{"id":16849,"date":"2021-12-05T14:16:27","date_gmt":"2021-12-05T07:16:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/post\/?p=16849"},"modified":"2021-12-05T14:16:29","modified_gmt":"2021-12-05T07:16:29","slug":"phan-3-nen-chon-nhung-quy-tac-nao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/phan-3-nen-chon-nhung-quy-tac-nao\/","title":{"rendered":"Ph\u1ea7n 3. N\u00ean ch\u1ecdn nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc n\u00e0o?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"2\" title=\"Vietlearn\" rel=\"nofollow\">d\u1ea1y con<\/a> h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc \u2013 Annette Kast-Zahn<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u1eea C\u00c1C PH\u1ea6N V\u1eeaA \u0110\u1eccC, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn ra m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng lo\u1ea1i quy t\u1eafc n\u00e0o v\u1edbi con m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n n\u00e0o c\u1ea3. C\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng cao \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u00edch k\u1ef7, v\u00f4 t\u00e2m v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng cha m\u1eb9 l\u1eabn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n kh\u1ea3 thi nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u00f3m quy t\u1eafc th\u1ee9 ba. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o t\u00ednh c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng, v\u1eeba th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i, v\u1eeba h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf nh\u1eefng mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc y\u00eau c\u1ea7u tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ed5 \u00edch h\u01a1n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i theo c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc, \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra khi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 m\u1ed9t quy t\u1eafc n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb; h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"2\" title=\"Vietlearn\" rel=\"nofollow\">k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng<\/a> c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ee3p l\u00fd; \u0111\u1ec1 ra nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n h\u1eefu \u00edch cho tr\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch. Nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng. \u279e C\u00e1c nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. H\u1ecd s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00ednh cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf \u2013 nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc m\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd r\u00fat ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd b\u00e1u. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng: \u201c\u0110\u1eebng c\u00f3 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc nh\u01b0 b\u1ed1 m\u00ecnh h\u1ed3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc\u201d hay: \u201c\u0110\u1eebng c\u00f3 kh\u00f3 t\u00ednh nh\u01b0 m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh h\u1ed3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc\u201d, v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u1ea1i h\u00e0nh x\u1eed gi\u1ed1ng h\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 cha m\u1eb9 h\u1ecd, hay g\u00e2y kh\u00f3 d\u1ec5 cho con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh. Nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb hay b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u00f2n sau n\u00e0y s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vi\u1ec7c suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 \u00edch: \u201cC\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00fat ra nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc g\u00ec v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n? N\u00ean x\u1eed s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch hay bi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110\u00f4i l\u00fac b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n khi ph\u1ea3i b\u01b0\u1edbc ra t\u1eeb c\u00e1i b\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. H\u00e3y tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. C\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi v\u1ee3, ch\u1ed3ng hay b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu \u00edch. Trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xin <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"2\" title=\"Vietlearn\" rel=\"nofollow\">t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n<\/a> t\u1eeb c\u00e1c <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"2\" title=\"Vietlearn\" rel=\"nofollow\">chuy\u00ean gia<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc v\u00e0 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. Con b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng nh\u1ecf th\u00ec c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. T\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 c\u01b0\u01a1ng quy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u1edf c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n sau \u0111\u00e2y:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Thomas 12 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 Kerstin 10 tu\u1ed5i. Ch\u00fang kh\u00e1 hi\u1ec3u nhau. Nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c c\u00e3i c\u1ecd hay tranh gi\u00e0nh th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y \u1edf c\u00e1c anh ch\u1ecb em trong nh\u00e0 r\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfm th\u1ea5y \u1edf hai \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y. Ngay c\u1ea3 c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ch\u00fang th\u00edch v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0. C\u1ea3 hai kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd t\u1ecf ra lo \u00e2u, th\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 lu\u00f4n vui v\u1ebb th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng. \u201cCh\u00fang v\u1ed1n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u1ea5y\u201d, b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n n\u00f3i. Ngay sau \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi b\u00e0: \u201cD\u00f9 g\u00ec b\u00e0 c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ee9?\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">H\u00f3a ra, c\u1ea3 Thomas v\u00e0 Kerstin \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n khi c\u00f2n b\u00e9. Thomas b\u1ecb m\u1eafc ch\u1ee9ng vi\u00eam da th\u1ea7n kinh r\u1ea5t nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng trong s\u00e1u n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean. \u0110\u00eam n\u00e0o c\u1eadu b\u00e9 c\u0169ng t\u1ef1 c\u00e0o c\u1ea5u m\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i, s\u00e1ng d\u1eady ga tr\u1ea3i gi\u01b0\u1eddng th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5m \u0111\u1ea7y m\u00e1u. Kerstin c\u0169ng m\u1eafc tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 t\u1eeb r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf. B\u00e0 m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 t\u00ecm m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch, t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c \u0111i g\u1eb7p c\u00e1c b\u00e1c s\u0129, n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng cho \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c thu th\u1eadp t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u. Ph\u1ea3i r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u sau khi tr\u1ea3i qua qu\u00e3ng th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i ki\u00ean tr\u00ec th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m, b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap con m\u00ecnh kh\u1ecfi b\u1ec7nh: m\u1ed9t ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u0103n ki\u00eang r\u1ea5t ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p v\u00e0 nghi\u00eam ng\u1eb7t m\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u1edf nh\u00e0 tr\u1ebb hay v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y sinh nh\u1eadt, hai \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i tu\u00e2n theo. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n. Thomas v\u00e0 Kerstin tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u1ef1c k\u00ec k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u00e0 m\u1eb9 k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn: \u201cC\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng: \u2018B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t cho con c\u00e1i. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9.\u201d C\u00f3 l\u1ebd suy ngh\u0129 n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc v\u00e0 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1eb7t ra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u00f4i c\u0169ng r\u00fat ra b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc: Ngay khi t\u00f4i ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t cho con m\u00ecnh, c\u00e1c gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u00eam uy quy\u1ec1n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c h\u01a1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u01b0\u01a1ng quy\u1ebft? M\u1ed9t m\u1eb7t, ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f4ng c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 con kh\u1ecfi nguy hi\u1ec3m. Kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb 2 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p ch\u1ea1y tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ed1, ngh\u1ecbch \u1ed5 c\u1eafm \u0111i\u1ec7n hay cho nh\u1eefng v\u1eadt nh\u1ecf v\u00e0o mi\u1ec7ng \u2013 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng hay ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i d\u1eef d\u1ed9i v\u00e0 dai d\u1eb3ng. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec1u th\u1eaft \u0111ai an to\u00e0n cho con khi l\u00e1i xe. C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u1edbi con m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng? V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u00ec c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t ra gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n cho tr\u1ebb. M\u1ed7i khi con b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 che ch\u1edf, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t an n\u1eefa, v\u00ec c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh n\u00ean l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd r\u1eb1ng con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0m ai b\u1ecb th\u01b0\u01a1ng hay kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m ch\u1eedi m\u1eafng ai c\u1ea3. Tr\u1ed9m c\u1eafp, n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i, ph\u00e1 ho\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed3 d\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u2013 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y h\u1ecd c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd cho ph\u00e9p con m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ed v\u1edbi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y, cho d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac h\u1ecd c\u0169ng thi\u1ebfu c\u01b0\u01a1ng quy\u1ebft.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u l\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc v\u00e0 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u01b0 qui \u0111\u1ecbnh gi\u1edd \u0111i ng\u1ee7, t\u00e1c phong \u0103n u\u1ed1ng, \u0103n \u0111\u1ed3 ng\u1ecdt, xem ti-vi, d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0, v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd, l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, ph\u00e9p l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1, tinh th\u1ea7n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 n\u00ean \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u1eeb tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e2y?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u1ea4n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh v\u1eabn \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 th\u1ea5p nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. \u00cdt nh\u1ea5t \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9. Trong khi \u0111\u1ec1 ra c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ee7 gi\u1ea5c ch\u01b0a? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ea1o kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed vui v\u1ebb trong c\u00e1c b\u1eefa \u0103n? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 cho tr\u1ebb gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ef1a d\u1eabm v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n? Hay b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n? \u201cCh\u1ec9 l\u00e0m n\u1ed1t l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y n\u1eefa th\u00f4i!\u201d \u2013 t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng nghe r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u1edf d\u00e0i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 \u00edch k\u1ef7 khi nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1 ra thu\u1eadn theo \u00fd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang b\u1ea1n. Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, con b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u r\u1ea5t \u00edt t\u1eeb con c\u00e1i. M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. B\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua. M\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00f4ng tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i c\u00f3 h\u00f4m l\u1edbp c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ebfn ba \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb c\u1ea3m l\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 s\u1ed1t cao. C\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3n b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb. C\u1ea3 ba \u0111\u1ec1u gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch gi\u1ed1ng nhau: \u201cT\u00f4i bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 con m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb \u1ed1m. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00e1u \u1edf nh\u00e0 nh\u01b0ng ch\u00e1u l\u1ea1i th\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u01a1n. T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vi\u1ec7c cho b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb quy\u1ec1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c qu\u00e1 s\u1ee9c v\u1edbi ch\u00fang. Tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7. V\u00ec v\u1eady ch\u00fang c\u1ea7n ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1edf che, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c. Tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c r\u1eb1ng: \u201cB\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t cho m\u00ecnh.\u201d Khi b\u1ea1n cho con quy\u1ec1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u quy t\u1eafc, con s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 do h\u01a1n \u2013 nh\u01b0ng con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau qu\u00fd b\u1ea1n h\u01a1n m\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n t\u1ecf ra thi\u1ebfu t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng b\u1ea1n. \u201cNh\u1eefng g\u00ec con t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng th\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 lu\u1eadt \u1edf nh\u00e0!\u201d \u2013 n\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00fac b\u1ea1n n\u00ean ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh l\u1ea1i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. \u279e Ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c che ch\u1edf, an to\u00e0n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ecb g\u00f2 b\u00f3? Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec1 ra cho ch\u00fang c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc h\u1ee3p l\u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nhau v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 hai m\u1eb9 con c\u00f9ng h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd h\u01b0\u1edbng sang m\u1eb7t t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0: Nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o th\u01b0\u1eddng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y gi\u1eefa b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110\u1ec3 t\u00ecm c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi cho c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f9ng b\u00e1c s\u0129 nhi khoa, Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Morgenroth l\u1eadp ra m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t v\u00e0 g\u1eedi t\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f3 con \u1edf l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i t\u1eeb 4 th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ebfn 6 tu\u1ed5i khi \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u00e1m b\u1ec7nh. Trong b\u1ea3n kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t c\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 16 lo\u1ea1i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp theo \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1i qu\u00e1t to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0ng sau khi t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p 320 b\u1ea3n kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00fat ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn th\u00fa v\u1ecb sau:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trong t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c nh\u00f3m tu\u1ed5i t\u1eeb 4 th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ebfn 4-5 tu\u1ed5i, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0: \u201cCon t\u00f4i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a m\u00e3i.\u201d Kho\u1ea3ng 20% \u0111\u1ebfn 25% c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 cho \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb 6 tu\u1ed5i \u2013 t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i \u0111i h\u1ecdc \u2013 th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n quan tr\u1ecdng n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 sau \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn: \u201cCon t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nghe l\u1eddi. Con hay l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 con th\u00edch\u201d (t\u1eeb 1 \u0111\u1ebfn 6 tu\u1ed5i). \u201cCon t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean t\u1ecf ra c\u00e1u k\u1ec9nh v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n\u201d (kh\u00f4ng nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng khi tr\u1ebb 1 tu\u1ed5i, nh\u01b0ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u1edbn khi tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb 2 \u0111\u1ebfn 4 tu\u1ed5i). \u201cCon t\u00f4i g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u1edbivi\u1ec7c ng\u1ee7\u201d (th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb 7 th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ebfn 2 tu\u1ed5i).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p kh\u00e1c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cu\u1ed9c \u0111i\u1ec1u tra c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f2n cho th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 th\u00fa v\u1ecb kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ch\u1ee9ng t\u00e8 d\u1ea7m: Kho\u1ea3ng 20% tr\u1ebb 4 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 h\u01a1n 10% tr\u1ebb 6 tu\u1ed5i v\u1eabn t\u00e8 d\u1ea7m v\u00e0o ban \u0111\u00eam. Tuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 cho \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u1edbn. Cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft, th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n theo th\u1eddi gian.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u1ee3 ph\u1ea3i xa b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9: \u201cCon t\u00f4i kh\u00f3c nh\u00e8 m\u1ed7i khi ch\u00e1u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1edf c\u1ea1nh t\u00f4i.\u201d L\u1eddi kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0y \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n t\u01b0 s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb 1 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n s\u00e1u s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb 2 tu\u1ed5i. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn h\u01a1n hi\u1ebfm khi g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y. Quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i th\u1eadt b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec v\u00ec n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i n\u00e0y thu\u1ed9c qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ho\u1ea3ng s\u1ee3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00fa nu\u00f4i hay trong m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3: M\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n s\u00e1u s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb 2 \u0111\u1ebfn 4 tu\u1ed5i c\u00f3 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u n\u00e0y. Con s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y \u1edf nh\u00f3m tr\u1ebb 6 tu\u1ed5i l\u00ean t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n ba. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00fat ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng, n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i \u1edf m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb thu\u1ed9c giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vi\u1ec7c \u0103n u\u1ed1ng: Ch\u1ec9 4% s\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5 huynh cho r\u1eb1ng con m\u00ecnh \u0103n qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u. Trong nh\u00f3m t\u1eeb 2 \u0111\u1ebfn 6 tu\u1ed5i, 20% s\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5 huynh n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng con m\u00ecnh \u0103n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t \u00edt m\u00f3n. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng con m\u00ecnh \u0103n qu\u00e1 \u00edt. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p \u1edf l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i s\u01a1 sinh, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n n\u0103m s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb 4 \u0111\u1ebfn 6 tu\u1ed5i c\u00f3 g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y. Tuy nhi\u00ean, kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u00e1c s\u0129 l\u1ea1i cho th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh kh\u00e1m b\u1ec7nh, \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0o c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 dinh d\u01b0\u1ee1ng hay b\u1ecb th\u1eeba c\u00e2n c\u1ea3, x\u00e9t theo g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 y h\u1ecdc. ? GI\u1ea2I PH\u00c1P<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc tr\u1ebb n\u00ean s\u1edbm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 con th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u01b0 n\u00eau \u1edf tr\u00ean, tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc th\u1eadt s\u1edbm nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc sau: \u201c\u0110\u00f4i l\u00fac con ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 ch\u01a1i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh.\u201d \u201cB\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng \u0111em l\u1ea1i l\u1ee3i \u00edch g\u00ec c\u1ea3.\u201d \u201cCon ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea3o n\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 quan tr\u1ecdng.\u201d \u201cCon ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 ng\u1ee7 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 nh\u1ea5t m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i \u0103n u\u1ed1ng bao nhi\u00eau m\u1edbi no. N\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb \u0103n qu\u00e1 \u00edt, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 do hai nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ch\u00ednh: Ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb \u0111ang kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o v\u00e0 ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u0103n th\u00eam n\u1eefa. Ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb \u1ed1m \u2013 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0103n th\u00eam n\u1eefa. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u201cCon t\u00f4i \u0103n qu\u00e1 \u00edt\u201d lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n \u00e1m \u1ea3nh c\u00e1c \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u1ea1i ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1m, t\u00f4i c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p kh\u00e1c, c\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp trong b\u1ea3n kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng: Vi\u1ec7c c\u00e3i c\u1ecd v\u00e0 ghen t\u1ecb gi\u1eefa anh ch\u1ecb em trong nh\u00e0, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u1ee9ng x\u1eed hung h\u0103ng, hi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed9ng, ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ee3m v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u00f3ng ch\u00e1n, thi\u1ebfu t\u1eadp trung trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ch\u01a1i. N\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i h\u1ecdc, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u00f2n ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p h\u01a1n: Ng\u1ed3i y\u00ean m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7, t\u1eadp trung ch\u00fa \u00fd, tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn c\u1ee7a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"2\" title=\"Vietlearn\" rel=\"nofollow\">gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean<\/a>, th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n t\u1ea5t c\u00e1c nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c giao, h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng l\u1edbp, ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 \u2013 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y tr\u1ebb ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee9a n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nghi\u00eam t\u00fac l\u01b0u t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u1ed7i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c khi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 hi\u1ebfm khi x\u1ea3y ra. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho c\u00e1c qu\u00fd v\u1ecb ph\u1ee5 huynh, do \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn k\u0129 c\u00e0ng c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc cho nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y. Nh\u1eefng ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn v\u00e0 g\u1ee3i \u00fd t\u1eeb cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng cho nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c. \u00a7 T\u1ed4NG K\u1ebeT \u21d2 Mong \u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00e1ch xa nhau<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 mong \u0111\u1ee3i qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u1edf con c\u00e1i n\u00ean khi con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd mong mu\u1ed1n, h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00ean l\u00e0m tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn t\u00ednh kh\u00ed c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh d\u00f9 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. \u21d2 Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i s\u01a1 sinh<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Cho d\u00f9 trong \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i s\u01a1 sinh, \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i nh\u1ecf, \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o hay \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u2013 tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. T\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o tr\u1edf \u0111i, nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n. \u21d2 Cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc cho con<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1eb5n c\u00f3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh hay t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"2\" title=\"Vietlearn\" rel=\"nofollow\">chuy\u00ean gia<\/a>. M\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o c\u1ea7n tr\u00e1nh. \u21d2 Trong s\u00e1u n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng hay ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1\u2026 \u2026 vi\u1ec7c con h\u1ecd l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a, kh\u00f4ng v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi, th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean c\u00e1u k\u1ec9nh hay c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7. \u1ede m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i nh\u00f3m tu\u1ed5i th\u00ec n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 \u0103n u\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1i d\u1ea7m bu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00eam c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fa \u00fd.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c d\u1ea1y con h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc \u2013 Annette Kast-Zahn T\u1eea C\u00c1C PH\u1ea6N V\u1eeaA \u0110\u1eccC, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn ra m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng lo\u1ea1i quy t\u1eafc n\u00e0o v\u1edbi con m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a? N\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 gi\u1edbi [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[23],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16849","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-phuong-phap"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16849","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16849"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16849\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16850,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16849\/revisions\/16850"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16849"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16849"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16849"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}