{"id":2138,"date":"2021-10-13T17:48:19","date_gmt":"2021-10-13T10:48:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/post\/?p=2138"},"modified":"2021-10-14T22:09:44","modified_gmt":"2021-10-14T15:09:44","slug":"ban-da-biet-cach-day-con-tuoi-day-thi-dung-cach-nuoi-con-lon-khon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/ban-da-biet-cach-day-con-tuoi-day-thi-dung-cach-nuoi-con-lon-khon\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch? \u2013 Nu\u00f4i con l\u1edbn kh\u00f4n"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ghi ch\u00fa: T\u00e0i li\u1ec7u tr\u00edch d\u1eabn<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u1ea1y con<\/a> tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd h\u1ebft \u201cn\u00f3ng\u201d. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u00f4ng b\u1ed1, b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng mong mu\u1ed1n d\u1ea1y nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p cho con c\u00e1i. Tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n con c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng sau n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a con. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u00f4ng th\u00e1i? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con<\/a> tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch hay ch\u01b0a? H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng ki\u1ec3m tra ngay sau \u0111\u00e2y:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u1ea1y con<\/a> tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u t\u00e2m l\u00fd con tr\u1ebb<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed7i giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c nhau. V\u00ec v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c kh\u00e1c nhau. Bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a c\u0169ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u t\u00e2m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1ch c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con<\/a> n\u00f3i chung, d\u1ea1y con<\/a> tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec n\u00f3i ri\u00eang m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn, linh ho\u1ea1t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u1ede tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec, con s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd. Tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u t\u00e2m l\u00fd. Vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u t\u00e2m l\u00fd con tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ch\u00ednh khi\u1ebfn kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1eefa con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng xa. V\u1eady l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u th\u1ea5u t\u00e2m l\u00fd con tr\u1ebb? C\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho con. D\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, l\u1eafng nghe nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m t\u01b0, chia s\u1ebb c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n tinh t\u1ebf trong vi\u1ec7c quan s\u00e1t, g\u00f3p \u00fd, khuy\u00ean r\u0103n con tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh cho con<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t trong c\u00e1c nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau. Vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng con c\u00e1i nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ph\u1ee5 huynh n\u00e0o c\u0169ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 huynh ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng con. H\u1ecd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. H\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn gi\u1eefa con c\u00e1i v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng con tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n qua vi\u1ec7c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u1eafng nghe quan \u0111i\u1ec3m, \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a con v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1edfi m\u1edf. B\u1ea1n l\u1eafng nghe \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a con nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i gay g\u1eaft hay nghe n\u1eeda v\u1eddi,\u2026? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a kh\u00f4ng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u00fd ki\u1ebfn, suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n tr\u1ebb m\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, ng\u1ea1i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n quan \u0111i\u1ec3m, kh\u00e9p k\u00edn h\u01a1n. Kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u1ea1y con<\/a> y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u1edf r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh. Khi d\u1ea1y con<\/a> tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u d\u1ea1y con y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh, hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec con s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3. Khi \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng hay ra ngo\u00e0i, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t, ch\u00ea bai v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201cx\u1ea5u\u201d t\u00ednh. Hay trong suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 so s\u00e1nh gi\u1eefa c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, ch\u00e1n gh\u00e9t c\u01a1 th\u1ec3. V\u00ec v\u1eady, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1eebng ng\u1ea1i chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi con nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 th\u1ec3. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng d\u1ea1y con nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, cho con hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n x\u00e2m ph\u1ea1m hay ch\u00ea bai, ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t con.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 v\u1edbi y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd, suy ngh\u0129. M\u1ed7i giai \u0111o\u1ea1n, t\u01b0 duy c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. Khi con b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec, t\u01b0 duy con c\u0169ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, tr\u1ebb khi ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ecb tr\u00ec tri\u1ebft, c\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1ea1o t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con trong ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u01b0 duy v\u00e0 gi\u00fap con hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u1ea1y con c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u1ede l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ba m\u1eb9. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 trong suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Con s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n tham gia \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e1c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y con tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n, d\u1ea1y con t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp v\u00e0 c\u00f3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong m\u1ed9t gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o an to\u00e0n cho con.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n cho con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. S\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ee3i \u00edch nh\u01b0: l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tin, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng,\u2026 T\u1ef1 l\u1eadp s\u1ebd gi\u00fap cho con tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t ai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a con<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a con<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a con l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng mong mu\u1ed1n. Tho\u1ea1t nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb d\u1ec5 nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i th\u1eadt kh\u00f3. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 tr\u0103n tr\u1edf c\u1ee7a bi\u1ebft bao ph\u1ee5 huynh. Giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a con c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n, tri k\u1ec9. M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u1eefng b\u1ec1n khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng, b\u1ed3i \u0111\u1eafp t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y. S\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 n\u00ean \u0111\u1eb7t n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a con ngay t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n qua th\u1eddi gian. Giai \u0111o\u1ea1n tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n con c\u1ea7n b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu\u00f4<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ghi ch\u00fa: T\u00e0i li\u1ec7u tr\u00edch d\u1eabn D\u1ea1y con tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd h\u1ebft \u201cn\u00f3ng\u201d. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u00f4ng b\u1ed1, b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng mong mu\u1ed1n d\u1ea1y nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p cho con c\u00e1i. Tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n con c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2138","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tieu-hoc"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2138","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2138"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2138\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2138"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2138"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2138"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}