Ghi ch\u00fa: T\u00e0i li\u1ec7u tr\u00edch d\u1eabn<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ba m\u1eb9 n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec khi tr\u1ebb y\u00eau s\u1edbm? L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c t\u1edbi t\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ebb? \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n m\u00e0 h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. Y\u00eau s\u1edbm hi\u1ec7n nay \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e1ng b\u00e1o \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a con \u1edf tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean. B\u1edfi n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng con \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch. R\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i cho t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4n l\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Y\u00eau s\u1edbm l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 huynh khi con y\u00eau s\u1edbm<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Y\u00eau s\u1edbm v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n n\u1ea1n m\u00e0 y\u00eau s\u1edbm mang l\u1ea1i<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Y\u00eau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, x\u1ea3y ra trong chu tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 di\u1ec5n bi\u1ebfn t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Trong khi r\u01a1i v\u00e0o c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c y\u00eau, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u1ea3y ra nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd mang t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1edbm l\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn cho ph\u1ee5 huynh lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. B\u1edfi \u1edf tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn sai l\u1ea7m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Y\u00eau s\u1edbm l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 huynh khi con y\u00eau s\u1edbm<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Theo th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea c\u1ee7a t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c UNICEF, ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y s\u1ed1 li\u1ec7u th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea t\u1eeb n\u0103m 2014, \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam. C\u1ee9 10 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i 20 \u2013 24 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n. Ho\u1eb7c trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh s\u1ed1ng chung nh\u01b0 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc tu\u1ed5i 18. T\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng k\u1ebft h\u00f4n s\u1edbm \u1edf tr\u1ebb em cho t\u1edbi hi\u1ec7n nay v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3m nhi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u1edbi n\u0103m 2017, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a ra th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn \u1edf c\u00e1c h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o qu\u1ed1c gia. V\u1edbi ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1: \u201cPh\u00f2ng ng\u1eeba, ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t t\u1ea3o h\u00f4n v\u00e0 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n tr\u1ebb em: B\u00e0i h\u1ecdc kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n\u201d. M\u00e0 y\u00eau s\u1edbm \u1edf tr\u1ebb em l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u01b0 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n tr\u1ebb em. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 y\u00eau s\u1edbm \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t ra nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ed3i chu\u00f4ng c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o. V\u00ec nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 t\u1edbi nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nh\u1eefng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 huynh. Ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec khi tr\u1ebb y\u00eau s\u1edbm?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Y\u00eau s\u1edbm l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 huynh khi con y\u00eau s\u1edbm<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh khi bi\u1ebft con m\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u1edbm nh\u01b0:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Y\u00eau c\u1ea7u con chia tay<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u1eafng nhi\u1ebfc con b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb th\u00f4 t\u1ee5c v\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qu\u00e1 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u1edbi g\u1eb7p ph\u1ee5 huynh b\u1ea1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u201ctr\u00e1nh xa con m\u00ecnh\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f2n t\u1edbi t\u1eadn tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng con v\u00e0 \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau\u201d c\u1ee7a con.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang hay kh\u00f4ng? C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng. V\u00ec nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng ti\u00eau c\u1ee9 t\u1edbi t\u00e2m l\u00fd con. V\u00e0 g\u00e2y n\u00ean nh\u1eefng \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 con tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i nh\u01b0 th\u1ea7y c\u00f4, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8,\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec khi tr\u1ebb y\u00eau s\u1edbm?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u1eady th\u00ec, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng l\u1ed1i c\u01b0 x\u1eed \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi con, ba m\u1eb9 n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec khi tr\u1ebb y\u00eau s\u1edbm?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c cho gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh cho tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb s\u1edbm<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi con b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o giai \u0111o\u1ea1n d\u1ea1y th\u00ec, ph\u1ee5 huynh n\u00ean quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh cho con t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u1ec3 con hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Con s\u1ebd tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u00f2 m\u00f2 v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nguy c\u01a1 con ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ngu\u1ed3n th\u00f4ng tin kh\u00f4ng ch\u00ednh th\u1ed1ng, sai l\u1ec7ch, h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 l\u1ec7ch chu\u1ea9n khi con ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 do kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1. Ba m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n v\u1edbi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y. V\u00ec trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, t\u1ea1i Vi\u1ec7t Nam, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 xa l\u1ea1 trong nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 cho tr\u1ebb s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec khi tr\u1ebb y\u00eau s\u1edbm?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Khi bi\u1ebft con y\u00eau s\u1edbm, ba m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng con. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng con \u1edf n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 con hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng y\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec sai tr\u00e1i. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u01b0a ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a con. Con ch\u1ec9 n\u00ean gi\u1eef m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n cho con v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a con. N\u00ean nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng khi con c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft. V\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c con, ba m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u00eam t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. V\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
L\u1eddi k\u1ebft<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng chia s\u1ebb c\u1ee7a Vietlearn v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng y\u00eau s\u1edbm. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p v\u00e0 g\u1ee3i \u00fd m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u \u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi cho c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi l\u00e0m g\u00ec khi tr\u1ebb y\u00eau s\u1edbm. Tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o c\u1ea3m x\u00fac y\u00eau khi \u1edf tu\u1ed5i c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf d\u1ec5 g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m. B\u1edfi v\u1eady, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c. \u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con tr\u00ean b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ebfn t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. H\u00e3y ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u con h\u01a1n nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n\n\n\n