{"id":2178,"date":"2021-10-13T17:54:58","date_gmt":"2021-10-13T10:54:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/post\/?p=2178"},"modified":"2021-10-14T22:09:44","modified_gmt":"2021-10-14T15:09:44","slug":"nhung-dua-tre-biet-quan-ly-cam-xuc-khi-lon-len-de-thanh-cong-hon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\/kien-thuc\/nhung-dua-tre-biet-quan-ly-cam-xuc-khi-lon-len-de-thanh-cong-hon\/","title":{"rendered":"Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean d\u1ec5 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Ghi ch\u00fa: T\u00e0i li\u1ec7u tr\u00edch d\u1eabn<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u1eeb khi sinh ra \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac 6 tu\u1ed5i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e2u d\u00e0i trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac n\u00e0y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. N\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c di\u1ec5n ra th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e2u d\u00e0i t\u1edbi nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe v\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. V\u00ec v\u1eady, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn tr\u1ebb qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u1eeb s\u1edbm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"2\" title=\"Vietlearn\" rel=\"nofollow\">D\u1ea1y con<\/a> qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u1ea3m, ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"2\" title=\"Vietlearn\" rel=\"nofollow\">K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng<\/a> qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 c\u00f3<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Khi l\u00ean 2 tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m x\u00fac nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"2\" title=\"Vietlearn\" rel=\"nofollow\">k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng<\/a> \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh, qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd. V\u00ec v\u1eady, tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o \u201ckh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng\u201d. Khi 5 tu\u1ed5i <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"2\" title=\"Vietlearn\" rel=\"nofollow\">k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng<\/a> \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"2\" title=\"Vietlearn\" rel=\"nofollow\">k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng<\/a> n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u201ct\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean\u201d m\u00e0 c\u00f3. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"2\" title=\"Vietlearn\" rel=\"nofollow\">k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng<\/a> n\u0103ng qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac b\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vietlearn.org\" data-internallinksmanager029f6b8e52c=\"2\" title=\"Vietlearn\" rel=\"nofollow\">K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng<\/a> n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u1ea3 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh v\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian, \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y con qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac? L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh l\u1ea1i khi con b\u1ecb c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u00e1p \u0111\u1ea3o? B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00e1t n\u1ea1t, m\u1eafng m\u1ecf, ch\u00e8n \u00e9p v\u00e0 coi th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u00e0 con c\u00f3. S\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 con b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh l\u00fac n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u1ea1y con bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m x\u00fac l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u1ea1y con bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m x\u00fac l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf th\u01b0\u1eddng ngh\u0129 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ecbnh, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do v\u00ec sao c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd c\u1ee7a con v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c nhau l\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. V\u00ed d\u1ee5: con kh\u00f3c v\u00ec \u201cCon ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m c\u00e1i n\u00e0y\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cB\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m c\u00e1i kia\u201d. Tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u00f4i khi kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb n\u1ed5i r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. V\u00ec v\u1eady b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>V\u00ed d\u1ee5: \u0110\u1eb7t t\u00ean cho c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con. M\u00ecnh n\u00f3i \u201cSao h\u00f4m nay con c\u00f3 v\u1ebb kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu c\u00e1u k\u1ec9nh. Con c\u00f3 nh\u1edb b\u00e0i h\u00e1t happy face kh\u00f4ng, con th\u1eed l\u00e0m m\u1eb7t happy face m\u1eb9 xem n\u00e0o?\u201d. Sau \u0111\u00f3 m\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 m\u00f4 ph\u1ecfng khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed5i sang m\u1eb7t c\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 con nh\u00ecn. Tr\u1ebb nhanh ch\u00f3ng b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e1c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c trong tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khu\u1ebfch t\u00e1n, chuy\u1ec3n sang m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u1ee1 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p th\u1ed5i n\u1ebfn<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p con \u0111ang r\u01a1i v\u00e0o c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00e0 kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c inh \u1ecfi. C\u00e1c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh d\u1ea1y con qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac th\u00f4ng qua ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p th\u1ed5i n\u1ebfn. Khi t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, c\u00e1ch gi\u1eef b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 h\u00edt th\u1edf s\u00e2u. Nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00edt th\u1edf khi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111ang l\u1ea5n \u00e1t. B\u1ea3o con nghe l\u1eddi th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n h\u00edt th\u1edf th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 n\u00ean x\u1eed tr\u00ed nh\u01b0 sau: Gi\u00fap con t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1edf. V\u00e0 trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y l\u00e0: th\u1ed5i n\u1ebfn. Gi\u01a1 1 ng\u00f3n tay l\u00ean v\u00e0 n\u00f3i \u201cCon th\u1eed th\u1ed5i n\u1ebfn n\u00e0y \u0111i\u201d. M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n con th\u1ed5i, ng\u00f3n tay l\u1ea1i c\u1ee5p xu\u1ed1ng. V\u00e0 con b\u1eadt c\u01b0\u1eddi. H\u00edt th\u1edf gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ea3o ng\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn. Khi con \u0111\u00e3 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 m\u1edbi quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eafc v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u1ea1y con qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u01a1n c\u00e1u gi\u1eadn<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u1ea1y con qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u01a1n c\u00e1u gi\u1eadn<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Ai c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u00fac th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, c\u00e1u gi\u1eadn. Tr\u1ebb con c\u0169ng v\u1eady. Nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y. B\u1edfi n\u00f3 c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2n b\u1ea9y \u0111\u1ec3 ta c\u00f3 th\u00eam quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m ho\u00e0nh th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau. Nh\u01b0ng qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef th\u00ec l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng mang \u0111\u1ebfn hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e1c b\u00e9 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m m\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 m\u1ea3nh lego kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gh\u00e9p kh\u00edt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, chi\u1ebfc qu\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 cho ch\u00e2n v\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c,\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e1ch x\u1eed tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a ba m\u1eb9 l\u00fac n\u00e0y:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 n\u00ean \u0111\u1eb7t t\u00ean cho c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u201cCon h\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 \u0111ang r\u1ea5t c\u00e1u gi\u1eadn\/th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng. C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec con kh\u00f4ng\u2026? M\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y h\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi con \u0111ang c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t qu\u1ea3 b\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn to l\u1eafm. Gi\u1eadn qu\u00e1. Con n\u00e9m \u0111\u00f3 ra ngo\u00e0i cho m\u1eb9 xem\u201d. Sau \u0111\u00f3, m\u00ecnh m\u00f4 ph\u1ecfng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e9m m\u1ed9t qu\u1ea3 b\u00f3ng t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng (nh\u01b0 th\u1eadt) cho con xem. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y gi\u00fap gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef. M\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i: \u201cM\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y h\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 xa, con th\u1eed n\u00e9m l\u1ea1i nh\u00e9. Hay l\u00e0 2 m\u1eb9 con m\u00ecnh c\u00f9ng n\u00e9m?\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>L\u01b0u \u00fd khi d\u1ea1y con qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u00f9 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb \u0111\u1eb7t t\u00ean cho c\u00e1c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap con hi\u1ec3u ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Khi con \u0111\u00e3 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3ng gi\u1ea3i cho con hi\u1ec3u v\u00ec sao con l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 g\u1ee3i \u00fd cho con n\u1ebfu g\u1eb7p tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u1ea7n sau con n\u00ean x\u1eed l\u00fd\u2026 th\u1eed xem. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 3 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00e0 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u1ea5t b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tham kh\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e0i b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ki\u00ean tr\u00ec \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y con k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> D\u1ea1y t<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ghi ch\u00fa: T\u00e0i li\u1ec7u tr\u00edch d\u1eabn Nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u1eeb khi sinh ra \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac 6 tu\u1ed5i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e2u d\u00e0i trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac n\u00e0y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. 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