{"id":16857,"date":"2021-12-05T14:17:00","date_gmt":"2021-12-05T07:17:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/post\/?p=16857"},"modified":"2021-12-05T14:17:02","modified_gmt":"2021-12-05T07:17:02","slug":"phan-7-chung-ta-da-lam-gi-sai-nhung-sai-lam-cha-me-hay-mac-phai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/phan-7-chung-ta-da-lam-gi-sai-nhung-sai-lam-cha-me-hay-mac-phai\/","title":{"rendered":"Ph\u1ea7n 7. \u201cCh\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec sai?\u201d Nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m cha m\u1eb9 hay m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"2\" title=\"Vietlearn\" rel=\"nofollow\">d\u1ea1y con<\/a> h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc \u2013 Annette Kast-Zahn<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Khi cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u1ebeU B\u1ea0N \u00c1P D\u1ee4NG t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp trong ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u1ea7n g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd n\u1eefa. Tuy nhi\u00ean c\u0169ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 nh\u1eefng quy \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7t ra cho ch\u00fang. Nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 huynh than phi\u1ec1n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u00fang theo l\u1eddi h\u1ecd b\u1ea3o. Hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u1ed9t b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n 4 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1m v\u00e0 n\u00f3i th\u1eb3ng ngay tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh: \u201cM\u1ed7i khi m\u1eb9 ch\u00e1u n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u1ea5y, ch\u00e1u ngh\u0129 lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb1ng n\u00e0o m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng n\u00f3i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m. Nh\u01b0ng b\u00e0 v\u00fa nu\u00f4i c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i l\u00e0 l\u00e0m\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngay r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng. Khi ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t th\u00ec b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00fang s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng nghi\u00eam t\u00fac l\u1eafng nghe ch\u00fang ta n\u1eefa. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean khi nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u2013 m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 \u2013 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u01b0a chu\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng r\u1ed9ng r\u00e3i. Nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ki\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ngu\u1ed3n kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 tr\u1ebb ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd. Tuy \u0111a s\u1ed1 cha m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng n\u1eefa nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ng\u0103n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ki\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady v\u1edbi hi v\u1ecdng \u201cM\u1ed9t l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 con m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u ra th\u00f4i\u201d. R\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecd s\u1ebd nh\u1ee5t ch\u00ed v\u00ec n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c h\u1ebft l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ea7n kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ch\u1eb3ng \u0111em l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 g\u00ec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110\u1ec3 r\u00fat ra b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb sai l\u1ea7m, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 sai \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u. V\u00ec th\u1ebf t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ec9 cho c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh hay m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0 xem li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u1ea1i sao m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi? T\u1ea1i sao n\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u01b0 x\u1eed h\u1ed7n l\u00e1o d\u00f9 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ra s\u1ee9c d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o? Nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng sau \u0111\u00e2y c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 tr\u1ebb ti\u1ebfp di\u1ec5n nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean tham kh\u1ea3o c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y. \u279e Tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nhi\u1ec1u \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t th\u00edch qu\u1edf tr\u00e1ch. H\u1ecd khi\u1ec3n tr\u00e1ch l\u0169 tr\u1ebb khi ch\u00fang c\u01b0 x\u1eed h\u1ed7n l\u00e1o. \u201cCon ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p ph\u00f2ng h\u1ebft!\u201d, \u201cCon xem con \u0111\u00e3 ngoan ch\u01b0a con l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m em b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ea5y!\u201d, \u201cSu\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y con d\u00e1n m\u1eaft v\u00e0o c\u00e1i ti-vi th\u00f4i!\u201d, \u201cC\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y tr\u1eddi con c\u1ee9 ng\u1eadm c\u00e1i n\u00fam v\u00fa gi\u1ea3 v\u00e0 ch\u1ea1y l\u0103ng x\u0103ng kh\u1eafp n\u01a1i!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf th\u01b0\u1eddng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n qua nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i t\u1ecf ra kh\u00f4ng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0: \u201cCon l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ngoan \u0111\u00e2u\u201d, \u201cM\u1eb9 ngh\u0129 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e2u\u201d, \u201cM\u1eb9 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu n\u1ed5i con n\u1eefa\u201d. T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 huynh ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCon ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi m\u1eb9 d\u1eb7n\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cCon kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa \u00fd nghe l\u1eddi m\u1eb9 g\u00ec h\u1ebft\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ch\u01b0a? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y con b\u1ea1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u00e0nh vi sau khi b\u1ecb qu\u1edf tr\u00e1ch ch\u01b0a? B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n b\u1eaft con l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u1ea5y ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c. Tuy nhi\u00ean con b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t hi\u1ec3u theo quy \u0111\u1ecbnh. Vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh sai ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00fd g\u00ec h\u1ebft. V\u1edbi con b\u1ea1n th\u00ec s\u1ef1 qu\u1edf tr\u00e1ch ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c n\u00e0o \u201cc\u1eb1n nh\u1eb1n\u201d. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd r\u00fat ra k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn: \u201cM\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i gi\u00e0nh l\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u00e0m v\u1eady\u201d. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00fang n\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi tr\u00e1ch m\u1eafng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu tin t\u01b0\u1edfng con.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c kh\u00f4ng khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u01b0 x\u1eed \u0111\u00fang m\u1ee5c h\u01a1n \u279e Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi t\u1ea1i sao<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c b\u1ecb h\u1ecfi l\u00fd do v\u00ec sao ch\u00fang l\u1ea1i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady: \u201cT\u1ea1i sao con kh\u00f4ng d\u1ecdn ph\u00f2ng \u0111i?\u201d, \u201cT\u1ea1i sao l\u00fac n\u00e0o con c\u0169ng c\u00e1u g\u1eaft v\u1edbi em th\u1ebf?\u201d, \u201cSao l\u00fac n\u00e0o con c\u0169ng d\u00e1n m\u1eaft v\u00e0o ti-vi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1ec9?\u201d, \u201cT\u1ea1i sao con l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e1nh c\u1eadu b\u00e9 \u0103n xin th\u1ebf?\u201d, \u201cSao con kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi m\u1eb9 h\u1ea3?\u201d ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00f3m l\u1ea1i l\u00e0: \u201cSao con kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m theo l\u1eddi m\u1eb9 b\u1ea3o h\u1ea3?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i k\u00e8m v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 \u201c\u0110\u1ed3 ch\u1ebft ti\u1ec7t\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cCon l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u00ean m\u1ea5t\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi th\u1ecfa \u0111\u00e1ng cho nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi t\u1ea1i sao c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a? Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u201cCon bi\u1ebft r\u1ed3i!\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cCon kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cV\u00ec con kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n th\u1ebf\u201d. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u00f3 gi\u00fap g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 khi b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi r\u1ea5t h\u1ed7n l\u00e3o nh\u01b0: \u201cM\u1eb9 n\u00f3i l\u1eafm th\u1ebf!\u201d ho\u1eb7c con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u1edd \u0111i kh\u00f4ng th\u00e8m tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd m\u1edf ra cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i b\u1ed5 \u00edch ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn con b\u1ea1n suy ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. Ch\u00fang ta \u2013 nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng mong ch\u1edd m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u201ct\u1ed1t\u201d. V\u1eady t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i lu\u00f4n h\u1ecfi con c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u201cT\u1ea1i sao\u2026?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Theo t\u00f4i, nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi t\u1ea1i sao th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n hai th\u1ee9: s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. C\u1ea3 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t. S\u1ef1 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb xua \u0111u\u1ed5i c\u00f2n s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd cho tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ch\u00fang \u1edf th\u1ebf th\u01b0\u1ee3ng phong. Thay v\u00ec h\u1ecfi: \u201cT\u1ea1i sao con l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf\u201d, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi kh\u00e1c \u0111i: \u201cM\u1eb9 n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1edbi con b\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y? M\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con n\u1eefa r\u1ed3i\u201d. C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u con ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi &#8220;T\u1ea1i sao\u2026\u201d kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u279e C\u1ea7u xin v\u00e0 van n\u00e0i<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u1ea7u xin con thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed kh\u00f4ng? \u201cCon l\u00e0m \u01a1n h\u00e3y ngoan ngo\u00e3n m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n v\u00e0 v\u00e0o d\u1ecdn ph\u00f2ng \u0111i c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng?\u201d, \u201cCon l\u00e0m \u01a1n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng em con h\u01a1n ch\u00fat \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng?\u201d, \u201cCon l\u00e0m \u01a1n t\u1eaft c\u00e1i ti-vi \u0111i cho m\u1eb9 nh\u1edd\u201d, \u201cC\u1ee5c c\u01b0ng c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9, con mau n\u00edn \u0111i n\u00e0o!\u201d. Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng cha m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c b\u1eadt kh\u00f3c v\u00e0 c\u1ea7u xin tr\u1ebb: \u201cCon l\u00e0m \u01a1n l\u00e0m theo l\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111i m\u00e0!\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">G\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1ng c\u1ef1 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi th\u1ec9nh c\u1ea7u ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh c\u1ea3. Tuy nhi\u00ean, m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi th\u1ec9nh c\u1ea7u c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c trao cho tr\u1ebb quy\u1ec1n ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn. Khi b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n con l\u00e0m g\u00ec theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh th\u00ec m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi th\u1ec9nh c\u1ea7u l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111ang c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y khi con b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? Trong m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c con c\u00f3 tin b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng con kh\u00f4ng. V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb \u201cL\u00e0m \u01a1n, l\u00e0m \u01a1n\u201d nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc tr\u1ebb. B\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n con th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t l\u1eddi th\u1ec9nh c\u1ea7u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u theo ki\u1ec3u: \u201cN\u1ebfu m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd th\u00ec m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7u xin m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa. N\u1ebfu m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u00ecnh c\u1ee9 k\u1ec7 m\u1eb9 th\u00f4i\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng kh\u00f3c c\u1ea7u xin con h\u00e3y ngoan ngo\u00e3n h\u01a1n ch\u01b0a?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00f3 l\u1ea7n t\u00f4i ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng b\u00ean con, v\u1eeba kh\u00f3c v\u1eeba n\u00f3i: \u201cM\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t lo cho con. Th\u1eddi gian g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y con r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 b\u1ea3o. M\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c nh\u01b0ng c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y m\u1eb9 c\u00e0ng hoang mang v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u00ean l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1edbi con. M\u1eb9 xin con, con h\u00e3y tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i ngoan ngo\u00e3n nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc kia \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng! M\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft con l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0!\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">L\u1eddi th\u1ec9nh c\u1ea7u \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. \u0110\u1ee9a con trai 8 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ngoan h\u01a1n tr\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y. L\u1eddi th\u1ec9nh c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ed3ng gh\u00e9p trong nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1i t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp chi ti\u1ebft v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn \u0111\u00e3 t\u0103ng l\u00ean.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Khi b\u1ea1n cho tr\u1ebb th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 bu\u1ed3n r\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Tuy nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng xem li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c c\u1ea7u xin tr\u1ebb h\u00e0ng tu\u1ea7n hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng? Con c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tin b\u1ea1n n\u1eefa kh\u00f4ng? T\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t h\u00e3y khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. \u1ede b\u00ean b\u1ea1n, con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao b\u1ecdc nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o nh\u1ec9?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nghe theo m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u xin \u2013 nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u xin c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi con kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 \u279e \u0110\u01b0a ra y\u00eau c\u1ea7u nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng k\u00e8m theo h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t n\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gi\u1ea3 s\u1eed, b\u1ea1n y\u00eau c\u1ea7u con b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00ean cho th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ea5y. Nh\u01b0ng con b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i. C\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra v\u1eady? Ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec c\u1ea3! Nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u0111ang r\u01a1i v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng ch\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i v\u00ed d\u1ee5 cho tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh trong \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u1eb9: \u201cNadine, d\u1ecdn ph\u00f2ng ngay cho m\u1eb9! Nh\u00ecn t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0o tr\u00f4ng ph\u00f2ng con th\u1eadt kinh kh\u1ee7ng!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nadine (m\u1eb7c k\u1ec7, v\u1eabn ch\u01a1i b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ecdn ph\u00f2ng)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u1eb9 (quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i ph\u00f2ng n\u0103m ph\u00fat sau): \u201cNadine, con ph\u1ea3i d\u1ecdn ph\u00f2ng ngay \u0111i!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nadine: \u201cV\u00e2ng, con d\u1ecdn ngay \u0111\u00e2y th\u01b0a m\u1eb9!\u201d (C\u00f4 b\u00e9 v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ch\u01a1i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p g\u00ec h\u1ebft)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ed1: \u201cMatthias, t\u1eaft ti-vi v\u00e0 l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 ngay \u0111i!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Matthias: \u201cV\u00e2ng con t\u1eaft ngay \u0111\u00e2y!\u201d (v\u1eabn xem ti-vi ti\u1ebfp)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ed1 (M\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00fat sau \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 r\u1ea5t t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn): \u201cB\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ea3o con t\u1eaft ti-vi c\u01a1 m\u00e0! Con kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd nghe l\u1eddi b\u1ed1 c\u1ea3!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Matthias: \u201cL\u00fac n\u00e0o b\u1ed1 c\u0169ng c\u1eb1n nh\u1eb1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c!\u201d (c\u1eadu b\u00e9 v\u1eabn xem ti-vi ti\u1ebfp)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u1eb9: \u201cBeatrice, tr\u1ea3 c\u00e1i \u00f4 t\u00f4 cho em ngay! C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u00f4 t\u00f4 c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u00e2u!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Beatrice (g\u00e0o th\u00e9t v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 gi\u1eef b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chi\u1ebfc \u00f4 t\u00f4)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u1eb9: \u201cCon n\u00e0y qu\u00e1i th\u1eadt!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Beatrice (v\u1eabn gi\u1eef chi\u1ebfc \u00f4 t\u00f4)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Di\u1ec5n bi\u1ebfn trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u gi\u1ed1ng nhau: B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 r\u00f5 cho tr\u1ebb ch\u00fang ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec. Tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m theo. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng theo s\u00e1t sao tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f9ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t y\u00eau c\u1ea7u tr\u1ebb th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y? \u201cNh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea3o m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m to\u00e0n nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 ch\u1eb3ng quan tr\u1ecdng. M\u00ecnh c\u00f3 l\u00e0m hay kh\u00f4ng c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng sao.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0a ra y\u00eau c\u1ea7u v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng k\u00e8m theo \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n ph\u1ea1t th\u00ec nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u v\u00e0 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd coi th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u279e \u201cN\u1ebfu \u2013 th\u00ec\u201d: \u0111e d\u1ecda nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c thi h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh s\u1ebd th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi: \u201cN\u1ebfu con kh\u00f4ng d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c th\u00ec t\u1ed1i nay con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem ti-vi \u0111\u00e2u\u201d, \u201cCh\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t ngay \u0111i, \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0m ch\u1ecb b\u1ef1c n\u1eefa! M\u1eb9 nh\u1ed1t con v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd!\u201d \u2013 \u201cKh\u00f4ng ng\u1eadm c\u00e1i n\u00fam v\u00fa gi\u1ea3 n\u1eefa kh\u00f4ng m\u1eb9 v\u1ee9t \u0111i b\u00e2y gi\u1edd!\u201d, \u201cCon m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp ngay th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch m\u1eb9 \u00e1c!\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0: Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra c\u1ea3! V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u \u201cN\u1ebfu \u2013 th\u00ec\u201d, ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u mu\u1ed1n tr\u1ebb th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. Ch\u00fang ta ng\u1ea7m hi v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t s\u1ebd d\u1ecda \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ebb. Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng mong kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i thi h\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t \u1ea5y. Th\u1ef1c l\u00f2ng l\u00e0 v\u1eady, th\u1ebf c\u00f2n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n th\u00ec sao?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Theo nh\u01b0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i th\u00ec th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u201c\u0111e d\u1ecda s\u00e1o r\u1ed7ng\u201d n\u00e0y ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m tr\u1ebb s\u1ee3. V\u00e0 gi\u1edd ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00f4i th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 5 tu\u1ed5i \u0111ang kh\u00f3c n\u1ee9c n\u1edf v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng n\u00f3 \u2013 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u00ean. Ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c r\u00ean r\u1ec9 thay v\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 ng\u1eadm c\u00e1i n\u00fam v\u00fa gi\u1ea3 cho y\u00ean chuy\u1ec7n \u2013 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ee9ng v\u1edbi th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u1eady ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e2y khi m\u00e0 c\u00f4 b\u00e9 10 tu\u1ed5i v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp? \u1ede ph\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 suy ngh\u0129 k\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u01b0a nh\u1ec9?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00f3 l\u1ebd ch\u00fang ta ch\u01b0a suy ngh\u0129 th\u1eadt th\u1ea5u \u0111\u00e1o. V\u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft g\u1ea7n h\u1ebft vi\u1ec7c th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng thi th\u00e0nh h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t s\u1ebd \u0111em l\u1ea1i h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c tin t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u1eefa. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta d\u1ecda tr\u1ebb b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean th\u00ec tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean \u0111\u00f2i s\u1ebfp t\u0103ng l\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 \u0111e d\u1ecda: \u201cN\u1ebfu t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u0103ng l\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00ec t\u00f4i s\u1ebd b\u1ecf vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea5y!\u201d. Anh ta hi v\u1ecdng g\u00e2y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u \u00e1p l\u1ef1c h\u01a1n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111e d\u1ecda nh\u01b0ng tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf anh ta kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u1ed7 l\u00e0m ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. S\u1ebfp sau \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn: \u201c\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c, xin m\u1eddi anh th\u00f4i vi\u1ec7c!\u201d. Gi\u1edd th\u00ec anh nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb ng\u1ed1c. N\u1ebfu anh ta kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi c\u00f4ng ty th\u00ec uy t\u00edn c\u1ee7a anh ta s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3m s\u00fat nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ch\u00fang ta ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111ang \u1edf l\u1ea1i \u201cc\u00f4ng ty\u201d. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u01b0 ch\u1ed7 l\u00e0m. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u01b0a chu\u1ed9ng. Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u \u201cN\u1ebfu \u2013 th\u00ec\u201d m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc k\u0129 xem l\u1eddi \u0111e d\u1ecda \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00fd g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111e d\u1ecda ki\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady: \u201cN\u1ebfu c\u00e1c con kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ed3i y\u00ean th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd r\u1ee7 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 ch\u01a1i n\u1eefa nh\u00e9!\u201d, \u201cN\u1ebfu con kh\u00f4ng \u0103n h\u1ebft ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0y th\u00ec ba ng\u00e0y n\u1eefa nh\u1ecbn \u0111\u00f3i \u0111i\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110a s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft ki\u1ec3u h\u00e0nh x\u1eed n\u1eeda v\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng mang l\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. V\u1eady m\u00e0 h\u1ecd v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n d\u1eabm l\u00ean v\u1ebft xe \u0111\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n nh\u1ecf sau \u0111\u00e2y s\u1ebd cho th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Michael 4 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i nh\u00e0 tr\u1ebb. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u1eadu b\u00e9 gi\u00e0 d\u1eb7n h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i nh\u01b0ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1eadu r\u1ea5t ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean khi c\u1eadu th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u201c\u0111\u00f3ng k\u1ecbch\u201d su\u1ed1t nhi\u1ec1u tu\u1ea7n li\u1ec1n. H\u00e0ng s\u00e1ng Michael kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c v\u00e0 than v\u00e3n v\u00ec c\u1eadu b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u1ed9t h\u00f4m b\u1ed1 Michael kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu n\u1ed5i n\u1eefa. \u00d4ng t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn n\u00f3i: \u201cCon m\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u00e0m tr\u00f2 n\u1eefa l\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng cho con h\u1ecdc tr\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ecbn n\u1eefa b\u00e2y gi\u1edd\u201d. Ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c Michael thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00e9t m\u1eb7t. N\u00f3 nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o m\u1eaft b\u1ed1 v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201cTuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi!\u201d \u2013 b\u1ed1 Michael kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n l\u1ea1i di\u1ec5n bi\u1ebfn theo h\u01b0\u1edbng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. \u00d4ng v\u1ed9i chuy\u1ec3n sang \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i kh\u00e1c\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u1eeb nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng: \u201cT\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a g\u00ec h\u1ebft\u201d. Nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd v\u00e0o tai n\u1ecd ra tai kia c\u1ea3 th\u00f4i v\u00e0 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa \u00fd l\u1eafng nghe b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i g\u00ec n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0a ra y\u00eau c\u1ea7u cho con c\u00e1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3n t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y ch\u00fa \u00fd m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed9t bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i d\u1eebng ngay n\u1ebfu th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng \u279e T\u1ea3ng l\u1edd<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u1ede \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 hai kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng: M\u1ed9t l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u1ea3ng l\u1edd nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi h\u1ed7n l\u00e1o c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, hai l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u1edd \u01a1 v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p th\u1ee9 hai, b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u1edd con m\u00ecnh \u0111i ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea3ng l\u1edd h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb thi tho\u1ea3ng c\u0169ng kh\u00e1 h\u1eefu \u00edch. Trong m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u nh\u01b0 m\u00fat ng\u00f3n tay c\u00e1i, th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng ch\u1eedi b\u1eady v\u00e0 c\u00e3i b\u01b0\u1edbng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u1edbn n\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m ch\u00fa \u00fd. N\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fa \u00fd th\u00ec tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 xem x\u00e9t l\u1ea1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang. V\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng qu\u00e1 h\u1ed7n l\u00e1o c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u00ec m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n l\u1ea1i kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng: B\u1ea1n \u0111ang cho \u0111\u1ee9a con 2 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0103n nh\u01b0ng h\u1ebft l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ea7n kh\u00e1c n\u00f3 nh\u1ed5 rau trong m\u1ed3m v\u00e0o m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng n\u00f3 c\u1ed1 \u00fd h\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u1ed1c n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o t\u01b0\u1eddng. Hay th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 6 tu\u1ed5i con b\u1ea1n hay \u0111\u1ea1p v\u00e0o \u1ed1ng ch\u00e2n b\u1ea1n m\u1ed7i khi c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng v\u1eeba \u00fd. Ho\u1eb7c c\u1eadu con trai 9 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y ch\u1eedi b\u1ea1n. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u nh\u01b0 \u201cCon b\u00f2 \u0111\u1ef1c ngu ng\u1ed1c\u201d hay \u201cCon d\u00ea \u0111\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed9n\u201d th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ea5y. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n ra sao n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn m\u00e0 c\u00f2n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed vui v\u1ebb b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb? C\u00f3 l\u1ebd tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ngh\u0129: \u201cCh\u1eafc l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ebf n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. M\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n\u201d. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bu\u1ed3n ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nh\u1eefng ai \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec c\u00e1i h\u1ecd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft \u01a1n v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e0 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 khinh mi\u1ec7t. Tr\u1ebb con c\u0169ng m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m trong suy ngh\u0129 y nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn v\u1eady. N\u00f3 ngh\u0129: \u201cNh\u1eefng ai \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb khinh th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u00e2u. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd kh\u00e1 l\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea3ng l\u1edd nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m gh\u00ea g\u1edbm nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00f2n \u1ea9n ch\u1ee9a m\u1ed9t m\u1eb7t tr\u00e1i kh\u00e1c: B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o c\u00e1c \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed9t ng\u1ed9t m\u1ea5t ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn. Vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea3ng l\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u01a1n th\u1ecbnh n\u1ed9 ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc v\u00e0 l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 \u201cT\u1ea3ng l\u1edd h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb\u201d nh\u1eafc t\u00f4i nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ed3i c\u00f2n \u0111i h\u1ecdc. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u2013 c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u2013 \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 t\u00ednh. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nhai k\u1eb9o cao su, \u0111\u1ecdc truy\u1ec7n tranh, \u0111an len ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nhau trong gi\u1edd ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a v\u1edf cho nhau trong l\u00fac l\u00e0m b\u00e0i ki\u1ec3m tra. Th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o b\u1ecf qua t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. C\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00e0ng nh\u1eddn. H\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9a n\u00e0o ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y v\u00e0 coi th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1eddi th\u1ea7y n\u00f3i. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb9p tr\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea5y \u00f4ng th\u1ea7y l\u1ea1i n\u1ed5i c\u01a1n th\u1ecbnh n\u1ed9 v\u00e0 la m\u1eafng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn \u00f4ng \u1ea5y c\u00e0ng bu\u1ed3n c\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01a1n trong m\u1eaft ch\u00fang t\u00f4i m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn khi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y tr\u1ea3 \u0111\u0169a c\u1ea3 l\u1edbp b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch cho \u0111i\u1ec3m k\u00e9m th\u00ec ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110\u00e1ng l\u1ebd ra con b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i n\u1eb1m tr\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eeb l\u00e2u r\u1ed3i. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 c\u1ee9 mon men ra ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1ch ch\u1ed7 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i. B\u1ea1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd n\u1eefa v\u00e0 m\u1eb7c k\u1ec7 cho n\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec th\u00ec l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trong b\u1eefa t\u1ed1i, b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n b\u00e0n b\u1ea1c v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c quan tr\u1ecdng. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng con b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ee3i con r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi b\u00e0n \u0103n v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n ri\u00eang v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ea1n c\u00e3i nhau v\u1edbi con v\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. Khi con mang v\u1edf ra h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n bu\u1ed3n ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi n\u00f3 n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng tr\u00ean, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 b\u1ecf qua h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 c\u00f2n coi nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed nh\u01b0 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra v\u1eady. Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00f4 c\u1ea3m. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nhau c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y \u2013 v\u1edbi hi v\u1ecdng l\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd suy x\u00e9t k\u0129 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed n\u00e0y? B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1eed m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a con. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd b\u1ecb ai \u0111\u00f3 \u201cchi\u1ebfn tranh l\u1ea1nh\u201d ch\u01b0a? C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? Theo t\u00f4i, trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang \u201cchi\u1ebfn tranh l\u1ea1nh\u201d bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ch\u00fat g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecbch. Th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p \u201cV\u1edbi t\u00f4i anh coi nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i\u201d c\u00f2n \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 c\u00e2u \u201cT\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u01b0a anh\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf n\u00ean vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea3ng l\u1edd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb nh\u1eadn ra khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0 c\u01b0 x\u1eed ngoan ngo\u00e3n h\u01a1n \u0111\u00e2u. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed n\u00f3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 \u0111\u1eafc l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u01a1i m\u00e0o cho h\u00e0nh vi g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd. Tr\u1ebb con s\u1ebd leo thang h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed h\u1ed7n l\u00e1o cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi n\u00e0o b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i m\u1edbi th\u00f4i. Th\u1eddi gian tr\u1ebb khi\u00eau kh\u00edch c\u00e0ng l\u00e2u th\u00ec ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng t\u1eeb ph\u00eda cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 mang t\u00ednh th\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecbch h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u1ea3ng l\u1edd con c\u00e1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn t\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn gi\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y ch\u01b0a? B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 tr\u00e1ch m\u00ecnh hay c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m c\u1eafn r\u1ee9t g\u00ec c\u1ea3. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i m\u1ed7i khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng r\u1ed3i. V\u00e0 m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t ra nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn nh\u01b0ng sai l\u1ea7m v\u1eabn c\u1ee9 n\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfp. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng ch\u1ee3t nh\u1eadn ra m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng v\u1eabn m\u1eafc kh\u00f4ng \u00edt sai l\u1ea7m trong c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi ba \u0111\u1ee9a con. Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i d\u00f9 t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m th\u1ebf l\u00e0 sai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd k\u00ec v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111\u00fang t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. S\u1ef1 c\u1ea7u to\u00e0n ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u00e1u gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 hoang mang. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 \u00edch cho ai h\u1ebft. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn n\u00f3 v\u00e0 r\u00fat ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc cho m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a. ! H\u00c3Y TR\u1ea2 L\u1edcI TRUNG TH\u1ef0C!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u1ed5ng \u0111i\u1ec3m \u00edt h\u01a1n 5 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n 1-2-3-4 T\u00f4i tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c con m\u00ecnh 1-2-3-4 T\u00f4i \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u00ec sao 1-2-3-4 T\u00f4i th\u1ec9nh c\u1ea7u v\u00e0 van n\u00e0i con 1-2-3-4 T\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0a ra y\u00eau c\u1ea7u m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 n\u1ebfu con kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi 1-2-3-4 T\u00f4i d\u00f9ng c\u00e2u \u201cN\u1ebfu\u2013th\u00ec\u201d nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c thi h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i 1-2-3-4 T\u00f4i t\u1ea3ng l\u1edd con m\u00ecnh m\u1ed7i khi n\u00f3 c\u01b0 x\u1eed h\u1ed7n l\u00e1o<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u1ed5ng \u0111i\u1ec3m:\u2026. 1 &#8211; Kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ho\u1eb7c g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">2 &#8211; Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">3 &#8211; R\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">4 &#8211; Th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c d\u1ea1y con h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc \u2013 Annette Kast-Zahn Kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3: Khi cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t N\u1ebeU B\u1ea0N \u00c1P D\u1ee4NG t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp trong ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u1ea7n g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd n\u1eefa. 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