{"id":16853,"date":"2021-12-05T14:16:44","date_gmt":"2021-12-05T07:16:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/post\/?p=16853"},"modified":"2021-12-05T14:16:45","modified_gmt":"2021-12-05T07:16:45","slug":"phan-5-nhung-bien-phap-hieu-qua-khien-tre-khong-co-gay-chu-y-nua","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/phan-5-nhung-bien-phap-hieu-qua-khien-tre-khong-co-gay-chu-y-nua\/","title":{"rendered":"Ph\u1ea7n 5. Nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 g\u00e2y ch\u00fa \u00fd n\u1eefa"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c d\u1ea1y con<\/a> h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc \u2013 Annette Kast-Zahn<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea0N \u0110\u00c3 X\u00c1C \u0110\u1ecaNH r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u1eb1m trong chu tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean hay ch\u01b0a? Hay b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh ph\u1ea3i tham gia v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t chu tr\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f4i s\u1ebd gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u cho b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 h\u1eefu \u00edch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u1ed7n l\u00e1o nh\u1eb1m g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng \u00edch l\u1ee3i g\u00ec cho ch\u00fang n\u1eefa \u0111\u00e2u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n n\u00ean l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n cho ch\u00fang th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n n\u00ean y\u00eau c\u1ea7u tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec1 ra nh\u1eefng ph\u00e2n c\u00f4ng, quy \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 cho tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fa \u00fd nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd n\u1eefa. \u279e Kh\u00f4ng t\u00e1n th\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u v\u00ed d\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft bao l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3ng k\u1ecbch. Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i khi b\u1ecb l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n. M\u1ed7i khi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean h\u00e0nh x\u1eed sao cho \u0111\u00fang? \u0110\u00e1p \u00e1n cho nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp chi ti\u1ebft \u1edf Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 3. \u279e L\u1eafng nghe tr\u1ebb<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u1eafng nghe \u2013 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0ng k\u00ec th\u1ef1c r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3. Tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe ch\u00fang: Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i th\u00f4ng qua ti\u1ebfng kh\u00f3c. Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta: \u201cCon \u0111\u00f3i, con kh\u00e1t n\u01b0\u1edbc, con b\u1ecb \u0111au, con \u0111ang t\u1ee9c ho\u1eb7c \u0111ang bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n\u201d? \u0110\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c con mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n quan s\u00e1t t\u1ec9 m\u1ec9 v\u00e0 luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp k\u0129 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb t\u1eadp n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 l\u1eddi n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng h\u1ed5 th\u1eb9n n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta \u2013 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u2013 l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ch\u1eadm ch\u1ea1p v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u n\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u ch\u1ec9 g\u1ed3m hai t\u1eeb. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khuy\u00ean ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9 cho ch\u00fang nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y cho tr\u1ebb th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u1ebb con th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch chia s\u1ebb c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 khi c\u00f2n b\u00e9, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u ch\u00fang ta th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111ang ngh\u0129 g\u00ec. T\u1eeb n\u0103m 1970, nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 Thomas Gordon \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch kinh \u0111i\u1ec3n v\u1ec1 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i. Trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef \u201cL\u1eafng nghe t\u00edch c\u1ef1c\u201d v\u00e0 k\u00eau g\u1ecdi c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh: \u201cTh\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi con b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, h\u00e3y suy \u0111o\u00e1n xem con mu\u1ed1n \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec?\u201d. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 con hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang v\u00e0 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. \u0110o\u1ea1n h\u1ed9i tho\u1ea1i gi\u1eefa Tom \u2013 c\u1eadu b\u00e9 8 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 sau \u0111\u00e2y s\u1ebd l\u00e0m r\u00f5 ngh\u0129a thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef \u201cl\u1eafng nghe t\u00edch c\u1ef1c\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tom: \u201cBastian l\u00e0 th\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u00ean. L\u00fac n\u00e0o n\u00f3 c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. N\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi con n\u1eefa.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1eb9: \u201cCon \u0111ang t\u1ee9c Bastian l\u1eafm ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tom: \u201cCon m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i t\u1ee9c n\u00f3 \u00e1? Con gh\u00e9t n\u00f3. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1eb9: \u201cCon n\u00e0y, con \u0111ang t\u1ee9c l\u1eafm \u00e0? T\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 con kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean g\u1eb7p b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y n\u1eefa, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tom: \u201c\u0110\u00fang th\u1ebf m\u1eb9 \u1ea1, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd. \u00c0 m\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec con s\u1ebd ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng ai b\u00e2y gi\u1edd nh\u1ec9?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1eb9: \u201cKh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t ch\u00fat n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e2u con!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tom: \u201cV\u00e2ng. Nh\u01b0ng con kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu n\u1ed5i n\u00f3 n\u1eefa! N\u00f3 th\u1eadt \u0111i\u00ean r\u1ed3!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1eb9: \u201cC\u1ee9 gi\u1eef s\u1ef1 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn trong l\u00f2ng th\u1ebf th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao m\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea3 con?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tom: \u201cBu\u1ed3n c\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt, tr\u01b0\u1edbc kia con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00f2n n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n th\u00f4i. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u00f3 c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n c\u1ea3 quy\u1ec1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u1eefa.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1eb9: \u201cN\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i nghe l\u1ec7nh con th\u00f4i!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tom: \u201cQu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 em b\u00e9 s\u01a1 sinh n\u1eefa r\u1ed3i. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi n\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00e1 vui m\u1eb9 \u1ea1!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1eb9: \u201cTh\u1eadt ra con r\u1ea5t th\u00edch \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tom: \u201cV\u00e2ng, nh\u01b0ng m\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd l\u00fac n\u00e0o n\u00f3 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a con \u1ea5y! Con kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd con cho n\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ea5y. \u0110\u1ec3 xem con v\u1edbi n\u00f3 c\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhau th\u00eam n\u1eefa kh\u00f4ng?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1eb9: \u201c\u00dd con l\u00e0 hai b\u1ecdn con s\u1ebd thay nhau quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00e3i c\u1ecd l\u1eabn nhau n\u1eefa?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tom: \u201cV\u00e2ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd th\u1ebf. Con s\u1ebd c\u1ed1.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u khi\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb b\u1edbt c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. L\u1eafng nghe c\u00f2n gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u00e0 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi cho nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u00fang g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng vi\u1ec7c l\u1eafng nghe c\u00f2n bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 \u201cgi\u1ea3i m\u00e3\u201d n\u1eefa. V\u00ed d\u1ee5: B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3n con \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o. N\u00f3 gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201cM\u1eb9 th\u1eadt ng\u1ed1c. \u0110\u00e1ng l\u1ebd m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u00f3n con.\u201d \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 v\u1eady? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 n\u00f3 th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n ngu ng\u1ed1c th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 l\u1ebd n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 h\u01a1i th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng khi b\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3n v\u1ec1 trong khi \u0111ang m\u1ea3i ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c. Trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i: \u201cCh\u1ebft th\u1eadt, m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3n con v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac con \u0111ang ch\u01a1i m\u1edbi ch\u00e1n ch\u1ee9.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n \u201cgi\u1ea3i m\u00e3\u201d th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n g\u1eedi \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n khi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00fd do n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ph\u1ee5ng ph\u1ecbu n\u1eefa. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c tranh lu\u1eadn v\u1edbi con n\u1eefa, m\u00e0 thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 con s\u1ebd ngoan ngo\u00e3n theo b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd. ? GI\u1ea2I PH\u00c1P<\/p>\n\n\n\n

G\u1eedi nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Theo nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc Thomas Gordon, \u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb. \u00d4ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. Th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p ki\u1ec3u n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0: \u201cM\u1ed7i khi con c\u00e1i c\u01b0 x\u1eed kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3\u201d. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn con b\u1ea1n nghi\u00eam t\u00fac h\u01a1n v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 \u00fd th\u1ee9c thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u00e0nh vi h\u01a1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng ch\u00fang. Trong b\u1ea3ng d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1i t\u00f4i m\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eedi \u0111\u1ebfn con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd cho tr\u1ebb c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadn ra v\u00e0 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa sai l\u1ea7m. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng mang t\u00ednh ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u201cM\u1eb9 (b\u1ed1) r\u1ea5t ti\u1ebfc nh\u01b0ng\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i m\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u201cM\u1eb9 (b\u1ed1) r\u1ea5t ti\u1ebfc nh\u01b0ng\u2026\u201d c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p c\u1ee9ng r\u1eafn r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu \u00edch. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb \u01b0a th\u00edch nh\u01b0 \u201cCon kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf\u201d hay \u201cTh\u1ebf c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i, kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 t\u1ec7\u201d s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng mang l\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1edbi c\u00e2u n\u00f3i th\u1ea7n k\u00ec \u201cB\u1ed1 (m\u1eb9) r\u1ea5t ti\u1ebfc\u201d, b\u1ea1n t\u1ecf ra hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi con b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0ng \u1ea9n sau nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n: \u201cB\u1ed1 (m\u1eb9) tin con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c l\u00f2ng ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n g\u1eb1n gi\u1ecdng hay cao gi\u1ecdng l\u00ean r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3n t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng. \u279e Trao cho tr\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m h\u01a1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngay t\u1eeb ch\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i g\u1ea5p r\u00fat \u0111\u1eb7t ra gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n cho b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n cho tr\u1ebb. Th\u00eam m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean n\u1eefa cho c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9: \u201cH\u00e3y c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m h\u01a1n v\u1edbi b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb\u201d. Hai c\u00e2u n\u00e0y nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ra ch\u00fang l\u1ea1i g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi nhau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb th\u00edch nh\u1ea5t vi\u1ec7c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t ch\u00fang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec. Ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec khi r\u1ea3nh r\u1ed7i. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngay c\u1ea3 tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eb7t ra quy \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng: Con b\u1ea1n \u0111ang no v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3ng b\u1ec9m. N\u00f3 kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh hi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh n\u1eeda ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi con. Gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7t con v\u00e0o c\u0169i v\u00e0 \u0111i l\u00e0m v\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0. Con b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch ch\u01a1i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 n\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00f3c. B\u1ea1n n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y? B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1eebng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 ch\u1ea1y \u0111\u1ebfn \u00f4m con v\u00e0 d\u1ed7 d\u00e0nh n\u00f3 ch\u0103ng? V\u1eady m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n n\u00f3 kh\u00f3c b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady sao? Con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec t\u1eeb h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00f3 s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0: \u201cM\u1eb9 hi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Khi m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng vui th\u00ec m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd d\u1ed7 d\u00e0nh ngay\u201d. Con b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh vui. N\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng: \u201cM\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00f3c m\u1ed7i khi kh\u00f4ng vui. Nh\u01b0ng m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00edn khi ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh th\u00edch\u201d. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y cho con t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f3c hay kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi r\u1ee7i ro r\u01a1i v\u00e0o chu k\u00ec \u201cThu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c d\u1ea1y con h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc \u2013 Annette Kast-Zahn B\u1ea0N \u0110\u00c3 X\u00c1C \u0110\u1ecaNH r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u1eb1m trong chu tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean hay ch\u01b0a? Hay b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh ph\u1ea3i tham gia v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t chu tr\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f4i s\u1ebd gi\u1edbi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[23],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16853","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-phuong-phap"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16853","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16853"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16853\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16854,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16853\/revisions\/16854"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16853"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16853"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16853"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}