{"id":16861,"date":"2021-12-05T14:17:16","date_gmt":"2021-12-05T07:17:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/post\/?p=16861"},"modified":"2021-12-05T14:17:18","modified_gmt":"2021-12-05T07:17:18","slug":"phan-9-ke-hoach-dat-gioi-han","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/phan-9-ke-hoach-dat-gioi-han\/","title":{"rendered":"Ph\u1ea7n 9. K\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch \u0111\u1eb7t gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"2\" title=\"Vietlearn\" rel=\"nofollow\">d\u1ea1y con<\/a> h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc \u2013 Annette Kast-Zahn<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trong ch\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft\u2026 \u279e T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n n\u00ean ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0o \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y? \u279e B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1eaft ch\u1eb7t quy \u0111\u1ecbnh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? \u279e B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i c\u00f4ng khai quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi con nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? \u279e Sau khi n\u00f3i xong, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00e1i g\u00ec? \u279e L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tho\u1ea3 thu\u1eadn m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi con? \u279f \u0110i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u1ede CH\u01af\u01a0NG TR\u01af\u1edaC, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn k\u1ef9 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m. Ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n trong l\u00fac \u0111\u1ecdc, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n: \u201cV\u1eady t\u00f4i n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec? D\u00f9 sao t\u00f4i c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u1ee9!\u201d Trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f4ng th\u1ee9c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb ra \u0111\u1eddi. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch ph\u00e2n r\u00f5 ranh gi\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00eau ra sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n n\u00f3. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc: B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc, t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t. N\u1ebfu b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, h\u00e3y chuy\u1ec3n sang b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp theo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ed3 d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 cho b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn to\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1eb7t ra gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u00e0 k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch n\u00e0y ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n ra sao. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n \u1edf ph\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 hai c\u1ee7a ch\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u01afu \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch n\u00e0y l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp theo m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec. Nh\u01b0ng k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0y \u1edf nh\u1eefng trang ti\u1ebfp theo. ? GI\u1ea2I PH\u00c1P<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">K\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n r\u00f5 ranh gi\u1edbi<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">H\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ea0N C\u00d2N NH\u1eda T\u1edaI c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 h\u1eefu \u00edch ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn nh\u1eb1m g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd kh\u00f4ng? H\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe, th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1i t\u00f4i, c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m h\u01a1n v\u1edbi con, th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0nh cho s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u2013 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Xung \u0111\u1ed9t s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3m \u0111i, con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c v\u00e0 b\u1edbt \u201c\u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u\u201d v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n h\u01a1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p m\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1t huy t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng: Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a con (b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe), n\u00f3i l\u00ean nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n (qua th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n), \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng lu\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec3m x\u00e1c \u0111\u00e1ng m\u00e0 con b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n. N\u1ebfu ng\u00e0y ng\u00e0y tranh gi\u00e0nh quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 tranh lu\u1eadn m\u00e0 v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00e0o th\u00ec b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh ranh gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n r\u00f5 ranh gi\u1edbi l\u00e0 con ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn. Nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng khu\u00f4n kh\u1ed5 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho con s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1. Th\u00eam v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, con th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch. S\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ea7y y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 h\u1eefu ngh\u1ecb v\u00e0 h\u00e0i h\u00f2a. Trong l\u00fac con h\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 v\u00e0 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu: H\u00e3y ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m! B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p b\u1ecf s\u00f3t b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">H\u00e3y ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a con<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">L\u00e0m sao con bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 t\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang? R\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n th\u00edch ch\u00fang? Y\u00eau ch\u00fang? Tin t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u00fang? C\u1ea7n ch\u00fang?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con b\u1ea1n, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u201chi\u1ec3u nhi\u00ean\u201d n\u00e0y quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 m\u1ea1ng s\u1ed1ng v\u1eady. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ee7 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u1edbi con ch\u01b0a? Con c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n nh\u1eafc \u0111i nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u2013 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng m\u00e0 l\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch t\u00edch c\u1ef1c quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn con. \u279e Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a con<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i. Con b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng v\u1eady. N\u1ebfu con c\u01b0 x\u1eed kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a con v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a con. H\u00e3y ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a con. Trong b\u1ea3ng d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i v\u00ed d\u1ee5.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">GI\u1ea2I PH\u00c1P<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn thay v\u00ec \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn \u279e \u0110\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean con<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean con m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y ch\u1ec9 cho ch\u00fang th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf h\u01a1n lu\u00f4n kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng th\u1eed nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1edbi l\u1ea1. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 cho con th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng: \u201cB\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9 tin l\u00e0 con l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t vui n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m c\u00f9ng con!\u201d Ti\u1ebfc r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y. Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng khi\u1ebfn con n\u1ea3n ch\u00ed thay v\u00ec cho con th\u00eam \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Maria (8 tu\u1ed5i) th\u00edch t\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u00f4n To\u00e1n khi\u1ebfn c\u00f4 b\u00e9 g\u1eb7p ch\u00fat r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i. Trong b\u1ea3ng \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 b\u00e9 c\u00f3 ghi: \u201cMaria g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n l\u1edbn trong vi\u1ec7c t\u1eadp trung. C\u00f4 b\u00e9 ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc b\u1ea3ng c\u1eedu ch\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 h\u01a1n.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00f4 gi\u00e1o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ghi nh\u01b0 sau \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean tr\u1ebb: \u201cMaria th\u00edch nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f4 b\u00e9 th\u00edch r\u1ea5t say m\u00ea. C\u00f4 b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 trong vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc b\u1ea3ng c\u1eedu ch\u01b0\u01a1ng. N\u1ebfu ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp, c\u00f4 b\u00e9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nhanh ch\u00f3ng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh th\u1ee5c.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">GI\u1ea2I PH\u00c1P<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean thay v\u00ec l\u00e0m nh\u1ee5t ch\u00ed<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u00e0m nh\u1ee5t ch\u00ed \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m chung: nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a con. Th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fa \u00fd. Ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i: kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0o l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m m\u00e0 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"2\" title=\"Vietlearn\" rel=\"nofollow\">gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean<\/a> c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n ch\u1ec9 ra nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Qua \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean g\u1ea7n g\u0169i h\u01a1n. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. \u279e Ch\u1ec9 r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean, khen ng\u1ee3i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn con tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i \u1ee9ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft sau t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1eb7t ra cho con.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">H\u00e3y n\u00f3i ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ed1t m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y \u1edf con: \u201cTuy\u1ec7t, con \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t!\u201d, \u201cB\u1ee9c tranh c\u1ee7a con tuy\u1ec7t qu\u00e1!\u201d, \u201c\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i ch\u00ednh t\u1ea3 kh\u00f3 v\u00e0 con vi\u1ebft \u0111\u00fang g\u1ea7n h\u1ebft! Con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111i!\u201d, \u201cCon x\u00e2y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i th\u00e1p cao v\u1eady! Tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi!\u201d, \u201cCon \u0111\u00e3 ch\u01a1i x\u1ebfp m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh m\u1ea5y ti\u1ebfng r\u1ed3i. B\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t vui khi con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u1ed5n th\u1ecfa m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh!\u201d, \u201cTuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, con tr\u01b0\u1ee3t tuy\u1ebft gi\u1ecfi qu\u00e1! M\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1ee3t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady!\u201d, \u201cTh\u1eadt b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd: Con \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 m\u1eb7c qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i!\u201d, \u201cCon \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i b\u00e0n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i! B\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t khi con l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap b\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 tr\u1ebb em n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf nh\u01b0 c\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1edf v\u1eady. Con ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vui v\u1ebb. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd v\u1ecdng l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng \u201cti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i trong t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c\u201d v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sau n\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111o\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a con nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n khen hay x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn v\u1edbi ch\u00fang! B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng cho l\u00f2ng tin v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc c\u1ee7a con v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00ec t\u1eeb kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng: Ch\u00fang ta \u2013 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u2013 ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i hay s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch khen ng\u1ee3i: L\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0o ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn \u1edf nh\u1eefng trang ti\u1ebfp theo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00f3i c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u1edbi con v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n th\u00edch \u1edf con \u201cCon \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p ph\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd! Ngay c\u1ea3 b\u00e0n h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 gi\u00e1 s\u00e1ch c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t ng\u0103n n\u1eafp!\u201d, \u201cM\u1eb9 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00edch b\u1ee9c tranh c\u1ee7a con. Con ch\u1ecdn m\u00e0u r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb9p! M\u1eb9 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t th\u1ea5y b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb9p\u201d, \u201cCon x\u1ebfp b\u00e0n \u0103n xong r\u1ed3i! Kh\u0103n \u0103n v\u00e0 n\u1ebfn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00fang ch\u1ed7. Nh\u00ecn th\u1eadt h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng n\u00f3i c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n th\u00edch \u1edf con bao nhi\u00eau c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t. Con s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, s\u1ef1 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1ng tin h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi khi b\u1ea1n l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i \u201c\u0110\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ea5y!\u201d hay \u201cCon l\u00e0m r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t!\u201d. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb r\u01a1i v\u00e0o ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh khen con m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00e2ng qu\u01a1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u01a1n \u0111i\u1ec7u v\u00ec \u201cai c\u0169ng khen nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u1ea3\u201d v\u00e0 con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng coi tr\u1ecdng l\u1eddi khen c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i g\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ea1n khen ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, khi l\u00e0m v\u1eady b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00edch c\u1ef1c nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y vui v\u1ebb: \u201cCh\u1eef con vi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eb3ng h\u00e0ng r\u1ed3i!\u201d \u2013 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1eady khi \u0111\u1ee9a con \u0111ang tu\u1ed5i \u0111i h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft xong m\u1ed9t trang nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc v\u00e0o v\u1edf v\u00e0 ch\u1eef vi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t th\u1eb3ng h\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 \u00edt c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 khen v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn con th\u00ec b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y b\u1ecf qua nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 n\u00f3i l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi con r\u1eb1ng: \u201c\u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9 th\u00edch!\u201d. H\u00e3y ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng: C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 v\u01b0\u1ee3t b\u1eadc ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh t\u00edch tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi. B\u1ea3ng \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ed5ng k\u1ebft c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 quan tr\u1ecdng. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9, m\u1ed7i b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i theo chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn c\u1ee7a con. T\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a con, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean so s\u00e1nh ch\u00fang v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c \u2013 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 anh ch\u1ecb em c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ch\u1ec9 khi b\u1ea1n ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m, b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t cho ch\u00fang nh\u1eefng lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 v\u00e0 ranh gi\u1edbi<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110\u1ec3 cho \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00ean<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng khen v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean con nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t sau \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd ph\u00e1 h\u1ecfng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3! M\u1ed9t b\u00e0n tay c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta x\u00e2y \u0111\u1eafp ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n cho con, b\u00e0n tay kia ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i c\u1ea7m c\u00e2y b\u00faa g\u1ed7 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eadp tan nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta v\u1eeba g\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i v\u00ed d\u1ee5: \u201cD\u00f2ng n\u00e0y con vi\u1ebft \u0111\u1eb9p l\u1eafm. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ea5y d\u00f2ng c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i th\u00ec vi\u1ebft c\u1ea9u th\u1ea3 qu\u00e1!\u201d, \u201cCon d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd l\u1eafm. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0y l\u00fac n\u00e0o tr\u00f4ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i chu\u1ed3ng l\u1ee3n!\u201d, \u201cHai \u0111\u1ee9a \u0111\u00e3 h\u00f2a thu\u1eadn v\u1edbi nhau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u0103m ph\u00fat r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ea5y. M\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1nh d\u1ea5u s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0y v\u00e0o l\u1ecbch m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c! Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec c\u00e1c con c\u1ee9 hai ph\u00fat l\u00e0 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e1nh nhau m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n!\u201d, \u201cH\u00f4m nay con \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m b\u00e0i v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhanh v\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung. Sao \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nh\u1ec9?\u201d, \u201cTrong b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e1, con th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 qu\u00e2n \u00e1t ch\u1ee7 b\u00e0i. Gi\u00e1 nh\u01b0 \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf nh\u1ec9!\u201d, \u201cH\u00f4m nay con \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd! M\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf con h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn l\u1ea7n, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng th\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ch\u00fang ta r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 l\u1ee1 l\u1eddi th\u1ed1t ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebf nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn. Sau khi khen ng\u1ee3i xong, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p kh\u1ea9n c\u1ea5p h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 m\u00edm ch\u1eb7t m\u00f4i l\u1ea1i \u2013 h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 cho nh\u1eefng \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00ean!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">H\u00e3y ch\u1ec9 cho con nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng hi\u1ec3u l\u1eddi khen b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ea1i t\u1eeb ch\u1ec9 ng\u00f4i th\u1ee9 hai: \u201cCon r\u1ea5t can \u0111\u1ea3m!\u201d, \u201cCon \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00fang!\u201d, \u201cCon \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ecdn ph\u00f2ng r\u1ea5t ng\u0103n n\u1eafp!\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">L\u1eddi khen c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng h\u01a1n khi ch\u00fang ta li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p \u2013 c\u00e1i t\u00f4i \u201cB\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng\u201d, \u201cB\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 con!\u201d, \u201cB\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t vui!\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khen \u201cb\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn con b\u1ea1n: \u201cB\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t\u201d. M\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khen v\u1edbi th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p \u2013 c\u00e1i t\u00f4i khi\u1ebfn con b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng: \u201cNh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4i l\u00e0m h\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1ee9c nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p \u1edf b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 t\u00f4i h\u1ee3p nhau\u201d. V\u00ec v\u1eady, l\u1eddi khen khi\u1ebfn gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n x\u00edch l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n nhau h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u00e1nh m\u1eaft l\u1ea5p l\u00e1nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n khi ch\u00fang c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 che ch\u1edf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1i \u00f4m t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng, m\u1ed9t n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ec9m, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i xoa \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ea7y y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u2013 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp \u0111i v\u00e0o tr\u00e1i tim con v\u00e0 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n: Con b\u1ea1n c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ee9a con nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u00e0 v\u00e0o l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 v\u00f2ng tay quanh c\u1ed5 b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ee9a con \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i h\u1ecdc m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u1eb7ng b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t n\u1ee5 h\u00f4n th\u1eafm thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng kh\u01a1i g\u1ee3i nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p trong ch\u00fang ta b\u1eb1ng v\u00f4 v\u00e0n c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u1ed9t chu tr\u00ecnh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh tr\u01a1n tru n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t v\u00e0 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 ch\u00fang c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n cho con th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n th\u1ee9 hai:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Th\u1eaft ch\u1eb7t lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ea0N \u0110\u00c3 T\u1eeaNG NGH\u0128 nh\u1eefng lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 n\u00e0o \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t quan tr\u1ecdng cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a? Ch\u1ec9 khi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec th\u00ec b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t ra nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n h\u1ee3p l\u00fd. H\u00e3y x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, con s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n mong m\u1ecfi \u1edf ch\u00fang. Con s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi con vi ph\u1ea1m m\u1ed9t lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng \u201cm\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh\u201d hay s\u1ef1 c\u1ea5m \u0111o\u00e1n chuy\u00ean quy\u1ec1n. Tr\u00ean t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, \u0111\u1eb7t ra gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u00f2n bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 nh\u1eefng lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">H\u00e3y c\u00f4ng khai tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf con b\u1ea1n khi ch\u00fang b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u vi ph\u1ea1m m\u1ed9t lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y h\u1ecfi con b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f3. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00f2ng tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u00e0 tranh c\u00e3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trong Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 1, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn quy t\u1eafc. Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i v\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0a ra lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u1ee9ng nh\u1eafc. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c nhau trong m\u1ed7i gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a con hay th\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ea1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh quy \u0111\u1ecbnh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 m\u00ecnhs\u1ebd th\u1eaft ch\u1eb7t nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a con \u2013v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ng\u1ee7 \u201cSau khi \u0111\u1ecdc truy\u1ec7n cho con nghe, m\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c b\u1ed1 r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi ph\u00f2ng con. Sau \u0111\u00f3, con h\u00e3y \u1edf trong ph\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i y\u00ean l\u1eb7ng.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0102n \u201cCh\u00fang ta s\u1ebd \u0103n t\u1ea1i b\u00e0n. S\u1ebd c\u00f3 quy \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1c b\u1eefa trong ng\u00e0y. Ai c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u0103n. M\u1eb9 s\u1ebd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0103n m\u00f3n g\u00ec. Con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n \u0103n nhi\u1ec1u hay \u00edt.\u201d \u201cTrong l\u00fac \u0103n, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u ng\u1ed3i t\u1ea1i b\u00e0n \u0103n. Con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mang \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i v\u00e0 s\u00e1ch ra b\u00e0n. V\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng xem ti-vi trong l\u00fac \u0103n.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p \u201cD\u1ecdn ph\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a con m\u1ed7i tu\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n.\u201d \u201cM\u1ed7i t\u1ed1i, \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i \u1edf trong ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ecdn s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd.\u201d \u201cCon d\u1ecdn c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i c\u0169 tr\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i m\u1edbi ra.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u01b0 x\u1eed v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong nh\u00e0 \u201cCh\u00fang ta c\u01b0 x\u1eed h\u00f2a b\u00ecnh v\u1edbi nhau. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh nhau, n\u00e9m \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i hay nh\u1eefng v\u1eadt kh\u00e1c. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u1edbi nhau, h\u00e3y n\u00f3i th\u1eb3ng ra.\u201d \u201cCh\u00fang ta n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nhau, kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb th\u00f4 t\u1ee5c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng la h\u00e9t.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ti-vi \u201cB\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p xem ti-vi bao l\u00e2u m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n v\u00e0 trong kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i bao l\u00e2u. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f9ng nhau quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p xem ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh g\u00ec. Con ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p xem ti-vi n\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9 cho ph\u00e9p.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 \u201cAi trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u00f9ng nhau th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn ho\u1eb7c l\u1eadp ra m\u1ed9t k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch.\u201d (Ngay c\u1ea3 tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf tu\u1ed5i c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0, nh\u01b0 tr\u1ea3i kh\u0103n tr\u1ea3i b\u00e0n ho\u1eb7c d\u1ecdn b\u00e0n \u0103n.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">An to\u00e0n \u201cN\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta ra g\u1ea7n t\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, con ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n \u1edf g\u1ea7n b\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9.\u201d \u201cSau khi h\u1ecdc xong, con ph\u1ea3i v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 ngay. N\u1ebfu con \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3, con ph\u1ea3i b\u00e1o tr\u01b0\u1edbc cho b\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9. Con ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u.\u201d \u00a7 T\u1ed4NG K\u1ebeT<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t ra nh\u1eefng ranh gi\u1edbi hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 khi th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n sau: \u21d2 H\u00e3y ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a con<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a con. Ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a con, h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn con v\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean con. H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n n\u00f3i r\u00f5 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n th\u00edch \u1edf con. \u21d2 H\u00e3y th\u1eaft ch\u1eb7t v\u00e0 n\u00eau r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Con b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 n\u00e0y. H\u00e3y n\u00eau r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng quy \u0111\u1ecbnh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1 ra \u2013 n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n ng\u1ee7, \u0103n, d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p, xem ti-vi hay \u1ee9ng x\u1eed v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. 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