{"id":16851,"date":"2021-12-05T14:16:35","date_gmt":"2021-12-05T07:16:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/post\/?p=16851"},"modified":"2021-12-05T14:16:37","modified_gmt":"2021-12-05T07:16:37","slug":"phan-4-tat-ca-cac-bac-phu-huynh-deu-mac-sai-lam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/phan-4-tat-ca-cac-bac-phu-huynh-deu-mac-sai-lam\/","title":{"rendered":"Ph\u1ea7n 4. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u1ec1u m\u1eafc sai l\u1ea7m"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c d\u1ea1y con<\/a> h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc \u2013 Annette Kast-Zahn<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong ch\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft\u2026 \u279e V\u00ec sao vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng n\u1ebfu thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea5u tranh? \u279e Nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ec7n minh cho nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng k\u00ec qu\u1eb7c nh\u1eb1m g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u279e Nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh vi tai h\u1ea1i nh\u1eb1m g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u279e B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o? \u279e Nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u01b0a th\u00edch nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3? \u279e V\u00ec sao nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng mang t\u00ednh gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd mang l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4n l\u01b0\u1eddng? \u279e H\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u di\u1ec5n k\u1ecbch\u2026 Ch\u00fang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00ec sao b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea5u tranh?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

GI\u00c1O D\u1ee4C S\u1ebc KH\u00d4NG TH\u00c0NH C\u00d4NG n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ea5u tranh v\u00ec vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 ch\u00fang th\u00edch. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 xem ti-vi, \u0103n \u0111\u1ed3 ng\u1ecdt, v\u1ea7y n\u01b0\u1edbc, ra ngo\u00e0i ch\u01a1i hay b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc cha m\u1eb9 qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng v\u00e0 d\u1eadm ch\u00e2n. V\u1edbi b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1eadp t\u1eaft m\u1ecdi th\u00fa vui v\u00e0 l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng n\u00f3i: \u201c\u0110\u1ee7 r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ea5y. Ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t ngay \u0111i.\u201d \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau trong m\u1eaft l\u0169 tr\u1ebb n\u1eefa v\u00e0 th\u1eadt d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u n\u1ebfu sau \u0111\u00f3 l\u0169 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i, c\u00e3i l\u1ea1i ho\u1eb7c b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i. Nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng n\u00e0y cho th\u1ea5y tr\u1ebb \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f4ng v\u1eeba l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb \u201cD\u1eadp t\u1eaft m\u1ecdi th\u00fa vui c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang\u201d. Th\u00eam n\u1eefa, d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ch\u00fang l\u00e0m c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p ph\u00f2ng, \u0111\u00e1nh r\u0103ng, l\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i ng\u1ee7 ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1c v\u00e0 ch\u00fang s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng, c\u00e3i l\u1ea1i, b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i ho\u1eb7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f4ng v\u1eeba l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ai b\u1eaft ch\u00fang ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n \u1ea5y. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng n\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng n\u00f3i: \u201cV\u00e2ng th\u01b0a m\u1eb9\u201d v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n y\u00eau c\u1ea7u? L\u0169 tr\u1ebb b\u1ea9m sinh th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng con c\u1eebu non d\u1ec5 b\u1ea3o \u0111\u00e2u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngay c\u1ea3 tr\u1ebb con c\u0169ng lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft: Ai l\u00e0 k\u1ebb m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u0169 tr\u1ebb gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ea7y s\u01b0 t\u1eed con c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u00ecnh trong nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tranh \u0111\u1ea5u. Ch\u00fang mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft ch\u00fang c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 t\u1ea7m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi ai v\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Nh\u01b0ng l\u0169 tr\u1ebb g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n h\u01a1n b\u1ea7y s\u01b0 t\u1eed con \u1edf ch\u1ed7 ch\u00fang l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong khu\u00f4n kh\u1ed5 nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 anh ch\u1ecb em \u0111\u1ed3ng trang l\u1ee9a. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee9a c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 anh ch\u1ecb em. V\u00ec v\u1eady b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3ng vai nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ee7 c\u1ea1nh tranh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u2013 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c lo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt c\u00f3 v\u00fa kh\u00e1c \u2013 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 tinh th\u1ea7n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea5u tranh nh\u1eb1m th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Trong khoa h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi \u201ct\u00edch c\u1ef1c kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i\u201d. L\u0169 tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 xem \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang v\u1edbi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng xung quanh m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ai n\u1eb1m trong t\u1ea7m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 khi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb li\u00ean t\u1ee5c v\u1ee9t c\u00e1i th\u00eca t\u1eeb tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf \u0111\u1ea9u xu\u1ed1ng, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t th\u00edch th\u00fa khi l\u1ea7n n\u00e0o m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng ra nh\u1eb7t h\u1ed9. Ngo\u00e0i ra, nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e1nh, c\u1eafn, n\u1eb1m l\u0103n ra s\u00e0n \u0103n v\u1ea1 c\u0169ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u1eb1ng l\u0169 tr\u1ebb \u0111ang th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng xung quanh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. Nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t ra gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n khi l\u0169 tr\u1ebb h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00e1i qu\u00e1, c\u01b0 x\u1eed coi th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ho\u1eb7c khi c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi d\u00f9 l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh thay v\u00ec ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111\u00f9a c\u1ee3t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00fat ra ba h\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3 sau:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed trong gia\u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ebd b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a n\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 b\u1ed1 ho\u1eb7c m\u1eb9 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc u\u1ed1n n\u1eafn con c\u00e1i trong khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u ch\u00fang. C\u00e1c \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a v\u1edbi l\u0169 tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con c\u00e1i l\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ph\u00f3 m\u1eb7c cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 l\u1eabn nhau. C\u1ea3 b\u1ed1 l\u1eabn m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 tham gia d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u1ef1 xung \u0111\u1ed9t gi\u1eefa b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi. B\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng l\u1ea1i khi cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m theo \u00fd ch\u00fang. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i tham gia v\u00e0o m\u1ecdi cu\u1ed9c tranh \u0111\u1ea5u. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p v\u1eb7t m\u1ecdi l\u1eddi n\u00f3i ho\u1eb7c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u1ed7n l\u00e1o hay n\u1ed5i kh\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn tr\u00f4i qua v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng: Con b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh l\u00e0m v\u1eady m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n th\u1eed xem h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. B\u1edfi v\u00ec, b\u1ea1n th\u1eed ngh\u0129 m\u00e0 xem, li\u1ec7u ch\u00fang c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1eed l\u00e0m v\u1eady v\u1edbi ai t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n l\u00e0 v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e2y?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0oc\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea5u tranh v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 trong nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. M\u1ed9t \u201cchi\u1ebfn binh\u201d y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7y s\u1ee3 s\u1ec7t khi c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng v\u1eeba \u00fd. V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u201cchi\u1ebfn binh\u201d \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c, nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng cho ch\u00fang \u0103n k\u1eb9o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd nh\u01b0 la h\u00e9t r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u, n\u1eb1m l\u0103n ra s\u00e0n \u0103n v\u1ea1 hay \u0111\u1eadp \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0o \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd th\u00ec ch\u00fang c\u00e0ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng v\u00e0 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec h\u01a1n nh\u1eb1m \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. \u279e L\u00fd do ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng cho c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u2013 m\u1ed9t v\u00f2ng tu\u1ea7n ho\u00e0n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi b\u1ea1n h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang t\u1ee9c t\u1ed1i ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u. N\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea5u tranh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. C\u00e1ch ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ea5u tranh lu\u00f4n b\u1ecb b\u1ea1n cho l\u00e0 h\u1ed7n l\u00e1o, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 khi con b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf ra ngo\u00e0i, la h\u00e9t, n\u1eb1m v\u1eadt ra s\u00e0n \u0103n v\u1ea1, \u0111\u00e1nh tr\u1ea3 ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu l\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i ng\u1ee7. V\u1eady t\u1ea1i sao \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 lu\u00f4n x\u1ea3y ra? \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa \u0111\u1ea5u tranh \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n hay kh\u00f4ng? T\u1ed1t h\u01a1n h\u1ebft b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5u \u0111\u00e1o h\u01a1n r\u1eb1ng: Chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra khi con b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd? B\u1ea1n n\u00ean ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e2y? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 n\u00ean gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho n\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea7n sau n\u00f3 c\u01b0 x\u1eed t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng? Hay con b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 l\u00fd do ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng r\u1ed3i v\u00e0 l\u1ea7n sau n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u201cv\u01b0\u1ee3t qu\u00e1 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n?\u201d M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd n\u00ean c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n quan t\u00e2m, ch\u0103m lo \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00ean th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng h\u1ecd v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n. H\u1ecd t\u00e1n d\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u1ed7n l\u00e1o c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a con v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u00e0nh vi. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t mong mu\u1ed1n h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n l\u00e0: \u201cCon mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fa \u00fd! Con mu\u1ed1n m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf n\u00ean quan tr\u1ecdng! Con mu\u1ed1n tham gia v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y ph\u00e2n t\u00edch l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp t\u1eeb ch\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00ean l\u00e0 Paul, th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 lu\u00f4n kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ee3m. T\u1ea1i sao Paul th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean la h\u00e9t khi n\u00f3 c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i? C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i l\u00e0: T\u1ea1i sao n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i d\u1eebng la h\u00e9t? V\u00ec n\u00f3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y ti\u1ebfng h\u00e9t c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3: Ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0i ph\u00fat sau khi n\u00f3 h\u00e9t m\u1eb9 n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i ch\u1ea1y \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00e0 chi\u1ec1u theo \u00fd n\u00f3. V\u1eady l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 t\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft t\u00ecm th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i? L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t vi\u1ec7c la h\u00e9t v\u00ec c\u1ee9 m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf m\u1eb9 n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea1y \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ed7 v\u1ec1 an \u1ee7i?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1edb Patrick \u2013 \u201cn\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i nh\u00f3m n\u00f3 ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng kh\u00f4ng? Chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra khi n\u00f3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1eadp ph\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n? M\u1eb9 Patrick th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ea1y ngay \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Trong 15 ph\u00fat ti\u1ebfp theo, b\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec3 Patrick kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0nh x\u1eed nh\u01b0 v\u1eady n\u1eefa. Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, Patrick kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5t g\u00ec m\u00e0 c\u00f2n g\u00e2y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd. T\u1ea1i sao c\u1eadu b\u00e9 l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u01a1 ch\u1ee9?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Carola \u2013 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebfng \u0103n nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng: m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t khi m\u00ecnh di\u1ec5n k\u1ecbch trong l\u00fac \u0103n. Nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t th\u1eddi gian \u0103n theo \u00fd mu\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Miriam \u2013 m\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc sinh<\/a> tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o \u2013 th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ee7ng \u0111\u1ec9nh t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch c\u00e2u gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1edf nh\u00e0 thay v\u00ec \u0111i h\u1ecdc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vicky l\u1ea1i hay gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd \u0111au b\u1ee5ng m\u1ed7i khi n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch \u0111i h\u1ecdc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m chung: Vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u1ecf ra hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. Ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd h\u01a1n t\u1eeb m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh. Nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1eb1m g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd ch\u00fang \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c nhau l\u00e0 m\u1ea5y. M\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed ri\u00eang v\u00e0 m\u1ed7i \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac d\u1ec5 m\u1ee7i l\u00f2ng. Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00e1 r\u00f5 ch\u00fang c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn cha m\u1eb9 b\u1ecb r\u1ed1i tr\u00ed. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00e0ng r\u1ed1i tr\u00ed th\u00ec \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ee3i. N\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u th\u00eam r\u1eb1ng: \u201cM\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fa \u00fd m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 \u00fd l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh th\u00edch. M\u00ecnh c\u00f2n m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9! \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, tr\u1ebb em th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u00e2y nhi\u1ec1u \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh th\u1eadt m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00ec n\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u00e0nh chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn m\u1ed7i khi ph\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ai l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb gi\u00e0nh chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 tin m\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f2n b\u1ea5t an h\u01a1n. N\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn n\u00ean lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf cho ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 \u201cm\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n\u201d. M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i ngh\u0129 ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00ec n\u00f3 t\u1ef1 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCh\u1eb3ng ai t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3. V\u00e0 khi m\u00ecnh g\u00e2y ch\u00fa \u00fd th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. C\u00f2n khi m\u00ecnh ngoan ngo\u00e3n th\u00ec s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng ai th\u00e8m \u0111o\u00e1i ho\u00e0i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch \u0111i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch l\u1ea1i cho con h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m c\u00e1i n\u1ecd c\u00e1i kia l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng, tranh c\u00e3i, nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ed9 v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00e1u k\u1ec9nh. S\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd m\u1ea5t ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn, \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng v\u00e0 x\u1eed s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi con tr\u1ebb ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn. K\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ngoan ngo\u00e3n su\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i th\u00ec n\u1ed7i lo s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra c\u00e3i v\u00e3 v\u1edbi ch\u00fang v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1ef1c trong \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ecd. Ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 huynh d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian ch\u0103m s\u00f3c con c\u00e1i c\u0169ng v\u1eabn c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng r\u01a1i v\u00e0o v\u00f2ng tu\u1ea7n ho\u00e0n \u201cG\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd\u201d m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 hay bi\u1ebft. C\u00f2n v\u1edbi b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb, ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi chu tr\u00ecnh \u1ea5y m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u cho ch\u00fang v\u00e0 c\u1eaft r\u1eddi t\u1eebng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a chu tr\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u0169 tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 hai l\u00fd do ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng bi\u1ec7n minh cho h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u279e C\u00e1c v\u00ed d\u1ee5 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3<\/p>\n\n\n\n

G\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed \u01b0\u01a1ng b\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i d\u1ef1a theo s\u01a1 \u0111\u1ed3 v\u00f2ng tu\u1ea7n ho\u00e0n \u201cG\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd\u201d. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn con m\u00ecnh theo nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c kh\u00e1c nhau nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean khi b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb cho r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd mang t\u00ednh ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c nh\u01b0 ch\u1eedi m\u1eafng, \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi g\u00e2y ch\u00fa hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5t ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 v\u1ed7 v\u1ec1, ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng hay \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ng\u1ed3i v\u00e0o l\u00f2ng. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng: \u201cTh\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fa \u00fd theo ki\u1ec3u ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u00f2n h\u01a1n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn\u201d. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m r\u00f5 v\u00f2ng tu\u1ea7n ho\u00e0n \u201cG\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd\u201d. M\u1ed7i m\u1ee5c d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t m\u0169i t\u00ean trong s\u01a1 \u0111\u1ed3 \u1edf trang 57 v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1eb1m g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Manuel \u0111\u00f3ng \u201ck\u1ecbch\u201d: Cu c\u1eadu ch\u1ec9 m\u1edbi 5 tu\u1ed5i. N\u00f3 g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1i n\u00e0o c\u0169ng di\u1ec5n k\u1ecbch t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ng\u1ee7. C\u1eadu b\u00e9 \u0111\u00f2i nghe kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n, sau \u0111\u00f3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c b\u1eadt d\u1eady, \u0111\u00f2i \u0103n ho\u1eb7c u\u1ed1ng c\u00e1i n\u1ecd c\u00e1i kia v\u00e0 c\u1ee9 hai ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i b\u1eaft m\u1eb9 ng\u1ee7 c\u00f9ng v\u00ec n\u00f3 \u201cs\u1ee3\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1eb9 Manuel ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1eadu b\u00e9: M\u1eb9 Manuel t\u1ed1i n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ecdc \u00edt nh\u1ea5t ba c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 ru c\u1eadu b\u00e9 ng\u1ee7. Manuel th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c \u0111\u00f2i m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ecdc th\u00eam. Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec m\u1eb9 n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i chi\u1ec1u theo \u00fd con v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecdc ti\u1ebfp truy\u1ec7n cho c\u1eadu nghe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Manuel th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u201cv\u1edf k\u1ecbch\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3: N\u00f3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y \u201cM\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n kh\u00f3c nh\u00e8 m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f2i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ecdc th\u00eam m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ebfn hai c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n. Th\u1eed ngh\u0129 xem m\u00ecnh c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f2i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec n\u1eefa nh\u1ec9?\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Manuel l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00e1ng ch\u00fa \u00fd n\u00e0y: C\u1eadu b\u00e9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111\u00f3ng k\u1ecbch, b\u1eadt d\u1eady, g\u1ecdi m\u1eb9, kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1eb9 Manuel b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ea5t ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u theo \u00fd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a con n\u1eefa: L\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f4 c\u00f2n kh\u00e1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn. C\u00f4 cho Manuel \u0103n, u\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 b\u1ebf c\u1eadu b\u00e9 v\u1ec1 gi\u01b0\u1eddng. Nh\u01b0ng d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n c\u00f4 m\u1ea5t ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn. C\u00f4 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u qu\u00e1t: \u201cCh\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t ngay! T\u1ed1i n\u00e0o con c\u0169ng l\u00e0m tr\u00f2 nh\u01b0 trong r\u1ea1p xi\u1ebfc \u1ea5y! M\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu n\u1ed5i con n\u1eefa \u0111\u00e2u!\u201d V\u00e0i l\u1ea7n c\u00f4 \u1ea5y t\u00fam ch\u1eb7t l\u1ea5y Manuel, l\u1eafc qua l\u1eafc l\u1ea1i th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u00f2n n\u1eefa. Nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u00f4 l\u1ea1i m\u1ec1m l\u00f2ng, n\u1eb1m b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh ru n\u00f3 ng\u1ee7, n\u00e9n n\u1ed7i t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t ch\u1edd n\u00f3 ng\u1ee7 thi\u1ebfp \u0111i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Manuel kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eb9 chi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc: M\u1eb9 Manuel r\u1ea5t s\u1ee3 m\u00e0n k\u1ecbch m\u1ed7i bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a c\u1eadu b\u00e9. C\u00f4 bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111ang ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i m\u00ecnh. Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecdc truy\u1ec7n khi\u1ebfn c\u00f4 ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n v\u00ec c\u00f4 bi\u1ebft th\u1eeba v\u1edbi Manuel th\u00ec bao nhi\u00eau c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng chi\u1ec1u theo \u00fd con c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb tr\u00e1i tim n\u1eefa. S\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c c\u00f4 d\u00e0nh cho Manuel ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 mi\u1ec5n c\u01b0\u1ee1ng. M\u1ed7i khi Manuel b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 ngoan ngo\u00e3n n\u1eb1m im tr\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f4 l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5y nh\u1eb9 nh\u00f5m v\u00e0 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i. C\u00f4 c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng c\u1eadu b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m tra th\u00eam l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Manuel hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea5u tranh c\u1eadt l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e0nh l\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd: C\u1eadu b\u00e9 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho m\u00ecnh h\u00e0ng t\u1ed1i. C\u1eadu ngh\u0129 th\u1ea7m: \u201cCh\u1eafc m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n m\u1eb9 ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh c\u01a1! M\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec. N\u1ebfu t\u1ed1i n\u00e0o m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng \u0111\u00f3ng k\u1ecbch th\u00ec m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd d\u00e0nh ri\u00eang cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3!\u201d. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00f2ng tu\u1ea7n ho\u00e0n ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t t\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e2y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Manuel l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd: Nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y ti\u1ebfp theo n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3ng k\u1ecbch\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

G\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u1edf nh\u00e0 tr\u1ebb<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e0nh l\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 x\u1ea3y ra khi tr\u1ebb \u1edf nh\u00e0 v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 c\u00f2n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean x\u1ea3y ra \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc n\u1eefa. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd l\u1ea1i \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v\u00f2ng tu\u1ea7n ho\u00e0n kia v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi xung quanh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1: \u201cM\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn y\u00eau chi\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u1edf nh\u00e0 tr\u1ebb sau \u0111\u00e2y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap l\u00e0m r\u00f5 v\u00f2ng tu\u1ea7n ho\u00e0n \u201cG\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd\u201d:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nina m\u1edbi 4 tu\u1ed5i. C\u00f4 b\u00e9 r\u1ea5t g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00e0 b\u00e1m m\u1eb9. Tuy nhi\u00ean, m\u1eb9 Nina th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00ec m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n r\u1eddi m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 con b\u00e9 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c v\u00e0 r\u1ea7u r\u0129. Nina \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n y\u00eau qu\u00fd v\u00ec c\u00f4 b\u00e9 kh\u00e1 cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat v\u00e0 c\u00f3 h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi. Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng c\u00f4 b\u00e9 l\u1ea1i ra ngo\u00e0i ch\u01a1i c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. Nina th\u00edch r\u1ee7 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc c\u00f9ng l\u1edbp \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1eb9 \u0111i c\u00f9ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111i nh\u00e0 tr\u1ebb, Nina m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea7u g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n khi ph\u1ea3i xa m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0ng sau \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u \u1ed5n c\u1ea3. T\u1eeb k\u00ec ngh\u1ec9 h\u00e8 cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o n\u0103m h\u1ecdc th\u1ee9 hai Nina b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1eb1m g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd. T\u1eeb l\u00fac \u1edf nh\u00e0 con b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c th\u1ea3m thi\u1ebft: \u201cCon ph\u1ea3i \u0111i nh\u00e0 tr\u1ebb th\u1eadt sao?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec Nina s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed1 \u0111\u01b0a \u0111i \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y qu\u00e1 bu\u1ed3n khi ph\u1ea3i chia tay m\u1eb9 l\u00fac t\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1eddng. \u1ede tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o, \u201cv\u1edf k\u1ecbch\u201d l\u1ea1i ti\u1ebfp di\u1ec5n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nina kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c: C\u00f4 b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 ng\u1ed3i thu m\u00ecnh \u1edf g\u00f3c ph\u00f2ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f3c d\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t. M\u1ed7i khi ai \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecfi l\u00fd do c\u00f4 b\u00e9 n\u00f3i: \u201cCon kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i bu\u1ed3n th\u1ebf n\u00e0y\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi c\u00f4 b\u00e9: M\u1ed7i khi c\u00f4 b\u00e9 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5y th\u01b0\u01a1ng, b\u1ebf Nina \u0111\u1eb7t l\u00ean \u0111\u00f9i, an \u1ee7i v\u00e0 b\u00e0y tr\u00f2 cho c\u00f4 b\u00e9 ch\u01a1i. Sau khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ed7 v\u1ec1 th\u00ec Nina n\u00edn v\u00e0 ng\u1ed3i ch\u01a1i ngoan ngo\u00e3n m\u1ed9t l\u00fac.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nina \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng m\u00e0n k\u1ecbch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u1eadt hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3: Con b\u00e9 ngh\u0129: \u201cC\u00e1c c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t. Nh\u1eefng gi\u1ecdt n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m c\u00e1c c\u00f4 r\u1ea5t ch\u00fa \u00fd.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nina l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng g\u00e2y ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u1edf nh\u00e0 tr\u1ebb th\u00ec 25 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u00f9ng nhau \u0103n b\u1eefa \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00e2m. C\u1ea3 l\u1edbp ph\u1ea3i ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn khi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0103n xong th\u00ec m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u01a1i ti\u1ebfp. Nina gh\u00e9t ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ed3i y\u00ean m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7 v\u00e0 c\u00f4 b\u00e9 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch r\u00fat ng\u1eafn kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n n\u00e0y: C\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1eefa \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00e2m th\u00ec Nina l\u1ea1i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00f3c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai d\u1ed7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4 b\u00e9. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 Nina th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi b\u1eefa \u0103n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean v\u00e0 ch\u01a1i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh \u1edf g\u00f3c l\u1edbp. Tuy nhi\u00ean c\u00f4 b\u00e9 v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c kh\u00f3c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean<\/a> b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ea5t ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u theo \u00fd Nina: Khi c\u00e1c c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 chi\u1ec1u theo Nina \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa, h\u1ecd g\u1eedi c\u00f4 b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u00f2ng hi\u1ec7u tr\u01b0\u1edfng \u2013 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n. V\u00ec mu\u1ed1n nhanh ch\u00f3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00ean, b\u00e0 hi\u1ec7u tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u01b0\u1eddng cho Nina k\u1eb9o (\u1edf nh\u00e0 Nina ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0103n k\u1eb9o v\u00e0o th\u1ee9 B\u1ea3y h\u00e0ng tu\u1ea7n) v\u00e0 cho ph\u00e9p c\u00f4 b\u00e9 ch\u01a1i trong ph\u00f2ng. L\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u Nina v\u1eabn kh\u00f3c d\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t nh\u01b0ng sau \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i ngoan ngo\u00e3n v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i l\u1edbp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nina kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chi\u1ec1u chu\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc: C\u00e1c c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o r\u1ea5t vui khi Nina n\u00edn kh\u00f3c v\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e1c c\u00f4 ch\u1ec9 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn Nina m\u1ed7i khi c\u00f4 b\u00e9 kh\u00f3c. Nina xa c\u00e1ch c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n v\u00ec c\u00f4 b\u00e9 tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00e1 bi\u1ec7t. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n c\u00e1c c\u00f4 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng cho Nina \u0103n nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 c\u00f4 b\u00e9 k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng: \u201cM\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n th\u00edch m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa r\u1ed3i\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nina h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u00f4 b\u00e9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea5u tranh c\u1eadt l\u1ef1c: D\u0129 nhi\u00ean c\u00f4 b\u00e9 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o m\u1ee7i l\u00f2ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f3c th\u00fat th\u00edt h\u00e0ng gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3. Nh\u01b0ng Nina c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c c\u00f4 chi\u1ec1u, cho k\u1eb9o ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng b\u1eefa \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00e2m t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n. \u0110\u1ec3 r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi b\u1eefa \u0103n, Nina kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c th\u1ea3m thi\u1ebft r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u. Ti\u1ebfc r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ed3i ch\u1edd b\u1eefa \u0103n k\u1ebft th\u00fac c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n th\u00ec Nina \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n xa l\u00e1nh!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nina l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1eb1m g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd: H\u00f4m sau con b\u00e9 l\u1ea1i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c kh\u00f3c\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c d\u1ea1y con h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc \u2013 Annette Kast-Zahn Trong ch\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft\u2026 \u279e V\u00ec sao vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng n\u1ebfu thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea5u tranh? \u279e Nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ec7n minh cho nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[23],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16851","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-phuong-phap"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16851","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16851"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16851\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16852,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16851\/revisions\/16852"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16851"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16851"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16851"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}