{"id":16847,"date":"2021-12-05T14:16:19","date_gmt":"2021-12-05T07:16:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/post\/?p=16847"},"modified":"2021-12-05T14:16:21","modified_gmt":"2021-12-05T07:16:21","slug":"phan-2-con-toi-nen-hoc-theo-quy-tac-nao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/phan-2-con-toi-nen-hoc-theo-quy-tac-nao\/","title":{"rendered":"Ph\u1ea7n 2. Con t\u00f4i n\u00ean h\u1ecdc theo quy t\u1eafc n\u00e0o?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c d\u1ea1y con<\/a> h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc \u2013 Annette Kast-Zahn<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quy t\u1eafc quan tr\u1ecdng cho m\u1ed7i l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ed0I V\u1edaI C\u00c1C B\u1eacC CHA M\u1eb8, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb sau \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u00e1ng lo ng\u1ea1i\u201d: tr\u1ebb g\u00e0o kh\u00f3c nhi\u1ec1u gi\u1edd li\u00ean t\u1ee5c, tr\u1ebb hay c\u1eafn v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh nhau, tr\u1ebb \u0103n k\u00e9m, tr\u1ebb ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ee3m khi \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng, tr\u1ebb hay b\u1ecb \u0111au b\u1ee5ng. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed3ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m: \u201cCh\u00fang ta ch\u01b0a l\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd ch\u00fang ta t\u1eebng suy ngh\u0129 l\u00e0m sao ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00ecnh dung \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a con em m\u00ecnh? Nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac kh\u00e1 xa v\u1eddi so v\u1edbi c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc m\u00e0 con c\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em \u1edf m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i \u2013 t\u1eeb s\u01a1 sinh cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi \u0111i h\u1ecdc \u279e \u0110\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i s\u01a1 sinh: n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi \u201cCon t\u00f4i tr\u00f4ng r\u1ea5t xinh x\u1eafn v\u00e0 l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng vui v\u1ebb. L\u00fac ch\u01b0a ng\u1ee7 \u2013 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u1ee7 g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y l\u1eabn \u0111\u00eam \u2013 th\u00ec n\u00f3 v\u1eabn t\u1ef1 ch\u01a1i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00f3 c\u01b0\u1eddi nhi\u1ec1u, \u0103n u\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh. Ch\u1ea1y nh\u1ea3y, n\u00f3i n\u0103ng hay b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec kh\u00e1c, n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u h\u1ecdc c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n nhanh h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2u n\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00edch nghi t\u1ed1t, n\u00ean t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang n\u00f3 theo m\u1ecdi l\u00fac m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i. G\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00f4ng tr\u1ebb. N\u00f3 r\u1ea5t th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4i \u00e2u y\u1ebfm, \u00f4m \u1ea5p v\u00e0 vu\u1ed1t ve.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f3 ai trong s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea7m mong mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t em b\u00e9 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? Qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o \u0111\u00e3 chi ph\u1ed1i gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd tr\u00ean t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed hay ti-vi. Ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta h\u1eb1ng mong \u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng: \u201c\u1eea, r\u1ed3i m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n s\u1ebd nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf!\u201d Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 may m\u1eafn khi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 di\u1ec5n ra nh\u01b0 mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh m\u1ed9t em b\u00e9 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh cha m\u1eb9 \u0111ang t\u01b0\u01a1i c\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c \u201cb\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d v\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u00e1c s\u0129 nhi \u0111\u1ec1u qu\u00e1 quen v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y khi kh\u00e1m b\u1ec7nh. Nh\u01b0ng \u201cb\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 ng\u1ee7 \u00edt, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 ch\u01a1i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, c\u01b0\u1eddi \u00edt, kh\u00f3c nhi\u1ec1u, \u0103n u\u1ed1ng k\u00e9m v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean b\u1ecb \u1ed1m, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb d\u1ecb \u1ee9ng hay m\u1eafc m\u1ed9t c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh m\u00e3n t\u00ednh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1eadm bi\u1ebft \u0111i v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c, kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e2u y\u1ebfm v\u00e0 t\u1ecf ra kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu khi b\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0a ra ch\u1ed7 kh\u00e1c. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a \u0111i kh\u00e1m. Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb n\u1eb1m \u1edf gi\u1eefa hai th\u00e1i c\u1ef1c n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n m\u01a1 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o khi mang thai v\u00e0 trong tu\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u sau sinh. T\u1ed1t h\u01a1n h\u1ebft l\u00e0 h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd. M\u1ed9t b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n k\u1ec3 v\u1edbi t\u00f4i: \u201cL\u00fac mang thai, t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t h\u00e1o h\u1ee9c ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ra \u0111\u1eddi. T\u00f4i tin ch\u1eafc n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e9 trai. T\u00f4i t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i sinh m\u1ed9t b\u00e9 g\u00e1i. Con b\u00e9 tr\u00f4ng c\u1ef1c k\u00ec m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi. N\u00f3 kh\u00f3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 hi\u1ebfm khi v\u1eeba \u00fd \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00f2i t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn n\u00f3 c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y. Ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0i tu\u1ea7n sau, \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c t\u00f4i tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ee5 m\u1ecb. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 l\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. T\u00f4i v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngay t\u1eeb th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u1ee5 thai, nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1eb5n m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 chi ph\u1ed1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u01b0 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh, chi\u1ec1u cao, h\u00ecnh th\u1ec3 g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eb7t, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nguy c\u01a1 v\u1ec1 b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt, nhu c\u1ea7u \u0103n ng\u1ee7, t\u00ednh kh\u00ed v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ti\u1ebfp thu. Ngo\u00e0i y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 di truy\u1ec1n, c\u00f2n c\u00f3 \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eeb \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i c\u1ea3nh g\u00e2y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Nh\u01b0ng ngay c\u1ea3 khi tr\u1ebb kh\u00f3c nhi\u1ec1u hay \u00edt, u\u1ed1ng s\u1eefa t\u1ed1t hay k\u00e9m, ng\u1ee7 nhi\u1ec1u hay \u00edt, c\u00f3 hay b\u1ecb \u1ed1m hay kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i do b\u1ea1n g\u00e2y ra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00ec v\u1eady, c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0: \u201cTr\u1ebb n\u00ean h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc n\u00e0o trong n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean?\u201d m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0: \u201cCon t\u00f4i n\u00ean h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc n\u00e0o?\u201d \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u1ea1o h\u00f3a \u0111\u00e3 ban t\u1eb7ng, ngay c\u1ea3 khi con b\u1ea1n \u201ckh\u00f3 chi\u1ec1u\u201d, m\u1eafc b\u1ec7nh m\u00e3n t\u00ednh hay t\u1eadt nguy\u1ec1n. Ph\u1ea3i c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc v\u1ec1 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u1edf m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u00e1c nhau sao cho nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau n\u00e0y ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u1edbi con b\u1ea1n \u2013 kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng n\u00e0y ngo\u00e0i b\u1ea1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb trong \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc \u2013 hay n\u00f3i \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n l\u00e0 th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1c quy lu\u1eadt. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 m\u1edbi sinh kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00fang hay sai, th\u00edch hay kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 khi ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00fat ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 d\u00f9 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n b\u1ecb h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea1ng r\u1ee1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xua tan m\u1ecdi b\u1ef1c d\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. Hay nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfng k\u00eau kh\u00f3c th\u1ea3m thi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn cha m\u1eb9 tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u00e2u lo, th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t, b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i hay c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c. Nh\u1eefng l\u00fac nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecm m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb th\u00f4i kh\u00f3c ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1eeb g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng cho c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u201cquy t\u1eafc\u201d kh\u1ea3 thi \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc trong n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean v\u00e0 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi quan cho tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 t\u1eeb th\u00e1ng th\u1ee9 s\u00e1u tr\u1edf \u0111i. Nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc n\u00e0y l\u00e0 theo \u00fd ki\u1ebfn ch\u1ee7 quan v\u00e0 ch\u01b0a h\u1eb3n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7. C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1. \u201cCon c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec con mu\u1ed1n\u201d \u201cKhi con kh\u00f3c, ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng con.\u201d \u201cCon ch\u1ec9 ng\u1ee7 khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ebf.\u201d \u201cCon \u0103n khi n\u00e0o con mu\u1ed1n, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 ng\u00e0y hay \u0111\u00eam.\u201d \u201cKhi con kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch th\u00eca th\u00ec con s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00fa m\u1eb9.\u201d \u201cKhi con kh\u00f3c trong n\u00f4i th\u00ec mu\u1ed9n nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 n\u0103m ph\u00fat sau con s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ebf.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c quy lu\u1eadt t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi con b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng? T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd r\u00fat ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy t\u1eafc: \u201cCon mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng g\u00ec kh\u00e1c.\u201d \u201cNh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u con mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn\u201d \u201cL\u00fac n\u00e0o con c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i u\u1ed1ng h\u1ebft c\u1ea3 b\u00ecnh s\u1eefa, d\u00f9 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3i hay kh\u00f4ng.\u201d \u201c\u0110\u00eam n\u00e0o con c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i n\u1eb1m tr\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng 12 ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3, d\u00f9 con ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 10 ti\u1ebfng.\u201d \u201cSau m\u1ed7i b\u1eefa \u0103n, con \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0a ra ch\u1ed7 kh\u00e1c ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c. Kh\u00f4ng ai ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a v\u1edbi con c\u1ea3.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc tr\u00ean, con b\u1ea1n trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng: \u201cM\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec1u di\u1ec5n ra nh\u01b0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 mong mu\u1ed1n. M\u1ecdi nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng.\u201d ? GI\u1ea2I PH\u00c1P<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc khuy\u00ean d\u00f9ng cho l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u1ea3 hai tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p quy t\u1eafc n\u00eau tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t c\u1eadp. Nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn c\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p th\u1ee9 ba nh\u01b0 sau: \u201cM\u1eb9 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh con s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0103n l\u00fac n\u00e0o v\u00e0 \u0103n m\u00f3n g\u00ec. Con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n \u0103n kh\u00f4ng v\u00e0 \u0103n bao nhi\u00eau.\u201d \u201cKhi con th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ee7 no v\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t th\u00edch ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi con.\u201d \u201cKhi con kh\u00f3c, con s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec con mu\u1ed1n. N\u1ebfu sau \u0111\u00f3 con v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c kh\u00f3c, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd \u00edt quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn con h\u01a1n.\u201d \u201cB\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian trong ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a v\u1edbi con. Nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 quan tr\u1ecdng, con ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 ch\u01a1i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh d\u00f9 mu\u1ed1n hay kh\u00f4ng.\u201d \u201cTrong nh\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p ngh\u1ecbch m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i th\u1ee9 th\u00ec tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng quy lu\u1eadt n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu c\u00f3, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd r\u00fat ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0: \u201cCon s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 cung c\u1ea5p b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec con c\u1ea7n. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec con mu\u1ed1n. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a con. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t cho con h\u01a1n.\u201d \u279e \u0110\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi: n\u0103m th\u1ee9 hai v\u00e0 th\u1ee9 ba<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u00e0y sinh nh\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00f4i qua. C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n mong \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec trong hai n\u0103m t\u1edbi? \u201cSau m\u1ed9t n\u0103m th\u00ec con \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea1y v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eadp n\u00f3i. Sau ba n\u0103m con \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i tr\u00f4i ch\u1ea3y. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean con c\u0169ng ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ee7 gi\u1ea5c. Th\u1ee9c \u0103n c\u1ee7a con c\u0169ng phong ph\u00fa h\u01a1n. Con th\u00edch ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 kh\u00e1c, th\u00edch chia s\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f2i l\u1ea1i n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n. Trong l\u1edbp, con tham gia m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. Con \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t y\u00eau qu\u00fd em m\u00ecnh. Con lu\u00f4n nghe l\u1eddi, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ea1y lung tung, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch kh\u1ecfi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p, lu\u00f4n vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh. 2 tu\u1ed5i con \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 \u0111i v\u1ec7 sinh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean n\u00f3 c\u0169ng t\u1ef1 \u0103n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Con r\u1ea5t th\u00edch c\u00e1c m\u00f3n rau v\u00e0 hoa qu\u1ea3. Con c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 th\u00edch ch\u01a1i trong ph\u00f2ng ri\u00eang. Con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh h\u00e0ng gi\u1edd li\u1ec1n. Con ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a r\u1ea5t h\u0103ng h\u00e1i \u1edf s\u00e2n ch\u01a1i. N\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00e1 d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0m g\u00ec qu\u00e1 nguy hi\u1ec3m. V\u00e0 con tr\u00f4ng l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd, g\u1ecdn g\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 n\u00e0o \u201cho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o\u201d kh\u00f4ng? T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng hay t\u1ef1 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh: \u201cN\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ch\u1ee9. N\u1ebfu m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 \u00fd th\u00ec t\u00f4i xin ch\u1ecbu thua.\u201d Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 bi\u1ebft ch\u1ea1y v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i mu\u1ed9n, 3 tu\u1ed5i v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 \u0111i v\u1ec7 sinh, kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd, kh\u00f4ng tham gia ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n tr\u1ea3 em n\u00f3 v\u1ec1 l\u1ea1i b\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n th\u00ec c\u0169ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u00fa v\u1ecb n\u00e0y, m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb m\u1edf mang t\u1ea7m nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00e1c nhau. Tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc ch\u1ea1y t\u1edbi nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft ch\u1ea1y lui. Tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc n\u00f3i, t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 t\u1eeb \u201cKh\u00f4ng\u201d. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i th\u00e1p nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed5 c\u00e1i th\u00e1p \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00fang d\u1ea7n ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 qua l\u1eddi n\u00f3i m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh, c\u1eafn. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1c \u0103n ho\u1eb7c c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea7m \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n v\u00e0 n\u00e9m. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00f4m m\u1eb9 v\u00e0o l\u00f2ng, ho\u1eb7c d\u1eabm l\u00ean ch\u00e2n m\u1eb9. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0o trong \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t. Nh\u01b0ng tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ghi nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 r\u00fat ra b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc. Tuy nhi\u00ean b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc g\u00ec th\u00ec c\u00f2n t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m quen. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho tr\u1ebb 2 v\u00e0 3 tu\u1ed5i: \u201cCon l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh!\u201d \u201cCon \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p gi\u1eef nh\u1eefng g\u00ec con gi\u1eadt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c.\u201d \u201cN\u1ebfu con kh\u00f4ng \u0103n m\u00f3n n\u00e0y th\u00ec m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd n\u1ea5u m\u00f3n kh\u00e1c.\u201d \u201cN\u1ebfu con n\u1eb1m ra s\u00e0n nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 k\u00eau kh\u00f3c, con s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec con mu\u1ed1n.\u201d \u201cM\u1ed7i khi con bu\u1ed3n v\u1ec7 sinh, n\u1ebfu con kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n t\u1ef1 v\u00e0o toa-l\u00e9t th\u00ec m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i r\u1eeda r\u00e1y v\u00e0 thay t\u00e3 m\u1edbi cho con.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb quan \u0111i\u1ec3m sau: \u201cL\u00fac n\u00e0o m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n c\u0169ng theo \u00fd con. \u00dd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a g\u00ec c\u1ea3.\u201d \u201cCha m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 t\u1ecf ra nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc\u201d \u201cKhi con l\u1ea5y th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c, con s\u1ebd b\u1ecb t\u00e9t v\u00e0o m\u00f4ng.\u201d \u201cCon ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ed3i y\u00ean trong toa-l\u00e9t \u0111\u1ebfn khi n\u00e0o xong m\u1edbi th\u00f4i.\u201d \u201cN\u1ebfu con kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0103n b\u1eefa tr\u01b0a th\u00ec con v\u1eabn b\u1ecb \u00e9p ph\u1ea3i \u0103n.\u201d \u201cN\u1ebfu con n\u1eb1m ra s\u00e0n nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 k\u00eau kh\u00f3c th\u00ec con s\u1ebd b\u1ecb m\u1eafng v\u00e0 \u0103n \u0111\u00f2n.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u1ede \u0111\u00e2y, tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc tr\u00ean, quy\u1ec1n uy c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t l\u00ean h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c con c\u00e1i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. B\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y hoang mang khi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 hai lo\u1ea1i quy t\u1eafc n\u00e0y. ? GI\u1ea2I PH\u00c1P<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc khuy\u00ean d\u00f9ng cho l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Thay v\u00ec \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng hai lo\u1ea1i quy t\u1eafc n\u00eau tr\u00ean, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9 ba. Theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh: \u201cKhi con gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea1n kia.\u201d \u201cN\u1ebfu con kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng b\u1eefa th\u00ec con ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1eefa sau.\u201d \u201cN\u1ebfu con n\u1eb1m ra s\u00e0n nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 k\u00eau kh\u00f3c, m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd ra kh\u1ecfi ph\u00f2ng ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c.\u201d \u201cCon kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thay b\u1ec9m m\u1edbi n\u1eefa, ngay c\u1ea3 khi ‘ch\u1ea5t th\u1ea3i’ b\u1ecb d\u00e2y ra qu\u1ea7n.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng con \u0111\u1ebfn tham d\u1ef1 m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m c\u00f3 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i, v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 quy t\u1eafc sau: \u201cCh\u1ec9 c\u00f3 c\u00e1c m\u1eb9 m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tham gia tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i. N\u1ebfu con th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n ch\u01a1i, con m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p ch\u1ecdn.\u201d \u201cT\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ed3i v\u00e0o b\u00e0n \u0103n b\u1eefa s\u00e1ng chung. Con ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady khi \u0103n xong, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7m \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n trong tay r\u1ed3i ch\u1ea1y nh\u1ea3y.\u201d \u279e \u0110\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o: T\u1eeb 4 \u0111\u1ebfn 6 tu\u1ed5i<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111i h\u1ecdc m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o khi l\u00ean 3 tu\u1ed5i. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t giai \u0111o\u1ea1n m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb. C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o khi \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con m\u00ecnh? \u201cCon t\u00f4i b\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u00f3i n\u0103ng r\u1ea5t tr\u00f4i ch\u1ea3y. Con \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 \u0103n u\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3. Con r\u1ea5t th\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o ngay t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean v\u00e0 t\u1ecf ra vui v\u1ebb khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3n v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. Con ph\u1ea5n kh\u1edfi th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ecdi y\u00eau c\u1ea7u khi \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 v\u1ebd, gh\u00e9p tranh, ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00e0n, n\u1ea5u n\u01b0\u1edbng. Con k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi r\u1ea5t nhanh v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean h\u1eb9n g\u1eb7p c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n. Con kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 say m\u00ea xem ti-vi m\u00e0 th\u00edch xem s\u00e1ch tranh, ch\u01a1i x\u1ebfp h\u00ecnh. Ngo\u00e0i ra con c\u00f2n t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng d\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. 4 tu\u1ed5i, con \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft b\u01a1i v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 \u0111i xe \u0111\u1ea1p m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. Con c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc v\u00e0 vi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ean m\u00ecnh. Mu\u1ed9n nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 l\u00fac 5 tu\u1ed5i, con s\u1ebd th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t (v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 m\u00faa ba l\u00ea, ch\u01a1i tennis hay ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00e0n piano) v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n ngay. Gi\u1edd th\u00ec g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 con kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n kh\u00f3c nh\u00e8 n\u1eefa r\u1ed3i. Con c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00e3i l\u1ea1i b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 th\u1ea7y c\u00f4. L\u00fac n\u00e0o con c\u0169ng vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn t\u00ednh kh\u00ed c\u1ee7a con<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ea5y con m\u00ecnh trong nh\u1eefng d\u00f2ng mi\u00eau t\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng? Hay con b\u1ea1n g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u00ean? Tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn c\u00f2n n\u00f3i b\u1eadp b\u00f5m l\u00fac 3 tu\u1ed5i, v\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i b\u00f3n cho \u0103n v\u00e0 m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3 cho tr\u1ebb h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y? Tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng? Tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn s\u1ee3 khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh? Tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f4 \u0111\u00f9a \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i? Hay ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u1eafm m\u1edbi r\u1eddi xa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i ti-vi? Tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111i t\u1eafm hay t\u1eadp xe \u0111\u1ea1p? Tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i \u201cb\u1ed5 \u00edch\u201d m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 th\u00edch nh\u1eefng lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i nh\u1ef1a s\u1eb7c s\u1ee1 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u01b0a? Tr\u1ebb kh\u00f3c nh\u00e8 \u1edf l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c hay c\u00e1c l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc kh\u00e1c? Tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f3c nh\u00e8 ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i \u201ckh\u00f4ng\u201d m\u1ed7i khi b\u1ea1n sai ch\u00fang l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m tr\u00ean th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng v\u1ed9i lo l\u1eafng. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng h\u00ecnh dung ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0ng con b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn t\u00ednh kh\u00ed c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh d\u00f9 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa. D\u00f9 v\u1eady, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00ec con b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn l\u00e0 t\u1eeb b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc n\u00e0o trong nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y? \u201cCon l\u00e0 s\u1ebfp\u201d \u201cKhi con kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed3 v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng th\u00ec m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3 cho con.\u201d \u201cKhi con r\u1ec1 r\u00e0 hay k\u00eau kh\u00f3c \u1ea7m \u0129 v\u00e0o m\u1ed7i bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng, con s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngh\u1ec9 h\u1ecdc.\u201d \u201cKhi con kh\u00f4ng d\u1ecdn ph\u00f2ng th\u00ec m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd d\u1ecdn cho con.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu theo chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0y th\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e1ng suy ngh\u0129. \u201cCon kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y\u201d \u201cKhi con kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 m\u1eb7c qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o hay l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t th\u00ec gi\u1edd, con s\u1ebd b\u1ecb qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecb ph\u1ea1t n\u1eb7ng.\u201d Con c\u00e1i s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 th\u1eadt chuy\u00ean quy\u1ec1n, \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111o\u00e1n v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i v\u1ecb ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f2n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u1ea3 hai th\u00e1i c\u1ef1c n\u00e0y. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ebfn con c\u00e1i, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 h\u00ecnh dung ra. S\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p x\u1ea3y ra c\u1ea3. ? GI\u1ea2I PH\u00c1P<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc khuy\u00ean d\u00f9ng cho l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Thay v\u00ec nh\u1eefng \u201cquy t\u1eafc\u201d kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 \u00edch, ch\u00fang ta ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn th\u1ee9 ba: \u201cNgay c\u1ea3 khi con ch\u01b0a k\u1ecbp thay qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o xong, m\u1eb9 v\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd.\u201d \u201cKhi con kh\u00f3c v\u00e0 l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 c\u00e1u, m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i.\u201d \u201cCon ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 d\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u1ede tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o, tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1: \u201cT\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ed3i y\u00ean tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf khi qu\u00e2y th\u00e0nh v\u00f2ng tr\u00f2n.\u201d \u201cSau b\u1eefa s\u00e1ng, con ph\u1ea3i d\u1ecdn \u0111\u0129a c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 r\u1eeda s\u1ea1ch.\u201d \u201cT\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ph\u1ea3i d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p. L\u00e0m xong m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ra ngo\u00e0i.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc n\u00e0y khi tr\u1ebb nghi\u00eam ch\u1ec9nh ch\u1ea5p h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 tu\u00e2n theo c\u1ea3 khi \u1edf nh\u00e0 l\u1eabn \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng. \u279e \u0110\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i \u0111i h\u1ecdc: t\u1eeb 7 tu\u1ed5i tr\u1edf \u0111i \u201cCu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng nghi\u00eam ch\u1ec9nh s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean con \u0111i h\u1ecdc\u201d \u2013 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. Nh\u01b0ng ngay c\u1ea3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu nhi\u1ec1u \u00e1p l\u1ef1c. Th\u00e0nh t\u00edch v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean quan tr\u1ecdng khi tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn d\u1ea7n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ee9a con \u201cho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? \u201cT\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, con h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111i h\u1ecdc. Con r\u1ea5t ham h\u1ecdc, c\u00f3 \u00fd ch\u00ed v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u00e1p l\u1ef1c. Con bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecdc, vi\u1ebft v\u00e0 t\u00ednh to\u00e1n r\u1ea5t nhanh, ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m r\u1ea5t nhanh b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian r\u1ea3nh s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 hay ch\u01a1i th\u1ec3 thao\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n mong \u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 \u201cl\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng\u201d nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 v\u00e0 u\u1ed1n n\u1eafn con m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng theo nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0o c\u0169ng nhanh bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecdc. M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng v\u00e0 khi ch\u00fang bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecdc th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh t\u00edch l\u1edbn. T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc b\u01a1i hay h\u1ecdc ng\u1ed3i y\u00ean m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7 c\u0169ng v\u1eady. M\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh kh\u00e1c nhau. Quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm ra v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 ch\u00fang. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n ri\u00eang m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn. \u201cN\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0o con m\u00ecnh th\u00ec c\u1ea3 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 con s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u1eeb r\u1ea5t s\u1edbm.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c. C\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 trung th\u1ef1c, d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m, trung th\u00e0nh, khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n, v\u00f4 t\u01b0, l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1,\u2026 quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n con m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3 ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y. C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ea5y qu\u00e1 l\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c khi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau n\u00e0y trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng? \u0110\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9, kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng khe h\u1edf trong lu\u1eadt ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e0nh l\u1ee3i th\u1ebf \u2013 nh\u1eefng \u201cgi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb\u201d n\u00e0y hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 Linda v\u00e0 Richard Eyre c\u00f3 t\u1ef1a \u0111\u1ec1: 12 m\u1ea3nh gh\u00e9p gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb cho con(1).Hai t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u kinh nghi\u1ec7m trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3 t\u1edbi ch\u00edn ng\u01b0\u1eddi con. H\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0a ra kho\u1ea3ng 12 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb kh\u00e1c nhau trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u1eeba n\u00eau c\u00f2n c\u00f3 c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1m t\u0129nh, nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p m\u1ed7i th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec1 ra m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb. Th\u00eam v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 c\u00e1c h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 cho bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i nh\u1eadp vai hay tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 \u00edch \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb. Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 chan ch\u1ee9a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau d\u00e0nh cho tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00fac k\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb c\u00e1c l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean tr\u00ean.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i mong r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y suy ngh\u0129, c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb n\u00eau tr\u00ean v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng cho tr\u1ebb. T\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. Tuy v\u1eady, ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft, li\u1ec7u nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o tr\u00ecnh hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ti\u1ebfp sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n cho b\u1ea1n l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn. C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea1n l\u00e0: B\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y quy t\u1eafc n\u00e0o l\u00e0 h\u1eefu \u00edch? \u201cCon chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng\u201d \u201cKhi con r\u1ec1 r\u00e0 v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a mu\u1ed9n h\u1ecdc, b\u1ed1 v\u1eabn ch\u1edf con \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng.\u201d \u201cKhi con t\u1ecf v\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng d\u00e0nh ra hai ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u1ed3i c\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn con.\u201d \u201cKhi con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem ti-vi \u1edf nh\u00e0, con th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0i n\u1ec9 m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u, \u0111\u1ebfn khi n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p m\u1edbi th\u00f4i.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc n\u00e0y, b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 \u201cchi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng\u201d, ngay c\u1ea3 khi ch\u00fang c\u01b0 x\u1eed kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f3i quen \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fac n\u00e0o. Nh\u01b0ng tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u201cCon ch\u1ecbu thua\u201d \u201cKhi con r\u1ec1 r\u00e0 v\u00e0o m\u1ed7i bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng, bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem ti-vi n\u1eefa.\u201d \u201cKhi c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i sai trong b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd x\u00f3a h\u1ebft \u0111i v\u00e0 b\u1eaft con vi\u1ebft l\u1ea1i.\u201d \u201cKhi m\u1eb9 b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p con \u0111ang xem ti-vi n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p, con s\u1ebd b\u1ecb m\u1eafng v\u00e0 b\u1ecb c\u1ea5m ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111o\u00e1n. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1ee3p t\u00e1c l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi \u1edf nh\u00e0, m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i tr\u1ebb ch\u01b0a h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. Sau \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc n\u00e0y \u1edf nh\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc. Ch\u00fang d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng m\u1ea5t ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng tu\u00e2n theo m\u1ed9t gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n n\u00e0o, kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn ai kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c khi c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng. Nh\u01b0ng ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o, tr\u01b0\u1eddng ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc hay trong nh\u00e0 tr\u1ebb, c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p h\u00e0nh. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd cho r\u1eb1ng: \u201cC\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc ch\u1ec9 d\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i cho m\u00ecnh.\u201d B\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn, ch\u00fang ta c\u00e0ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c v\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc ho\u1eb7c nh\u00e0 tr\u1ebb. ? GI\u1ea2I PH\u00c1P<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc khuy\u00ean d\u00f9ng cho l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc sau s\u1ebd h\u1eefu \u00edch h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc v\u1eeba n\u00eau: \u201cKhi con r\u1ec1 r\u00e0 m\u1ed7i bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng, con s\u1ebd b\u1ecb mu\u1ed9n h\u1ecdc.\u201d \u201cM\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn con l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu con k\u00eau ca th\u00ec m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd ra ngo\u00e0i.\u201d \u201cCon s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng xung quanh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u1edf l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i \u0111i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1edfi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u quy t\u1eafc. M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i v\u00ed d\u1ee5 trong s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0: \u201cCon lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd.\u201d \u201cCon th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0.\u201d \u201c\u1ede l\u1edbp con ng\u1ed3i \u0111\u00fang ch\u1ed7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.\u201d \u201cCon gi\u01a1 tay tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi mu\u1ed1n ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c d\u1ea1y con h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc \u2013 Annette Kast-Zahn Quy t\u1eafc quan tr\u1ecdng cho m\u1ed7i l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i \u0110\u1ed0I V\u1edaI C\u00c1C B\u1eacC CHA M\u1eb8, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb sau \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u00e1ng lo ng\u1ea1i\u201d: tr\u1ebb g\u00e0o kh\u00f3c nhi\u1ec1u gi\u1edd li\u00ean t\u1ee5c, tr\u1ebb hay c\u1eafn v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh nhau, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[23],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16847","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-phuong-phap"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16847","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16847"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16847\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16848,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16847\/revisions\/16848"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16847"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16847"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16847"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}