{"id":16838,"date":"2021-12-05T14:00:03","date_gmt":"2021-12-05T07:00:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/post\/?p=16838"},"modified":"2021-12-05T14:00:04","modified_gmt":"2021-12-05T07:00:04","slug":"buc-thu-thu-80-yeu-ban-than","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/buc-thu-thu-80-yeu-ban-than\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u1ee9c th\u01b0 th\u1ee9 80 Y\u00caU B\u1ea2N TH\u00c2N"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: 80 l\u1eddi m\u1eb9 g\u1eedi con g\u00e1i \u2013 T\u1eeb Ninh<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Minh Anh th\u00e2n y\u00eau:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u1ede ph\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 b\u00e0n v\u1ec1 l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u00e1i, h\u00f4m nay m\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 y\u00eau b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn. C\u00f2n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 \u00edch k\u1ec9. Th\u1ef1c ra kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady. Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp nhau, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p “anh em song sinh” t\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u1ee3 l\u1eabn nhau. B\u1edfi v\u00ec, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh c\u00f2n s\u1ee9t \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ebb tr\u00e1n, qu\u00fdnh qu\u00e1ng ch\u00e2n tay th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao m\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 (v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u1edf c\u00e1c ph\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc), m\u00e0 c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed5 v\u0169 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tinh th\u1ea7n, \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh t\u1ed1t t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh (trong khi \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea3y ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t \u1edf c\u00e1c l\u00e1 th\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc, c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y r\u1ed3i). Khi con c\u00f3 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i tinh th\u1ea7n t\u1ed1t, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp<\/a> ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, s\u1ed1ng vui t\u01b0\u01a1i th\u00ec con m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, m\u1edbi c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c \u0111em \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 \u1ea5m \u00e1p v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m: Con h\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i \u201cKh\u00f4ng\u201d. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 con s\u1ebd n\u00f3i: \u201c\u1eda, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i tr\u00e1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p, l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u00e1i v\u00e0 khoan dung m\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y con<\/a> tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea5y sao?\u201d. Ha ha, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00e1i \u201cKh\u00f4ng\u201d n\u00e0o c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng c\u00e1i “Kh\u00f4ng” n\u00e0o nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh s\u1ef1 khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng, lo l\u1eafng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 coi nh\u1eb9 \u00fd nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. C\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i khi y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c r\u1ea5t v\u00f4 l\u00ed, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 g\u00e2y tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p, khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00ec th\u1ec3 di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i c\u00f3 v\u1ebb l\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0ng tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, c\u00f2n khi\u1ebfn cho con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00ed v\u1ec1 l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p, l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u00e1i v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee3p l\u00ed, kh\u00f4ng b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng; t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n s\u1ef1 l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p, l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u00e1i v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 th\u1eadt l\u00f2ng. Sau \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch tr\u00e1nh xa nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh xa l\u1ea1, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p tr\u1edf n\u00ean xa c\u00e1ch nhau; trong khi \u0111o,\u00f9 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh v\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eafc d\u0129, kh\u00f4ng cam t\u00e2m n\u00e0y m\u00e0 h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn trong su\u1ed1t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i. X\u00e9t t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c, th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean t\u1eeb b\u1ecf \u00fd mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00f2n \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, khi\u1ebfn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf n\u00ean ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft nghe theo y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, kh\u00f3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng hay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do \u0111\u00f3, l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p, khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u00e2n \u00e1i, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc. Khi con th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c ho\u1eb7c vi\u1ec7c \u1ea5y \u0111i tr\u00e1i v\u1edbi nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng, nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, con n\u00ean h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i \u201cKh\u00f4ng\u201d v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. 1. Trong nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc \u1ee9ng x\u1eed, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p, th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 khoan dung \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 l\u1ee3i \u00edch ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m. 2. Khi y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u1edbi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng, nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, c\u1ea7n d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m d\u00f9ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p th\u00edch h\u1ee3p, l\u1eddi l\u1ebd kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ea1t suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Khi n\u00f3i \u201cKh\u00f4ng\u201d v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i r\u00f5 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u1eb7c th\u1ecfa thu\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eeba ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn th\u00ec c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00ec v\u1eady, ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t th\u1ee9 t\u00e1m m\u00e0 con g\u00e1i c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, con nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: 80 l\u1eddi m\u1eb9 g\u1eedi con g\u00e1i \u2013 T\u1eeb Ninh Minh Anh th\u00e2n y\u00eau: \u1ede ph\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 b\u00e0n v\u1ec1 l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u00e1i, h\u00f4m nay m\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 y\u00eau b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16838","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tam-ly"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16838","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16838"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16838\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16839,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16838\/revisions\/16839"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16838"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16838"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16838"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}