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft (\u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t), khi c\u00f3 t\u00e2m s\u1ef1, g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f3 hay kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, \u0111\u1eebng ng\u1ea1i b\u00e0y t\u1ecf, l\u1eafng nghe \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1eeb m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 c\u1ed5 v\u0169 v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t l\u00ean.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00f2n n\u1eefa, ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch suy ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1c quan. Khi ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, bi quan, t\u1ef1 v\u00f9i d\u1eadp b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, con c\u1ea7n t\u1ef1 tr\u1ea5n an: \u201cKh\u00f4ng sao, s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 qua r\u1ed3i!\u201d, \u201cCh\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec to t\u00e1t c\u1ea3, m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd \u1ed5n th\u00f4i!\u201d Sau khi t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch l\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Ti\u1ebfp n\u1eefa, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n g\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft th\u00edch h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o con c\u00f3 duy tr\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng l\u1ea1c quan trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ea5t l\u1ee3i hay kh\u00f4ng, c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft l\u00ed tr\u00ed ph\u00e2n t\u00edch v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh, n\u1eafm v\u1eefng v\u1eadn m\u1ec7nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n hay kh\u00f4ng? H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u00e0 l\u1ea1c quan l\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t th\u1ee9 ba m\u00e0 con g\u00e1i c\u1ea7n c\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u1eb9<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: 80 l\u1eddi m\u1eb9 g\u1eedi con g\u00e1i \u2013 T\u1eeb Ninh Minh Anh th\u00e2n y\u00eau: H\u00f4m nay, m\u1eb9 v\u1eabn mu\u1ed1n k\u1ec3 cho con nghe th\u00eam m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n: C\u00f3 hai anh em nh\u00e0 n\u1ecd, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ef1c k\u00ec l\u1ea1c quan, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng bi quan. M\u1ed9t h\u00f4m, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u1ecd ch\u1ee3t […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16828","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tam-ly"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16828","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16828"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16828\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16829,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16828\/revisions\/16829"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16828"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16828"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16828"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}