T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: 80 l\u1eddi m\u1eb9 g\u1eedi con g\u00e1i \u2013 T\u1eeb Ninh<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Minh Anh th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn con c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft Edison l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ebfc. M\u00e0 tai \u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ebfc l\u00e0 do l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean l\u00e1i t\u00e0u g\u00e2y ra khi \u00f4ng c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u1ec1 sau, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecfi Edison c\u00f3 h\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e1i t\u00e0u \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn \u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ebfc hay kh\u00f4ng? \u0110i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd l\u00e0 Edison kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c hay s\u1ec9 nh\u1ee5c ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e1i t\u00e0u n\u1ecd, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng mang danh ti\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ra \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e2y kh\u00f3 d\u1ec5 cho \u00f4ng ta. Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea7y h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng minh r\u1eb1ng: \u201cT\u00f4i c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea3m \u01a1n \u00f4ng \u1ea5y m\u1edbi \u0111\u00fang, c\u1ea3m \u01a1n \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng \u1ed3n \u00e0o, khi\u1ebfn cho t\u00f4i to\u00e0n t\u00e2m to\u00e0n \u00fd ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m, ph\u00e1t minh!\u201d. Edison kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 khoan dung \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean l\u00e1i t\u00e0u \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o, ph\u00e1t minh cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 khoan dung: khoan dung v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 thi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e3i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Khoan dung l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh t\u1ed1t, n\u00f3 c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ch\u1ea5t x\u00fac t\u00e1c h\u00f3a gi\u1ea3i m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, x\u00f3a b\u1ecf h\u1eadn th\u00f9, khi\u1ebfn cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00f2a thu\u1eadn, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau h\u01a1n. H\u1eb3n con c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft, c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e2u n\u00f3i ca ng\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh t\u1ed1t n\u00e0y, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0: \u201cL\u00f9i m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y tr\u1eddi cao \u0111\u1ea5t r\u1ed9ng\u201d; \u201cNh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh thu\u1eadn h\u00f2a, \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta t\u00f4n s\u00f9ng\u201d; \u201c\u0110\u00e1nh k\u1ebb ch\u1ea1y \u0111i, kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111\u00e1nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea1y l\u1ea1i\u201d; \u201cCh\u00edn b\u1ecf l\u00e0m m\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Trong m\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t \u0111i\u1ec1u tra m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1c em h\u1ecdc sinh<\/a> ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc, trung h\u1ecdc, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 sau: \u201cKhi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 em gh\u00e9t c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a em, m\u00e0 em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y, em s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y ch\u1ee9?\u201d. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u1edf h\u1ecdc sinh<\/a> ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc, trung h\u1ecdc c\u01a1 s\u1edf v\u00e0 trung h\u1ecdc ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng l\u1ea7n l\u01b0\u1ee3t l\u00e0 59,8%, 41,7% v\u00e0 37%. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201cc\u1ea7u c\u1ee9u\u201d nh\u01b0ng t\u1eeb ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc cho \u0111\u1ebfn trung h\u1ecdc ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng, con s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng gi\u1ea3m d\u1ea7n. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00e1c: \u201cB\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eebng b\u1eaft n\u1ea1t ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea1n s\u00e2u s\u1eafc?\u201d. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 29,9% ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn tha th\u1ee9, g\u1ea7n 24% cho bi\u1ebft kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 ho\u1eb7c tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng tha th\u1ee9, s\u1ed1 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i cho hay s\u1ebd tha th\u1ee9 nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd qu\u00ean.<\/p>\n\n\n\n T\u1eeb b\u1ea3n \u0111i\u1ec1u tra n\u00e0y cho th\u1ea5y, do hi\u1ec7n nay, c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec1u sinh r\u1ea5t \u00edt con v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u con c\u00e1i n\u00ean th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 c\u00e1c con th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 coi m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m, cho d\u00f9 x\u1ea3y ra chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec c\u0169ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ee3i \u00edch v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean; khi th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0m sai \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, th\u01b0\u1eddng thi\u1ebfu \u0111i s\u1ef1 khoan dung, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu bu\u00f4ng tha nh\u1eefng thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00f2n nh\u1edb chuy\u1ec7n l\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc con v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n Dung c\u00e3i nhau kh\u00f4ng? Trong su\u1ed1t hai ng\u00e0y, hai \u0111\u1ee9a con ch\u1eb3ng ai ch\u1ecbu n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ai c\u00e2u n\u00e0o, nh\u01b0ng trong l\u00f2ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, ch\u1eb3ng ai vui v\u1ebb. Nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c con nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n thay cho c\u00e1c con. Khi b\u1ea1n Thanh d\u00f9ng “m\u01b0u” \u0111\u1ec3 hai con n\u00f3i r\u00f5 m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n, c\u00e1c con kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f9ng nhau c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh ti\u1ebft m\u1ee5c bi\u1ec3u di\u1ec5n v\u0103n ngh\u1ec7 \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng. Ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c, nh\u01b0ng con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tha th\u1ee9 cho b\u1ea1n Dung v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh t\u00f9y ti\u1ec7n, b\u1ea1n Dung c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf qua cho con t\u00ednh ngang b\u01b0\u1edbng, l\u1ea1i c\u1ed9ng th\u00eam v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng minh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n Thanh, s\u1ef1 khoan dung gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c con \u0111\u00e3 mang l\u1ea1i cho c\u00e1c con th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 qu\u00ean.<\/p>\n\n\n\n V\u00ec v\u1eady, mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n xung quanh, mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n qu\u00fd b\u00e1u, mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 trong t\u1eadp th\u1ec3, gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u00ec s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3i ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, m\u1edf l\u00f2ng khoan dung, bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n x\u1eed th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Cho n\u00ean, \u0111\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 th\u1eafng thua b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i, khoan dung l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 \u1edf tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9 cao, n\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 kh\u00ed ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u0169ng gi\u00fap con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9, c\u00f3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u1edbi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Khoan dung \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t th\u1ee9 n\u0103m m\u00e0 con g\u00e1i c\u1ea7n c\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n M\u1eb9<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: 80 l\u1eddi m\u1eb9 g\u1eedi con g\u00e1i \u2013 T\u1eeb Ninh Minh Anh th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn: Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn con c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft Edison l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ebfc. M\u00e0 tai \u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ebfc l\u00e0 do l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean l\u00e1i t\u00e0u g\u00e2y ra khi \u00f4ng c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf. 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