{"id":16869,"date":"2021-12-05T14:17:49","date_gmt":"2021-12-05T07:17:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/post\/?p=16869"},"modified":"2021-12-05T14:17:50","modified_gmt":"2021-12-05T07:17:50","slug":"phan-13-co-hoi-cuoi-cung-phuong-phap-ngoi-yen-tren-ghe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/phan-13-co-hoi-cuoi-cung-phuong-phap-ngoi-yen-tren-ghe\/","title":{"rendered":"Ph\u1ea7n 13. C\u01a1 h\u1ed9i cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng: ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u201cng\u1ed3i y\u00ean tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c d\u1ea1y con<\/a> h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc \u2013 Annette Kast-Zahn<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u201cng\u1ed3i y\u00ean tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf\u201d c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho c\u00e1c b\u00e9 tr\u00ean 2 tu\u1ed5i. Cha m\u1eb9 \u1edf c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi b\u00e9 trong ph\u00f2ng ri\u00eang. V\u1edbi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u201cng\u1ed3i y\u00ean tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf\u201d, b\u00e9 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh b\u1ecb c\u00e1ch ly trong ph\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. B\u00e9 ph\u1ea3i d\u1ee9t ra kh\u1ecfi c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i b\u1eadn t\u00e2m kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ed3i y\u00ean tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i gh\u1ebf \u1edf g\u1ea7n cha m\u1eb9. M\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 sau \u0111\u00e2y m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Thomas (4 tu\u1ed5i) r\u1ea5t hay ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ee3m khi c\u00f3 kh\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u01a1i nh\u00e0. L\u00fac n\u00e0o b\u00e9 c\u0169ng gi\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng d\u00f9 b\u00e9 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111ang ch\u01a1i \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i kh\u00e1c. V\u1eady m\u00e0 \u1edf nh\u00e0 Thomas c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t quy \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1ebf n\u00ean m\u1eb9 Thomas trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u201cng\u1ed3i y\u00ean tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf\u201d. Khi c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 ch\u01a1i, b\u00e0 nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i cho con trai nh\u1edb v\u1ec1 quy \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0y. Tuy th\u1ebf ngay sau n\u0103m ph\u00fat Thomas gi\u1eadt ngay m\u00e1y x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. M\u1eb9 b\u00e9 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cThomas, con bi\u1ebft quy \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 g\u00ec r\u1ed3i. Con \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1eadt m\u00e1y \u1ee7i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang, con bi\u1ebft m\u00e0. Khi b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi ch\u01a1i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p ch\u01a1i chung \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i c\u1ee7a con. V\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 con ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ed3i y\u00ean tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf m\u1ed9t l\u00fac \u0111i. Sau \u0111\u00f3 con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng th\u1eed l\u1ea1i.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Thomas ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ed3i y\u00ean tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf \u1edf g\u1ea7n m\u1eb9 b\u00e9 kho\u1ea3ng hai \u0111\u1ebfn ba ph\u00fat. Trong l\u00fac n\u00e0y m\u1eb9 b\u00e9 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e9. Khi b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh vi\u1ec7c ng\u1ed3i y\u00ean l\u1eb7ng, b\u00e9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ch\u01a1i. N\u1ebfu b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, b\u00e9 s\u1ebd b\u1ecb c\u00e1ch ly: m\u1eb9 b\u00e9 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0a b\u00e9 v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1c trong th\u1eddi gian ng\u1eafn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Thomas c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn: \u201cKhi m\u00ecnh ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ng\u1ed3i y\u00ean tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf, m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ch\u01a1i ngay. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i sang ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1c ng\u1ed3i.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n Thomas l\u00e0m g\u00ec tr\u00e1i v\u1edbi quy \u0111\u1ecbnh \u201cc\u01b0 x\u1eed v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c\u201d, h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 logic s\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u201cng\u1ed3i y\u00ean tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u201cng\u1ed3i y\u00ean tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf\u201d \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb nh\u1edb quy \u0111\u1ecbnh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Tr\u1ebb th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1edf l\u1ea1i trong ph\u00f2ng tr\u1ebb \u0111ang ch\u01a1i thay v\u00ec b\u1ecb c\u00e1ch ly \u1edf m\u1ed9t ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1c. V\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 \u201cng\u1ed3i y\u00ean tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf\u201d tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng m\u00e0 v\u1eabn hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. Quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngay khi tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m tr\u00e1i quy \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t th\u1eddi gian th\u00ec ki\u1ec3u c\u00e1ch ly n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng l\u00e2u, ch\u1ec9 t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103m ph\u00fat. B\u1ea1n c\u1ee9 th\u1eed \u0111\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 m\u00e0 xem! V\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t quy \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u1eefa: tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng \u00edt tu\u1ed5i th\u00ec th\u1eddi gian c\u00e1ch ly c\u00e0ng ng\u1eafn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1ch ly v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9: B\u1ed1 ho\u1eb7c m\u1eb9 ra kh\u1ecfi ph\u00f2ng<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ki\u1ec3u c\u00e1ch ly n\u00e0y ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u00e9 t\u1eeb 2 tu\u1ed5i tr\u1edf l\u00ean. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 khi con b\u1ea1n la h\u00e9t qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u, b\u00e9 c\u00e1u gi\u1eadn ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n m\u1eafng m\u1ecf b\u00e9. B\u1ea1n n\u00ean r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi n\u01a1i x\u1ea3y ra v\u1ee5 vi\u1ec7c thay v\u00ec c\u1ed1 khi\u1ebfn b\u00e9 ch\u00fa \u00fd l\u1ea1i. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u00ed d\u1ee5:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ee9a con 2 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00f2i \u0103n s\u00f4c\u00f4la, nh\u01b0ng b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0103n. B\u00e9 l\u0103n ra s\u00e0n, gi\u1eadm ch\u00e2n v\u00e0 la h\u00e9t. B\u1ea1n ra kh\u1ecfi ph\u00f2ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 quay l\u1ea1i khi con \u0111\u00e3 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p b\u00e9 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0o v\u1edbi con v\u00e0i ph\u00fat v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi r\u1eb1ng: \u201cM\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng? M\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n \u1ed5n c\u1ea3 ch\u1ee9?\u201d Khi b\u00e9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c la h\u00e9t, b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi ph\u00f2ng. B\u1ea1n l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf cho t\u1edbi khi con b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m h\u00f2a l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u00fap con g\u00e1i 8 tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. B\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u00e9 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u la m\u1eafng b\u1ea1n: C\u00f4 gi\u00e1o gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch kh\u00e1c h\u1eb3n, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u g\u00ec c\u1ea3 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u201cb\u00e0 m\u1eb9 x\u1ea5u xa\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n \u0111i ra kh\u1ecfi ph\u00f2ng. T\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i g\u00ec, trong b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0o c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i th\u00eam g\u00ec g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng hay gi\u1ea3ng gi\u1ea3i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c gi\u1eef im l\u1eb7ng qu\u00e1 n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00edch c\u1ef1c: \u201cT\u1edbi khi n\u00e0o con n\u00f3i n\u0103ng th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i, m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c gi\u00fap con.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hai \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n (7 v\u00e0 9 tu\u1ed5i) \u0111\u00e1nh nhau su\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 bu\u1ed5i chi\u1ec1u. C\u1ee9 v\u00e0i ph\u00fat l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng la h\u00e9t v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c can thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 ng\u0103n ch\u00fang. B\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng l\u00fac c\u00e0ng t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c: \u201cN\u1ebfu m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng h\u00e9t l\u00ean th\u00ec ch\u1eafc m\u00ecnh n\u1ed5 tung m\u1ea5t!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Thay v\u00ec h\u00e9t l\u00ean v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng h\u01a1n: \u0111\u1ec3 cho c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean th\u1eddi gian c\u00e1ch ly. B\u1ea1n ra kh\u1ecfi ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1ch v\u00e0 \u0111i m\u1ed9t v\u00f2ng quanh khu nh\u00e0 \u2013 n\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee7 l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec3 \u1edf nh\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngay c\u1ea3 trong nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ec3 r\u00fat lui. Rudolf Dreikurs \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u201cnh\u00e0 t\u1eafm\u201d: M\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c b\u1ed1 ra kh\u1ecfi ph\u00f2ng v\u00e0 v\u00e0o nh\u00e0 t\u1eafm m\u1ed9t l\u00fac (c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi t\u1edd b\u00e1o) v\u00e0 ng\u1ed3i \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi \u0111\u00e3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1eabn c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ngo\u1ea1i l\u1ec7 kh\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh 6 th\u00e1ng tu\u1ed5i: Khi con b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch n\u1eb1m ng\u1ee7 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh tr\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t l\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 ru ng\u1ee7 nh\u01b0 b\u00ecnh s\u1eefa ho\u1eb7c n\u00fam v\u00fa cao su. B\u1ea1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u00e9 \u201cCh\u00fac ng\u1ee7 ngon\u201d v\u00e0 ra kh\u1ecfi ph\u00f2ng. Khi con b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3c, b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i ph\u00f2ng sau th\u1eddi gian ng\u1eafn, d\u1ed7 d\u00e0nh v\u00e0 v\u1ed7 v\u1ec1 b\u00e9, ch\u1ec9 cho b\u00e9 r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u \u1ed5n, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0a cho b\u00e9 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u00e9 th\u00edch (b\u00ecnh s\u1eefa, b\u1ebf l\u00ean d\u1ed7 d\u00e0nh\u2026). B\u1ea1n ra kh\u1ecfi ph\u00f2ng ngay khi con b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn la h\u00e9t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u00e9 ng\u1ee7. Ch\u1ec9 khi b\u00e9 t\u1ef1 ng\u1ee7 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u00e9 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1ee7 li\u1ec1n m\u1ea1ch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ki\u1ec3u c\u00e1ch ly n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng: h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch ng\u1ee7 t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 li\u1ec1n m\u1ea1ch ch\u1ec9 trong v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1edbi tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb 2 tu\u1ed5i tr\u1edf l\u00ean: c\u00e1ch ly trong ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng tu\u00e2n theo quy \u0111\u1ecbnh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u c\u00e1ch ly kh\u00e1c: Cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ra kh\u1ecfi ph\u00f2ng m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a sang ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1c trong th\u1eddi gian ng\u1eafn. N\u1ebfu c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1eeda l\u1ea1i (kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f3a!). Nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t ra m\u1ed9t gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t. \u0110i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 con b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 2 tu\u1ed5i tr\u1edf l\u00ean v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb m\u1eafc ch\u1ee9ng s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n n\u00e0o th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng ki\u1ec3u c\u00e1ch ly \u201cc\u1ed5 \u0111i\u1ec3n\u201d n\u00e0y? Ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 cha m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0a con v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1c r\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1eeda l\u1ea1i cho vui c\u1ea3. Cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng, m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a b\u00e9. \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Con b\u1ea1n c\u1eafn, \u0111\u00e1nh, \u0111\u00e1 b\u1ea1n ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00e9 c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh n\u00e9m \u0111\u0129a \u0103n c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 trong b\u1eefa \u0103n xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00e9 n\u00e9m m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ea1c v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00e9 c\u00e1u gi\u1eadn trong l\u00fac c\u00f9ng ng\u1ed3i chung b\u00e0n v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00e9 to ti\u1ebfng v\u00e0 x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd th\u00f4 t\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00e9 h\u00e9t to khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00e9 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n y\u00ean t\u0129nh l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00e9 ch\u1ecdc t\u1ee9c, khi\u00eau kh\u00edch v\u00e0 \u201cth\u1eed\u201d b\u1ea1n xem b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 n\u00f3i ra quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vi\u1ec7c c\u00e1ch ly s\u1ebd th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 sau:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i suy ngh\u0129 xem b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 vi ph\u1ea1m quy \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u00e1ch ly b\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi con b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p b\u1ecb c\u00e1ch ly, n\u00f3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e9 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb tinh th\u1ea7n. B\u1ea1n n\u00f3i cho b\u00e9 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra, n\u1ebfu b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng tu\u00e2n theo quy \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p c\u00e1ch ly m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n b\u00e9 vi ph\u1ea1m quy \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t ph\u00f2ng c\u00e1ch ly. \u0110\u01b0a b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3 n\u1ebfu b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n \u0111i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i lo li\u1ec7u tr\u01b0\u1edbc vi\u1ec7c con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng tu\u00e2n theo ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p c\u00e1ch ly. \u0110\u00f3ng c\u1eeda l\u1ea1i (kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3a!). N\u1ebfu c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef b\u00e9 l\u1ea1i. N\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ch\u1ee9ng s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ch\u1eb7n c\u1eeda v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda m\u1edf.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1ch ly ch\u1ec9 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i \u00edt ph\u00fat. \u0110\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 h\u1eb9n gi\u1edd. Quy t\u1eafc b\u1ea5t di b\u1ea5t d\u1ecbch: c\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t n\u0103m tu\u1ed5i t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ph\u00fat (2 tu\u1ed5i \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi hai ph\u00fat, ba ph\u00fat v\u1edbi b\u00e9 3 tu\u1ed5i\u2026).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi con b\u1ea1n sau gi\u1edd c\u00e1ch ly v\u1eabn c\u00f2n la h\u00e9t ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f3c, b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n v\u00e0 cho b\u00e9 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i l\u1eadp l\u1ea1i \u201ch\u00f2a b\u00ecnh\u201d. H\u00e3y h\u1ecfi b\u00e9 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n xem m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f3 \u1ed5n kh\u00f4ng ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1eeda l\u1ea1i l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. N\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i kh\u00f3c ho\u1eb7c la h\u00e9t ti\u1ebfp, b\u1ea1n k\u00e9o d\u00e0i th\u00eam th\u1eddi gian c\u00e1ch ly. Con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1eddi gian ngh\u1ec9 c\u00e1ch ly s\u1ebd ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t khi con b\u1ea1n b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 h\u1ebft th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1eb7t ra. N\u1ebfu c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft h\u00e3y l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i th\u1eddi gian ngh\u1ec9 c\u00e1ch ly. M\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 Oliver t\u1eeb ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean. M\u1eb9 b\u00e9 th\u1ea5y b\u00e9 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t \u201cx\u1ea5u t\u00ednh\u201d. B\u00e0 b\u1ecb b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e1nh, c\u1eafn v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1, ngo\u00e0i ra b\u00e9 c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t hay c\u00e1u gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 la h\u00e9t r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c b\u00e9 c\u00e1u gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 la h\u00e9t, m\u1eb9 Oliver c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ki\u1ec3u c\u00e1ch ly \u0111\u00e3 m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 \u1edf \u0111o\u1ea1n tr\u00ean: b\u00e0 ra kh\u1ecfi ph\u00f2ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e9 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. Khi b\u00e0 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111ang l\u00e0m \u1edf trong ph\u00f2ng ho\u1eb7c khi Oliver b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u00e1nh, \u0111\u00e1 ho\u1eb7c c\u1eafn, b\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a b\u00e9 v\u00e0o trong ph\u00f2ng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u00e9. Sau \u0111\u00f3 b\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1eeda l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u1edf g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Oliver \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 m\u1edf c\u1eeda, nh\u01b0ng b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m th\u1ebf. B\u00e9 ng\u1ed3i trong ph\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 g\u00e0o th\u00e9t. Sau hai ph\u00fat m\u1eb9 b\u00e9 \u0111i v\u00e0o v\u00e0 cho b\u00e9 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u201cl\u1eadp l\u1ea1i h\u00f2a b\u00ecnh\u201d: \u201cM\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 \u1ed5n l\u1ea1i ch\u01b0a? Con c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m h\u00f2a v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng?\u201d Oliver ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c g\u00e0o th\u00e9t. M\u1eb9 b\u00e9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ra kh\u1ecfi ph\u00f2ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1eeda l\u1ea1i. Sau hai ph\u00fat ti\u1ebfp theo, b\u00e0 l\u1ea1i v\u00e0o v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi l\u1ea1i b\u00e9. L\u1ea7n n\u00e0y Oliver \u0111\u01b0a tay ra v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 b\u00e9. B\u00e9 ng\u1eebng kh\u00f3c v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh m\u1eb9. Ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean Oliver \u0111\u00e3 ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n: sau m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian ng\u1eafn, b\u00e9 l\u1ea1i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t. T\u1ed5ng c\u1ed9ng l\u00e0 b\u00e9 b\u1ecb c\u00e1ch ly trong ph\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh 12 l\u1ea7n. M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f3c r\u1ea5t d\u1eef d\u1ed9i nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i ch\u00f3ng n\u00edn. L\u1ea7n n\u00e0o m\u1eb9 b\u00e9 c\u0169ng v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng b\u00e9 v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u1ed5n ch\u01b0a, cho t\u1edbi khi b\u00e9 t\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c d\u1ea1y con h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc \u2013 Annette Kast-Zahn Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u201cng\u1ed3i y\u00ean tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf\u201d c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho c\u00e1c b\u00e9 tr\u00ean 2 tu\u1ed5i. Cha m\u1eb9 \u1edf c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi b\u00e9 trong ph\u00f2ng ri\u00eang. V\u1edbi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u201cng\u1ed3i y\u00ean tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf\u201d, b\u00e9 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[23],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16869","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-phuong-phap"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16869","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16869"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16869\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16870,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16869\/revisions\/16870"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16869"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16869"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16869"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}