{"id":16859,"date":"2021-12-05T14:17:08","date_gmt":"2021-12-05T07:17:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/post\/?p=16859"},"modified":"2021-12-05T14:17:10","modified_gmt":"2021-12-05T07:17:10","slug":"phan-8-khi-phu-huynh-co-phan-ung-thu-dich","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/phan-8-khi-phu-huynh-co-phan-ung-thu-dich\/","title":{"rendered":"Ph\u1ea7n 8. Khi ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng th\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecbch"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c d\u1ea1y con<\/a> h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc \u2013 Annette Kast-Zahn<\/p>\n\n\n\n

NH\u1eeeNG PH\u1ea2N \u1ee8NG TH\u00d9 \u0110\u1ecaCH g\u1eedi t\u1edbi con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta m\u1ed9t th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0: \u201cB\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch con!\u201d. Ch\u00fang ta th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n g\u1eedi \u0111i th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p n\u00e0y. Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 \u00fd l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 n\u00f3 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta. Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c t\u1edbi n\u1ed7i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng r\u1eb1ng b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c, d\u1ecda n\u1ea1t, h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u00ean con c\u00e1i m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 n\u00eau g\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u1ea5u m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Ch\u00fang ta g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i tr\u1edf n\u00ean n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1. \u279e Tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c v\u00e0 m\u1eafng m\u1ecf<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ea1n g\u00e1n cho con nh\u1eefng t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7: \u201cCon ng\u1ed1c qu\u00e1! Con l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u0169ng h\u1ecfng h\u1ebft!\u201d, \u201cCon l\u00e0 k\u1ebb n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7!\u201d. Ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n kh\u00e1i qu\u00e1t th\u00e0nh: \u201cCon \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng n\u1ed5i!\u201d, \u201cB\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng con th\u00eam \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa!\u201d, \u201cCon khi\u1ebfn b\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9 ph\u00e1t \u1ed1m!\u201d, \u201cB\u1ed1\/ m\u1eb9 \u0111au tim v\u00ec con m\u1ea5t!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, s\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a con. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o cho ch\u00fang c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ch\u1ed1i b\u1ecf v\u00e0 coi th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1eady nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00e0y kh\u01a1i g\u1ee3i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec trong con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta? T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 ch\u00fang s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd s\u1ebd gia t\u0103ng. Ngo\u00e0i ra, con c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c: c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9 \u2013 t\u00f9y theo t\u00ednh kh\u00ed. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi m\u1eafng m\u1ecf t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00ean s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a con nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i b\u00faa t\u1ea1. Ch\u00fang s\u1ebd h\u1ee7y di\u1ec7t s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a con nhanh ch\u00f3ng v\u00e0 tri\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec3. T\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang c\u00f2n m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n khi b\u1ea1n qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng con. T\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed c\u1ee7a con.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t ho\u1eb7c s\u1ee3 s\u1ec7t v\u00ec b\u1ecb b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 m\u1eafng. V\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u00e2y l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e0nh l\u1ea1i quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y: \u201cCon ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i n\u1ed5i \u0111i\u00ean l\u00ean. Ngo\u00e0i t\u00f4i ra kh\u00f4ng ai l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y! \u00d4ng \u1ea5y ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 r\u1ed3i! Khi t\u00f4i l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u00ec t\u00f4i l\u00e0 g\u00ec trong m\u1eaft m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u00e2y?\u201d M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 l\u1ea1i \u201c\u0111i\u1ebfc\u201d tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi tr\u00e1ch m\u1eafng c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u2013 ch\u00fang \u0111ang t\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u01a1 \u0111\u00e3ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nghe n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1ef1c ra b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 t\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i m\u1eafng m\u1ecf con c\u00e1i. Ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1ea3 n\u1ed7i t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, c\u01a1n th\u1ecbnh n\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta ra ngo\u00e0i \u2013 v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e2u. Ch\u00fang ta tr\u00fat gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ea3 gi\u00e1 l\u00e0 con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta. Khi th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ebfn th\u00eam m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c v\u00e0 m\u1eafng m\u1ecf l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t h\u1eb3n s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a con<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110e d\u1ecda v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng th\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecbch kh\u00e1c l\u00e0: b\u1ea1n tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 n\u1ebfu con kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nghe l\u1eddi th\u00ec s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng: \u201cN\u1ebfu con kh\u00f4ng d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u00ec con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eddi ph\u00f2ng trong m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n!\u201d, \u201cN\u1ebfu con c\u00f2n d\u1ecda em m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa th\u00ec con s\u1ebd b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u00f2n!\u201d, \u201cN\u1ebfu r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c con v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng th\u00ec v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u1ed9i tr\u00fa m\u00e0 h\u1ecdc!\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 v\u1eeba t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 v\u1eeba kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf: \u201cN\u1ebfu con kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng nh\u1eefng tr\u00f2 v\u00f4 b\u1ed5 l\u1ea1i th\u00ec con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i ngh\u1ec9 c\u00f9ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 n\u1eefa!\u201d, \u201cN\u1ebfu con c\u00f2n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c c\u00e3i nhau v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p m\u1eddi ai \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 ch\u01a1i n\u1eefa!\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi d\u1ecda d\u1eabm kh\u00f4ng nghi\u00eam t\u00fac m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch thi\u1ebfu suy ngh\u0129 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111e d\u1ecda nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c thi h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t: Con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi b\u1ea1n n\u1eefa. Tuy nhi\u00ean ch\u00fang v\u1eabn nghe th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1 gi\u1ecdng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecbch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Con s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb ch\u1ed1i b\u1ecf. Nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m con s\u1ee3 v\u00e0 nh\u1ee5t ch\u00ed, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed khi\u1ebfn con c\u00f3 mong mu\u1ed1n tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9. M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang l\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn con b\u1ea1n \u201cthu m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i\u201d, \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta \u2013 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u2013 trong m\u1eaft con s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean to l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, quy\u1ec1n n\u0103ng h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng? Nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c khi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 ra c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft n\u00e0o hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n? Li\u1ec7u b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu khi ph\u1ea1t con c\u00e1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng theo hai c\u00e1ch. Th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1edbi con ch\u00fang ta. Con mu\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t ti\u1ebfp theo v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u1ea1i sao con l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m v\u1eady? V\u00ec s\u1ee3 ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u1ee9 hai: Con ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 g\u00ec \u201cthu m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i\u201d. Con hi\u1ec3u lu\u1eadt ch\u01a1i, nh\u1eadn ra s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 cao. Con c\u00f3 v\u1ebb th\u1edd \u01a1 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t l\u1ea1i t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi c\u01a1 n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh trong cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c. Con \u0111ang r\u1eafp t\u00e2m tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110e d\u1ecda v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn con s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9 \u279e B\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd \u201cra tay\u201d ch\u01b0a? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd in h\u1eb1n d\u1ea5u tay c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00ean m\u00e1 hay tr\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi con b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd t\u00fam l\u1ea5y con b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 l\u1eafc m\u1ea1nh ch\u01b0a? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp con ch\u01b0a? Sau \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u00e0y nay, \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u nh\u01b0: \u201cM\u1ed9t tr\u1eadn \u0111\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i ai!\u201d, \u201cB\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1edd nh\u1eefng tr\u1eadn \u0111\u00f2n!\u201d, \u201cAi kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nghe, s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn!\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i tin v\u00e0 hi v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u00f2n roi nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c. Ni\u1ec1m tin n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng m\u1ed9t hay nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh con. H\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 ai trong ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n \u2013 c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c v\u00f4 \u00fd \u2013 l\u00e0m \u0111au con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00ecnh dung b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c s\u1ebd c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00ean con ch\u00fang ta nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. H\u00e3y h\u00ecnh dung ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n y\u00eau qu\u00fd, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? Con b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady: t\u1ed5n t\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ebd m\u1eb7t. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 khi b\u1ecb ph\u1ea1t n\u1eb7ng, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u1ee3 s\u1ec7t ho\u1eb7c th\u1edd \u01a1 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tr\u1eadn \u0111\u00f2n. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 sau khi b\u1ecb b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u01b0 x\u1eed th\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecbch, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb sau khi b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9. \u0110\u1eebng qu\u00ean v\u1ec1 hi\u1ec7u \u1ee9ng b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc: Con c\u00e1i l\u00e0m theo nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed7i tr\u1eadn \u0111\u00f2n m\u00e0 con ph\u1ea3i h\u1ee9ng ch\u1ecbu s\u1ebd l\u00e0m quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i tr\u1edf n\u00ean x\u1ea5u \u0111i. Ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n \u2013 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 s\u1ebd nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o khi ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn ra tay \u0111\u1ea7y hung h\u00e3n v\u00e0 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh l\u00e0m t\u0103ng th\u00eam n\u1ed7i \u0111au c\u1ee7a con?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u1eebng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ra tay v\u1edbi con? \u0110\u00f4i l\u00fac t\u00f4i c\u0169ng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c ho\u1eb7c sau \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd xin con m\u00ecnh tha th\u1ee9. T\u00f4i th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn: \u201cM\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m.\u201d T\u00f4i h\u1ee9a v\u1edbi con s\u1ebd c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean sau \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i cho ph\u00e9p con gi\u1eadn t\u00f4i trong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian thay v\u00ec tha th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 qu\u00ean ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng th\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecbch kh\u00e1c, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u01b0 x\u1eed gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean x\u1ea3y ra, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u00e1ng tin n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Con b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cm\u1ed9t ph\u00e1t v\u00e0o tay\u201d hay b\u1ecb \u201ct\u00e9t v\u00e0o m\u00f4ng\u201d? Nh\u1eefng \u201cgi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con<\/a> c\u00e1i\u201d n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng khi n\u00e0o tuy\u1ec7t ch\u1ee7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. T\u00f4i coi ch\u00fang l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i xem x\u00e9t l\u1ea1i. Qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t \u201cc\u00e1i \u0111\u00e1nh\u201d t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t tr\u1eadn \u0111\u00f2n r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 di\u1ec5n ra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00e1nh con s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3n t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u279e C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap \u00edch g\u00ec cho b\u1ea1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng th\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecbch c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u2013 d\u1ecda d\u1eabm v\u00e0 m\u1eafng m\u1ecf, ph\u1ea1t n\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c \u2013 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec3m chung l\u00e0 ch\u00fang th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00fang l\u00e0 \u201cs\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9\u201d m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta d\u00e0nh cho con c\u00e1i v\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta cho t\u1edbi th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 v\u1ecdng. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta tr\u00fat \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh, n\u1ed7i t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn khi ch\u00fang ta \u201ct\u1ee9c n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ee1 b\u1edd\u201d. L\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a ba \u0111\u1ee9a con, t\u00f4i r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u1ec1u m\u1eafc nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu r\u1ea5t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng th\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecbch \u0111\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 c\u1eafn r\u1ee9t l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m. R\u1ea5t ti\u1ebfc l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap \u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 gi\u00fap \u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con<\/a> c\u00e1i gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 ch\u00fang ta kh\u1ecfi nguy c\u01a1 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7. \u00a7 T\u1ed4NG K\u1ebeT \u21d2 Ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, h\u00e3y d\u1eebng:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Qu\u1edf tr\u00e1ch<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi t\u1ea1i sao<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1ec9nh c\u1ea7u v\u00e0 c\u1ea7u xin<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u01b0a ra y\u00eau c\u1ea7u nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng k\u00e8m theo h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t n\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 \u201cN\u1ebfu\u2013th\u00ec\u201d mang t\u00ednh \u0111e d\u1ecda nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c thi h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea3ng l\u1edd<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Thay v\u00ec truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ebfn con c\u00e1c quy \u0111\u1ecbnh, ch\u00fang l\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn con b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng coi tr\u1ecdng b\u1ea1n. Qua \u0111\u00f3, cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn gi\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m s\u1ebd ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhen nh\u00f3m. \u21d2 Nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng th\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecbch s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i tr\u1edf n\u00ean n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai h\u00e3y d\u1eebng:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi\u1ec3n tr\u00e1ch v\u00e0 m\u1eafng m\u1ecf<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u0103m d\u1ecda v\u00e0 ph\u1ea1t n\u1eb7ng<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Con tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi th\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecbch nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t l\u00f2ng tin \u1edf tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb s\u1ee3 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0m n\u1ea3y sinh \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c d\u1ea1y con h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc \u2013 Annette Kast-Zahn NH\u1eeeNG PH\u1ea2N \u1ee8NG TH\u00d9 \u0110\u1ecaCH g\u1eedi t\u1edbi con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta m\u1ed9t th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0: \u201cB\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch con!\u201d. Ch\u00fang ta th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n g\u1eedi \u0111i th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p n\u00e0y. Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[23],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16859","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-phuong-phap"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16859","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16859"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16859\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16860,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16859\/revisions\/16860"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16859"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16859"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16859"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}