{"id":16855,"date":"2021-12-05T14:16:52","date_gmt":"2021-12-05T07:16:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/post\/?p=16855"},"modified":"2021-12-05T14:16:54","modified_gmt":"2021-12-05T07:16:54","slug":"phan-6-neu-con-ban-co-the-tu-nin-khoc-ban-cang-co-ly-do-quan-tam-va-choi-cung-con-hon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/phan-6-neu-con-ban-co-the-tu-nin-khoc-ban-cang-co-ly-do-quan-tam-va-choi-cung-con-hon\/","title":{"rendered":"Ph\u1ea7n 6. N\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 n\u00edn kh\u00f3c, b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd do quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng con h\u01a1n"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"2\" title=\"Vietlearn\" rel=\"nofollow\">d\u1ea1y con<\/a> h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc \u2013 Annette Kast-Zahn<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Con b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang mu\u1ed1n th\u00ec ch\u00fang s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u00ed d\u1ee5: B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u1eddi gian d\u00f9ng b\u1eefa v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n \u0103n gi\u00fap con. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ai kh\u00e1c ngo\u00e0i con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n \u0103n bao nhi\u00eau! V\u00ec th\u1ebf n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0103n n\u1eefa th\u00ec b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 n\u00ean d\u1eebng cho \u0103n. N\u1ebfu b\u1eefa \u0103n th\u01b0\u1eddng k\u1ebft th\u00fac sau m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00ean c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra kh\u1ea9u ph\u1ea7n h\u1ee3p l\u00fd cho tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ea1n lo l\u1eafng li\u1ec7u con m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hay kh\u00f4ng. Nh\u1eefng ai c\u1ea7m th\u00eca ch\u1ea1y theo sau \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 \u0111\u00fat t\u1eebng th\u00eca th\u1ee9c \u0103n ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn \u0111\u00e3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o kho\u1ea3ng gi\u1eefa c\u1ee7a chu tr\u00ecnh \u201cg\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd\u201d. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1eed ngh\u0129 m\u00e0 xem: vi\u1ec7c con \u0103n qu\u00e1 \u00edt lu\u00f4n th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1ef1c trong suy ngh\u0129 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd lo l\u1eafng khi con kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0103n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap n\u00f3 \u201cthu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o v\u00e0 \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u01b0\u1eddng than v\u00e3n v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ch\u1eadm tr\u1ec5 m\u1ed7i khi ph\u1ea3i m\u1eb7c qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o cho tr\u1ebb v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng. B\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng nh\u00e0 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ng\u1eebng nh\u1eadn tr\u1ebb v\u00e0o l\u00fac 9 gi\u1edd s\u00e1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng k\u1ecbp gi\u1edd. Nh\u01b0ng con b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea7u g\u1ecdn g\u00e0ng v\u00e0 m\u1eb7c qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o ch\u1ec9nh t\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1eddi gian \u0103n s\u00e1ng ch\u01b0a? \u2013 b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y. Khi con b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m th\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 \u201cdi\u1ec5n k\u1ecbch\u201d m\u1ed7i s\u00e1ng n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb gh\u00e9t nh\u1ea5t. M\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t ra l\u00e0: Trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ai c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0? B\u1ea1n hay con b\u1ea1n? B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n tr\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y cho con v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 n\u00ean quy \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 khi n\u00e0o con b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ed3i v\u00e0o b\u00e0n l\u00e0m b\u00e0i. Con b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng nghe l\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, chi ti\u1ebft v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o th\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u00e0ng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao quy\u1ec1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh. Khi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m h\u01a1n v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u1eabn th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 theo s\u00e1t nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i xung quanh con, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 con, d\u00f5i theo con, ch\u1ec9 cho con bi\u1ebft l\u1ed7i sai v\u00e0 gi\u1eef li\u00ean l\u1ea1c th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean v\u1edbi c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o. L\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 con tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng xung \u0111\u1ed9t c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u1edbi m\u1ecdi l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i, h\u00e3y cho b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u00fang s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec trong l\u00fac r\u1ea3nh r\u1ed7i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi con th\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra nhu c\u1ea7u v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7t ra m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian bi\u1ec3u cho tr\u1ebb th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00e3 b\u00f3 bu\u1ed9c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110i\u1ec1u t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i \u0111i h\u1ecdc. M\u1eb9 ch\u00fang lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00f3ng vai ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e0i x\u1ebf m\u1eabn c\u00e1n, s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u00f3n theo l\u1ecbch tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ea1ch s\u1eb5n. L\u1ecbch tr\u00ecnh c\u00e0ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng bao nhi\u00eau th\u00ec c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi: \u201cM\u1eb9 \u01a1i, con n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y? Con th\u1ea5y m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 th\u1eadt nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n\u201d l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea5y nhi\u00eau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean l\u1ea5p m\u1ecdi ch\u1ed7 tr\u1ed1ng trong th\u1eddi gian bi\u1ec3u b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch cho tr\u1ebb d\u00f9ng m\u00e1y t\u00ednh ho\u1eb7c xem ti-vi. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft ch\u00fang n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 xua tan s\u1ef1 nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh: \u201cM\u00ecnh c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n \u0111i loanh quanh ch\u01a1i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng hay m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 ra m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ea5y th\u00fa v\u1ecb h\u01a1n nh\u1ec9?\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng l\u1ea1i th\u00edch kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u1ea3 v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u2013 nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. C\u00f3 l\u00fac nh\u1eefng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng b\u00e0i tr\u00ed s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o, \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 hay nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 ngay g\u1ea7n nh\u00e0 l\u1ea1i n\u1ea3y sinh t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">L\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng xung quanh c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u00ean b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb: Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t con ph\u1ed1 v\u1eafng. \u1ede \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p nhau b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o ch\u00fang th\u00edch. Ti\u1ebfc r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfm. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra kh\u00f4ng gian t\u1ef1 do \u1edf nh\u00e0 cho tr\u1ebb, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 do v\u1ebd tranh, l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ed3 th\u1ee7 c\u00f4ng, ch\u01a1i \u0111\u1ea5t n\u1eb7n, ngh\u1ecbch b\u1ea9n hay n\u00f4 \u0111\u00f9a. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00ec s\u1ef1 eo h\u1eb9p v\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng gian n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra kh\u00f4ng gian ri\u00eang t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y cho tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n cho tr\u1ebb tham gia c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u00ean t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 thay v\u00ec b\u1eaft tr\u1ebb tham gia v\u00e0o c\u00e1c nh\u00f3m \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp s\u1eb5n. Con b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u1ef1 do ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch th\u00ec ch\u00fang c\u00e0ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi: \u201cM\u00ecnh n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y?\u201d. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCon h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh xem m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111i\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tin c\u1eady<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trao cho con b\u1ea1n nhi\u1ec1u tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m h\u01a1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ea7y m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m. Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh s\u1ebd h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ea7y lo l\u1eafng: \u201cT\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00ean t\u00e2m l\u00e0 con t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng g\u00e0o th\u00e9t c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y? Y\u00ean t\u00e2m l\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0103n no, l\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng m\u1eb7c qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o ng\u1ee7 \u0111i h\u1ecdc, l\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ee5c hay n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng lang thang c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i \u01b0?\u201d. C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng tin con m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y? B\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n g\u1eafn b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t? R\u1ed3i c\u00f3 l\u1ebd sau \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u00fang y nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u00fang v\u00e0 ch\u00fang s\u1ebd b\u1ecb nh\u1ee5t ch\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p b\u1ea1n g\u1eedi \u0111\u1ebfn con b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0: \u201cM\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh. M\u1eb9 tin l\u00e0 con s\u1ebd l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t\u201d. D\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 n\u00f3i ra hay kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec con b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. S\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd gi\u00fap con t\u1ef1 tin \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u279e \u0110\u1eb7t ra nh\u1eefng quy \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 \u201cC\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd y\u00ean b\u00ecnh n\u1ebfu b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng di\u1ec5n k\u1ecbch v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n stress c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng\u201d. Sau m\u1ed9t tho\u00e1ng suy ngh\u0129, nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh hoang mang li\u1ec7t k\u00ea cho t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i chuy\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf v\u00e0 \u0111a s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 tr\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd h\u1ecd s\u1ed1ng trong nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e3i l\u1ea1i h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t nh\u01b0 th\u1eaft d\u00e2y an to\u00e0n tr\u00ean xe \u00f4 t\u00f4, c\u1edfi gi\u1ea7y tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng, r\u1eeda tay tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0103n, \u0111\u00e1nh r\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111i ng\u1ee7, ch\u00e0o v\u00e0 t\u1ea1m bi\u1ec7t kh\u00e1ch ho\u1eb7c t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. V\u1eady gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng lu\u1eadt \u201cb\u1ea5t th\u00e0nh v\u0103n\u201d n\u00e0o? T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c quy \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eabu th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft con trai t\u1ef1 ng\u1ed3i v\u00e0o toa-l\u00e9t thay v\u00ec ch\u1edd m\u1eb9 b\u1ebf v\u00e0o n\u1ebfu b\u1ed1 n\u00f3 c\u0169ng b\u1eaft n\u00f3 l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n h\u00f4 h\u00e0o: \u201cB\u1eefa s\u00e1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 dinh d\u01b0\u1ee1ng\u201d nh\u01b0ng kh\u1ea9u hi\u1ec7u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh quy \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u1ebfu h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y thay v\u00ec \u0103n s\u00e1ng th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 u\u1ed1ng c\u00e0 ph\u00ea v\u00e0 h\u00fat thu\u1ed1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi quy \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t. Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng ra l\u1ec7nh cho tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean nh\u01b0: \u201c\u0110\u1eebng c\u00f3 ch\u1ed1ng tay l\u00ean m\u1eb7t b\u00e0n! B\u00e0y \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n c\u1ee7a con \u0111i! Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n trong l\u00fac \u0103n! Tr\u1ebb con ph\u1ea3i im l\u1eb7ng khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n\u201d. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y \u1edf nhi\u1ec1u nh\u00e0 th\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u00f2n tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e1c quy \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y t\u00ednh c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e1c quy \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u0169ng th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y t\u00ednh c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng, s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m l\u1eabn nhau trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t b\u1eefa \u0103n \u0111\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00ec h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u1ea3 nh\u00e0 n\u00ean qu\u00e2y qu\u1ea7n b\u00ean m\u00e2m c\u01a1m \u00edt nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n. C\u1ea3 nh\u00e0 s\u1ebd c\u00f9ng \u0103n c\u01a1m v\u00e0 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 n\u1ea5u s\u00fap r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 h\u00e2m n\u00f3ng th\u1ee9c \u0103n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2 vi s\u00f3ng, t\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i b\u00ea m\u1ed9t \u0111\u0129a v\u1ec1 ph\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c ng\u1ed3i v\u1eeba \u0103n v\u1eeba xem ti-vi th\u00ec gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ed5 \u1ea5m \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng k\u00e9m ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1c quy \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 v\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ecbnh. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong nh\u00e0 s\u1ebd c\u00f9ng k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n cho nhau nghe ho\u1eb7c c\u00f9ng ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi nhau. Nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea5n kh\u1edfi v\u00e0 tin r\u1eb1ng bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian vui v\u1ebb cho c\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c v\u1eb7t trong nh\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng quy \u0111\u1ecbnh. Nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0 d\u1ecdn b\u00e0n \u0103n, l\u1ea5y b\u00e1t \u0111\u0129a b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. T\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean ph\u00e2n c\u00f4ng cho tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a ba c\u1eadu b\u00e9 6, 8 v\u00e0 10 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ec3 v\u1edbi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCon t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn vi\u1ec7c d\u1ecdn b\u00e0n, t\u1ef1 r\u1eeda b\u00e1t \u0111\u0129a. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp b\u00e1t \u0111\u0129a \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1edbi t\u1edbi d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. M\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a s\u1ebd l\u00e0m hai ng\u00e0y trong tu\u1ea7n, c\u00f2n ng\u00e0y Ch\u1ee7 nh\u1eadt l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf b\u1edfi n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0m th\u00ec m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd nhanh g\u1ecdn h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u. L\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u th\u00ec b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ed1 tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1edd th\u00ec ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n tranh c\u00e3i n\u1eefa r\u1ed3i. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u \u1ed5n c\u1ea3.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Khi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng chung tay<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e1c quy \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 \u0111i v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ri\u00eang ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh c\u00f9ng chung tay g\u00f3p s\u1ee9c. M\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ee5c l\u1ec7 \u1edf Th\u1ee5y \u0110i\u1ec3n m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 b\u1ea3n x\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i cho t\u00f4i. \u201c\u1ede nh\u00e0 t\u00f4i b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0103n k\u1eb9o su\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 tu\u1ea7n. Ngay c\u1ea3 h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng hay nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh cho b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb k\u1eb9o c\u1ea3. \u1ede qu\u1ea7y thanh to\u00e1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 vi\u00ean k\u1eb9o n\u00e0o h\u1ebft. B\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u mong \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y th\u1ee9 B\u1ea3y v\u00ec th\u1ee9 B\u1ea3y ch\u00fang s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn \u201cLoerdagsgodis\u201d \u2013 nh\u1eefng t\u00fai k\u1eb9o ng\u00e0y th\u1ee9 B\u1ea3y. Ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0o th\u1ee9 B\u1ea3y b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0103n k\u1eb9o tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0103n h\u1ebft c\u1ea3 t\u00fai c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Nh\u1eefng t\u00fai k\u1eb9o s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3i v\u00e0o t\u1ed1i th\u1ee9 S\u00e1u v\u00e0 sang ng\u00e0y Ch\u1ee7 nh\u1eadt ch\u00fang s\u1ebd l\u1ea1i bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. Th\u1ee9 B\u1ea3y tu\u1ea7n k\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eefng t\u00fai k\u1eb9o l\u1ea1i xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n. Nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tranh c\u00e3i xung quanh quy \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft n\u1eefa v\u00ec h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u1ea1i Th\u1ee5y \u0110i\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. C\u00e1c b\u00e1c s\u0129 nha khoa th\u00ec v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng ph\u1ea5n kh\u1edfi: \u201cH\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0o b\u1ecb s\u00e2u r\u0103ng c\u1ea3\u201d. \u279e Th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0nh cho s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u1ebb th\u00ec ch\u00fang s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng \u00edt g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd h\u01a1n. Tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng b\u01b0\u1edbng th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng c\u1ea7n cho ch\u00fang bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng l\u00fac b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 ng\u1ed3i b\u00ean v\u00e0 ng\u1eafm nh\u00ecn con khi \u201c\u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ee3m th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y\u201d ngoan ngo\u00e3n ng\u1ed3i l\u1eafp r\u00e1p lego. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ebf con l\u00ean v\u00e0 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm m\u1ed7i khi con ngoan thay v\u00ec h\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed1n nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi khi. \u201cM\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t vui v\u00ec c\u00f3 con b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh\u201d \u2013 th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p n\u00e0y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi con b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i trong l\u00fac hai m\u1eb9 con \u0111ang h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 xung \u0111\u1ed9t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Th\u1eddi gian quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh x\u1eed c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. C\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u00f3n qu\u00e1 v\u00f4 gi\u00e1 v\u1edbi con.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e1c quy \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m cho tr\u1ebb. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u1eddi gian n\u00e0o trong ng\u00e0y ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t cho vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u1ec9 m\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00fat hay c\u1ea3 ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u00f9y v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ee9a con. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1eddi gian kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng b\u1eb1ng t\u1ea7n su\u1ea5t. Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho tr\u1ebb v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh cho tr\u1ebb m\u01b0\u1eddi, 30 ho\u1eb7c 60 ph\u00fat m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. B\u1ea1n n\u00ean bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng quy \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3m thi\u1ebfu t\u1ed1i \u0111a ngo\u1ea1i l\u1ec7. V\u00ec th\u1ebf n\u00ean ch\u1ec9 trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ngo\u1ea1i l\u1ec7 th\u00ec b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn con.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 con quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trong l\u00fac \u1edf b\u00ean con, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y chi\u1ec1u theo nhu c\u1ea7u v\u00e0 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch v\u1edbi con r\u1eb1ng: \u201cB\u00e2y gi\u1edd con l\u00e0 s\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ea5y, con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ec1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd tham gia c\u00f9ng\u201d. Con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ec1n ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u00f9ng m\u1eb9: C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ecdc truy\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng con, ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng con, \u00f4m con v\u00e0o l\u00f2ng ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 ng\u1ed3i xem ch\u00fang ch\u01a1i. Ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 g\u00ec, \u0111\u1ecdc cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0o hay n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec1u do con b\u1ea1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean, xem ti-vi hay g\u00e2y \u1ed3n \u00e0o th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean v\u00e0 gi\u00fap con t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i. L\u00ean l\u1edbp, m\u1eafng ch\u1eedi hay c\u1eb1n nh\u1eb1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea5m k\u1ecb. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe con v\u00e0 l\u00e0m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn con th\u1ea5y vui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ch\u0103m ch\u00fa l\u1eafng nghe, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, th\u1ea5y m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p \u2013 nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 li\u1ec1u thu\u1ed1c xoa d\u1ecbu t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng? V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 quan t\u00e2m, \u00e2u y\u1ebfm th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, con s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft n\u1eefa v\u00e0 ch\u00fang s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m \u201cs\u1ebfp\u201d m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n th\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng quy \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 trong su\u1ed1t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0y. \u00a7 T\u1ed4NG K\u1ebeT \u21d2 D\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 xung \u0111\u1ed9t<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng b\u1eaft tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch. Vi\u1ec7c con b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ch\u1ed1ng c\u1ef1 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u. \u21d2 Tr\u1ebb con r\u1ea5t hay g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fa \u00fd nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n m\u1ed7i khi ch\u00fang c\u01b0 x\u1eed kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c. Th\u00f4ng qua \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang mu\u1ed1n. V\u00ec th\u1ebf n\u00ean ch\u00fang ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd do g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3. \u21d2 G\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chu tr\u00ecnh kh\u00e9p k\u00edn<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Con b\u1ea1n h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1eb1m g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd. Sau \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra: H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u00f2n b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n m\u1ea5t ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m v\u00f4 t\u01b0 t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Tr\u1ebb r\u00fat ra b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc: \u201c\u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng\u2026 v\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o\u201d. \u21d2 B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y khi\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u00e0nh vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft n\u1eefa<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ea1n lo l\u1eafng r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn con b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe con v\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y trao cho tr\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m h\u01a1n, \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c quy \u0111\u1ecbnh ho\u1eb7c l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn con h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c d\u1ea1y con h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc \u2013 Annette Kast-Zahn Con b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang mu\u1ed1n th\u00ec ch\u00fang s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00f3. V\u00ed d\u1ee5: B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u1eddi [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[23],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16855","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-phuong-phap"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16855","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16855"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16855\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16856,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16855\/revisions\/16856"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16855"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16855"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16855"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}