{"id":2176,"date":"2021-10-13T17:54:35","date_gmt":"2021-10-13T10:54:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/post\/?p=2176"},"modified":"2021-10-14T22:09:44","modified_gmt":"2021-10-14T15:09:44","slug":"phuong-phap-day-con-khong-don-roi-tre-tu-giac-cha-me-yen-tam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/phuong-phap-day-con-khong-don-roi-tre-tu-giac-cha-me-yen-tam\/","title":{"rendered":"Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p d\u1ea1y con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2n roi \u2013 Tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1c, cha m\u1eb9 y\u00ean t\u00e2m"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ghi ch\u00fa: T\u00e0i li\u1ec7u tr\u00edch d\u1eabn<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p d\u1ea1y<\/a> con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2n roi t\u01b0\u1edfng d\u1ec5 m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f3. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con m\u00ecnh hay ch\u01b0a? Ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u00edt c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00f3 gi\u1eef b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi. D\u1ea1y con<\/a> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh k\u00e9o d\u00e0i trong su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. B\u1edfi v\u1eady, \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0o \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi con r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do khi\u1ebfn b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00e1u gi\u1eadn. V\u1eady, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y con<\/a> kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2n roi. M\u00e0 con v\u1eabn tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ed1t? H\u00e3y \u0111i\u1ec3m qua m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u00fd sau \u0111\u00e2y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ba m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u \u00fd khi gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u1ede trong \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb \u0111ang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh n\u00ean t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1eeb kho\u1ea3ng 1 t\u1edbi 18 tu\u1ed5i, con c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00e2m l\u00fd ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c nhau. Ch\u00fang bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9ng theo th\u1eddi gian. Nh\u01b0ng lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m chung l\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u00ecnh. Tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t mong mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng. B\u1edfi v\u1eady, r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 x\u1ea3y ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi. Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p d\u1ea1y<\/a> con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2n roi ra \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ba m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u \u00fd khi gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ch\u1ee7 quan \u1edf ph\u00eda tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 do tr\u1ebb qu\u00e1 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 hay th\u1ea7y c\u00f4. Tuy nhi\u00ean, m\u1ed9t nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n kh\u00e1ch quan \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn xung quanh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y, cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n coi suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 \u201csuy ngh\u0129 tr\u1ebb con\u201d. V\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 mong mu\u1ed1n \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t suy ngh\u0129, nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o tr\u1ebb. Nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n, h\u00e0nh vi xa c\u00e1ch cha m\u1eb9, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed n\u1ea3y sinh nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m l\u00fd ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p d\u1ea1y<\/a> con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2n roi \u2013 Tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1c, cha m\u1eb9 y\u00ean t\u00e2m<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p d\u1ea1y con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2n roi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p hay v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y con theo h\u01b0\u1edbng khoa h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n v\u0103n. \u0110\u00f4i khi, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con, nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p m\u1ea1nh s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn con c\u00e0ng th\u00eam l\u1ef3 l\u1ee3m. V\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng gh\u00e9t cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh h\u01a1n. B\u1edfi v\u1eady, thay v\u00ec d\u00f9ng \u0111\u00f2n roi, ba m\u1eb9 n\u00ean \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p kh\u00e1c nhau nh\u1eb1m gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap t\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9ng trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. G\u1eafn k\u1ebft t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 h\u01a1n h\u1ebft l\u00e0 cho tr\u1ebb nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc hay. R\u00fat ra t\u1eeb kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf hay ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c ba m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p d\u1ea1y con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2n roi \u2013 Tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1c, cha m\u1eb9 y\u00ean t\u00e2m<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u \u00fd m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u1ec1 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2n roi. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ba m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 nghi\u00eam t\u00fac v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n. D\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn khi\u1ebfn con n\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng m\u00ecnh. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u01b0 duy, ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea5m \u0111o\u00e1n con<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Thay v\u00ec s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p c\u1ea5m \u0111o\u00e1n. Ba m\u1eb9 n\u00ean th\u1eed chuy\u1ec3n sang s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean nh\u1ee7. V\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u00f2 m\u00f2 v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd mu\u1ed1n th\u1eed c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, ba m\u1eb9 c\u00e0ng c\u1ea5m, tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng mu\u1ed1n \u201cph\u00e1 lu\u1eadt\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c t\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a con. Nh\u01b0 tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i cha m\u1eb9, tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i,\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ba m\u1eb9 n\u00ean d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 khuy\u00ean nh\u1ee7 con l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 \u00edch. Cho con hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00e2u m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t cho m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea5m \u0111o\u00e1n con<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho tr\u1ebb<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u1ea5t khi \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, ba m\u1eb9 kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi c\u00e1c tr\u00f2 ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ee3m c\u1ee7a con. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ba m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn qu\u00e1t th\u00e1o, m\u1eafng nhi\u1ebfc, k\u00e9o con ra kh\u1ecfi vi\u1ec7c con \u0111ang l\u00e0m. Hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh con. Tuy nhi\u00ean, t\u1eeb b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, ba m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y th\u1eed ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 quan s\u00e1t k\u1ef9 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c con l\u00e0m. Sau \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0a cho con ph\u00e2n t\u00edch vi\u1ec7c con v\u1eeba l\u00e0m \u0111\u00fang \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u v\u00e0 sai \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u. Cho con t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn ra, ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh suy ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, con s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 v\u1eabn n\u1eb1m trong ph\u1ea1m vi ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u1eddi k\u1ebft<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u1ea3m \u01a1n ph\u1ee5 huynh v\u00e0 c\u00e1c con \u0111\u00e3 tham kh\u1ea3o b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft. Tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd khi ba m\u1eb9 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p d\u1ea1y con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2n roi. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p tho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ea7u nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u \u00fd v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ki\u00ean tr\u00ec, v\u1ed1n hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. \u0110\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft th\u00eam nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con th\u00f4ng minh, m\u1eddi qu\u00fd ph\u1ee5 huynh tham kh\u1ea3o th\u00eam m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft t\u1ea1i trang website ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a Vietlearn. Vietlearn r\u1ea5t h\u00e2n h\u1ea1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng qu\u00fd ph\u1ee5 huynh v\u00e0 c\u00e1c con. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ba m\u1eb9 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u2013 c\u00e1c con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch. \u0110\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn cho Vietlearn \u1edf d\u01b0\u1edbi b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fan<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ghi ch\u00fa: T\u00e0i li\u1ec7u tr\u00edch d\u1eabn Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p d\u1ea1y con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2n roi t\u01b0\u1edfng d\u1ec5 m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f3. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con m\u00ecnh hay ch\u01b0a? Ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u00edt c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00f3 gi\u1eef b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi. D\u1ea1y con l\u00e0 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_disable_autopaging":false},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2176","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tieu-hoc"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2176","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2176"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2176\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2176"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2176"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2176"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}