{"id":16845,"date":"2021-12-05T14:16:10","date_gmt":"2021-12-05T07:16:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/post\/?p=16845"},"modified":"2021-12-05T14:16:12","modified_gmt":"2021-12-05T07:16:12","slug":"phan-1-dua-tre-nao-cung-can-theo-phep-tac","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/phan-1-dua-tre-nao-cung-can-theo-phep-tac\/","title":{"rendered":"Ph\u1ea7n 1. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n theo ph\u00e9p t\u1eafc"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c d\u1ea1y con<\/a> h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc \u2013 Annette Kast-Zahn<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong ch\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\u2026 \u279e T\u1ea1i sao g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eabu v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, nh\u01b0ng ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7? \u279e T\u1ea1i sao ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 huynh t\u1eadn t\u00e2m v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd th\u1eadt \u201cr\u1eafc r\u1ed1i\u201d? \u279e B\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc n\u00e0o \u1edf m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i? \u279e Nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i? \u279f \u201cGi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eabu v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng\u201d – li\u1ec7u \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee7?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u201cc\u00f4ng c\u1ee5\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Patrick \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 2 tu\u1ed5i r\u01b0\u1ee1i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 s\u00e1ng s\u1ee7a v\u00e0 c\u00f3 khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t b\u1ea7u b\u0129nh, xinh x\u1eafn nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t thi\u00ean th\u1ea7n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u201cn\u1ed7i kinh ho\u00e0ng\u201d trong l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00c1C B\u00c0 M\u1eb8 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn v\u1edbi \u00e1nh m\u1eaft h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c c\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda \u0111\u1ee9a con b\u00e9 b\u1ecfng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed7i khi Patrick ti\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n. Sau \u0111\u00f3, v\u1eabn nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi l\u1ea7n, th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 ra \u0111\u00f2n nhanh nh\u01b0 ch\u1edbp v\u00e0 \u201cn\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n\u201d kh\u00f3c r\u00e9 l\u00ean. Nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac Patrick c\u00f2n c\u1eafn nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 kh\u00e1c m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i hai tu\u1ea7n sau v\u1ebft r\u0103ng v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nh\u00ecn r\u00f5. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed n\u00f3 c\u00f2n gi\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i t\u1eeb tay nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 kh\u00e1c r\u1ed3i n\u00e9m \u0111i ho\u1eb7c ph\u00e1 h\u1ecfng. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u00fac Patrick t\u1ecf ra ngoan ngo\u00e3n v\u00e0 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c. Nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i ch\u1eb3ng ai nh\u1eadn ra n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 ngoan n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f2n m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a Patrick th\u00ec sao? V\u1edbi b\u00e0, Patrick l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi. B\u00e0 m\u1eb9 h\u1ebft m\u1ef1c chi\u1ec1u chu\u1ed9ng c\u1eadu qu\u00fd t\u1eed. Sau khi c\u00f3 hai b\u00e9 g\u00e1i, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng b\u00e0 c\u0169ng sinh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t b\u00e9 trai. B\u00e0 d\u1ed3n h\u1ebft th\u1eddi gian, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau cho con. B\u00e0 ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1eafng hay gi\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i t\u1eeb tay th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 r\u1ed3i ph\u00e1 h\u1ecfng c\u1ea3. V\u1eady m\u00e0 th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c l\u00e0m v\u1eady v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c. T\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? \u201cGi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eabu v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u2013 v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 v\u1eady\u201d \u2013 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a Friedrich Froebel \u2013 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb7t n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng cho phong tr\u00e0o gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c m\u1ea7m non v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 XIX. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi Patrick v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u1eadu b\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 v\u1eady, \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i mang nhi\u1ec1u \u00fd ngh\u0129a. Theo t\u00f4i, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i cho con c\u00e1i. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eadt nhi\u1ec1u h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu cho ch\u00fang noi theo. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c cho con em m\u00ecnh. \u201cKh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eabu th\u00ec gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a\u201d \u2013 t\u00f4i xin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chuy\u1ec3n \u00fd l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u n\u00f3i tr\u00ean. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng n\u00e0y th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n<\/a> n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 hay ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch h\u1ee3p l\u00fd, c\u00f3 tinh th\u1ea7n tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ti\u1ebfp thu t\u1eeb r\u1ea5t s\u1edbm th\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u00e1c gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i, t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1c ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 \u2013 n\u00f3i ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn: Ch\u00fang gi\u00fap b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ee1 lo l\u1eafng h\u01a1n. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u00f4i c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft r\u1ea5t \u00edt nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn l\u00ean theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb \u2013 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 ba \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u2013 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y c\u00f3 v\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. Nh\u01b0ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7! Th\u00eam v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i \u201cc\u00f4ng c\u1ee5\u201d d\u1ef1 ph\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ec3 mang ra d\u00f9ng khi c\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u0103n b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m? M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, l\u00e0m sao ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m \u2013 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 \u201cr\u1eafc r\u1ed1i\u201d m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u2013 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 \u2013 th\u1ea5y quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft? Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec khi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng \u0111em l\u1ea1i hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3? \u279e B\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i h\u01a1n?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nghe v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n nh\u01b0: \u201cB\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i h\u01a1n\u201d ho\u1eb7c: \u201cB\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb ng\u00e0y nay g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\u201d \u2013 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi c\u00e2u n\u00f3i mu\u00f4n thu\u1edf: \u201cTr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00fang l\u00e0 khi c\u00f2n b\u00e9 ch\u00fang ta r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c so v\u1edbi b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb b\u00e2y gi\u1edd. Nh\u01b0ng li\u1ec7u th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 h\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ngoan ngo\u00e3n h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng? Cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c so v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta b\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u2013 nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n ch\u00fang ta?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea1m ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1eafng b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc, h\u0103m d\u1ecda v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 g\u01b0\u1ee3ng g\u1ea1o m\u1ed7i khi ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh. \u0110a s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. V\u00ec s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb ph\u1ea1t m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i nghe l\u1eddi \u2013 30 n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f2n b\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u00ec sao?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m con em m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do h\u01a1n trong vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng<\/a>, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ai trong s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta t\u1eebng c\u00f3 ph\u00f2ng ri\u00eang khi c\u00f2n b\u00e9? Ai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p ch\u1ecdn h\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t m\u00f4n th\u1ec3 thao hay nh\u1ea1c c\u1ee5 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh th\u00edch? Ai t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, kh\u00f4ng g\u01b0\u1ee3ng g\u1ea1o? Ai t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ef1 tin v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 t\u01b0, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00fang ta \u2013 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 \u2013c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4m nay. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 con em m\u00ecnh<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00e0 h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u1edf b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y. \u1ede m\u1ed7i th\u1eddi k\u00ec, cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn hi\u1ec7n \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe hay t\u00e2m l\u00fd m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n do ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a l\u1ed1i gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c kh\u00e9p k\u00edn tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cha m\u1eb9 qu\u00e1 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u1edfi m\u1edf h\u01a1n. Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u0169ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh h\u01a1n. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 khi ph\u1ea3i tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u00e1c s\u1ef9 nhi hay c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trang b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 th\u00f4ng tin c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh t\u1ed1t nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00ec v\u1eady, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn d\u1ef1 c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb. H\u1ecd g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 c\u00e1c \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 con h\u1ecdc c\u00f9ng l\u1edbp v\u1edbi con m\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c \u1edf nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 trao \u0111\u1ed5i kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi nhau. Nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n ph\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a gi\u1eefa vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0, con c\u00e1i, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 kh\u00e1c nhau nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u1ea5p cao th\u1ea7m l\u1eb7ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1ecd b\u1ecf r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u1ed5n. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i. N\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 l\u00e0m sai m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3: Khi cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0m v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01b0\u01a1ng quy\u1ebft, m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, th\u00ec b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u201cquy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c\u201d. B\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 m\u1edbi 6 th\u00e1ng, l\u00ean 3 hay 10 tu\u1ed5i, ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. B\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 do l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng \u1ee9ng x\u1eed m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 qu\u1ea3 quy\u1ebft, m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u1ea3m h\u1ecda<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuy v\u1eady, \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn khi cha m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n ch\u1ec9 th\u1ea7m ngh\u0129 trong \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: \u201cMong l\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd h\u1ebft g\u00e0o kh\u00f3c\u201d lu\u00f4n hay l\u00e0: \u201cT\u00f4i s\u1ebd l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec con t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n, quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu m\u1ea5y tr\u00f2 h\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 n\u1eefa?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ec1m l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 t\u00ednh h\u01a1n. B\u1ed1 hay m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1 ra th\u1eddi gian bi\u1ec3u n\u1eefa, m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb. Nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd b\u1ecb g\u1ea1t sang m\u1ed9t b\u00ean. S\u1ef1 nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y ch\u1eb3ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng \u0111em l\u1ea1i b\u00ecnh y\u00ean v\u00e0 h\u00f2a thu\u1eadn, tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i n\u00f3 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra nhi\u1ec1u r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng n\u00ean cho con c\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ec1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh trong m\u1ed9t l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Vi\u1ec7c cho tr\u1ebb \u0111i ng\u1ee7 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh. Trong nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu hay nh\u00f5ng nh\u1ebdo v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 trong l\u00fac m\u1eb7c qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o, \u0103n u\u1ed1ng, d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p, trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u1edbi anh ch\u1ecb em trong nh\u00e0. \u201cCon t\u00f4i hay l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00e1u mu\u1ed1n\u201d hay l\u00e0: \u201cT\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n, con t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd nghe l\u1eddi\u201d. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe t\u1eeb c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111ang b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i. \u0110\u00f4i l\u00fac, h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed sai l\u1ec7ch c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean, g\u00e2y ra nhi\u1ec1u r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i cho tr\u1ebb khi \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 n\u00e0y h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. H\u1ecd bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng con m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u201ct\u1ef1 l\u1edbn l\u00ean\u201d \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. H\u1ecd quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng con c\u00e1i, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f4i khi h\u1ecd c\u0169ng m\u1ea5t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng: \u201cT\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c r\u1ed3i, gi\u1edd t\u00f4i c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn ra m\u00ecnh trong \u0111\u00f3? V\u1eady th\u00ec cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n. \u279e Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i: V\u00ed d\u1ee5 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb 8 th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ebfn 8 tu\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Paul h\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 8 th\u00e1ng tu\u1ed5i. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u00e1u \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i xin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n<\/a>. \u201cN\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 h\u01b0\u201d, b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u1edf d\u00e0i. \u201cN\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang t\u00f4i m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi. Th\u1eadt ch\u1eb3ng sung s\u01b0\u1edbng g\u00ec! T\u1eeb ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean Paul \u0111\u00e3 k\u00eau kh\u00f3c \u1ea7m \u0129 li\u00ean h\u1ed3i. V\u1eady n\u00ean ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n c\u00e1ch b\u1ebf n\u00f3 su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1eabn c\u00f2n may l\u00e0 ban \u0111\u00eam n\u00f3 c\u0169ng ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ngh\u0129, c\u00f3 khi n\u00f3 kh\u00f3c d\u1ea1 \u0111\u1ec1. Nh\u01b0ng sau ba th\u00e1ng t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1 h\u01a1n. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, Paul c\u00f2n g\u00e0o v\u00e0 kh\u00f3c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, t\u00f4i c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0a ch\u00e1u \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7n kh\u00e1m c\u1ea3 tu\u1ea7n li\u1ec1n nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n t\u1ea1i sao. T\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a Paul ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n. N\u00f3 kh\u00f3c ngay khi t\u00f4i v\u1eeba b\u1ebf l\u00ean. C\u1ee9 n\u00edn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0i ph\u00fat n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f3c. T\u00f4i v\u1eeba ph\u1ea3i r\u1eeda b\u00e1t, lau d\u1ecdn b\u1ebfp, v\u1eeba ph\u1ea3i tr\u00f4ng n\u00f3 v\u00e0 sau 15 ph\u00fat th\u00ec t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 k\u1ecbp r\u1eeda s\u1ea1ch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i t\u00e1ch. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed v\u00e0o toa-l\u00e9t t\u00f4i c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i mang n\u00f3 theo. N\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t ph\u00fat. Gi\u1edd t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1eady th\u00ec t\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean n\u00e0o cho m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a Paul kh\u00f4ng? C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1eed tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi tr\u00ean v\u1edbi c\u00e1c v\u00ed d\u1ee5 sau \u0111\u00e2y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a Oliver kh\u00f3c qua \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i khi b\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t l\u1ecbch h\u1eb9n t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n<\/a> v\u1edbi t\u00f4i. \u0110\u1ee9a con trai 2 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 m\u1edbi b\u1ecb \u0111u\u1ed5i ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00f3m. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 tr\u00e1ch cho r\u1eb1ng Oliver qu\u00e1 hung h\u0103ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i trong l\u1edbp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u201c\u0110\u00f4i l\u00fac ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i c\u00f2n s\u1ee3 n\u00f3\u201d, b\u00e0 n\u00f3i. \u201cTh\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 r\u1ea5t hung d\u1eef. N\u00f3 c\u1eafn v\u00e0 d\u1eabm l\u00ean t\u00f4i. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, n\u00f3 c\u00f2n n\u00e9m c\u1ea3 c\u00e1i m\u00e1y ghi \u00e2m v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4i. M\u1ed7i khi c\u00f3 g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng v\u1eeba \u00fd, n\u00f3 m\u1eb7c s\u1ee9c k\u00eau g\u00e0o. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu n\u1ed5i n\u1eefa.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Carola \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 3 tu\u1ed5i r\u01b0\u1ee1i. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0103n g\u00ec v\u00e0 l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00f3n. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o Carola c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f4n o\u1eb9 v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t hay gi\u1edf b\u00e0i n\u00f4n o\u1eb9 ra khi ph\u1ea3i \u0103n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00fac \u0103n s\u00e1ng, con b\u00e9 th\u01b0\u1eddng nhai \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 n\u1eeda ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nu\u1ed1t. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian trong ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 tranh c\u00e3i v\u00e0 trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 \u201cch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 \u0103n u\u1ed1ng\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Miriam, 6 tu\u1ed5i, m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u00eam m\u1ed9t em trai. Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec Miriam l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng t\u1ecf ra m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, nh\u01b0ng gi\u1edd th\u00ec b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y con b\u00e9 \u201ckh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa\u201d. \u201cS\u00e1ng n\u00e0o n\u00f3 c\u0169ng r\u1ec1 r\u00e0 m\u1ea5t bao nhi\u00eau th\u1eddi gian. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu m\u1eb7c qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o v\u00e0 \u0103n s\u00e1ng r\u1ea5t l\u1ec1 m\u1ec1. M\u1ed7i tu\u1ea7n, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o hai ho\u1eb7c ba l\u1ea7n, \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00ec t\u00f4i v\u00e0 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb k\u1ecbp. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p b\u1ea5t k\u00ec th\u1ee9 g\u00ec. Sau m\u1ed9t h\u1ed3i tranh c\u00e3i th\u00ec g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 l\u00fac n\u00e0o t\u00f4i c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m. N\u00f3 c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1eb1ng em y\u00ean. C\u1ee9 l\u00fac n\u00e0o t\u00f4i b\u1ebf th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9, n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i gi\u1eb1ng l\u1ea5y cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0a th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 cho n\u00f3. C\u00f2n n\u1eefa, t\u1ed1i n\u00e0o n\u00f3 c\u0169ng gi\u1edf \u0111\u1ee7 tr\u00f2 ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ee3m m\u1ea5t hai ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi ch\u1ecbu l\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i ng\u1ee7.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vicky, 8 tu\u1ed5i, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 b\u00e9 nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t v\u00e0 d\u00e8 d\u1eb7t. Hai tu\u1ea7n nay n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111i h\u1ecdc. M\u1ed7i bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i v\u00e0o toa-l\u00e9t c\u1ea3 ch\u1ee5c l\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00e1ng n\u00e0o Vicky c\u0169ng k\u00eau \u0111au b\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c m\u1eb9 cho c\u00f4 b\u00e9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngh\u1ec9 \u1edf nh\u00e0. C\u00f4 b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ba l\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 tr\u00ean b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u? C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean g\u00ec d\u00e0nh cho nh\u1eefng v\u1ecb ph\u1ee5 huynh n\u00e0y? C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i cho c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u1edf ph\u1ea7n sau cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch. \u00a7 T\u1ed4NG K\u1ebeT \u21d2 Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eabu th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con tr\u1ebb<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac ch\u1ec9 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, s\u1ef1 g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eabu v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 th\u00eam nh\u1eefng \u201cc\u00f4ng c\u1ee5\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u v\u00e3n t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh. \u21d2 Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u201cr\u1eafc r\u1ed1i\u201d h\u01a1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 ng\u00e0y nay th\u01b0\u1eddng nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u01a1n hay k\u00e9m ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 th\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edbc. H\u1ecd bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1eb7t ra gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n cho b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb. H\u1ecd c\u0169ng mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c h\u01a1n l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t ra nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ee3p l\u00fd. \u21d2 B\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb \u0111ang th\u1eed th\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u201cr\u1eafc r\u1ed1i\u201d \u1edf m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i t\u1eeb 8 th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ebfn 8 tu\u1ed5i, \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 ra c\u00e1c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ea7n suy ng\u1eabm.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c d\u1ea1y con h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc \u2013 Annette Kast-Zahn Trong ch\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\u2026 \u279e T\u1ea1i sao g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eabu v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, nh\u01b0ng ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7? \u279e T\u1ea1i sao ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 huynh t\u1eadn t\u00e2m v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd th\u1eadt \u201cr\u1eafc […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[23],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16845","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-phuong-phap"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16845","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16845"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16845\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16846,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16845\/revisions\/16846"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16845"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16845"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16845"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}